hate to love

So there is this scorp in my life. I am sorta in love with him, but he doesn't feel the same. I know enough to know that when scorps say they love you as a sibling, they MEAN AS A SIBLING. How do I tell him he makes me jelly when he talks about the females we work with? How do I ask him to stop putting me in the position of getting angry... how do I tell him, when I know that my feelings for him make him uncomfortable? I feel like I have him comfortable now. He seems to think that I have gotten over my infatuation for him, but I haven't. And, no matter how well I play, I am not a dude. And it hurts me to hear how sexy a woman is or how cute another girl's butt is. How do I ask him to stop these comments without making him once again feel uncomfortable with my infatuation with him?

I don't, do I? I have to be honest, a part of me hopes this is him trying to pull jealousy out of me. But the truth is, I feel in my heart that he is treating me as "one of the guys" because he sees me as such... his best friend.

May I add this is a complicated show that has been drawn out now for, um, 5 years and going strong—

Anyway, if anyone has any insight that could be helpful, please. I am sorta at the end of my rope.

just leave him. you will never reach him in a romantic sense, so why torture yourself?

@lovesux

Before time is wasted - how old are you please!!!

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@lovesux

Before time is wasted - how old are you please!!!

She's half your age...that makes her 38.

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How do you suck the info out of thin air and believing in it?

Posted by lovesux

So there is this scorp in my life. I am sorta in love with him, but he doesn't feel the same. I know enough to know that when scorps say they love you as a sibling, they MEAN AS A SIBLING. How do I tell him he makes me jelly when he talks about the females we work with? How do I ask him to stop putting me in the position of getting angry... how do I tell him, when I know that my feelings for him make him uncomfortable? I feel like I have him comfortable now. He seems to think that I have gotten over my infatuation for him, but I haven't. And, no matter how well I play, I am not a dude. And it hurts me to hear how sexy a woman is or how cute another girl's butt is. How do I ask him to stop these comments without making him once again feel uncomfortable with my infatuation with him?

I don't, do I? I have to be honest, a part of me hopes this is him trying to pull jealousy out of me. But the truth is, I feel in my heart that he is treating me as "one of the guys" because he sees me as such... his best friend.

May I add this is a complicated show that has been drawn out now for, um, 5 years and going strong—

Anyway, if anyone has any insight that could be helpful, please. I am sorta at the end of my rope.

If it hurts you seeing him talk about other girls when he knows you had a crush on him move away from him. Try to avoid him to avoid hurting yourself.

Posted by lovesux

So there is this scorp in my life. I am sorta in love with him, but he doesn't feel the same. I know enough to know that when scorps say they love you as a sibling, they MEAN AS A SIBLING. How do I tell him he makes me jelly when he talks about the females we work with? How do I ask him to stop putting me in the position of getting angry... how do I tell him, when I know that my feelings for him make him uncomfortable? I feel like I have him comfortable now. He seems to think that I have gotten over my infatuation for him, but I haven't. And, no matter how well I play, I am not a dude. And it hurts me to hear how sexy a woman is or how cute another girl's butt is. How do I ask him to stop these comments without making him once again feel uncomfortable with my infatuation with him?

I don't, do I? I have to be honest, a part of me hopes this is him trying to pull jealousy out of me. But the truth is, I feel in my heart that he is treating me as "one of the guys" because he sees me as such... his best friend.

May I add this is a complicated show that has been drawn out now for, um, 5 years and going strong—

Anyway, if anyone has any insight that could be helpful, please. I am sorta at the end of my rope.

Is he in love with someone else or just playing the field? If it's not serious and he's just commenting on a woman's ass in general I don't see what the big deal is. Maybe you are just being way too jealous. That's normal to be sexually attracted to other people.....or maybe I'm just more in touch with the animalistic beauty in sex. Appreciation for all aspects. Let that shit roll off your shoulders.