I wish you guys were easier to understand

Lol, I'm back with my problems. 😄 Haha.
I've noticed this particular forum gets a loooot of threads. 😛 Popular, popular.

Yeah, it's about my ex again. Crycry. 😛
Anyway, I'm moving on. Rather slowly, but still moving, nonetheless. The urge to be with him shrinks a little more and more every few days. I've gone on a date, can't say it was very good or that it makes me happy, but at least I got out there, haha. Can't say that I really want anyone else right now, though. I think I just have a thing with being alone.

Anyway, this Scorpio and I stayed friends to an extent. JUST friends, no hooking up or trying to get back together, I made that very clear to him. Texting only a little bit. I'm always acting very friendly towards him, but now he just acts pretty coldly, not keeping up a conversation, when he initiated it in the first place. Seems like he only talks when he's got nothing better to do. He pokes me on Facebook, but won't add me again, and I inquired him about that. He said he didn't want to, and I asked if we were friends, he said "Guess not." I asked why, and he just avoided it. He does that a LOT now, avoids things by changing the subject. So then I asked him to be nice, he said he was. And I asked him to be nice like before, and he said no. But I was being nice like before, because I thought we were friends, and this time he said we are friends. I don't understand him. xD Then he let the conversation die.

Later, we were having a nice, friendly conversation. 🙂 It was great, like we were friends again. He was jokingly asking me to buy him something, and I just said no. And then he pulled out a "But don't you love me?" thing and it caught me by surprise, but I brushed it off. Still, he seemed very happy. Then he suddenly stopped with the conversation, so I said good night, happy that at least now we could be friends. 🙂

Hours later, at like, 2am, he sent me a text saying "I want you in like 5 different ways. :/" I woke up around 8, so six hours later. It was a very surprising text, so I asked him "What?" And he still hasn't responded.
I think I've noticed his revenge, trying to hurt me emotionally, he told me that a "really cute girl" asked him out, but it didn't phase me. He later told me he wasn't going, though, so I'm wondering why his revenge isn't going all the way through.

I'd like it if he'd just open up again and tell me, but I know that's not gonna happen. 😛 What's going on with him?

Posted by DazedScorp
Cereal?

Super cereal.
I got problems, yep, haha.

fucking mind games

how do they work

naw im good im a straight shooter so i dont care about shit like that

Posted by DazedScorp
I thought you were wanting a Scorp lady?

so you're implying you gotta mindfuck em? well shit...do tell

scorp men are more confusing than the women. sheesh.

what happened to cutting ties with him? hes obviously trying to confuse you with his i want you's. *eyeroll at scorp men right now* lol

Posted by DazedScorp
No, they're going to mindfuck you.

*sigh*

Posted by exoskeleton
monster, he's toying with you. call him out on his shit or just ignore him completely and watch him run back to you. 😛

thats how it goes....true story.

I am adhering to my self-imposed restraining order and haven't spoken to my Scorp guy for nearly two weeks now. He wasn't misbehaving, just not initiating contact, making me do the work and leaving me feeling taken for granted. He's my drug of choice and I am in rehab. Waiting to see how long it takes him to initiate contact.

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by exoskeleton
monster, he's toying with you. call him out on his shit or just ignore him completely and watch him run back to you. 😛

I have never ran back to a woman.

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cause those dames is lame home skillet

Do you have OCD little monster? Sometimes they way your mind seems to obsessive over things makes me wonder....

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Posted by exoskeleton
monster, he's toying with you. call him out on his shit or just ignore him completely and watch him run back to you. 😛

thats how it goes....true story.

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Yeah, he actually asked me out again when he found out I was out with a certain guy yesterday. 😛 Kinda funny stuff.
I politely declined, as per all your suggestions. And I'm not as into him as I was before anyway. I just wanna be friends.

And then this morning, he brought up a touchy subject, pointing out how much of a bad girlfriend I was, and I could see an argument forming, and I wouldn't have it. So I told him I wasn't going to discuss the subject with him.
And then he told me he was sorry for opening up and stuff and that it wouldn't happen again.
I felt bad because I only wanted to help him. But not on that subject.