Help with Scorpio lady please?

 

I met this Scorpio lady last week and when we met, we were both drunk, we started drinking together and she came back to my place. We were probably drinking a total 4 hours together and dancing around naked. But we were both wasted and laughing loads, playful arguments.

Then she left and said she wanted to meet the day after next. So I messaged her and asked her out, she said yes. Then that evening I was asleep and she messaged twice but I didn’t reply, so she messaged asking why I wasn’t talking to her anymore. I woke an hour later and said I was talking to her and couldn’t wait to see her again. She ignored that message, I messaged the next day asking if we were still meeting. She waited until two hours before we were meant to meet and said yes.

So we went out and had a great time, and at the end she said she wanted to do a restaurant and cinema, and that she’d message me tomorrow when she’d decided on a restaurant. She said something about things not being one sided, not sure.

That day I messaged her and asked if she knew which restaurant and I’d book a table (I know bad move, I wasn’t thinking). Six hours later she replied saying she now had to work, that ‪night till 4am‬. So she would message me midday to confirm. We chatted a little and she asked about my day, generally chatty, then she went to work. ‪At 4pm‬ the next day I hadn’t heard anything, so I messaged her, five hours later, she replied saying she was asleep all day, not feeling well. It sounded like a hangover. She said she was really sorry, and it seemed genuine, she was a little chatty, but did not suggest another day. She said sorry again, I didn’t reply to when she said sorry again.

Then I thought this morning, I messaged her to ask if she was feeling any better. My exact message was “hope you’re feeling better? You’ll have to make it up to me another time” 10 hours later and I haven’t had a reply. I know it was a little silly, the last part of my message. Maybe she didn’t see the question mark? I don’t know.

I just don’t know, with the late responses, and the excuses. Are Scorpios honest about these things? Yes last minute she could have worked, and she does drink at work, she could have drunk a lot. Her message seems genuine. She could have gone to work yesterday too, so hangover again today.

I’ve been chasing her a little too much (or not)? do Scorpios test to see if the guy is really interested? I’m just lost with this one. I feel like I’ve just lost her by messaging her this morning? Do I wait a couple of days to message? Or will she think I’m not interested?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Everything seemed fine until the moment she thought you were ignoring her and now you have this snowball effect.

Hopefully, you’ll get the opportunity to clear the air, but like HeartofTopaz said all you can do is wait.. and try not to stress about it at the same time.

Also talking on the phone is waaayyy better than texting during the getting-to-know-you phase.. less room for misunderstandings lol ;p

What when I was asleep? I’d only had one hour sleep after seeing her and then I was in work.

How long do I leave it before contacting her? I’m desperate now just to ask her if everything is ok?

Yea when you were asleep and didn’t respond right away.

My earlier advice was to not give up on this woman so easily, but you can’t let her lack of response drive you crazy. You can’t be desperate either because women can sense that sort of thing and run for the hills.

Go about your life as you were before meeting her. Realize she may never respond and be ok with it.

You think this whole date idea could be revenge for not messaging her back that first night?

I know where she’ll be this Thursday so I might go and see if she talks to me.

Posted by AriesJo
You think this whole date idea could be revenge for not messaging her back that first night?

I know where she’ll be this Thursday so I might go and see if she talks to me.

Revenge seems too strong of a word for this situation, but then again I don’t know her. I was getting more of a “you got what you wanted and now you’re ignoring me. Time to go into self protection mode” kind of vibe lol

When you pop up on Thursday, what’s the game plan?

She messaged me. Said I’m the one who needs to make it up to her. Lol.

Open to suggestions on what to reply now. I was going to ask her out directly. But not straight away. She’ll have to wait a few hours. I almost messaged back straight away but I need I think.

Yayyy I’m glad she wrote back. If you want to respond right away, then do it. This is a chance to be direct with your intentions minus the game playing. Yes, definitely call and let her know you’d really like to see her on Thursday.

Break out that double aries with cap rising charm and say what feels natural. I think you got it from here.

I love my double Aries, but sometimes it’s too much Aries, and I have Venus in Aries too.

She messaged again, and again. And I replied. We messaged for like two or three hours. And I’m happy. But I can’t exactly say why. I’m all of a sudden living this dream, honestly. I just asked for everything exactly what I wanted and she said she wanted all of it too. I know this is vague but some things are secret even for this place. Just all good in theory, we both said we’d try. But I’m happy, we just both completely laid out what we wanted from the relationship.

We had sex the night we met, I thought that was obvious