okay, do you notice how whatever you say and do , it is taken to the tenth power. meaning it is taking extremely seriously. But other people can do as they please, i.e., flake out, not return your calls, not talk to you, etc, and it's okay, get over it in other words. This happens to me often. I am real , as real as can be , and honest. Now I censor what I say , I am not foolish, I know how to balance my ID AND SUPER EGO. =freud theory. it seems that people are always hurt by the little things, such as answering the phone and not know who it is that is calling or , forgetting a person's name. but when these things happen to me , i let it go , or at least i don't thrive off of it. please give me feed back, sympathetic feed back
