
VenusIn8thHouse
@VenusIn8thHouse
8 Years
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(Him)
Sun (12th House) - Libra (Scorpio cusp)
ASC - Scorpio
Moon - Libra
Venus - Scorpio
Merc - Scorpio
Mars - Libra
Pluto (in 1st house) - Scorpio
(Me)
Sun - Pisces
ASC - Cancer
Moon - Sag
Venus (in 8th house) - Aquarius
Mars - Aries
Plus in our synastry chart: Sun, Venus, Mars in 5th house (romantic attraction).
My gut instinct was he was strongly attracted to me. EVERYONE else thought so too based on how he looked at me, photos with me, hung out with me excessively, mistaken as a "couple" etc. The thing was I was only a friend (my Venus in Aqua). Never was a girlfriend. Which was fine with me but I think he wanted me to be more physically intimate (his Venus in Scorpio). He actually told me he "Loved me with every fiber of his being". BUT.... was secretly seeing (dating) another girl?
I could sense a lessening of interest in me so I thought it was a good time to back away and finally leave because of his mixed messages of "love" and I am not attracted to you—
Well, the result was, I said goodbye. No goodbye from him, silence. A month later. I was "blocked" on Facebook by him. Four weeks later he publically "showed off" a new girlfriend and made her post "kissing" photos of them on her Facebook. I suspected this was all a bit phoney and "for show" to upset me I guess. I ignored them. What was I to do with someone who claimed to not be interested in me who had a sudden girlfriend?
I congratulated them a month later. Strangely, his girlfriend "blocked" me on Facebook. Huh? Whatever.
Well, the new girlfriend only lasted 8 weeks. He suddenly broke up with her. Hmmm?
The timing was interesting. He broke up with her a week before he would be at the same location as me at a conference. He knew I was going to be there.
I think his pattern with women has been he is easily able to "seductively charm" (Libra) women under his control (Venus in Scorpio) after "acting" uninterested for awhile.
My Venus in Aquarius doesn't understand mixed messages and games. I had said goodbye months ago. I thought it was best that I ignore him at the conference because I am not interested in Libra/Scorpionic control "push/pull" games and mixed messages such as lying about true feelings.
Plus, why should I be "friendly" with someone who gives me the "silent treatment" and blocks communication?
The problem is he has been "stalking" me online with fake ID's and via my friends. I am sure I made it clear I am not interested in him anymore. I don't want to be friends.
Is there any way to make him stop "spying" on me.