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I Hate Male Scorps!!! or The Initiation Thread
Posted by BullGem
Initiation thread?
Is the aim here to teach male scorp haters how to understand them and eventually love them? 🙂
Exactly. 😉
A place for the ladies let out all their scorpionic frustrations.
Let's move away from the hate... and learn how to love their poor ol' Psycho-Scorpio.
It's really NOT his fault. I don't remember asking to be a Scorpio. I doubt they do either. Well... maybe we did.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
How long do you think it will work, Mr F??
I don't know. I'll it up to the women who have problems with their Scorpio Beau and or Scorpio whatever.
I am not a gossiper but what are some of the problems you've heard and what were the remedies that did
and didn't work.
That sort of thing.
Sorry if I am not makin' much sense at the moment.
I am sleeping while typing, again. I have to stay awake as long as I can so I can fall asleep.
Anyway, you guys are good at keeping a thread alive.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Scorpio is the sign of automatic karmic payback. Probably paying back karma from past lives as well. Toooootally sucks.
Honestly, Cancers and Pisces will continually complain about how hard it is to be their sign. All those emotions, blah,blah, blah. I think the hardest of the waters is Scorpio... hands down. BUT.. you rarely hear Scorpios (on this site) bitch about how hard it is to be them. It's like you guys readily except your evil, sadistic ways. 😛
Pluto's karmic payback runs lifetimes, generations too. You rarely find one Scorpio or Scorp placement in a family. Once again.. all or nothing. I'm the last carrier in my family.. my kids have no Pluto. My Scorpio riddled brother... is another story. His kids have an uphill battle.
I honestly believe my ex Scorpio came into my life (twice) to wake all my Pluto up. Change is a coming girl!!! and I thank him for it. He wasn't a grey lizard either, (praise peanuts) He did mess me up a bit .. but isn't that the whole point? Got me out the other side.
Posted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it before
this, this, this, and this...
i have a lot of respect for a Scorpio man who understands what he needs. i'm anti-hate, more weary love from afar for my Male Scorp buddies. I can look at them with tenderness while thinking, "so glad i'm not in deep with you"
all scorp males should wear "Must Love Crazy" pins for perspective partners. 🙂
lol @ Sinea O'Connor song. LOvE it! (and love her too)
*Sinead
Posted by capgirl75Posted by Jynja
Oh MrFirebird, how you've missed some truly sensational ones. Your thread title is so reminiscent of one that came through here onces.
She was a member called "CapricornSun." She thought she'd netted a Scorpio, but it turned out poor Pluto boy was not out swimming.
I must have cried for her sometimes. She was so distraught!
That chick had serious anger issues. lol.
"pluto boy was not out swimming??" ...huh?..What's this story about??
Posted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it beforeclick to expand
Check-check-check- x10! EEzy-Peezy! Thank the stars for my Scorp moon. 😛
Posted by BullGem
Well, I have done something that helped me when my scorp was in a dark mood.
I got out of the bedroom, heading to the kitchen. And to get to the latter you have to pass through the living room. So when I walked in, I could sense the dark, dark vibes he emitted 😛 and the look he gave me was telling enough.
So I LITERALLY tip-toed my way to the kitchen. That got a chuckle out of him 🙂
It may not work with other scorps, with it worked with him.
..Good Girl..🙂 One word wasn't even needed.
What Scorp doesn't like food?? OF course it would work for others..add in a bedroom marathon and we're good to go!!
Posted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it before
LOVE this!
right there... plain as day. Ladies with scorp man issues... feast your eyes and be enlightened. particularly the first line.
may i add my own... CreepyPant's Scorpio-Man Care Instructions:
be your own woman.
take care of your scorpio. he will definitely take care of you tenfold.
own lingerie and thigh highs
own a sense of humor
touch him, be physically affectionate
be healthy... keep that stamina up ladies!
if your scorpio is in a mood, simply be helpful in some way to lighten him up, laugh, keep him positive and direct focus to productivity
in case your scorpio is sick, feed your scorpio hot soup/bread, emergen-c, and let him lay undisturbed in bed tuned into espn
Caution:
dont have your head up your ass and kindly remind your scorpio if he needs to remove his from his own butt
if your scorpio is being foolish and has upset you, refrain from bitching... if there are issues, then approach him with solutions
"buttons aren't toys" ... unless they are on a toy.
Posted by capgirl75Posted by Jynja
Oh MrFirebird, how you've missed some truly sensational ones. Your thread title is so reminiscent of one that came through here onces.
She was a member called "CapricornSun." She thought she'd netted a Scorpio, but it turned out poor Pluto boy was not out swimming.
I must have cried for her sometimes. She was so distraught!
That chick had serious anger issues. lol.click to expand
i'm convinced she's wasnt a cap
Mr. Firebird time check.
5 hours sleep. That's pretty good. 🙂
5 hours sleep. That's pretty good. 🙂
*she -_-
Posted by BullGemPosted by TAURUSbellePosted by BullGem
Well, I have done something that helped me when my scorp was in a dark mood.
I got out of the bedroom, heading to the kitchen. And to get to the latter you have to pass through the living room. So when I walked in, I could sense the dark, dark vibes he emitted 😛 and the look he gave me was telling enough.
So I LITERALLY tip-toed my way to the kitchen. That got a chuckle out of him 🙂
It may not work with other scorps, with it worked with him.
..Good Girl..🙂 One word wasn't even needed.
What Scorp doesn't like food?? OF course it would work for others..add in a bedroom marathon and we're good to go!!
lol, thanks. I wasn't even going to make food or anything. It was the act of literally tip-toeing around him that got him to laugh a little and get him out of his funk.click to expand
this is why i love taureans.
Posted by exoskeleton
damn good list, creepy. esp about being positive and affectionate. 🙂
and the last bit - what kind of buttons are you talking about? 😛
why... buttons on a remote control car of course. what else would i be talking about lol 😉
Posted by BullGemPosted by TAURUSbellePosted by BullGem
Well, I have done something that helped me when my scorp was in a dark mood.
I got out of the bedroom, heading to the kitchen. And to get to the latter you have to pass through the living room. So when I walked in, I could sense the dark, dark vibes he emitted 😛 and the look he gave me was telling enough.
So I LITERALLY tip-toed my way to the kitchen. That got a chuckle out of him 🙂
It may not work with other scorps, with it worked with him.
..Good Girl..🙂 One word wasn't even needed.
What Scorp doesn't like food?? OF course it would work for others..add in a bedroom marathon and we're good to go!!
lol, thanks. I wasn't even going to make food or anything. It was the act of literally tip-toeing around him that got him to laugh a little and get him out of his funk.click to expand
haha!! too funny. Its awesome being able to understand the other without an explanation being given. Automatically in tune.
Posted by DazedScorp
Prostate? Push it! Push it real good!!
lol "listen and be attentive"
...ya heard what the man said
Posted by xdimplez
creepy love your input...but dont give emergen-c! you know how much of a bitch it is to do a dip stick on urine that freggin neon colored! just load them up with vitamin c the regular way. orange juice to the rescue!
we by in bulk, split packs and have never gotten as far as the need for a urinalysis...whew. being sick sucks. it's obviously the football that does the trick anyways 😉
I love male Scorpios because my dad was amazing. 🙂
IMHO, this thread needs more customers.
Posted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it before
All Of This!
Posted by BullGemPosted by Flavia
I love male Scorpios because my dad was amazing. 🙂
I think male scorps would make great dads. Dunno why? My scorp is a sweetie with kids, they just love him. My cap friend with scorp moon is also great with them.
Scorps or scorp placements just have a way with kids. 🙂click to expand
My daughters would disagree.
But then.... they were brainwashed.
Posted by BullGem
ouch...sorry.
It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome.
It's when the custodial parent chooses teach her kids to love a lie and hate the truth.
I hate lies with a purple passion.
Posted by BullGemPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by BullGem
ouch...sorry.
It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome.
It's when the custodial parent chooses teach her kids to love a lie and hate the truth.
I hate lies with a purple passion.
I--don't know what to say to that. My gem moon is comin' up empty.click to expand
Young Lady,
It's ok. It's my cross to bear.
Posted by xxnightbynight
God I love you water signs.
This one goes out to all the angels that flew too close to the ground into my life and had to leave.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by BullGem
ouch...sorry.
It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome.
It's when the custodial parent chooses teach her kids to love a lie and hate the truth.
I hate lies with a purple passion.click to expand
Sorry Firebird.
Good thing The Truth NEVER dies and can't be hidden despite the attempts to bury it with - lies.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by MrFirebirdPosted by BullGem
ouch...sorry.
It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome.
It's when the custodial parent chooses teach her kids to love a lie and hate the truth.
I hate lies with a purple passion.
Sorry Firebird.
Good thing The Truth NEVER dies and can't be hidden despite the attempts to bury it with - lies.click to expand
That's right, TAURUSbelle.
Now, what I say, is a general statement of "food for thought" for anyone willing to listen.
For limitation of space and time, the whole story cannot be told, but I'll try.
Indeed, The Truth will endure forever.
The trouble is as long as the children believe and love the lie, they cannot know The Truth.
Sadly, and depending on the circumstances, they can believe the lie into their adult years.
They go through life, however long, hating that parent, until the truth sets them free.
In the meantime, it is living hell for the hated parent. For many of them, life and joy no longer
exists. There is no peace, no comfort. The desire to live wanes. And questions of "why was I ever born?"
to a resolute "I'm sorry that I was ever born" and some people, however well intentioned, will say.. "oh don't say
things like that", and others, who know nothing, brush it off with "You're so depressing, go kill yourself", "Your fault, you deserved it" and many other cruel and hateful things spoken out of ignorance. So many things, the afflicted may endure, being judged and condemned by others cannot begin to truly understand.
True Love is is not tested when times are good. It is when they are hard. True love is faithful, true love perseveres
as it is patient and endures through the darkest coldest hours and the most incomprehensible and unspeakable torments.
True Love is NOT for the weak, but for the strong. THEY are the ones that fight that hate, jealousies and the temptation to murder, adulteries, suicide, and so much more. Through thick and invisible thin, THEY are the ones who's love has
been truly tested and tried as gold in the fire.
I am so utterly convinced of that.
The worst encounter I ever had with a scorp male was my supervisor at a previous work place. I shall explain why he proved himself to be a dick!
The electricity went out at work one day so we couldn't do anything and after a phone call to council to find out how long it was going to be out, we learnt it would be at least three hours before the power came back on.
So we were told we could leave the office and that we could come back when the electricity came back on.
I specifically asked him to text me and let me know as soon as he knew the power was back on so I could make my way back to work.
Luckily, I was tight with the girl I sat next to (a spectacular Leo lass), and asked her to let me know when the power was back on (she was going to lunch with the other team members, and I was going to meet friends at the beach)
I sent the Scorp texts while I was away asking him if the power was back on and I got a no answer and texted again a while later, with no reply.
thankfully the Leo called me and said they were on their way back to the office as the power was back on. NO MESSAGES FROM THE SCORP SUPERVISOR TO SAY POWER WAS BACK ON AFTER I SPECIFICALLY ASKED HIM TO LET ME KNOW! If it weren't for that Leo having my back I would have not returned to work for much longer.
So, I get back to the office and he proceeds to PMS all over me because I took so long coming back to the office. I said to him -- I sent you several messages asking you if the power was back on and I asked you to let me know so I knew when to come back.
He went to take his phone out his pocket, but changed his mind, left his phone in his pocket and merely said "I didn't get them."
Clear as day LIE and clear as day WANTED ME TO GET INTO SHIT!
Fucking cock!
The electricity went out at work one day so we couldn't do anything and after a phone call to council to find out how long it was going to be out, we learnt it would be at least three hours before the power came back on.
So we were told we could leave the office and that we could come back when the electricity came back on.
I specifically asked him to text me and let me know as soon as he knew the power was back on so I could make my way back to work.
Luckily, I was tight with the girl I sat next to (a spectacular Leo lass), and asked her to let me know when the power was back on (she was going to lunch with the other team members, and I was going to meet friends at the beach)
I sent the Scorp texts while I was away asking him if the power was back on and I got a no answer and texted again a while later, with no reply.
thankfully the Leo called me and said they were on their way back to the office as the power was back on. NO MESSAGES FROM THE SCORP SUPERVISOR TO SAY POWER WAS BACK ON AFTER I SPECIFICALLY ASKED HIM TO LET ME KNOW! If it weren't for that Leo having my back I would have not returned to work for much longer.
So, I get back to the office and he proceeds to PMS all over me because I took so long coming back to the office. I said to him -- I sent you several messages asking you if the power was back on and I asked you to let me know so I knew when to come back.
He went to take his phone out his pocket, but changed his mind, left his phone in his pocket and merely said "I didn't get them."
Clear as day LIE and clear as day WANTED ME TO GET INTO SHIT!
Fucking cock!
Posted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it before
^^^Agree.
Posted by PPPosted by exoskeleton
is this a cult? 😛
how to love a (scorp) man from my experience:
- take an interest in who he is and what he's about; listen and be attentive
- have thick skin and be relatively cool about shit; don't let everything set you off
- respect his need for space and respect his privacy + discretion about certain things
- be his ride or die and best friend; loyalty and devotion
- have self-respect, class, grace, and patience
- don't give him a reason to be jealous/suspicious of you; set his mind right and reassure him when needed
- when he's talking bullshit, tell him he's talking bullshit; don't be a doormat
- be expressive about your feelings; let in him to parts of yourself most don't see
- keep it real/honest always
- throw down the pussy like he's never had it before
All Of This!click to expand
Needed this..............
A TON of Scorpios in my life. Love them.
From what I've seen (on the male side, anyway):
- They tend to have "a thing" that they devote themselves to and then use proficiency in that thing as a basis for their superiority above others.
- They have an internally set list of "higher values" that they live by, expect you (as their friend, family member, etc) to live by as well. Otherwise, they think that you need to be "corrected" or they simply ignore you.
- They are obsessed with dominance. Mainly, this appears to be a function of the deep rooted insecurity that I've seen in each one that I've known. However, bring this up and they will attack..just be warned. lol
- No matter how good you get at the "thing" that they have yourself, you can never be "as good" as the Scorpio, because they would lose the superiority and dominance in the situation.
- They "test" the hell out of everyone...and have no idea that it pisses everyone off and ruins relationships.
--
The only way I've found to deal with them is to be a good friend, live up to what you should (as all friends should, anyway) and just ignore the dominance games that they play. Refuse to be drawn in. Literally just walk away from the situation. They will eventually try to manipulate you by being nice to you (they have to really like you to do this), but you will know to expect it and see things from a mile away.
It's worth it. Scorpios are awesome. If they could find a way out of that deep insecurity and know that they really are enough without the dominance and superiority complexes, they would be a near perfect sign.
As far as women...I just have one word: SEXY.
From what I've seen (on the male side, anyway):
- They tend to have "a thing" that they devote themselves to and then use proficiency in that thing as a basis for their superiority above others.
- They have an internally set list of "higher values" that they live by, expect you (as their friend, family member, etc) to live by as well. Otherwise, they think that you need to be "corrected" or they simply ignore you.
- They are obsessed with dominance. Mainly, this appears to be a function of the deep rooted insecurity that I've seen in each one that I've known. However, bring this up and they will attack..just be warned. lol
- No matter how good you get at the "thing" that they have yourself, you can never be "as good" as the Scorpio, because they would lose the superiority and dominance in the situation.
- They "test" the hell out of everyone...and have no idea that it pisses everyone off and ruins relationships.
--
The only way I've found to deal with them is to be a good friend, live up to what you should (as all friends should, anyway) and just ignore the dominance games that they play. Refuse to be drawn in. Literally just walk away from the situation. They will eventually try to manipulate you by being nice to you (they have to really like you to do this), but you will know to expect it and see things from a mile away.
It's worth it. Scorpios are awesome. If they could find a way out of that deep insecurity and know that they really are enough without the dominance and superiority complexes, they would be a near perfect sign.
As far as women...I just have one word: SEXY.
It is good to see you Mr.F ...
IMO, Scorpio women cannot ever truly hate Scorpio men even if they are the worst of the worst.
IMO, Scorpio women cannot ever truly hate Scorpio men even if they are the worst of the worst.
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