How are Scorpio men usually when in love ?

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I have been dating a scorpio man for about 2 months now and we seem pretty compatible so far. He can be such a sweetheart and is all over me, making me feel wanted and like he wants to be around me. So far, this is the best relationship. He makes me genuinely happy and puts up with my moody times. We laugh and feel so comfortable around each other, he tells me he loves me already and it took a few times of him saying it to me for me to say it back, seems so early but I do love him, maybe not in love yet but I care about him. He helps me feel less depressed when he's around and the best thing is knowing that he only has eyes for me. Yeah he has looked at girls which is cool cause it's human nature, I look too but I will notice sometimes when I scope out a hot girl walking by I will look to see if he notices and he just walks by, of course they're not blondes which is his fetish but they're still fine soo...I just want perspective at how Scorpio men usually are, the good and bad. Any stories from you scorpios or people dating scorpios ?
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Cancer female here and I dated a Scorpio man for two years. Best damn relationship I've ever had. The connection is pretty deep and passionate if your open and honest with each other. He never made me feel bad about my moods. I just showed him that I was loyal to him and he could trust me. I also was very open about my feelings and he responded by being open about his. Once Scorpio opens up you find a beautiful, deep emotionally, strong and secure individual. A bit controlling at times but I didn't mind. Communication was great and he was very sweet the way your guy is. He would go on hikes and bring me back wild flowers that he picked. They are thoughtful like that. Love making is more about connection and becoming one if that makes sense— So it definitely sounds like you are very special to him. If he says he loves you believe him. It sounds you are on the right track. Don't let jealously get to you. Jealousy can ruin the relationship. Go with your intuition and just let things unfold naturally. Best of luck to you both
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
I do love him, maybe not in love yet

don't say this out loud. keep it to yourself ^^^^^^

Yeah he has looked at girls which is cool cause it's human nature

don't let your insecurities screw it up ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

what made you post here? If all is well?

No, I have not said that to him. Maybe family and friends but it takes time for me...I know I care about him a lot and I know for sure he loves and cares about me, he's a sensitive little sweetheart which makes me fall even more. I know, I am a secure person but I feel myself starting to get more attached and possessive feeling which I hate so much but it's only because my feelings for him are growing even more and I do get a little jealous in relationships sometimes but that's only because my feelings are real. If they weren't I would not even care. I just still have my doubts about things sometimes. Not doubting my feelings for him but if I will get played or not because I had been with someone who was affectionate toward me and would make me feel loved and wanted at times but he ended up turning on me causing a lot of fights and stress for me, I wasn't perfect but I stayed loyal and found out he ended up cheating on me multiple times, very painful feelings but that was 2 years ago so I am over it now.
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Posted by Silver7nz
Cancer female here and I dated a Scorpio man for two years. Best damn relationship I've ever had. The connection is pretty deep and passionate if your open and honest with each other. He never made me feel bad about my moods. I just showed him that I was loyal to him and he could trust me. I also was very open about my feelings and he responded by being open about his. Once Scorpio opens up you find a beautiful, deep emotionally, strong and secure individual. A bit controlling at times but I didn't mind. Communication was great and he was very sweet the way your guy is. He would go on hikes and bring me back wild flowers that he picked. They are thoughtful like that. Love making is more about connection and becoming one if that makes sense— So it definitely sounds like you are very special to him. If he says he loves you believe him. It sounds you are on the right track. Don't let jealously get to you. Jealousy can ruin the relationship. Go with your intuition and just let things unfold naturally. Best of luck to you both I can tell ours will be too, I feel like I want him to be around forever and I haven't seen his moody side yet but he deals with mine so whenever he gets like that I am going to put up with it as well. The only thing I don't tolerate is disrespect and there have been times where he was rude, unknowingly to himself, but I pointed it out and he apologized and realized...He has not opened as much as I think he could but I am patient so waiting. I actually like controlling just not too much. It's cute till it gets too much and you're lucky to have had a love like this, what happened ? Did your jealousy ruin it or his ? I do get jealous but I try to hold it in because II am sure he wouldn't hurt me. Thank youuu
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Posted by Silver7nz
Cancer female here and I dated a Scorpio man for two years. Best damn relationship I've ever had. The connection is pretty deep and passionate if your open and honest with each other. He never made me feel bad about my moods. I just showed him that I was loyal to him and he could trust me. I also was very open about my feelings and he responded by being open about his. Once Scorpio opens up you find a beautiful, deep emotionally, strong and secure individual. A bit controlling at times but I didn't mind. Communication was great and he was very sweet the way your guy is. He would go on hikes and bring me back wild flowers that he picked. They are thoughtful like that. Love making is more about connection and becoming one if that makes sense— So it definitely sounds like you are very special to him. If he says he loves you believe him. It sounds you are on the right track. Don't let jealously get to you. Jealousy can ruin the relationship. Go with your intuition and just let things unfold naturally. Best of luck to you both

I can tell ours will be too, I feel like I want him to be around forever and I haven't seen his moody side yet but he deals with mine so whenever he gets like that I am going to put up with it as well. The only thing I don't tolerate is disrespect and there have been times where he was rude, unknowingly to himself, but I pointed it out and he apologized and realized...He has not opened as much as I think he could but I am patient so waiting. I actually like controlling just not too much. It's cute till it gets too much and you're lucky to have had a love like this, what happened ? Did your jealousy ruin it or his ? I do get jealous but I try to hold it in because II am sure he wouldn't hurt me. Thank youuu SSorry last message got mixed with yours so I reposted
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Meh. A Scorpio saying they love you and really meaning it in under 3 mos? Trust it but also take it with a grain of salt especially if that little gem is coming out in the middle of sex or post coital only. Sure he could love you. Or he could love the way he feels when he's with you. Two totally different things. In my experience, Scorpio is a slow burner when it comes to expressing loving someone.
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CrabbyKaycee:


I can tell ours will be too, I feel like I want him to be around forever and I haven't seen his moody side yet but he deals with mine so whenever he gets like that I am going to put up with it as well. The only thing I don't tolerate is disrespect and there have been times where he was rude, unknowingly to himself, but I pointed it out and he apologized and realized...He has not opened as much as I think he could but I am patient so waiting. I actually like controlling just not too much. It's cute till it gets too much and you're lucky to have had a love like this, what happened ? Did your jealousy ruin it or his ? I do get jealous but I try to hold it in because II am sure he wouldn't hurt me. Thank youuu SSorry last message got mixed with yours so I reposted.





Sorry it took so long. The only huge fight we got into was me asking if he was cheating. Flocks of women would gravitate towards him if we went out to a party. So I got a little jealous. So it definitely put a strain on our relationship. What broke us up was I got really sick. It was a physical illness and it just put too much pressure on both of us. It was hard parting. He broke down and cried. I'm not angry he left. At least he tried to hang in there just sometimes sickness can be too much on a couple. Don't let him push you around. Put your foot down on certain things you don't like. Don't hold things in. They don't like secrets..(most of the time). It's good he apologized for being rude. Anyway, be open and honest.