How do you pass a Scorpio's trustworthiness test? It's confusing

I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

Idk it can vary... like if someone doesn't give me a hard time I appreciate them more. But also when someone sets their standards.. thats hot too.

Soooooooo idk how to help lmao

I would say do what feels right to you.

Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

They don’t know! It comes naturally with fact of their birth. You can only act as you feeling to act. You can’t be figuring out a Scorpio. As I said before - if you can’t take it - end it! Don’t waste your time on figuring out something impossible to figure out.

It’s not evil - it’s as they are and they suffer from it as well. Doesn’t mean you have to join the club. Cancel your membership! Be free or forever hold your peace and don’t complain. ❤️

Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

Nothing you just described has to do with being trustworthy or "testing" for that trait in someone.

Frankly, I'm as lost as you are. You stated you cut off all contact to let him know you're not someone to play with, yet he's still occupying space in your mind.

The only test you failed was the one you set for yourself by going against your own standards.

#ScorpTest101

I'm a Scorpio, Gemini ascendant and Moon in Cancer and I don't do that kind of thing. I actually trust people too much. I think this person is being abusive to you.



Just be honest, loyal, treat us well... respect, kindness... you know? That is good for every relationship.

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

Wrong. Im Scorp sun cap venus. While i dont give everyone and their mothers a chance, i dont play hard to get when i like someone. I know what i bring to the table. Im reserved in the beginning when someone likes me, because i want to know whats to the person. Its not playing hard to get when you are looking for security and no games. I want to know who is on the level. But when i am all in, i am all in.

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it must be only the virgo venus ..because it's in the "fall" category. i dont see that too much with the other earth venuses (capricorn and taurus) ....the example of always needing to prove to them, and testing too much.

i find with scorpio venuses, is that they go all in and only if you break their trust/loyalty ect.

and all the talk about testing and testing, that's not what i found with scorpio venus and libra venus or sag venus (with scorpio sun) from just observations with couples, and one of them have these venuses.

Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

what are his/her placements? all this talking about testing and testing too much. it puts a real damper on relationships too much...



edit - your comment on him being all nice and then turning cold...something was up with you.

why didnt you just straight up asked him? all this crazy curiosity, i would have asked him what's wrong with him?

My tests are small, to see your reaction. You can't control it so don't even try.

Im not going to ignore you for a week to "test" you. Well I did ignore my ex for 3 days once because he pissed me off and I wanted to see how much he was into me by how much he tried to fix it. It wasn't a whole 3 days but very short answers and long space between replies

My tests are specific: questions or actions.

To see your reaction.

You are wondering why he went a week without talking to you, ask him.

We are blunt and honest

It might hurt, there might be someone/thing else because there is no way in hell that I would go a week without talking to someone im into.

So stop stressing about passing the tests and figure out what you really want to know.

A guy won't put you through "tests" if he genuinely wants to be with you, regardless of his sign.

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A guy won't put you through "tests" if he genuinely wants to be with you, regardless of his sign.

everyone has tests... My taurus ex tested me all of the time.. apparently, I failed lmao

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A guy won't put you through "tests" if he genuinely wants to be with you, regardless of his sign.

everyone has tests... My taurus ex tested me all of the time.. apparently, I failed lmao

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what kind of tests?

i dont trust internet dating... never did that, but if you meet and are going out, what type of testing do couples do? before they actually date? or during dating?

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Posted by Dolluxxe
A guy won't put you through "tests" if he genuinely wants to be with you, regardless of his sign.

everyone has tests... My taurus ex tested me all of the time.. apparently, I failed lmao

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Only insecure people put others through "tests"

The moment someone does that shit is the moment you move on.

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A guy won't put you through "tests" if he genuinely wants to be with you, regardless of his sign.

everyone has tests... My taurus ex tested me all of the time.. apparently, I failed lmao

Only insecure people put others through "tests"

The moment someone does that shit is the moment you move on.

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Insecure?.. maybe.

Right? ALWAYS.

Can't knock my hunch. Trustworthy people don't give me that hunch.

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Posted by wildflower
My tests are small, to see your reaction. You can't control it so don't even try.

Im not going to ignore you for a week to "test" you. Well I did ignore my ex for 3 days once because he pissed me off and I wanted to see how much he was into me by how much he tried to fix it. It wasn't a whole 3 days but very short answers and long space between replies

My tests are specific: questions or actions.

To see your reaction.

You are wondering why he went a week without talking to you, ask him.

We are blunt and honest

It might hurt, there might be someone/thing else because there is no way in hell that I would go a week without talking to someone im into.

So stop stressing about passing the tests and figure out what you really want to know.

You sound a lot like me lol I do same things when I'm interested in someone to test their intentions and amount of interest in me.

And also agreed on this case, this doesn't sound like a test at all, more likely just a shitty behavior and she should simply see what's going on with him

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Yea, people test people all of the time. Especially if you have trust issues.

I don't care, TEST ME

Im loyal and honest to a fault

Im not scared to be tested

If Im not for you then IM NOT FOR U, GOOD BYE

simple 🙂

Its just gauging people and their intent/interest

I won't make you jump through hoops bc its the little things that count

I must have won the Scorpio lottery, I never had to put up with any of this push-pull shit with mine.

Sometimes people just want their space to do their own thing. They like their independence.

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

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I'm a virgo venus and dammit I'm not like that lmaooo. If I like you I'm consistent. If not then there's something/someone else that has my attention. I've noticed male scorps play a shit ton of games. I can't deal with they ass but I just had to give my 2 cents lol

To the last one I said "Are you testing me cause I get that you do it and it's annoying". He said sorry. But it was more of a situation where he was asking questions that were traps.

Ok this is really confusing 🤦‍♀️

The truth is that I like this guy a lot but can't stand when he acts dettached. That's why I decided to be honest and let him know how he's making me feel.

I said: "It's been a while since you don't call me and it seems like you hate me. I really do appreciate when you reach out to me". And he said he's been busy but thinks about me. Mmmm 🤔 For some reason it doesn't sound too convincing to me.

Actions speak louder than words right?

I think i''m a good person and worthy of his trust but at this point I think it's best to withdraw from him to see how interested he is. Is this a good idea? Did my message sound like I care about him? How would you take that message?

By the way, I don't think I've done anything bad for him to act this way.

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

They don’t know! It comes naturally with fact of their birth. You can only act as you feeling to act. You can’t be figuring out a Scorpio. As I said before - if you can’t take it - end it! Don’t waste your time on figuring out something impossible to figure out.

It’s not evil - it’s as they are and they suffer from it as well. Doesn’t mean you have to join the club. Cancel your membership! Be free or forever hold your peace and don’t complain. ❤️

just because you cant figure it out it doesnt mean its impossible to figure it out. Scorps are pretty easy to figure out in my exp.

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Lmao

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

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nice one!all true because i have all that placement,scorp moon,venus cap,mars taurus😄but maybe thats my aqua sun hmm who knows,anyway if their inconsistent i look the other side i dont like inconsistency

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Evolved, mature and confident Scorpio woman will never text you. She will be straightforward, honest and direct with her needs, wants and expectations. If you ever lie to her that will be your end. Only insecure Scorpio tests and they are very dangerous. They can stalk you and make you scenes in public.

this is extremely accurate. TEXT not test. We always test, doesn't matter security level.. above post described what we analyze perfectly

But always straightforward, honest and direct... I think Scorpio men respond well to that.

So I think that because you like him, don't send him messages with saying how you haven't heard from him, and yo think he doesn't care etc. Instead, when he does message you be a bit distant as well until he is clearly putting effort to continue the conversation. When you don't react emotionally to a scorp, we try to figure out why LOL

IN PERSON, you can bring up the fact that you feel neglected. Never tell someone what they are or are not doing for you (demands) Not because he's a scorpio but because relationships that begin with unmet demands and expectations are doomed to fail. You like his energy, his attention, focus on that good part. Tell him that.. I would love it if someone would say that they saw something that reminded me of them and they miss my presence, then casually ask what I been up to and mention how they haven't heard from me. This tells me a) you miss me b) you will be ok when I take time for myself and space c) you think of me, yay! d) you want to know what I've been up to and most important e) you DID notice I was gone. Its all about approach, always.

Don't text him too often, he should carry the conversation forward. Scorps GO for what they want, so let him show you he wants you.

Also, yes actions speak louder than words but you have to remember that this is 2018 and people have social media as a huge distraction not to mention daily life. You guys are NOT in a relationship and actions speak louder than words needs to be an accumulation over time, not one or a couple of incidents.

For the record, I have never stalked or made a scene in public lmao, I hold myself to a much higher standard than that.

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Posted by angie2080
Ok this is really confusing 🤦‍♀️

The truth is that I like this guy a lot but can't stand when he acts dettached. That's why I decided to be honest and let him know how he's making me feel.

I said: "It's been a while since you don't call me and it seems like you hate me. I really do appreciate when you reach out to me". And he said he's been busy but thinks about me. Mmmm 🤔 For some reason it doesn't sound too convincing to me.

Actions speak louder than words right?

I think i''m a good person and worthy of his trust but at this point I think it's best to withdraw from him to see how interested he is. Is this a good idea? Did my message sound like I care about him? How would you take that message?

By the way, I don't think I've done anything bad for him to act this way.

Your message shows you are interested.

Scorps are all about mind games and the subtle things goings behind the surface. What you say and how you say it is important because it is an indicator of what you think but thats not enough at all. They'll take their time to analyze your actions and philosophy on all kind of situations, everything. Like when you are telling him a story about going out with your friends, every little detail of what you say, how you reacted to a specific situation, what you think about the reaction, how you felt when someone tried to buy you a drink, if you agreed or not... stuff like these will make him make conclusions and depending on whether he deems you trustworthy or not he will either put down his walls or not. Its a process.

And its totally their problem. If the scorp is self-conscious he might try not to project all his insecurities and problems concerning trust, but i havent really met scorps on that level.

Im Pluto and Scorp dominant, thank god my sun is not there.

In essence tho, if you show them you have integrity and you are a person of principles, that will make them feel more comfortable you aren't going to cheat or sth. And you cant pass these tests because they are for a lifetime. Even if you gained his trust, he will continue to analyze.

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THIS. These are the tests I was talking about..... ^^^^

you cannot avoid it.. sorry :/

once you do pass most of the interrogationing and prove yourself trustworthy and honest

loyalty and love do come.

I have bent over backwards for the people I love without any hesitation. I will give you my heart, my time, my money, my everything at any moment no doubt. I will always make it work even through fall outs and I will love you endlessly until you do something that is considered betrayal. That is the only moment I cannot continue with you, which goes back to... trustworthiness and honesty.

Its not so hard really... people are just a sack of dishonest liars and backstabbers lol thats why this is so hard for y'all lmaooo

Stop passing tests, and trying to fit their agenda. It never ends. Take this advice seriously.

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Posted by Toti
Evolved, mature and confident Scorpio woman will never text you. She will be straightforward, honest and direct with her needs, wants and expectations. If you ever lie to her that will be your end. Only insecure Scorpio tests and they are very dangerous. They can stalk you and make you scenes in public.

this is extremely accurate. TEXT not test. We always test, doesn't matter security level.. above post described what we analyze perfectly

But always straightforward, honest and direct... I think Scorpio men respond well to that.

So I think that because you like him, don't send him messages with saying how you haven't heard from him, and yo think he doesn't care etc. Instead, when he does message you be a bit distant as well until he is clearly putting effort to continue the conversation. When you don't react emotionally to a scorp, we try to figure out why LOL

IN PERSON, you can bring up the fact that you feel neglected. Never tell someone what they are or are not doing for you (demands) Not because he's a scorpio but because relationships that begin with unmet demands and expectations are doomed to fail. You like his energy, his attention, focus on that good part. Tell him that.. I would love it if someone would say that they saw something that reminded me of them and they miss my presence, then casually ask what I been up to and mention how they haven't heard from me. This tells me a) you miss me b) you will be ok when I take time for myself and space c) you think of me, yay! d) you want to know what I've been up to and most important e) you DID notice I was gone. Its all about approach, always.

Don't text him too often, he should carry the conversation forward. Scorps GO for what they want, so let him show you he wants you.

Also, yes actions speak louder than words but you have to remember that this is 2018 and people have social media as a huge distraction not to mention daily life. You guys are NOT in a relationship and actions speak louder than words needs to be an accumulation over time, not one or a couple of incidents.

For the record, I have never stalked or made a scene in public lmao, I hold myself to a much higher standard than that.

What if the other person has all the same hang-ups you do?

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What you mean?? Please elaborate 🙂

Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

lol why would you GAF - well that is me, IDGAF - I don't play games myself and I don't play games with anyone else. If you can't be straight up, no ice, then get the hell out my way ... good for you to do what you did !

I think you are getting the context of "testing" mixed up... Testing sounds much worse than it is.. If someone is proactively making you jump through hoops and setting up tests for you to fail -is one thing.

What I, personally, view as tests are basically observations of what you're about. Like if I am a family person, I will ask you family-specific questions and watch you glow up about your family. Or not. depending on your relationship with them. But if this particular subject means a lot to me, I will take it into high consideration if whether or not I continue to be with you. It can be positive and harmless.

But if you don't fit what I;m looking for, you just don't. We won't settle for false relationships going nowhere is why, this should tell you more about us and our loyalty and devotion to YOU.

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Anyway, I have found that if someone is testing you, you cannot pass the test. They've already decided you need testing for some reason, and that's not likely to change. Best to cut your losses and find someone who isn't suspicious of your intentions right from the beginning.

Especially if that comes from past baggage you not responsible for fix. It never goes good

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Posted by wildflower
I think you are getting the context of "testing" mixed up... Testing sounds much worse than it is.. If someone is proactively making you jump through hoops and setting up tests for you to fail -is one thing.

What I, personally, view as tests are basically observations of what you're about. Like if I am a family person, I will ask you family-specific questions and watch you glow up about your family. Or not. depending on your relationship with them. But if this particular subject means a lot to me, I will take it into high consideration if whether or not I continue to be with you. It can be positive and harmless.

But if you don't fit what I;m looking for, you just don't. We won't settle for false relationships going nowhere is why, this should tell you more about us and our loyalty and devotion to YOU.

I think everyone evaluates the other person they're dating as they go along. It takes time to know the other person. There's a difference between having genuine exchanges with someone to learn about them and intentionally doing things to get a reaction, like deciding you're not going to text for three days to see if they really like you or whatever.

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Yea exactly, however you don't know the backstory and I didn't ignore him for 3 days, I corrected myself, I did reply but took time in between. He let me down severely before that, so yes I wasn't sure if he was going to be the one for me. When a person you are in relationship lets you go to sleep pissed off at them for 3 days without reaching out to fix things, THAT is the problem. Not the fact I was resisting him for 3 days, don't get it twisted

The point is, you DONT need to succeed anyone expectations. It's either works or not. When someone "testing" you there is suspicion already by themselves you no need to deal with again. Screw themselves. Mature up and deal with their insecurity issues. You have the right for the same suspicion. But what is the point to start even anything from that ground?

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

Wrong. Im Scorp sun cap venus. While i dont give everyone and their mothers a chance, i dont play hard to get when i like someone. I know what i bring to the table. Im reserved in the beginning when someone likes me, because i want to know whats to the person. Its not playing hard to get when you are looking for security and no games. I want to know who is on the level. But when i am all in, i am all in.

I agree with you and I am a Scorpio too.

It's about the vibe. We just know who would fit in our head and heart.

Do anything but DO NOT bitch about others to us to get a brownie point. The first we would have is - " you are going to do that with me behind my back"

Honesty and sincerity goes a long way because if you don't bring that, we will find out. 😉

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Exactly, they don't understand...

How's it games? Are you reading anything I said?

Apparently not, it is to decide who's right for us and who's not. We all do it.

But Im sure telling a guy your demands and ultimatums when hes not even your man is the best response lol

Anyway good luck sis

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Posted by angie2080
I've heard a lot that Scorps make you go through tests before they decide to fully trust you. But I don't understand what reaction they expect.

For example, this Scorpio man stopped calling me after being super nice and suddenly acted like I was a stranger. It seems like a test because the day before he treated me so well.

When he called me again after a week of acting like this my reaction was telling him I felt that he hated me while he was doing that I appreciated when he was nice to me. Afterwards I cut off contact with him to let him know I'm not someone to play with. I was just being honest. Was he expecting this? Or for me to act like I didn't care?

Do Scorpios want you to put up with their shit and continue with them no matter what. Is that how you pass their tests? I'm confused about what type of reaction they want from you 🤷‍♀️

i'm beginning to see it's probably a Virgo venus thing. Lots of scorpio suns have virgo venus.

or even cap venus.

you have to go through hoops to get them kind of thing. it's worse when they have virgo venus/virgo mars,

or cap venus/cap mars, cap venus, taurus mars ect and you get the picture.

it's like you got to work hard to get them.

Wrong. Im Scorp sun cap venus. While i dont give everyone and their mothers a chance, i dont play hard to get when i like someone. I know what i bring to the table. Im reserved in the beginning when someone likes me, because i want to know whats to the person. Its not playing hard to get when you are looking for security and no games. I want to know who is on the level. But when i am all in, i am all in.

I agree with you and I am a Scorpio too.

It's about the vibe. We just know who would fit in our head and heart.

Do anything but DO NOT bitch about others to us to get a brownie point. The first we would have is - " you are going to do that with me behind my back"

Honesty and sincerity goes a long way because if you don't bring that, we will find out. 😉

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i honestly do think it's placements...

because i know of scorpio suns with leo mars, and a scorpio stellium with cancer moon and others like their placements, and they just chase and chase even though ..in all honesty, they were told by the other person that they don't want more than friendship. but i remember she wanted to prove it so badly.

it took years and years but finally she got married to an air sun male with water placements and he's the good fit for her because he wont leave her or do the unrequited thing. true story.

but that is for females.

for the males they chase, and they usually find the ones they want.

the ones that may more likely have insecurity problems have alot of earth and air i think...just a strong guess. because they need proof of love.

I think I'll just let him do the chasing if he's really interested but do you think he got the vibe that I like him? By saying he's attitude makes me think that he hates me but I appreciate when he's nice.

I just wanted to be honest and now it depends on him whether he wants go take things further or not. I think I've done my part.

Maaaaannn 🖕🏽 Him and move on! And by that I mean forget about him. It sounds like he’s using for a standby just in case one of the others don’t work out. Not trying to be Negative Nancy, but.... I’ve seen many UNEVOLVED MEN... (notice I say men not Scorp Men) do this ish. Now if he was truly interested you’d know it! He’d track you down like a predator seeking his prey regardless of his placements. Two sayings that rung true for this situation:

1. Love the man who loves you... more 😒

2. “I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things that aren’t meant for me...” anonymous



Get used to using your discernment to let things and people go who aren’t meant to be in your life. You’ll thank yourself once you look back and reflect the bs & possible pain you cut out of your life.

Posted by Toti
Evolved, mature and confident Scorpio woman will never text you. She will be straightforward, honest and direct with her needs, wants and expectations. If you ever lie to her that will be your end. Only insecure Scorpio tests and they are very dangerous. They can stalk you and make you scenes in public.

100% agree!!

Posted by Distilled
By cleaning your nails, being yourself, natural whatever it means to you

They notice EVverything.



Or not and clawing one when you've failed.

is this for real?

LOL

Posted by angie2080
I think I'll just let him do the chasing if he's really interested but do you think he got the vibe that I like him? By saying he's attitude makes me think that he hates me but I appreciate when he's nice.

I just wanted to be honest and now it depends on him whether he wants go take things further or not. I think I've done my part.

- I think I'll just let him do the chasing -

Why are you playing game with him ?

Posted by angie2080
I think I'll just let him do the chasing if he's really interested but do you think he got the vibe that I like him? By saying he's attitude makes me think that he hates me but I appreciate when he's nice.

I just wanted to be honest and now it depends on him whether he wants go take things further or not. I think I've done my part.

- I think I'll just let him do the chasing -

Why are you playing game with him ?

but if he ignores u for 1 week something was up

u cud have just texted him first after 3 days and see if he's ok.

any relationship is a 50/50 effort

just b'coz he's a man doesn't mean he needs to do 100 percent of the work.



just be real .