Hi I'm new here and would like to have some advice on how to approach this.
Ive known a Scorpio guy for 8 years. We were seeing eachother for a year, but not officially. After that I met someone else because he kept disappearing.
We have been both in a relationships in those 8 years and now I'm at a point I know he's probably the one I want to grow old with.
The reason it didn't "work out" before is because he said he didn't like himself back then, was selfish and a hypocrite. He apologized for that and is trying to be the best version of himself he can be. He also told me that in the two previous relationships he couldnt talk with them, as with me he feels he can. I know things his childhood friends don't even know (ive kept seeing his friends all those years, not him, only once/twice a year or so through text)
Hes honest about seeing other people, but doesn't want a relationship with them and is kind of waiting for me to meet with him again.
He knows I'm scared to meet with him again. Because, he just knows. We both feel when we are together we're in this bubble between time and space where we forget everyone around us and talk about anything and everything. Ive never met anyone like him.
He says he's the problem because he has fear of commitment, but does see a future with me...?!
I'm so confused...
Should I go invest my time, energy and heart in him?
Sorry for this very long topic. Thanks to any one willing to read this message.
You seem soo nice, I think just be careful, don’t invest in anyone unless you are 100% sure. And from experience, I think some Scorpios are good and saying what people want to hear.. remember actions always speak louder than words. I would consider testing him a few times before making your decision. You seem lovely and so does he, but are there people out there that are really that amazing? Just wondering if you have rose tinted glasses on.. but I’ve been dealt a bad hand with women in life so my judgment could be wrong and I don’t want to seem negative because of that. I would just say be careful when investing in anyone, put yourself first, always.
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The Scorpio dude lost my trust.
Now his trying so hard to gain it back and suddenly opening up to me with his past stories.
Let me explain why he lost my trust in the first place.
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Ive known a Scorpio guy for 8 years. We were seeing eachother for a year, but not officially. After that I met someone else because he kept disappearing.
We have been both in a relationships in those 8 years and now I'm at a point I know he's probably the one I want to grow old with.
The reason it didn't "work out" before is because he said he didn't like himself back then, was selfish and a hypocrite. He apologized for that and is trying to be the best version of himself he can be. He also told me that in the two previous relationships he couldnt talk with them, as with me he feels he can. I know things his childhood friends don't even know (ive kept seeing his friends all those years, not him, only once/twice a year or so through text)
Hes honest about seeing other people, but doesn't want a relationship with them and is kind of waiting for me to meet with him again.
He knows I'm scared to meet with him again. Because, he just knows. We both feel when we are together we're in this bubble between time and space where we forget everyone around us and talk about anything and everything. Ive never met anyone like him.
He says he's the problem because he has fear of commitment, but does see a future with me...?!
I'm so confused...
Should I go invest my time, energy and heart in him?
Sorry for this very long topic. Thanks to any one willing to read this message.
His placements:
Pisces Moon
Libra Venus
Scorpio Mars
Scorpio Merc
Cap Rising