That's it!!!!! I give up on my Scorpio crush. He's a jerk 😡😡😡

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sweet_cancer on Sunday, August 26, 2018 and has 19 replies.

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@sweet_cancer
9 Years

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

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@jakestephens12
7 Years

Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

Initially I would disregard when your Scorp likes other girls pictures... But the smiley face definitely crosses the line (as silly as that sounds, it's true).

Can we get more background info, like have long have you been talking, dating, or seeing each other? Are you guys in school or older? I'm actually a lot like you. I just ended this thing I had with a Sagittarius girl because she refused to stop hanging out with all of her guy friends. It's so much hotter when that person is all for you, and she just wasn't so I lost attraction. Hope this helps.

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@jakestephens12
7 Years

Posted by Primrose

Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

Gurl, you seem somewhat judgmental of other girls you don't even know...besides, it's only Instagram where the purpose of it is to show pics and liking them...if you were worried about his action, you could have confronted him rather than come up with your own conclusion. Or not, since you're not exclusive or anything as what you've said.

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Sorry, but you seem like the judgemental one. If you had a boyfriend who was flirting with a hot girl, I'm pretty sure it would bother you too. Now I agree that liking pictures is a petty thing to be mad about, but openly flirting on social media is definitely concerning.

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@jakestephens12
7 Years

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Posted by Primrose

Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

Gurl, you seem somewhat judgmental of other girls you don't even know...besides, it's only Instagram where the purpose of it is to show pics and liking them...if you were worried about his action, you could have confronted him rather than come up with your own conclusion. Or not, since you're not exclusive or anything as what you've said.

Sorry, but you seem like the judgemental one. If you had a boyfriend who was flirting with a hot girl, I'm pretty sure it would bother you too. Now I agree that liking pictures is a petty thing to be mad about, but openly flirting on social media is definitely concerning.

Except he's not her boyfriend in any way.

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Yeah true. I only saw the "I've been in love with a Scorpio for two years." Maybe she meant a different person from the past. But yeah, I was wrong.

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@moontide
8 Years

Does he even know you like him.

Are you two in a relationship.

Those are rhetorical. The answer is no.

Stop being cowardly and spiteful to others because of such cowardice. Either tell him you like him or move on with your life.

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@jakestephens12
7 Years

Posted by Primrose

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Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

Gurl, you seem somewhat judgmental of other girls you don't even know...besides, it's only Instagram where the purpose of it is to show pics and liking them...if you were worried about his action, you could have confronted him rather than come up with your own conclusion. Or not, since you're not exclusive or anything as what you've said.

Sorry, but you seem like the judgemental one. If you had a boyfriend who was flirting with a hot girl, I'm pretty sure it would bother you too. Now I agree that liking pictures is a petty thing to be mad about, but openly flirting on social media is definitely concerning.

How am I being judgmental? I was not attacking the OP personally about her looks unlike what she told regarding those girls she doesn’t even know. Judgmental for what? Telling the truth regarding social media, lol.

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Well she did say the other girl was pretty so I don't see how she was being judgemental either. But it really doesn't matter, I don't know why I took the time to call you out anyways. OP is probably a young teen and we should stay out lol

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@sweet_cancer
9 Years

Thanks for your imput. I know it's only Instagram and we're not together but I've been liking him for a long time. As a matter of fact, I fell in love thinking he was a serious guy like me.

I haven't shown him a direct sign that I like him but he has liked some of my pictures and he's always the initiator. I've never liked his.

I'm just letting him do the chasing but I'm always open and friendly with him. I show him interest but I'm not too forward.

Sometimes he's hot and cold so I've been kind of distant with him to see if he's really into me. The last time we talked he was flirting a lot and telling me that he's been wanting to keep in touch with me. He texts me long paragraphs and I can tell he enjoys talking to me. But yesterday when I opened Instagram I see him liking the girl's picture 😢

I know that guys look and it's normal but he could've avoided liking the picture. It's like saying "you're hot".

Maybe I'm different but if I like a guy I flirt with him only!!! I would feel dishonest flirting with two guys at the same time. Should I back off from him completely— I can't confront him about it but I saw that she likes him and now he's giving her a green light.

Scorpio men, would you like a girl who shows her body on social media and has like 30 guys commenting and liking it?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

I like to look at pretty women bodies!!! Who doesn’t— Only insecure little bitches!!!

You want man to have no reaction to naked woman? Are you srupid?

Yeah...why am I even asking...

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by sweet_cancer

I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me.

One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her.

Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies.

I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth.

I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this?

I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me

That's good. A two year crush? Must be exhausting.

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@sweet_cancer
9 Years

Uhhh I'm so sad. Maybe I got too distant with him and he gave up 🤷‍♀️😩 i've been wanting to show interest by finally liking one of his pictures. To show that I'm physically attracted to him but it's a big risk!! I've had bad experiences in the past with other guys 😰

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@sweet_cancer
9 Years

I forgot to mention that I'm SUPER insecure. Yeah that's how stupid us Cancers are!!! I consider myself pretty but still feel insecure and if I see that my crush thinks another girl is hot my insecurities become 10 times worst. It's so bad