Female Scorpio

So I'm crushing on my new officemate who's a scorpio woman. I always caught her looking at me when Im talking to other officemates, I would catch her glancing at me especially when Im waiting for the elevator. She holds my hand when we walk along the corridor, well she's kind of touchy with me, She'll go in my office and say hi and we would talk for a bit and she would stare into my eyes while talking and we'll exchange text messages though it is not consistent but you know we talk about things like how she doesnt like to this and that. Sometime ago I was teasing her to treat me on her first pay day, then she just told me "We'll go on a date once I received my first pay" then I ignored it then the next day we bumped at each other in the hallway then I asked her why is all smiles, she answered "because of you". Was she being friendly— playful—

The thing is she's being linked to another guy in the office, I don't want to look like a competitor of the guy so Im not doing anything big, though it seems she's entertaining him because I saw them a couple of times arriving and leaving the office together, having lunch together as well. I asked her about it but she would just say its complicated and how she doesnt like office romance.

So is she just being friendly? or do I have a chance? Should I just stay in friend zone? THANKS IN ADVANCE! this is my first time to crush on a scorpio whew.

If she says it’s complicated.... It most likely is. But, the good news is if you back off and play your cards close to the best you will peak her interest.....Scorpio loves being adored and is insanely curious....back off and it will get her attention. Even if it doesn’t seem like it. But, you are gonna have to be able to play the long game if she has some sort of bond with this other guy....and she make get stormy and frustrated if you pull away....only to come back at you sweet as pie once she re-groups and changes tactics. The fact is we like to be the one to end things. We like to be in control of our relationships until they fully evolve. You want her attention on you? Take that away from her.

It sounds like she might have a thing for you but this already sounds like trouble imo.

I wouldn't let my crush develop if I were you but you can take her out to eat and talk to her, just don't get too invested just yet.

Dibs

scorpio women love to flirt and love the attention if u stop giving that to her that will mostly make her run after u bc she'll be interested in knowing whats going on and trying to get ur attention back

Find out if she's a single mom. If so, drop it.

Just simply ASK the other guy if she's his "girlfriend". If so, or if she ever was, drop it.

If she passes those prequalifications, then you can be firm about her buying you lunch

and don't mention it EVER again. She may wait until you pass her "neediness" test

- maybe a month even -

and someday she might surprise you.

Or maybe she won't - maybe she just loves attention.

After all, she DID STATE that she doesn't like office romance.

That is a good indicator that you're simply "in-play" and that

she views you as leverage for her career...and nothing more.

Seems like she started messing with him already before she was interested in you. Now you can either compete or step out of it and let her continue to mess with this other guy lol

"It's complicated" and she doesn't like "office romances" are clues to her being private and doing stuff on the under lol

It will get messy real quick if you two start something up while she's going out to lunches and stuff with the other guy.

Hi everyone! thank you for all the inputs and giving me other perspective. Good thing I asked your opinions on this.

I just wanted to share that yesterday when she visited me in my station we were talking about random things and she told me how she doesnt like eating alone. So I told her to come along with my friends in my station to have lunch together today. So she did come and ate lunch with us but she stayed longer, so we’re talking about relationships love, then I asked her about the guy and she confessed that he is courting her but she’s not yet sure because she doesn’t like office romance but personality wise he’s okay. So I guess, she’s just friendly and comfortable with me. Whew.

Hi ya’ll I guess I need help from you all...

So eversince she told me about the other guy courting her I played cool and still friendly with her but I stopped sending her messages. Two days agpo, during lunch time I accidentally bumped into her and asked her if she wanted to grab some food, she said she ate already but she still accompanied me and even hold my hand while walking. So i tried texting her again this time our conversations got longer its about two days already but suddenly she’ll disappear on me.

What was that...

I need your help ya'll and it seems Im kind of liking her more ohhh dear scorps help my poor heart hahaha thank you all for giving time

Posted by CrabMan13

She holds my hand when we walk along the corridor,

Wtf