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Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
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Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
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Well, since you put this in the scorpio section and I am a scorpio...
I know I'm first falling in love when I feel sick to my stomach before we meet. Like proper sick. After some time, it's revealing my emotions, with or without words.
When i stop being german and get emotionally expressive like an italian.
When she is hot without makeup ( go f*** yourself i am a taurus)
When i want to physically harm my best friend when they dance.
When i am quick to forget unacceptable behavior
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
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😂😂😂
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
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he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
When I want to create a better for her to live in.
a better what? You left out a word.
When I want to create a better for her to live in.
a better what? You left out a word.
You are right. 😄
World. A better world.
Going to edit it now, thank you.
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AS I LIVE AND BREATHE!!!! I'M RIGHT—??
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This is such a sweet Aquarius thing to say. You being in someones life would make it a better place to live in anyways, if they loved you. That is the only way you would know huh? Love equals feelings of being a humanitarian for others and not her specifically?
When I want to create a better for her to live in.
a better what? You left out a word.
You are right. 😄
World. A better world.
Going to edit it now, thank you.
AS I LIVE AND BREATHE!!!! I'M RIGHT—??
😛
This is such a sweet Aquarius thing to say. You being in someones life would make it a better place to live in anyways, if they loved you. That is the only way you would know huh? Love equals feelings of being a humanitarian for others and not her specifically?
You look at it from the wrong angle. My live for her would outweigh all my distaste for the world. Making the world a better place also would mean that I would have done something for her that will survive the eventual end of the relationship. It would also remain mostly unaffected by all the ups and downs of human relationships.
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Your autocorrect change love to live? That breaks my heart a little.
I always look at things from different angles then Aquas, That's the reason why I love them so much. I learn so much and see different perspectives. This is the only sign that does that for me.
The way you use surviving the eventual end of the relationship and something remaining unaffected by all the ups and downs of it is as contradicting as I am.
But I see your point. This is why you are still and always will be my favorite life form on this site.
ich liebe dich ❤️
I'm about to start dating a Leo that is super affectionate. So I will see how that goes while keeping the Virgo on the back burner for now. 😄 The Leo just called me last night and agreed to start dating me., so I'll see how this goes. He seems more my style .
That's awesome! I hope the Leo works out for ya! 🙂 Seems like the Virgo guys are a little more challenging than the women for some reason.... I think with Virgos, you either love em or hate em lol I totally understand you wanting the affection... I do too, but I know in my gut this woman is worth it 😄
And I'm all over the place on this site, there is no back story for anything lol I just date who I want and then complain when things don't go right 😄
This cracked me up for a second lol Ain't nothing wrong with that! 😉 Lol
u seem to be much nicer to the Virgo you're with, I read some of your other post. I'm definitely not as nice as you. So good luck to you too. I love Scorpios, you guys are so great when you love someone.
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Lol Some times I wonder if I'm not too nice and annoying the hell outta her lol But I'm just doing me and she seems to be ok with it... For now lol
Best of luck to you with your Leo! 🙂
I’m not saying all Virgo men aren’t affectionate. Just the one I’m dealing with isn’t. He seems to want to pretend like he’s a womanizer instead of a straight laced boring guy. So I basically treat him like a fucc boi since we are fwb and he doesn’t like that I treat him that way. Lol. He’s told me women usually fall for him fast.
Sounds like you just got a defective one lol Probably past experiences has turned him into a player as a way of guarding his heart? Or is it just an act?
You know (as my future MIL said) you stepped in too deep!
But you haven’t said a word about HER!
If you not sure it’s weird...however give her a hint like ‘I am falling for you’ and keep doing what you are doing...but watch her reaction.
I am feeling you are in love but you not talking about her...wall of text about your feelings and nobody I am sure feeling what ta heck is she and where IS she?
Well...are you really about yourself?
I get what you are saying... I did leave it one sided. I was talking about my feelings because that's what I was trying to understand. But trust me, I could on and on about her if you get me started lol
As far as where she is right now, I believe I mentioned this, but maybe not.... she is less than a year out of a long term relationship. He cheated on her 8 times over 4 years. He was also very controlling and abusive from what I gather... She won't talk about it and I don't push it. Maybe some day she will open up more, I hope. It's still early in our relationship, so I don't expect that right away. She used to tell me more when we were friends, but it's like we started from scratch when we got romantic lol
She has told me she just needs me to be patient while she finds herself again. I don't really know exactly what she feels about me. I believe she is at least considering a future with me. We aren't "official" yet and I've told her that I will let her set the pace for now. I don't put any pressure or expectations on her. We haven't agreed to being exclusive, but we both have treated it that way. Eventually I'll bring it up, but not until I feel she is ready to put a label on us.
I'm not sure what you mean by "what and where she is"... All I know for sure is she needs things to go slow right now. I could ramble on and on about her lol, but is there something specific you would like to know?
We can share but you will do it your way, Scorpio! Good luck!
Oh yeah, can't do anything but me myself and hope the feelings are mutual. Thank you though! 🙂
I start pushing that person away
What is your sun, moon, and Venus? I have a lot to learn about astrology, but if I remember right, Venus is what determines how you love right?
Yeah that's a heavy ass load she is caring on her shoulders and the support she is getting from you will not be forgotten.
Yeah, it's been especially hard with the recent school shooting here in Colorado. I feel for her... She is a strong woman, though I know underneath she is hurting. She was having flashbacks for a few weeks there. I could see the physical toll it was taking on her 😢
I do my best to reassure her I'm here for her and that she doesn't always have to be strong. She still rather not talk about it, but I'll be there for her when/if she ever does.
Not that we are always right but we are...unless you are wanting to get a "I told ya so"...cause you will...best to listen 😂 (I'm kidding of course but not about the I told ya so...that will happen lol)
Haha Oh, I've had the "I told you so" a time or two :p
There have been very few times when I've not agreed or listened to her. She has a whole lot more common sense and is way less impulsive than I am lol She has honestly been really good for me in a way as she helps me think things through and isn't afraid to tell me when I'm doing something wrong lol I like that... Can't fix something if I don't know I'm doing it wrong lol I feel like both of our strengths compliment the others weaknesses.
She might be waiting for you to claim your love for her first, that's how I am. We know, but we want to hear it from our man and for it to be the real deal. And backed up by your actions. Not lust, not flowery fake words, not bs. We know if you're blowing smoke. Maybe other virgals are different...
See, this is why I want to give myself time to confirm that this is truly love. I see that I am feeling and thinking most of what people are saying here, so I feel like it is love. I have no problem telling her, but I do fear she isn't ready to hear it yet... I think she just needs to know I'm here for her right now. I think I will know when the time is right, but I hope I don't misread her lol
When I want to create a better for her to live in.
a better what? You left out a word.
You are right. 😄
World. A better world.
Going to edit it now, thank you.
AS I LIVE AND BREATHE!!!! I'M RIGHT—??
😛
This is such a sweet Aquarius thing to say. You being in someones life would make it a better place to live in anyways, if they loved you. That is the only way you would know huh? Love equals feelings of being a humanitarian for others and not her specifically?
You look at it from the wrong angle. My live for her would outweigh all my distaste for the world. Making the world a better place also would mean that I would have done something for her that will survive the eventual end of the relationship. It would also remain mostly unaffected by all the ups and downs of human relationships.
Your autocorrect change love to live? That breaks my heart a little.
I always look at things from different angles then Aquas, That's the reason why I love them so much. I learn so much and see different perspectives. This is the only sign that does that for me.
The way you use surviving the eventual end of the relationship and something remaining unaffected by all the ups and downs of it is as contradicting as I am.
But I see your point. This is why you are still and always will be my favorite life form on this site.
ich liebe dich ❤️
Typo. I guess I should go to bed now.
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Awww sorry. If you do, Sweet dreams . I'm swamped at work and trying to get the rest of my crap done. I've been playing around on this site too long the last few days. Probably since I came back from vacation -__-
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
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Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
Yeah that's a heavy ass load she is caring on her shoulders and the support she is getting from you will not be forgotten.
Yeah, it's been especially hard with the recent school shooting here in Colorado. I feel for her... She is a strong woman, though I know underneath she is hurting. She was having flashbacks for a few weeks there. I could see the physical toll it was taking on her 😢
I do my best to reassure her I'm here for her and that she doesn't always have to be strong. She still rather not talk about it, but I'll be there for her when/if she ever does.
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I can't even imagine what she's been thru...just really sad.
Yeah we don't like to burden others with our problems...no matter what they are. Once comfortable we may bounce things off you and it may be repeatedly about the same thing but it's really more or less us working out the problem to either we find a solution or there isn't one and we have to give up on it...then you'll never hear about it again lol
Not that we are always right but we are...unless you are wanting to get a "I told ya so"...cause you will...best to listen 😂 (I'm kidding of course but not about the I told ya so...that will happen lol)
Haha Oh, I've had the "I told you so" a time or two :p
There have been very few times when I've not agreed or listened to her. She has a whole lot more common sense and is way less impulsive than I am lol She has honestly been really good for me in a way as she helps me think things through and isn't afraid to tell me when I'm doing something wrong lol I like that... Can't fix something if I don't know I'm doing it wrong lol I feel like both of our strengths compliment the others weaknesses.
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Hahaha...we just can't help it lol.
Apparently at one time, scorps and Virgos were the same sign and I forget what exactly happened but all the sudden here comes Libra to break it up lol.
We are pretty emotional ourselves despite what Astro peeps say....but logic wins over the emotions for us...not to say that none of us have ever done anything impulsive or based off our emotions...it's just rarity. I like that tho...you have what she needs and vice versa.
I really like scorps but eventually we are going to butt heads...I have to much fire and y'all seem to want to drown me lol. I dig the moons a lot tho whether the are an actual scorp moon or have a Hades moon...seems to be my thing 😂.
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
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Who knows. He told me at first that he just wanted to be friends, then kept texting me, then it was he’s been hurt before and pushed love away and now this.
Who knows what to believe.
I told him I’m the type that needs to see, experience and explore him for myself to know. 😈
I probably won’t hear from him till Monday so I’ll leave it for now.
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
Who knows. He told me at first that he just wanted to be friends, then kept texting me, then it was he’s been hurt before and pushed love away and now this.
Who knows what to believe.
I told him I’m the type that needs to see, experience and explore him for myself to know. 😈
I probably won’t hear from him till Monday so I’ll leave it for now.
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Heard the same from the leo I was dealing with. I believed him because I could feel how closed off he was and he'd almost go into some weird panic when he'd share too much or start to I guess feel things...it was weird but for whatever reason he kept coming back..no idea why and no idea why he bounced again. Idc anymore tho...I mean I care about him as a person. Told him...until we meet again ✌️ because I know we will at some point except I doubt I'll entertain him this time around as it would be the 5th time. I notice tho he gets in relationships he can easily walk away from because he so closed off due to these past hurts (which we have all dealt with). I guess it's true when a man tells you something like that then believe him.
Why wouldnt you hear from him until Monday?
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
Who knows. He told me at first that he just wanted to be friends, then kept texting me, then it was he’s been hurt before and pushed love away and now this.
Who knows what to believe.
I told him I’m the type that needs to see, experience and explore him for myself to know. 😈
I probably won’t hear from him till Monday so I’ll leave it for now.
Heard the same from the leo I was dealing with. I believed him because I could feel how closed off he was and he'd almost go into some weird panic when he'd share too much or start to I guess feel things...it was weird but for whatever reason he kept coming back..no idea why and no idea why he bounced again. Idc anymore tho...I mean I care about him as a person. Told him...until we meet again ✌️ because I know we will at some point except I doubt I'll entertain him this time around as it would be the 5th time. I notice tho he gets in relationships he can easily walk away from because he so closed off due to these past hurts (which we have all dealt with). I guess it's true when a man tells you something like that then believe him.
Why wouldnt you hear from him until Monday?
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He’s busy this weekend with his friends and when someone tells me something like that I will leave them alone and not contact them or even send a text. I usually text in the mornings Monday through Friday. I won’t reach out on the weekend.
Dude probably is telling the truth. I told him that I have a fwb and he was a little bothered but I told him it was because I was used to having consistent sex in a relationship and it was a stress reliever for me. That seemed to make sense to him and he was fine with it.
But I told him I was looking for a relationship and that the fwb was like a business arrangement, which it is.
He told me a whole lot. I don’t judge people though. I usually just let them show me how they are. I don’t care about the past just how you will treat me now and in the future.
He keeps on telling me that he’s gonna hurt me and that he’s warning me. I just said it’s fine and I wouldn’t be hurt if he wasn’t into me. I mean what are the getting to know you stages for, right? I may not like him either lol.
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
Who knows. He told me at first that he just wanted to be friends, then kept texting me, then it was he’s been hurt before and pushed love away and now this.
Who knows what to believe.
I told him I’m the type that needs to see, experience and explore him for myself to know. 😈
I probably won’t hear from him till Monday so I’ll leave it for now.
Heard the same from the leo I was dealing with. I believed him because I could feel how closed off he was and he'd almost go into some weird panic when he'd share too much or start to I guess feel things...it was weird but for whatever reason he kept coming back..no idea why and no idea why he bounced again. Idc anymore tho...I mean I care about him as a person. Told him...until we meet again ✌️ because I know we will at some point except I doubt I'll entertain him this time around as it would be the 5th time. I notice tho he gets in relationships he can easily walk away from because he so closed off due to these past hurts (which we have all dealt with). I guess it's true when a man tells you something like that then believe him.
Why wouldnt you hear from him until Monday?
He’s busy this weekend with his friends and when someone tells me something like that I will leave them alone and not contact them or even send a text. I usually text in the mornings Monday through Friday. I won’t reach out on the weekend.
Dude probably is telling the truth. I told him that I have a fwb and he was a little bothered but I told him it was because I was used to having consistent sex in a relationship and it was a stress reliever for me. That seemed to make sense to him and he was fine with it.
But I told him I was looking for a relationship and that the fwb was like a business arrangement, which it is.
He told me a whole lot. I don’t judge people though. I usually just let them show me how they are. I don’t care about the past just how you will treat me now and in the future.
He keeps on telling me that he’s gonna hurt me and that he’s warning me. I just said it’s fine and I wouldn’t be hurt if he wasn’t into me. I mean what are the getting to know you stages for, right? I may not like him either lol.
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Hahaha...I'm usually the same way but idc anymore...I'll even double text your ass. I have my moments still tho lol. That whole virgo doesn't want to feel like a bother so we won't reach out bs.
I don't judge either (well at least try not too because technically we all do to some extent) who tf am I to do so. Everyone is gonna have a past and unless you did some awful shit...like really awful shit...then it doesn't matter but I also like to psychoanalyze people. 🤷
Exactly....you might be the one breaking his heart.
Also when she starts being critical (not necessarily in a bad way) or is constantly worried about you... congrats the feeling is definitely mutual. When she stops...be worried, she's planning her out.
I think Scorpios are more suited for your sign because they have a natural level of negativity that matches Virgos. Just less criticism. Seems like Virgos like bickering a little and so do Scorpios.
Way better suited then Sag and Virgo, especially since it’s my 12th house. There’s just too many unspoken things between us. Hopefully I didn’t flub the Ops thread too much with my nonsense.
I can agree to that. The bickering is mental stimulation and foreplay in a way lol. Virgos also can see thru scorps bs and they don't put up with it which I think intrigues them because everyone else seems to submit. Plus we are really similar. Virgos are also very intuitive even tho we aren't really given credit for it.
I think Sag and Virgo can def work....with the Sag guy I was seeing...even tho he turned out to be a jack ass...we could talk for hours and really did enjoy each other's company...the sexual tension was def there but I didn't trust him enough to take it to the level...thank God! Lol. There is a virgo guy on here that is married to a sag and they seem really happy together. 12th is hard for sure..lots of fog and the unspoken..but it's still doable...just needs to be navigated in a different way.
I know what Virgo here that you’re talking about. I agree that it works for them.
My twin brother is married to a Virgo woman and she is great. But she’s a fiery, fiesty Virgo like yourself. Lots of personality.
I enjoy the Virgos company most times when I see him. It’s just not enough for me. It’s like both of us are waiting on something.
I’m pretty open and honest with him though when he asks me stuff and the fact that he sticks around is cool. I just like affection and he doesn’t give it freely. He’s waiting for me to make a move and show him. And I’m not gonna do that.
He’s too watery like I am. It’s not good for me. I’m water and fire and he’s water and earth. A freakin stick in the mud 😩😝
Yeah...you have to have what works best for you and not trying to force something if it ain't all there.
I'm trying to. Hopefully things work out with this Leo that just told me he was a male whoore 😄
He did not?! 🙄😂 So dramatic!
Yeah he did. I thought it was pretty funny. I actually like whoores though 😩😩🤣
Ho + Me = Home 🏡
😂😂😜
😂😂😂
he told me he had a heart breaker tattoo on him and I told him that I was looking forward to getting my heart broken 😆 He said no one has ever said anything like that. Ahhhh These men, I swear. I keep trying to tell them I'm not the average female.
Omg that's hilarious! They are something else but that probably intrigued the shit outta him lol
Who knows. He told me at first that he just wanted to be friends, then kept texting me, then it was he’s been hurt before and pushed love away and now this.
Who knows what to believe.
I told him I’m the type that needs to see, experience and explore him for myself to know. 😈
I probably won’t hear from him till Monday so I’ll leave it for now.
Heard the same from the leo I was dealing with. I believed him because I could feel how closed off he was and he'd almost go into some weird panic when he'd share too much or start to I guess feel things...it was weird but for whatever reason he kept coming back..no idea why and no idea why he bounced again. Idc anymore tho...I mean I care about him as a person. Told him...until we meet again ✌️ because I know we will at some point except I doubt I'll entertain him this time around as it would be the 5th time. I notice tho he gets in relationships he can easily walk away from because he so closed off due to these past hurts (which we have all dealt with). I guess it's true when a man tells you something like that then believe him.
Why wouldnt you hear from him until Monday?
He’s busy this weekend with his friends and when someone tells me something like that I will leave them alone and not contact them or even send a text. I usually text in the mornings Monday through Friday. I won’t reach out on the weekend.
Dude probably is telling the truth. I told him that I have a fwb and he was a little bothered but I told him it was because I was used to having consistent sex in a relationship and it was a stress reliever for me. That seemed to make sense to him and he was fine with it.
But I told him I was looking for a relationship and that the fwb was like a business arrangement, which it is.
He told me a whole lot. I don’t judge people though. I usually just let them show me how they are. I don’t care about the past just how you will treat me now and in the future.
He keeps on telling me that he’s gonna hurt me and that he’s warning me. I just said it’s fine and I wouldn’t be hurt if he wasn’t into me. I mean what are the getting to know you stages for, right? I may not like him either lol.
Hahaha...I'm usually the same way but idc anymore...I'll even double text your ass. I have my moments still tho lol. That whole virgo doesn't want to feel like a bother so we won't reach out bs.
I don't judge either (well at least try not too because technically we all do to some extent) who tf am I to do so. Everyone is gonna have a past and unless you did some awful shit...like really awful shit...then it doesn't matter but I also like to psychoanalyze people. 🤷
Exactly....you might be the one breaking his heart.
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Girl I double, triple and quadruple text and I answer right away whether you’ve ignored me or not. I don’t pay attention to that. I just say everything at once as I’m thinking it. I think it makes up for me not reaching out first on most occasions.
I had to learn not to answer at lightning speeds though. Sometimes I use to answer as soon as the text came in and at that point, I realized the dude could tell I must’ve already been on my phone 🤦🏽♀️
Now I make myself wait at lest 1-2 minutes lol
Sag are the same way about feeling like a bother. I didn’t realize Virgos were like that too.
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