Walkergrl
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Confused as hell.
Have you both kept in touch regularly since you stopped seeing each other?
Did he randomly text you to say he was in a relationship and now he's randomly texting you again?
More info is needed to ascertain his possible motives.
Did he randomly text you to say he was in a relationship and now he's randomly texting you again?
More info is needed to ascertain his possible motives.
who broke up with whom?
Posted by AndalusiaNo, I've not spoken with him at all since he told me that he was seeing someone else while seeing me, early this month.
Have you both kept in touch regularly since you stopped seeing each other?
Did he randomly text you to say he was in a relationship and now he's randomly texting you again?
More info is needed to ascertain his possible motives.
On the 25th he posted on FB that he's in a relationship.
Now he wants to know, "how I'm doing"...
Posted by fugu2He broke with me. I've worked hard at staying away from him. I had fallen pretty hard for this guy.
who broke up with whom?
They're also vindictive and manipulative.
He's trying to get off on making you jealous. Ignore him.
He's trying to get off on making you jealous. Ignore him.
Posted by Walkergrlwell, he just sounds like a massive dick then. Maybe he thought you took the breakup too well, and wants to see you more devastated/jealous, or some sick shit like that.Posted by fugu2He broke with me. I've worked hard at staying away from him. I had fallen pretty hard for this guy.
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but don't give him that pleasure, if anything, pity that next girl who will prob be treated the same way eventually.
the hardest thing about walking away is not looking back ...
so sorry but be strong and find someone who deserves you
so sorry but be strong and find someone who deserves you
Posted by WalkergrlI dont mean to sound rude but I think you have answered your own question.
why is Mr. Scorpio sending me a text tonight after advertising his 'new' relationship 4 days ago?
Posted by WalkergrlOthers advice is solid, you have to ignore and move on.
Confused, and yes, a bit angry.
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Posted by rabidtalkerPosted by WalkergrlI dont mean to sound rude but I think you have answered your own question.
why is Mr. Scorpio sending me a text tonight after advertising his 'new' relationship 4 days ago?
Posted by WalkergrlOthers advice is solid, you have to ignore and move on.
Confused, and yes, a bit angry.
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Please do not misunderstand the question. I've worked hard at getting over this guy. What he did was deceitful and disrespectful to me. I have NO intention of going back to this asshat. I'm simply trying to understand the mindset here. Not to mention, I actually felt a twinge of fear last night. Obviously, there's some instability going on here with this individual. I'm simply trying to wrap my mind around it all.
Yeah definitely he is texting you for vanity. Do not respond. It's not fair that he returns to your life as nothing happens and he is also with another person. That's so manipulative. That's kinda the Scorps that you don't wanna keep in your life.
There are plenty other people who are willing to know you truly. Leave them space for they to show! And that means moving on. :-)
There are plenty other people who are willing to know you truly. Leave them space for they to show! And that means moving on. :-)
Posted by EnochtheWiseYeah, but she didn't do anything or at least from what she says that could have hurted the Scorp in question. That would make sense if she had cheated on him or something. But he was the one who broke up with her.Posted by WalkergrlSometimes, we will still poke you once in a while, to make sure you're still actually dead to us.
I thought when a Scorpio ends a relationship, that person is dead to them.
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Posted by NataliaaaI have not responded and have no intention of doing so. However, it truly wrecked my night and today after working hard at "getting over" this guy. Ugh...
Yeah definitely he is texting you for vanity. Do not respond. It's not fair that he returns to your life as nothing happens and he is also with another person. That's so manipulative. That's kinda the Scorps that you don't wanna keep in your life.
There are plenty other people who are willing to know you truly. Leave them space for they to show! And that means moving on. :-)
Posted by WalkergrlBlock his number. That way you don't need to to tolerate his attempts at conversation. He doesn't deserve your attention, even if it's just to scoff at his text.Posted by NataliaaaI have not responded and have no intention of doing so. However, it truly wrecked my night and today after working hard at "getting over" this guy. Ugh...
Yeah definitely he is texting you for vanity. Do not respond. It's not fair that he returns to your life as nothing happens and he is also with another person. That's so manipulative. That's kinda the Scorps that you don't wanna keep in your life.
There are plenty other people who are willing to know you truly. Leave them space for they to show! And that means moving on. :-)click to expand
Yeah, block him on everything, really. At least until you've had the chance to move on a bit and collect your emotions. Sounds like he's not done with you. Like someone else said, maybe he hasn't seen you suffer much from the break up and possibly wants to see that he still has some power over you/your emotions. It's an ego thing. Blocking him would make it harder for him to hurt you like this.
Help!!!
*Dude just sent me another text...
"I hope everything is going well for you"
My resolve is wavering. I have this emotional connection to him that I haven't had the chance to resolve. Ugh...
Help!!!
*Dude just sent me another text...
"I hope everything is going well for you"
My resolve is wavering. I have this emotional connection to him that I haven't had the chance to resolve. Ugh...
Help!!!
So, I called the guy. Conversation was less than 5 minutes. When I asked him, "What makes you think this is ok?", "How can you think it's ok for you to talk to me when you're involved with someone else? Do you think she would appreciate it?"
His response, "I've been thinking about you and wondering if you and your son are ok?"
Like I said, he shut the conversation down in less than 5 minutes and hung up.
I was pretty charged up by then and sent him this text....
The very least you could do, is own up and APOLOGIZE to me for misleading what I thought was a relationship in the making. I never would have confided in you and I certainly would have treated you as something casual (As you did to me) if I was given the choice. I was loyal to you, and could have, perhaps did, love you deeply in a short amount of time. Perhaps this is your elaborate way of getting your ego stroked. The fact that you could disregard my feelings AND the feelings of the CURRENT person you're with... SHAMEFUL!
His response, "I've been thinking about you and wondering if you and your son are ok?"
Like I said, he shut the conversation down in less than 5 minutes and hung up.
I was pretty charged up by then and sent him this text....
The very least you could do, is own up and APOLOGIZE to me for misleading what I thought was a relationship in the making. I never would have confided in you and I certainly would have treated you as something casual (As you did to me) if I was given the choice. I was loyal to you, and could have, perhaps did, love you deeply in a short amount of time. Perhaps this is your elaborate way of getting your ego stroked. The fact that you could disregard my feelings AND the feelings of the CURRENT person you're with... SHAMEFUL!
I totally get wanting to be heard, I'm like this too but I think this jerk is immature and wanted your emotional response, even if it is negative - icing him out might have been better. I bet you hear from him again after he thinks you've calmed down.
ya :/
I'm honestly not trying to rub salt in the wound, but my advice from your previous post still stands:Posted by AndalusiaWhether his motives in trying to get said reaction are good or bad is irrelevant, imo. Because they are immature, stemming from use of the reptilian part of his brain. I'm not passing judgment on whether he's good or bad, but he *will* emotionally mind fuck you into a tailspin eventually- whether intentionally or not - unless you end it now.Posted by WalkergrlWhat's his chart?
Ok, so the latest in this.... saga.
Early afternoon he's all for meeting up and talking.
It's after 7pm. Not a word from the guy. All I asked was when and where.
If I had to guess, I'd say he's trying to get a reaction to gauge where you stand. I bet the moment you show strong emotion is the moment he responds in force.click to expand
And to end it completely, you will either need to:
- block him from everything - and I mean everything. Social media, your phone, change your number, etc.
Or
- out "crazy" him. In your mind, the text you sent was probably "crazy" or uncharacteristic and "out of control". However, in his mind, it was not. It was a testament to your deep feelings for him and the connection you share. And since he's had a taste of it, he will likely come back for more. In bigger and more dramatic ways next time.
- out "crazy" him. In your mind, the text you sent was probably "crazy" or uncharacteristic and "out of control". However, in his mind, it was not. It was a testament to your deep feelings for him and the connection you share. And since he's had a taste of it, he will likely come back for more. In bigger and more dramatic ways next time.
That was me ----> Slamming the door on that chapter.
That's great. If he and this situation are completely out of your system, so much the better. You can concentrate on healing 🙂
But I think it could be wise to prepare yourself for other possibilities as well.
But I think it could be wise to prepare yourself for other possibilities as well.
Posted by TaurusinTexas
I totally get wanting to be heard, I'm like this too but I think this jerk is immature and wanted your emotional response, even if it is negative - icing him out mightbe have been better. I bet you hear from him again after he thinks you've calmed down.
There will be No more responses. I think it was cathartic for me to get that off my chest. I'm done.
Posted by AndalusiaGot it. Appreciate your candor. I shall be prepared for the 'crazy'. Dude seems awfully unstable.
That's great. If he and this situation are completely out of your system, so much the better. You can concentrate on healing 🙂
But I think it could be wise to prepare yourself for other possibilities as well.
I just wanted to take a minute, (now that my house has calmed down) to express my appreciation for you taking time out of your day to share your thoughts and perspectives, encouragement and candor with me.
I have been divorced for going on 9 years and celibate for 7 of those years. My dating experience is limited at best.
This guy was the first person I actually gave myself over to, completely. I wish I had studied Scorpio traits prior to, or at least in the very beginning of the 'relationship' (using that term quite loosely, knowing what I know now) so that I would have been better informed to certain behaviors and signals.
That's all behind me now. However, that doesn't mean that I won't possibly enlist your help again... 😉
I have been divorced for going on 9 years and celibate for 7 of those years. My dating experience is limited at best.
This guy was the first person I actually gave myself over to, completely. I wish I had studied Scorpio traits prior to, or at least in the very beginning of the 'relationship' (using that term quite loosely, knowing what I know now) so that I would have been better informed to certain behaviors and signals.
That's all behind me now. However, that doesn't mean that I won't possibly enlist your help again... 😉
Oh that manipulative scorpio. Dont react.no text. Nothing. It will hurt him even more. That is how you play his game. Let him talk himself. Lol
But yes, when I am done. I buried that person. And will attend only when it is funeral ceremony.
But yes, when I am done. I buried that person. And will attend only when it is funeral ceremony.
Posted by fallbabyPosted by AndalusiaPosted by WalkergrlFrom personal experience, sometimes we need space after a breakup and often go ice-cold. But that doesn't mean we never cared, nor does it mean we never will. Could be that he had to move on, too. And now that he has moved on maybe he's genuinely asking you how you're doing because it's really on his mind.
I thought when a Scorpio ends a relationship, that person is dead to them. If that is the case, then why is Mr. Scorpio sending me a text tonight after advertising his 'new' relationship 4 days ago?
Confused, and yes, a bit angry.
I don't see this as behavior that requests or demands jealousy. I think he was an asshole to you, but there could be some misunderstanding on your part (not sure about the whole story), and he decided to move on, and now he hopes for there to be a sense of well-being between the both of yous.
Have you both kept in touch regularly since you stopped seeing each other?
Did he randomly text you to say he was in a relationship and now he's randomly texting you again?
More info is needed to ascertain his possible motives.
No, I've not spoken with him at all since he told me that he was seeing someone else while seeing me, early this month.
On the 25th he posted on FB that he's in a relationship.
Now he wants to know, "how I'm doing"...
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If he genuinely cared, he would have been honest with me. I'm not interested in his manipulation. He was deceitful in the relationship and how the relationship ended. He is DEAD to ME.
Posted by starwars
I say do whatever you like and cuss the shit out of him if you want to (we virgos can talk non stop they hate it, torture him with that) so you can ignore him and move on later.
if you're worried he'd like it and get ego boost then idk really I wont give two fucks as long as I feel good LOL
how long you've been together? is he the same guy from that dating site?
Yes, same guy from the earlier thread.
Posted by starwars
I don't think he's manipulating you with that text though, maybe he just feel bad for the dick move and wanna check up on you.
still doesn't make him a saint.
Total mind treetrunk... Done with that butter!
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