@Shruikan
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
I don't care
Understanding Personal Boundaries in Astrology
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So where were we?
I was telling about that time in kindergarden when..
Gah!!!! It's shit like that!! I can't stand it!!!
It's just... there's this lady here at work that does it daily. Every time I see her she tells the same stories. THE SAME STORIES!!! I didn't care the first time, or the tenth time, or the hundredth time and I still don't care now!!! I've even told her I don't care and she still tells me anyway!
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.
I communicate fine with people. I've never had trouble communicating with friends and making conversation. It doesn't matter where I shift the conversation. She still finds a way to jump back into the stories she's already told. I've never met anyone that does this. It's incredibly frustrating.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
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But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
What about severed horse heads on the pillow?
Does that count?
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Are you trying to communicate with the person that owns the bed? Or with the horse? Either way, yes it counts.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
I was being facetious. 🙂
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I know. I was only playing. Damn... maybe I do suck at communicating. 😛
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
lol...stay clear of aries moons.we LOVE telling stories.
the tiniest thing will set off a memory and we just have to SHARE it or the world will self-destruct in 5.3 seconds if we don't. 😛
+1 billion
We get away with it because people really find us interesting. But they will bitch to high heavens that they don't.
Severed heads of horses that were happy are how I let servers know they did a good job.
Posted by TaurusNikki
eats a muffin
She ain't bluffin' either.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
Actually...this comment is irrelevant cuz you're communicating just fine.
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Who's communicating just fine? Her or myself? You're not communicating this very well.
Posted by TaurusNikki
eats a muffinShe ain't bluffin' either.
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Muahahahaha
Posted by DonAmanMarat
You guys need to learn the art of run, duck and cover...(just avoid people you don't like) They get the picture after some time.
I don't have that option. I work with the lady. I have no where to go. She just comes in my classroom when I'm on conference.
It's that Scorpio stare
He made her gravitate toward him
Dial down your damn psychic stare, it's your fault
I don't even have the cool scorpio eyes. Mine are just black and generic. :/
I do let her ramble. I haven't been mean to her for all of those reasons. I'm just venting here to keep from saying something to keep from saying something to her. I don't wanna be a dick, but it's driving me insane.
Going off this subject, I also hate when people follow me around. Like I say I need the restroom and they walk me there and wait to walk back. Or when I get coffee they go too and don't get any. The fuck?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
lol...stay clear of aries moons.we LOVE telling stories.
the tiniest thing will set off a memory and we just have to SHARE it or the world will self-destruct in 5.3 seconds if we don't. 😛
+1 billion
We get away with it because people really find us interesting. But they will bitch to high heavens that they don't.
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Gem Moon listening to an Aries Moon:
....😄
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
if you tell her about the severed horse heads....I guarantee she'll stop 😛
I met this really annoying girl that liked me once. And she would follow me around never left me alone. I tried everything to get her to stop. Finally I told her, "you have such beautiful eyes. I just wanna cut them out and put them in a jar and put the jar next to my bed so I could look at them all the time."
She stopped talking to me after that. Mission accomplished.
Posted by Rabbit
Ummm...
It was my last resort. I was desperate.
Posted by Rabbit
Remember...we're fixed-as-fuck signs. It's our responsibility to recognize our stubbornness and realize we can't enforce our views upon er'body else.Sometimes we just have to bend a little.
Very true. I just have little patience today. It's been three years of the same stories and stuff. I haven't said anything to her because I don't want to be mean, but it get tiring.
LOL!!! She was once 3 years younger then me. Now she's about 20 years older. Magic!!!
The lady now doesn't hound me romantically. She's like 20 years older and married. I think she just likes talking about herself to me. I think it's like TS said. I think she likes that I listen and don't interrupt her.
Scorpio= runs away
Posted by Rabbit
Oh FFS with the stare shit again.
Get over it doughnut
You got the stare, deal with it
Lmao
Posted by Rabbit
Oh FFS with the stare shit again.Get over it doughnut
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LMAO!!! Not sure why this made laugh so much, but I almost died.
*me
Posted by Rabbit
Yes...I stare those pastries down something fierce.
Pastries turn into total sluts for Rabbit.
Posted by Shruikan
Scorpio= runs away
That usually does the trick
She'll either run or rape you
Good Luck, let the force be with you
*whistles*
Yeah. Don't mess with the pastries already covered in cream. They're thirsty. A classy croissant you can take home to mom for dinner.
Posted by Shruikan
Scorpio= runs awayThat usually does the trick
She'll either run or rape you
Good Luck, let the force be with you
Funny thing is it would be a win-win situation according to how OP feeling at the time.
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Point taken, I'll drink to that and take a doughnut to go, muahahahaha
Posted by Shruikan
People keep insisting on telling me things about themselves and I really don't care. If I don't ask you a question about you, I probably don't care. I hate it when people decide they're important enough to tell me their entire life story, every time we talk!!!
Yes, this happens all the time with this one particular Gemini I know.
Quite frankly I give zero fucks about what she has to say about this or that unless it is something with substance or importance.
Sometimes I am too patient for my own good.
Wow a Scorpio being patient
Omg..... the end of the world must be near
Posted by Rabbit
*needs to invent Gemini repellant spray*
I would buy in bulk.
rofl....Rabbit, you don't know gems well if you think that would drive them away.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
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I thought you mentionned in another thread that you and your Libra girlfriend have communication issues?
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
I thought you mentionned in another thread that you and your Libra girlfriend have communication issues?
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In case you haven't realized by now, Scorps have communication issues with all their partners.
They aren't big on words..it means jack shit to them. Which is why dating air signs is the stuff of nightmares for this sign.
joking..a little.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
I thought you mentionned in another thread that you and your Libra girlfriend have communication issues?
In case you haven't realized by now, Scorps have communication issues with all their partners.
They aren't big on words..it means jack shit to them. Which is why dating air signs is the stuff of nightmares for this sign.
joking..a little.
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LOL ... Well, honestly, I love communicating with a male Scorpio with whom I've become close. Mainly because we DON'T talk a lot. He is very skilled with non-verbal communication and I'm fascinated by how well we understand each other and get things across without lots of talking. I like taking a break from all the chatter and just being quiet with him.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
I thought you mentionned in another thread that you and your Libra girlfriend have communication issues?
In case you haven't realized by now, Scorps have communication issues with all their partners.
They aren't big on words..it means jack shit to them. Which is why dating air signs is the stuff of nightmares for this sign.
joking..a little.click to expand
lmao!! there's truth to this. the watery drenched scorpio and the airy fairy air sign. it's a nightmare to behold. one too chatty and can't hear his/her own voice and the other sitting there with dark sunglasses brooding and taking maybe 1% of the convo he/her expunged is at least suitable for discussion.
It cracks me up when I see Scorps in the presence of extreme chattiness.
You can literally see and feel their pain lol.
For whatever reason, that makes me wanna talk more.
Lol! Air signs talk so freaking much!!!
I'm a watersign so it gets so annoying sometimes. I'm a good listener, but there's gotta be a limit
Posted by Rabbit
Severed horse heads are how I let servers know i didn't like their slow service-_-
Hey, hey now. Falada needn't suffer because you had to wait for extra lemon wedges or a refill.
Posted by Shruikan
Going off this subject, I also hate when people follow me around. Like I say I need the restroom and they walk me there and wait to walk back. Or when I get coffee they go too and don't get any. The fuck?
I don't know...I'm a Gem and I also don't give a crap what most people want to talk about. I'm a good listener, and have empathetic facial expressions, so people can't seem to leave me alone. On my first day of my new job, I got cornered by 3 different people who told me all kinds of intense, personal things about their lives...things I could never DREAM of telling a stranger. I listen to make people feel better, but it would be a lie to say I care at all. Is it the Scorpio rising?
Posted by DonAmanMarat
What makes you thinks that anyone cares about what YOU care or don't care about? Its irrelevant. Take the conversation and shift it elsewhere...its all about communication skills, whether you have em or not.what's irrelevant is this entire comment.
everyone knows scorps don't have communication skills. 😛
But... but... I thought I was a good communicator. 😢 Insane, yes, but I thought I communicated that with everyone just fine.
I thought you mentionned in another thread that you and your Libra girlfriend have communication issues?
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We physically communicate just fine. Our issues stem from her doing something and I can't figure why she'd do that. And she can't figure out why I do what I do. And we talk about it, and we still just don't get it. I seem irrational to her, but totally rational to me. She seems irrational to me, but it's totally rational to her.
Posted by Piscescrazy91
@Original PosterSo what it they're like your friend or something?
You still wouldnt listen to them?
Friends are a very different story. I hardly know her. We've worked together three years, but we don't see each other every day. But over the three years, every time we see each other, every single time, she tells me the exact same 3 stories. The exact same. Nothing different. Just the same stuff. It's maddening.
Posted by Shruikan
Going off this subject, I also hate when people follow me around. Like I say I need the restroom and they walk me there and wait to walk back. Or when I get coffee they go too and don't get any. The fuck?click to expand
Good idea. I'm starting a burn book. 😛
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People keep insisting on telling me things about themselves and I really don't care. If I don't ask you a question about you, I probably don't care. I hate it when people decide they're important enough to tell me their entire life story, every time we talk!!!