VenusIn8thHouse
@VenusIn8thHouse
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Confused by a Libra Sun Male with LOTS of SCORPIO (ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto)
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What do scorpios think of libras? I'm just really curious.
Well it's so frigging important to me!
She is 10/11/1994
He is 11/15/1990
It's my child fell for a Scorpio and he was amazingly nice! Told her not to wear makeup because she is more beautiful naturally. Don't straighten up her hair because she has go
Question! Im a libra and went on a date friday with a scorpio. It's Monday morning and he still hasn't text me. He said he would so im waiting and haven't text him at all.
BACKGROUND
we've know eachother since late 2010. We were talking at one point
I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides,
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marri
-She likes dancing as much as I do
-She is into astrology as much as I am
-She has an amazing fashion sense and loves making me look more fashionable too (well she's a fashion designer too haha)
-We have the best naked yoga sessions together
-She talk
Nightmare, right?
Soooo...The Gemini with the Taurus moon is making calf eyes on his ex and stalking my bestie's snapchat at the same time, so for the last 2 months I've been helping my Libra bestie with her online dating stuff, cause really, who has time for that O.o
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What type of personality would come from these kind of placements?
I met my libra wife at work and it was instant chemistry everything about her drew me in. I was at the end of a 5 year relationship at the time so we treaded lightly to start but it was tough due to the insane chemistry. Once I separated we moved into a
(Him)
Sun (12th House) - Libra (Scorpio cusp)
ASC - Scorpio
Moon - Libra
Venus - Scorpio
Merc - Scorpio
Mars - Libra
Pluto (in 1st house) - Scorpio
(Me)
Sun - Pisces
ASC - Cancer
Moon - Sag
Venus (in 8th house) - Aquarius
Mars - Aries
Plus in our synastry chart: Sun, Venus, Mars in 5th house (romantic attraction).
My gut instinct was he was strongly attracted to me. EVERYONE else thought so too based on how he looked at me, photos with me, hung out with me excessively, mistaken as a "couple" etc. The thing was I was only a friend (my Venus in Aqua). Never was a girlfriend. Which was fine with me but I think he wanted me to be more physically intimate (his Venus in Scorpio). He actually told me he "Loved me with every fiber of his being". BUT.... was secretly seeing (dating) another girl?
I could sense a lessening of interest in me so I thought it was a good time to back away and finally leave because of his mixed messages of "love" and I am not attracted to you—
Well, the result was, I said goodbye. No goodbye from him, silence. A month later. I was "blocked" on Facebook by him. Four weeks later he publically "showed off" a new girlfriend and made her post "kissing" photos of them on her Facebook. I suspected this was all a bit phoney and "for show" to upset me I guess. I ignored them. What was I to do with someone who claimed to not be interested in me who had a sudden girlfriend?
I congratulated them a month later. Strangely, his girlfriend "blocked" me on Facebook. Huh? Whatever.
Well, the new girlfriend only lasted 8 weeks. He suddenly broke up with her. Hmmm?
The timing was interesting. He broke up with her a week before he would be at the same location as me at a conference. He knew I was going to be there.
I think his pattern with women has been he is easily able to "seductively charm" (Libra) women under his control (Venus in Scorpio) after "acting" uninterested for awhile.
My Venus in Aquarius doesn't understand mixed messages and games. I had said goodbye months ago. I thought it was best that I ignore him at the conference because I am not interested in Libra/Scorpionic control "push/pull" games and mixed messages such as lying about true feelings.
Plus, why should I be "friendly" with someone who gives me the "silent treatment" and blocks communication?
The problem is he has been "stalking" me online with fake ID's and via my friends. I am sure I made it clear I am not interested in him anymore. I don't want to be friends.
Is there any way to make him stop "spying" on me.