misslcw
@misslcw
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Gem/ Scorpio
As a gem who is married to a scorpio, I can only give you advice from my experience- I'm sure there will be some smart scorps on here who will give you more detailed responses 🙂 I have learned that you can not push a scorp to communicate- which I know makes us gems crazy 🙂 However, a scorp will communicate when he is ready, which if you can practice patience, is well worth it.
On the other hand, I have to say that communication is very important in a long- distance relationship- which by the way I also had with my scorp for a while- you have to have the conversation about the long-distance relationship- what that means to both of you and what the parameters are-figure out a compromise so that you can both be comfortable- your gem is getting enough communication and his scorp is getting enough independence. Do not make the mistake of catering only to him- you're in the relationship as well 🙂
On the other hand, I have to say that communication is very important in a long- distance relationship- which by the way I also had with my scorp for a while- you have to have the conversation about the long-distance relationship- what that means to both of you and what the parameters are-figure out a compromise so that you can both be comfortable- your gem is getting enough communication and his scorp is getting enough independence. Do not make the mistake of catering only to him- you're in the relationship as well 🙂
Hi,
You've given me so much to think about.Thank you!I'll keep you posted on mine 😉
Emeraldgem thank you for your words of wisdom on the the Gemini Forum.
You are a Gem!
misslcw.
p.s Do we really talk as much as people say? I think that Librans talk!
sorry to butt in, but this situation smells off to me. i'd be real suspicious of that one.
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One lesson being offered in a Gem/ Scorp relationship is patience...
6 months ago I met a Scorpio male while travelling in SAmerica.He is Austrian and I am English.A Month later he broke his travels( year long sabbatical) in SA to visit me.We've dated ever since with him visiting me for a weekend each month.
While travelling in SA we kept in touch via email, but since his return to Austria, he seldom calls, emails or responds to my text messages.Its left to me to call him and even then, he has implied that unless it's important, he'd rather I didn't call. He is still on his Sabbatical so no pressing work committments.
I am a gemini so need to communicate, more so with a love interest who lives in a different country.He visits monthly but inbetween, nothing. Our weekends together are intense in that we spend all our time together in absolute bliss, but hardly a way of getting to know each other.
I believe him when he says he loves me and am sure that he is available.
Do I exercise patience and hope that he will come around or do I follow his lead and not contact him unless he initiates contact? This is so exhausting as each text message/ email goes unacknowledged and I am left feeling silly for sending it.