Hard to get or giving constant reassurance?

Ok here's a question that I can't figure out cause anything I've read about dealing with scorpio's say conflicting things on this:

In order to get or keep a scorp's attention do you play hard to get to the point of ignoring them and being unavailable? And every once in a while letting them in a little bit, but then pulling back? Cause I've read they don't like clinginess..?

Or the flip side to that is that since scorp's are abit insecure they need reassurance and lots of proof that you really do care about them. So if that's the case, do you show them lots of attention and affection??

Actually, come to think of it..I have a few male scorp friends and they always seem indifferent to the gf's they have that are overly nice and who want to be with them alot..but the minute the girl decides she's had enough and moves on ..especially IF she found a new guy..the scorp becomes almost obsessed with her to the point of deciding that.."she was my soulmate!! I can't live without her"!

Seriously though..which is it..reassurance and always being there for your scorp..or being 'unavailable' at times and keepin him on his toes..? 🙂

I would advise that you just be yourself, in any situtation regardless of "signs". Acting unnaturally would be very transparent in a very short time.

It's called not basing how you act on starsigns,be yourself and find out.Clingyness,playing hard to get,etc.it's all games is annoying and not a good base for any type of dating someone.How can you trust or care about someone when everything they do is fake and vice versa?It's a no no.

Playing games is shiss. Just be yourself, give all you got and see the reaction. If that's not what you wanted, forget about him, now he might be the one playing..

As someone said earlier be yourself. I don't really think an answer to your situation can pertain to sun signs alone but your gentleman's personality as well. I think with any man playing hard to get may not be a great idea. Eventually he will get aggravated with the games you are playing and either call you on it or just leave you alone altogether. If you let him in a little bit and then shut him out he will think you have something to hide. Now considering the fact that he is a scorpio he will find out what it is you are hiding. One thing I can tell you as a scorpio woman and as a woman who dated a scorpio in the past is to be straight up. No matter what his sign is you will always be better off letting him know what you want and how you feel.