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Posted by Andalusia
OMG. The sideways-scuttle-Jedi-mind-sensing spiel is part of what I was talking about.
LMAO
This is a befuddled mess. I guess this is why I don't have male Scorp friends.
I can do female Scorps as friends but the males would be too possessive even as friends, and he doesn't have to be into you sexually. They are just possessive like this. Like you are their favorite leather murse or something.
The astro books even tell you this is a difficult friendship combo because of the dynamic between the two signs/genders.
Posted by kim30
How am I stringing him along? I eat meals with him, cook for him, give him gifts. I do the opposite of stringing him along...............
You are not stringing him along, you are being the typical, kind, caring, loving Cancer friend.
We do this for our friends, male and female. But to men this is foreplay. And you know this, which is why you say you won't cook him dinner.
But you really need to stop because it may be causing these complications in your friendship.
Do you have a man of your own?
Its not that I won't cook him dinner. I'd.love to. Beg him to let me. He won't let me.
Im single.
I think you should pull back and put some distance.
It's looking like he may be a surrogate boyfriend.
You don't need to tell him you are making space, just get busy with yoga or something.
And find a boyfriend. 🙂
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think you should pull back and put some distance.
It's looking like he may be a surrogate boyfriend.
You don't need to tell him you are making space, just get busy with yoga or something.And find a boyfriend. 🙂
+1
Posted by Andalusia
For the life of me, I do not understand some Cancer women's approach to feelings, relationships, or the opposite sex.
You and me both, pal.
I am still reeling from the nasty behavior of my recent Cancer love interest.
Some of them are worth pursuing...
But on the flip side, some of them are straight out of hell.
The problem is that you are not allowed to know which one is which until you have made it clear how you feel about them, which is something that they ALL admit that they need to know relatively soon from the start.
Posted by Rabbit
My moon, Venus, and Mars are all in detriment 😢
😛 I'm gonna act all virgo-y and correct you astrologically 😛
Venus Virgo is in "fall" your scorpio moon "fall" and your Cancer mars "fall"
😛
detriment and fall are a little different though.
Posted by kim30
I cook for him because he likes it. He's unmarried, likes food and likes how I do. He feels good about. He smiles when I make something just for him. I love to see him smile. He's my friend!
in all fairness he's never actually asked me out. Hinting around at coming over for sex is not dating. He doesn't want me in reality. Do you think I should call or text him about it right now to get a straight on answer?
Yeah, you "nurture" him and he loves that. You both feel good, but he's not your boyfriend.
Do you want it all or do you just want it half-way?
You keep this up, it might end up as FWB. Then you'll catch feelings to want him more and he won't give it to you.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think you should pull back and put some distance.
It's looking like he may be a surrogate boyfriend.
You don't need to tell him you are making space, just get busy with yoga or something.And find a boyfriend. 🙂
Perhaps you're right. But I will say I did all these things with and for him when I was engaged. So I'm not sure how the surrogate bf fits in with that. I was planning on joining a class anyway. Should've worked on my arms more this winter...
Posted by Andalusia
For the life of me, I do not understand some Cancer women's approach to feelings, relationships, or the opposite sex.You and me both, pal.
I am still reeling from the nasty behavior of my recent Cancer love interest.
Some of them are worth pursuing...
But on the flip side, some of them are straight out of hell.
The problem is that you are not allowed to know which one is which until you have made it clear how you feel about them, which is something that they ALL admit that they need to know relatively soon from the start.
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I disagree with the ALL part. I've never insisted any man tell me how they feel.
And what could a sweet, warm little cancer do to the big bad ass Scorpio? Hmm? What was so nasty? I don't think I believe you...
Rabbit!
Posted by kim30
Rabbit!Yes?
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While your laughing, do you agree the Scorpios are a bunch of bad asses?
*You're
This phone does what it wants
Posted by Rabbit
No, I don't.
So what is then? Facade?
Posted by starlover
Kim, remember i said that Scorpio isnt great unless it has evolved, that makes a lot of Scorpio people good, loyal and dependable as friends and partners. You just need to know when they are mature and aware enough to handle relationships. If the power is abused, stay away.There are some lovely Scorp people here for example and there is one horrible one who should know better but doesnt, but the majority here have great energy, and seem like good decent people
Oh I know. Just teasing. I love all my Scorpio people. Even the one who puts me through it!
out of curiosity who is the mean one who ought to know better?
Though this isn't a.forum about cancers I must say I've never known of a cancer to behave in any way that would leave a man reeling. Curious about that.
Posted by starlover
The mean one knows who she is......you will know soon enough......potty mouthed and abusiveewwwwww
Rut row....
Posted by kim30
Though this isn't a.forum about cancers I must say I've never known of a cancer to behave in any way that would leave a man reeling. Curious about that.Some women, despite their sign can leave a man reeling kim ~~~ even Cancers 😄
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I suppose. Just hard for me to imagine since all the cancer girls I know are sweet like me. I'd never seek to set a man off.
Which is Kryptonite to some men. Take your strength and roll with it.
Posted by Rabbit
It's a little known, but true, fact that coochies are crafted by the hands of the Devil himself.
Says the panty sniffer...
Posted by Rabbit
Whoa hold up there...I'm not into that gross crap.
Only if there pink and fresh from a bunny's behind. Yeah I know.
Posted by Rabbit
Whoa hold up there...I'm not into that gross crap.
Only if THEY'RE pink and fresh from a bunny's behind. Yeah I know.
my scorpio bf acts cold these past 2 weeks. i don't make any mistake, n everything was fine n he was affectionate, n suddenly he dissapear.
i did text him, 6 times, short messsages just to show him that i care. i am an aqua. somehow i know that he might needs a private time for himself n that's why i don't contact him much, cos i know how annoying is that.
i just show him i always care. simply like that. n now i kinda confused cos he doesnt reply my text.
what should i do? cos it is funny, in some threads, i read that scorpios love to test. n we need to always show them we care no matter what but also dont be needy. other threads said just act as cold as him, while some people said dont. lol
my scorpio bf acts cold these past 2 weeks. i don't make any mistake, n everything was fine n he was affectionate, n suddenly he dissapear.
i did text him, 6 times, short messsages just to show him that i care. i am an aqua. somehow i know that he might needs a private time for himself n that's why i don't contact him much, cos i know how annoying is that.
i just show him i always care. simply like that. n now i kinda confused cos he doesnt reply my text.
what should i do? cos it is funny, in some threads, i read that scorpios love to test. n we need to always show them we care no matter what but also dont be needy. other threads said just act as cold as him, while some people said dont. lol
Posted by starlover
.....the October Scorps are always better people lolNovember ones....well dodgy
😄
My friends a November baby...
Whatu's comments have really gotten to me. Now I'm all messed up and second guessing myself.
Posted by starlover
blisss i found this 😛Venus in Scorpio ~~
The Black Widow. The mistress. The prostitute. Skeletons in your romantic closet. Secretive about money and love. A sexy, magnetic, deliciously irresistible intimate encounter. A healing, transforming, bonding intimate experience. Venus in Scorpio has the power to elicit all of this ... and more.
geeeeeeeeeze!
Posted by Rabbit
No body should sleep with a Scorp.Ever.
yup!
Welcome back, Ryu!!
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*waves*
Posted by starlover
blisss i found this 😛Venus in Scorpio ~~
The Black Widow. The mistress. The prostitute. Skeletons in your romantic closet. Secretive about money and love. A sexy, magnetic, deliciously irresistible intimate encounter. A healing, transforming, bonding intimate experience. Venus in Scorpio has the power to elicit all of this ... and more.
geeeeeeeeeze!
Haha you know it's all true too Ryu! 😛 we got it we got it bad...
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I see what you're doing, sneaky. You want me to serenade you now.
But yes, we got it we got it bad.... when we're all alone.... 😉
Posted by Whatu
We are supposed trying to discourage her from seeing this scorp shes crazy about, stop making us sound like good people god dahmmit!
Thanks to you I'm now wondering if I've been in denial this whole time. Considering asking him out on an actual date
Posted by starlover
blisss i found this 😛Venus in Scorpio ~~
The Black Widow. The mistress. The prostitute. Skeletons in your romantic closet. Secretive about money and love. A sexy, magnetic, deliciously irresistible intimate encounter. A healing, transforming, bonding intimate experience. Venus in Scorpio has the power to elicit all of this ... and more.
Interesting! Who's going to raise their hands that they have venus in Scorpio? lol 😄
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*raises hand* I've got it. But I'm sure I don't fit the description.
Posted by MoonArtist
You're both giving mixed signals. You say he acts like he doesn't want to be with you but then gets jealous, etc. You don't want to be with him but do everything a girlfriend would do.I'm doing what a friend would do if she knew her friend got happy About it!
No if we have feeling we will confuse this for more hence ur stringing along. We can stay around a Freindship because we love u n that's the only way we can have u around. Not complicated but u don't wanna see it. I don't get keloid of a Freind having a bf.
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if you're correct than he's assuming he can't be with me cause he's never tried. Unless I'm so dense that I cant tell when someone is trying to court me. Though he has told me once that he's never done anything to earn my affection.
or he's decided to not pursue a relationship regardless of any feelings.
whatever it is, he probably will never let me know the truth and I've spent more than a fair share fretting over the issue. Meanwhile he's probably not thinking twice about any of it and I look like an ass for losing sleep. This energy is going
towards getting swimsuit ready.
I would pick getting swimsuit ready and meeting other guys.
Thinking of changing my screen name to 'hard headed heifer"....
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think you should pull back and put some distance.
It's looking like he may be a surrogate boyfriend.
You don't need to tell him you are making space, just get busy with yoga or something.And find a boyfriend. 🙂
Perhaps you're right. But I will say I did all these things with and for him when I was engaged. So I'm not sure how the surrogate bf fits in with that...
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Posted by LunarMaiden
I think you should pull back and put some distance.
It's looking like he may be a surrogate boyfriend.
You don't need to tell him you are making space, just get busy with yoga or something.And find a boyfriend. 🙂
Perhaps you're right. But I will say I did all these things with and for him when I was engaged. So I'm not sure how the surrogate bf fits in with that...
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at one point in my friendship with Scorp I was engaged to a Libra. During the engagement I still expressed my love and appreciation for our friendship by feeding him and such. Does that resolve the question marks
I'm a cancer female.
Get off the damn Scorp board.
YAAAAY!!!
Looks like a crab takeover. Rabbit's not gonna appreciate this.... hehege
Posted by kim30
Looks like a crab takeover. Rabbit's not gonna appreciate this.... hehege
or hehehe!!!
Where IS Rabbit? He's been MIA for a couple of weeks, I think. Ready for going into stalker crab mode?
Posted by MoonArtist
Where IS Rabbit? He's been MIA for a couple of weeks, I think. Ready for going into stalker crab mode?
Have been. There wasn't enough crabs around to own up to it!
Starlover is quite correct. Don't give in or he won't respect you. Catch 22 situation but hold your ground. He will sting himself as mentioned. He likes the control. Do the opposite of what he expects so carry on breezing about.
Posted by MoonArtist
Where IS Rabbit? He's been MIA for a couple of weeks, I think. Ready for going into stalker crab mode?Have been. There wasn't enough crabs around to own up to it!
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Woot! Ninja stealth mode ON!
Oh this scorp is long out of the picture. LIB pulled it out of archives an early birthday present!!!
Posted by MoonArtist
Where IS Rabbit? He's been MIA for a couple of weeks, I think. Ready for going into stalker crab mode?Have been. There wasn't enough crabs around to own up to it!
Woot! Ninja stealth mode ON!
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Cameras ready? Binoculars? Cupcakes as bribes?
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Hmmmmmm........ Scorp Sun and Venus in Scorp is trouble. I can vouch for that.