Did I lost my scorpio for good??

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Ditta
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Piscean female needs help with his scorp male.

Met this guy 6 months ago,the energy,the chemistry between us from the first minute was unbelievable!!We hited it off with a long distance relationship after a month of friendship because he is 1 hour flight time away from me.We used to see each other twice a month.After 6 months,it was xmas time I was looking forward so much to spend bit more time with him in his native country where he went to see his family.My sister lives the as well and I was to stay at my sisters place over xmas as well,which is only 40 mins drive from his parents house where he stayed.I was hoping for so much.We travelled on the same day to the same airport but he in the morning I in the evening.I hoped he will come to say hello or smt,since he lived cca 20 mins from airport,but he didn't.Then next day xmas eve he called me,saying he was busy shopping for presents.On xmas day he was to come to see me after lunch after I texted him:Santa left you smt here,don't you want to pick it up?He didn't come,and in the evening he texted:sorry but just had lunch with my family and had too much to drink,feel too tired,can't drive now.Also he admitted he went out with his brother the night before to a party,he took mdma and the following day he wasn't fit.Reading this broke my heart!!He prioritised drugs and partying instead of me.I had enough of waiting on him,felt cheated on,so I decided to block him from all social media,but did not block his number.In 2 days i was to go on a mini holiday with my sister and her family for 4 days.He knew where I'll be,since prior xmas I asked him if he wanted to join us:He replied:4 days would be too much,since I'm only 1 week in my country and want to spend time with my family and friends.It hurt me but I still hoped he might miss me me and will come to see me for a day or two.This place was only 2 hours away from his.He didn't. He didn't contact me either.4 days later I texted him:You crushed me inside out.He replied:Why?I don't understand it.Can you talk?Than we texted each other,he did not understood my point of view and I was just too hurt by his behaviour.He rang me that day,and I shouted on him,and told him go and f...k yourself and I hang up.He did not call or text that day anymore.The next the was a New Years Eve,he texted me few msg explaining over and over his stuff,and feeling sorry only for NOT LETTING ME KNOW IN GOOD TIME HE WAS NOT COMING TO SEE ME THAT DAY WE AGREED,he wasn't feeling sorry for taking drugs..etc.I felt tired,hurt from all this and texted him after several msg:Let me alone,move on with your life,you are wasting my time.He did not texted me any more.That was 6 days ago.I'm suffering.I love him,miss him and I don't know if I lost him for good or he just need time because I texted him some nasty stuff??In all those msg he also wrote:I can't believe we just decided to send our relationship to hell because of I didn't come to see you.What do you think guys,what should I do now?Shall I just wait and see what happens?I can't not think about him,nothing can distract me enough not to think about him.I think he loves me,he did say that few times,but I'm fearing I lost him for good,and he will just hook up with some girl if there is no communication between us.(especially him beaing so far from me).
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I am going to guess English is your second language.

But honestly, you sound annoying as hell to me and needy. And I will tell you why. First of all, you have probably seen him a lot more in the last 6 months with seeing him 2 times a month, than he has seen his family in a year. So what if he is only 40 minutes away from you? It's the holidays. He is busy spending it with his freaking family, whom he hasn't gotten to see in a long time. Just because YOU don't mind taking some time away from your family from him, doesn't mean he should feel the same. And you literally expecting him to leave his family to come see you on Christmas itself? Get the hell outta here with that noise.

And so what if he went out with his brother? It's not about you, and him prioritizing partying over you. He is prioritizing his brother over you and probably happened to party a little too hard at the pressure of his brother. Again, it doesn't matter because he doesn't get to see his freaking family.

THEN you get pissed off because he doesn't want to go on some mini trip with you and your family, and wants to spend it with his family since he only has a limited time with them? And make him drive 2 hours each way!?

GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE. You are so blindly self-centered, its not funny. It's not him that is the issue, and its definitely not him not understanding you. It's you so focused on your own wants out of him, that can't understand him having a very limited amount of time to spend with his own family. Especially given that you guys saw each other twice a month at the minimum.

Go away.
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Deedee86
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You have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months yet you are acting like his over controlling wife. You really shouldn't start with the bitchy shenanigans this soon into the relationship or he will run for the hills.

Stop being pushy and over dramatic. The best advice I can tell you is to give him a sincere apology and leave it be. He may come back but it doesn't sound promising.
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Gemitati
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Posted by nikkistar
I am going to guess English is your second language.

But honestly, you sound annoying as hell to me and needy. And I will tell you why. First of all, you have probably seen him a lot more in the last 6 months with seeing him 2 times a month, than he has seen his family in a year. So what if he is only 40 minutes away from you? It's the holidays. He is busy spending it with his freaking family, whom he hasn't gotten to see in a long time. Just because YOU don't mind taking some time away from your family from him, doesn't mean he should feel the same. And you literally expecting him to leave his family to come see you on Christmas itself? Get the hell outta here with that noise.

And so what if he went out with his brother? It's not about you, and him prioritizing partying over you. He is prioritizing his brother over you and probably happened to party a little too hard at the pressure of his brother. Again, it doesn't matter because he doesn't get to see his freaking family.

THEN you get pissed off because he doesn't want to go on some mini trip with you and your family, and wants to spend it with his family since he only has a limited time with them? And make him drive 2 hours each way!?

GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE. You are so blindly self-centered, its not funny. It's not him that is the issue, and its definitely not him not understanding you. It's you so focused on your own wants out of him, that can't understand him having a very limited amount of time to spend with his own family. Especially given that you guys saw each other twice a month at the minimum.

Go away.
ROFLMAO!!!

You are on fire!!!
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Gemitati
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Posted by Deedee86
You have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months yet you are acting like his over controlling wife. You really shouldn't start with the bitchy shenanigans this soon into the relationship or he will run for the hills.

Stop being pushy and over dramatic. The best advice I can tell you is to give him a sincere apology and leave it be. He may come back but it doesn't sound promising.
If he does - his

Mom didn't tell him correct bday!

Give Scorp hell like that and he will maybe come back to bite your head off!

What is strange to me is when people come here it means they do know some astrology right? (Me excluded)

So how can you act so stupid knowing your bfs is a Scorpio?

Riot...