I realize my scorpion friend will have many women in his life to care for him

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Itssumu91 on Saturday, May 12, 2018 and has 12 replies.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.

I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91
So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

What are your placements?

I am a scorpio,we are complicated,u never know what we need,maybe he needs u click to expand

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Didn't get you what you mean to say??

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Just be a good friend and be happy for him that he’s getting ass on the reg.

Yes I will be I wont bother at all..

Well I'.m cancerian so maybe it can be my fault too.. Because we are overthinkers. So maybe I overrhought about our bond.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91
So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

What are your placements?

I am a scorpio,we are complicated,u never know what we need,maybe he needs u click to expand

click to expand

My sun is Cancer... Moon is leo... Rising is Capricorn.. Mercury is leo... Mars is leo... Venus is Virgo

Is that valid information??

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani
Martyr life.

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I get that you were venting and dealing with the breakup, it read like you were seeing yourself as a martyr.

" I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain..
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone. "
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Yep that's right...

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91
So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

What are your placements?

I am a scorpio,we are complicated,u never know what we need,maybe he needs u click to expand

My sun is Cancer... Moon is leo... Rising is Capricorn.. Mercury is leo... Mars is leo... Venus is Virgo

Is that valid information??
click to expand

Yes😃

What are his placements? click to expand

click to expand

Okay.. I dont know that I just know his sun is scorpio... I cannot even ask him cause we dont talk that much... 🙂

But what you meant by 'may be he needs u'

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91
So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

What are your placements?

I am a scorpio,we are complicated,u never know what we need,maybe he needs u click to expand

My sun is Cancer... Moon is leo... Rising is Capricorn.. Mercury is leo... Mars is leo... Venus is Virgo

Is that valid information??
click to expand

Yes😃

What are his placements? click to expand

Okay.. I dont know that I just know his sun is scorpio... I cannot even ask him cause we dont talk that much...

But what you meant by 'may be he needs u' click to expand

I mean that u dont know what he needs
U mentioned he has a lot of girls around but with Scorpios everything is under the ssurface😃 click to expand

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Under surface you mean secretive?

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8 Years

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Neno2

Posted by Itssumu91
So been in good bond of friendship since year now with this scorpion guy. And now I will be out of it. No I wont be breaking up friendship but I will pull out my feelings and care for him.

I saw it today he will have many women in his life to care for him then why shall I waste my feelings when they were gone unnoticed.

Well due to such good bond between us I did had feelings for him. I was attracted towards him and I misunderstood his behaviour of being humble, caring and opening up his secrets to me made me think that he was intrested in me. I was stupid. Guess he was never. But today we dont even have that essence in our friendship, there are walls been created dont know by whom by him or me. We are loosing up. Apart from this today We all friends met together and today I realised the girl in our feiend circle who had breakup last 2 week before, was trying to get close to him. Ofcorse I was jealous! She even pulled me aside by taking my hand whenever my scorp friend used to be beside me. And she would be there next to him. Today I noticed how she caress his hair and head... Just like I used to do long time back while flirting with him. It did hurt me. The way she talked to him was just like the way she talked with her ex. I got to know now from today onwards I wont be there for him ever. He will have womens in his life; after all he does got that charm. Even I was one of them but I felt for him because of his pain.. His humble nature.. His coldness... Not at all because he got that attractive personality.
I will move on... Wishing not to get attached with anyone.

What are your placements?

I am a scorpio,we are complicated,u never know what we need,maybe he needs u click to expand

My sun is Cancer... Moon is leo... Rising is Capricorn.. Mercury is leo... Mars is leo... Venus is Virgo

Is that valid information??
click to expand

Yes😃

What are his placements? click to expand

Okay.. I dont know that I just know his sun is scorpio... I cannot even ask him cause we dont talk that much...

But what you meant by 'may be he needs u' click to expand

I mean that u dont know what he needs
U mentioned he has a lot of girls around but with Scorpios everything is under the ssurface😃 click to expand

Under surface you mean secretive? click to expand

I mean be direct,u never know until u ask him click to expand

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Ohh okay.. But its of no use.. Maybe I m overthinking... To will not take chance 🙂