@MilaniKisses
9 YearsVirgo
Scorpio guy ignoring me after wonderful date
Why Would a Scorpio Man Ghost You After a Good Date?
A Scorpio man may ghost you by suddenly stopping texts after a great date, even if he seemed interested, especially if he feels unsure or wants to test the situation. Many people notice this happens right after things feel intense or emotionally real. Sometimes he comes back later, other times the silence means he pulled away for good. The pattern is strong interest followed by sudden distance.
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You're leaving a lot out. Did the two of you sleep together? How long have you known him? Seems like a short time frame to assume he is ghosting you.
It seems quite a fair few men of all signs are turning into 👻👻👻
I am going to assume you and your fiance broke up.
There isn't enough detail to know. But I have on occasion, continued to text with someone I really didn't want to date to "let them down gently" by texting them less and less, until I could just stop talking all together. I adopted this type of behavior after getting some dramatic ass blowback when I was more blunt and said "nah". Nothing freaks out a Scorpio more, than someone social media stalking them, to the point of looking for them on reddit, and getting a freak out call at 3 am from someone they say "nah" too.
Yes, we slept together... It was great. We still texted eachother a few days afterwards, but then I hadnt heard from him.
Posted by nikkistar
I am going to assume you and your fiance broke up.There isn't enough detail to know. But I have on occasion, continued to text with someone I really didn't want to date to "let them down gently" by texting them less and less, until I could just stop talking all together. I adopted this type of behavior after getting some dramatic ass blowback when I was more blunt and said "nah". Nothing freaks out a Scorpio more, than someone social media stalking them, to the point of looking for them on reddit, and getting a freak out call at 3 am from someone they say "nah" too.
Yes we broke up about 4 months ago. Recently began to date again...
Posted by MilaniKisses
Yes, we slept together... It was great. We still texted eachother a few days afterwards, but then I hadnt heard from him.
Girl....
More than likely, it was a smash and dash. But he continued to text you to not look like the asshole he is.
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like...
"Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
??
Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
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But not many men do that, sex then run......
Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
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But not many men do that, sex then run......
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So what are the other things they do?
If you need closure, sure. But don't expect a response that is truthful, or one at all.
Every girl deserves a man that treats them with respect.
Posted by nikkistar
If you need closure, sure. But don't except a response that is truthful, or one at all.Every girl deserves a man that treats them with respect.
Yes, letting me know whats up is the respectful thing to do rather than string me along then ghost on me in hopes I would forget everything and him...
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.
Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
??
But not many men do that, sex then run......
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Well some of them think if they can get sex on the first date....they will try their luck with the next one and next one etc
It's too easy for them
Swipe, swipe
Have you fully transitioned? If not maybe he was curious and then decided its not for him. Really only he knows.
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.
Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before.
Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
??
NOOO, just cut your losses. pay him no mind.
If he wants you he'll come for you
Simple
Posted by MilaniKisses
This past weekend I had an awesome date with a scorpio guy - things went so well and the connection was amazing. We texted here and there the next couple of days, but then he all-of-a-sudden ghosted on me.
So this past weekend + a couple of days puts us at today, Wednesday. How long exactly has it been since you've heard from him?
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before. click to expand
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His experience does count if it was a first encounter. But you said it wasn't so, I'm not sure.
Just depends on how open minded he is about everything.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks.
This is what I don’t understand... how can you have sex with someone you don’t even know? I mean, you really don’t know if you guys are compatible... I just think it’s best to wait and see sometimes to avoid these things.
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before. click to expand
His experience does count if it was a first encounter. But you said it wasn't so, I'm not sure.
Just depends on how open minded he is about everything.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
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Same reason why you like straight men. I'm not interested in bi - and hello, gay men means they like only men... Trust me when I say that straight men who like trans women are more common than you'd think.
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before. click to expand
His experience does count if it was a first encounter. But you said it wasn't so, I'm not sure.
Just depends on how open minded he is about everything.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
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Yeah good points. And even if he has experience being with trans women doesn't mean its headed to a relationship. He may just like to hook up with them but won't wife em up cause of the social stigma that still comes along with it unfortunately.
You want the person your with to be proud to show you off to his friends and family. Not keep you a dirty little secret...
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before. click to expand
His experience does count if it was a first encounter. But you said it wasn't so, I'm not sure.
Just depends on how open minded he is about everything.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Yeah good points. And even if he has experience being with trans women doesn't mean its headed to a relationship. He may just like to hook up with them but won't wife em up cause of the social stigma that still comes along with it unfortunately.
You want the person your with to be proud to show you off to his friends and family. Not keep you a dirty little secret... click to expand
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Yes... this stigma sucks... And also stigma's where people think men are anything but straight if they like trans women. Simply they see trans women as Women > just equipped with something different than the norm.
Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
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No no no...do not message him anything. Keep your dignity and pride intact and move on. Truth of the matter is some men are okay with sex too soon others are not. After sex women want to know " so whag are we"...for men they stsrted to ask themsleves if this is really what they want. Just take your time in the future if a relationship is what you are hoping for.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she?
Not a connection if you're the only one acknowledging it.
Seems like a theme with you from what I remember of your topics...awesome date and connection then ..ghost.
Maybe you're not really present at all and it's an instant turn off for the other person.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
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It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
Posted by saggurl88
Was he straight? You always go for straight guys. This will make a big difference. People are naturally curious and secretive about taboo things. There are always a lot of factors involved in your relationships because of this.Yes, but his sexuality doesnt have anything to do with it. He has experience dating trans females before. click to expand
His experience does count if it was a first encounter. But you said it wasn't so, I'm not sure.
Just depends on how open minded he is about everything.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Yeah good points. And even if he has experience being with trans women doesn't mean its headed to a relationship. He may just like to hook up with them but won't wife em up cause of the social stigma that still comes along with it unfortunately.
You want the person your with to be proud to show you off to his friends and family. Not keep you a dirty little secret... click to expand
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Exactly! And she will get hurt every time messing with these type of men.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
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Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
click to expand
Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem. click to expand
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I don't see any problems either. I was just wondering why she makes it so hard on herself. I get what you're saying though.
It is true that as long as shes not deceitful about the situation.
I was still just curious about the headache of going after a particular type.
Same as me only going after Aquas because that's what I like. I was looking for why so much interest in it.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
click to expand
Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem. click to expand
I don't see any problems either. I was just wondering why she makes it so hard on herself. I get what you're saying though.
It is true that as long as shes not deceitful about the situation.
I was still just curious about the headache of going after a particular type. click to expand
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It is not easy. But I don't think Milani is the type that would hide that about herself. She probably has experience in various dating sites, or apps that are geared to making it easier for her to meet men.
Regardless, men can be jerks no matter what. Same with women.
I am always upfront to every guy on who I am
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I am always upfront to every guy on who I am
I am always upfront to every guy on who I am
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I am always upfront to every guy on who I am
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I am always upfront to every guy on who I am click to expandI am always upfront to every guy on who I am
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You will have to upload the picture to something like tinypic or imgur now
Posted by Damnata
Not a connection if you're the only one acknowledging it.Seems like a theme with you from what I remember of your topics...awesome date and connection then ..ghost.
Maybe you're not really present at all and it's an instant turn off for the other person.
No theme... Last weekend I also went on a date which was horrible... no connection > which is why I didnt post anything. Didnt anyone tell you that you shouldnt make assumptions??
if these are guys you are meeting online, you need to factor in that you're likely going to be dealing with a higher rate of douchebaggery. if you think there is a connection, test it out. don't sleep with them quickly. make sure there really is something there. the chance to have sex will still be there a month after knowing them.
My comment doesnt apply since you said this isnt a reoccurring thing.
Good luck.
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
click to expand
Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem. click to expand
I don't see any problems either. I was just wondering why she makes it so hard on herself. I get what you're saying though.
It is true that as long as shes not deceitful about the situation.
I was still just curious about the headache of going after a particular type.
Same as me only going after Aquas because that's what I like. I was looking for why so much interest in it. click to expand
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Why limit yourself though Miss? There are eleven other signs to experience.
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Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
click to expand
Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem. click to expand
I don't see any problems either. I was just wondering why she makes it so hard on herself. I get what you're saying though.
It is true that as long as shes not deceitful about the situation.
I was still just curious about the headache of going after a particular type.
Same as me only going after Aquas because that's what I like. I was looking for why so much interest in it. click to expand
Why limit yourself though Miss? There are eleven other signs to experience.
😊
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It was used as an example. Not real
Why do you like straight men? There are gay or bi men that have masculine looks. click to expand
Here's the thing, most people should probably acknowledge. You don't have to agree with it, or understand it for that matter. But trans men and women, see themselves as the gender they say they are. In essence, to them, they were born the gender they identify as.
So if you, as a women, wouldn't date only gay or bisexual man, why would she? click to expand
It's different since she hasn't had the surgery. There is some smoke and mirrors dealing with straight men, as well as heartache. I was just wonder why she goes after straight men when she hasn't fully transitioned.
If I was only interested in lesbians and I was trans, it would be the same issue. I was just wondering why that preference.
People love who they love but she actually has a preference for straight men and I was curious to why that is.
click to expand
Regardless of her genitalia, she is still 100% woman to herself. It is not a preference of a straight male or not, just her preference of men in general. I prefer straight men, and I am a women. She is a straight female, she prefers straight men.
I understand what you are saying, but we don't know if the transition was done fully or not. Nor are we privy to her giving that information to her partner or not. As long as she is not deceitful, and is honest about the transitioning, I see no problem. click to expand
I don't see any problems either. I was just wondering why she makes it so hard on herself. I get what you're saying though.
It is true that as long as shes not deceitful about the situation.
I was still just curious about the headache of going after a particular type.
Same as me only going after Aquas because that's what I like. I was looking for why so much interest in it. click to expand
Why limit yourself though Miss? There are eleven other signs to experience.
😊
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It was used as an example. Not real click to expand
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Oh right .... 🙂
issa smash and dash honey.
Don't chase someone who isn't worth your time. You seem to be a bit naive and believe these dudes too quick. You should let him prove his worth before getting emotionally attached. I personally get attached after sex, so I would suggest if you're like me to hold off a but until you see his actual intentions. Guys really suck!!!
issa smash and dash honey.
Don't chase someone who isn't worth your time. You seem to be a bit naive and believe these dudes too quick. You should let him prove his worth before getting emotionally attached. I personally get attached after sex, so I would suggest if you're like me to hold off a but until you see his actual intentions. Guys really suck!!!
Posted by wildflower
issa smash and dash honey.Don't chase someone who isn't worth your time. You seem to be a bit naive and believe these dudes too quick. You should let him prove his worth before getting emotionally attached. I personally get attached after sex, so I would suggest if you're like me to hold off a but until you see his actual intentions. Guys really suck!!!
Oh I know nothing will come
Of it, he already said he wouldn’t do long distance. But we could
Be friends and if I ever needed to talk or wanted to visit he would be there.
Really, I do get attached pretty easily but I also don’t like to miss out on opportunities to share moments with people I like or just miss out on a good time in general. Definitely naive at times though lol
Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi all,So Im hoping you all are able to help.
This past weekend I had an awesome date with a scorpio guy - things went so well and the connection was amazing. We texted here and there the next couple of days, but then he all-of-a-sudden ghosted on me.
I've ready that many Scorpios are known for doing this because of fear of rejection. Is this a common things that you all do when you like someone?
Thanks,
Milani
No.
PS Ghosting someone because you fear rejection sounds quite emotionally immature.
PPS Stop reading whatever you're reading. It sounds ridiculous.
Posted by wildflower
issa smash and dash honey.Don't chase someone who isn't worth your time. You seem to be a bit naive and believe these dudes too quick. You should let him prove his worth before getting emotionally attached. I personally get attached after sex, so I would suggest if you're like me to hold off a but until you see his actual intentions. Guys really suck!!!
Oh I know nothing will come
Of it, he already said he wouldn’t do long distance. But we could
Be friends and if I ever needed to talk or wanted to visit he would be there.
Really, I do get attached pretty easily but I also don’t like to miss out on opportunities to share moments with people I like or just miss out on a good time in general. Definitely naive at times though lol click to expand
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Posted by MilaniKisses
I prefer for someone to honest to me about what they want. If he is not interest, then he can just tell me. Should I send him a text like..."Hi, so if you arent interested in me, its okay to let me know. I'd rather know your honest answer then nothing at all..."
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I hope someone already told you not to do this. I'm only on page one.....
Posted by wildflower
issa smash and dash honey.Don't chase someone who isn't worth your time. You seem to be a bit naive and believe these dudes too quick. You should let him prove his worth before getting emotionally attached. I personally get attached after sex, so I would suggest if you're like me to hold off a but until you see his actual intentions. Guys really suck!!!
Oh I know nothing will come
Of it, he already said he wouldn’t do long distance. But we could
Be friends and if I ever needed to talk or wanted to visit he would be there.
Really, I do get attached pretty easily but I also don’t like to miss out on opportunities to share moments with people I like or just miss out on a good time in general. Definitely naive at times though lol click to expand
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What are your — to.... lol
Posted by Damnata
Not a connection if you're the only one acknowledging it....Maybe you're not really present at all...
*like*
I was thinking the same thing.
Posted by nikkistar
If you need closure, sure. But don't except a response that is truthful, or one at all.Every girl deserves a man that treats them with respect.
Yes, letting me know whats up is the respectful thing to do rather than string me along then ghost on me in hopes I would forget everything and him... click to expand
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The older guys get, doesn't change their immaturity and lack of communication skills, does it? :/
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Hi all,
So Im hoping you all are able to help.
This past weekend I had an awesome date with a scorpio guy - things went so well and the connection was amazing. We texted here and there the next couple of days, but then he all-of-a-sudden ghosted on me.
I've ready that many Scorpios are known for doing this because of fear of rejection. Is this a common things that you all do when you like someone?
Thanks,
Milani