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My husband was like that when we met.


How long have you been together ?
I left him a year ago. We were together for 6 yrs.

Left him cuz his possessiveness made him think he was in control and he could do whatever he wants.


Oh dear.

I'm sorry 😢

That sounds bad.

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With her attitude I’ll believe it when i meet him! I see it that he got sick of doing all she wants to do and when he tries to so what he wants for a change - she threw a fit and flew away!

Right, @Arielle?
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So early this morning while he was at work I sent him an emoji text 👀🍆💦🍑 He asked was I ready and I said yes. I had some free time and told him I need it now. He asked if we could do it later when he got off work and I told him no because I am very horny and have been counting down the days.

Half jokingly I said, Tell your boss you are not feeling well and come give me some D. He laughed and said the earliest he could leave was 1pm and it was cutting it very close to the time I had to leave which was 2:30 so he tried to rush but it was 2:25 and by that point I said screw it and got in my car.

He was disappointed stating he was outside my house and I felt bad because he took off just to be with me. I told him to wait there and I turned back around and headed back to my house.

We ran into the house and started taking our clothes off. He mentioned having never left a job to be with a woman before especially overtime. I wont lie it turned me on. I set my clock and he asked if he could at least get 30 minutes but he did not last that long. Lol

While pinning my arms down he started saying, I told you that a*s is mine...that p is mine and nobody elses. You are mine. You are mine right? I told him yes and that I do not need anybody else.

He kept stopping to keep himself from c*mming then later said screw it can I c*m now? Lol It was so good I did not care if it was a quicky.

As we were getting dressed he said you got me this time but tonight it is my turn. I am ready for another round.
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So early this morning while he was at work I sent him an emoji text 👀🍆💦🍑 He asked was I ready and I said yes. I had some free time and told him I need it now. He asked if we could do it later when he got off work and I told him no because I am very horny and have been counting down the days.

Half jokingly I said, Tell your boss you are not feeling well and come give me some D. He laughed and said the earliest he could leave was 1pm and it was cutting it very close to the time I had to leave which was 2:30 so he tried to rush but it was 2:25 and by that point I said screw it and got in my car.

He was disappointed stating he was outside my house and I felt bad because he took off just to be with me. I told him to wait there and I turned back around and headed back to my house.

We ran into the house and started taking our clothes off. He mentioned having never left a job to be with a woman before especially overtime. I wont lie it turned me on. I set my clock and he asked if he could at least get 30 minutes but he did not last that long. Lol

While pinning my arms down he started saying, I told you that a*s is mine...that p is mine and nobody elses. You are mine. You are mine right? I told him yes and that I do not need anybody else.

He kept stopping to keep himself from c*mming then later said screw it can I c*m now? Lol It was so good I did not care if it was a quicky.

As we were getting dressed he said you got me this time but tonight it is my turn. I am ready for another round.
I'm seriously so jealous right now lol
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He is starting to show his possessive side more. He came over and usually we're about to knock each other over trying to get our clothes off but he kept stopping me saying wait stop rushing lets talk. Talk? My hormones were freaking raging but I stopped. He talked about work and and other things then he tells me sex is the only thing I want him for. He knows this is not true I told him from the start that I can not have enjoyable sex if that is the only thing. I told him we have a mental connection as well and that the sex is the icing on the cake and this seemed to turn him on. While in the middle of sex I told him that I missed him and he just started stroking harder telling me he missed me so much. Then he asked me about the outfit I had hanging up. I told him I was headed out later.

He continued to ask where I was going and at what time. I thought I satisfied his answers but I noticed our quickie was going on much longer than it should then he started being aggressive and screwing me as hard as he could staring at me saying he is going to wear me out and stretch me out down there. Um excuse me? My legs got really sore at that point. Then he starts to tell me I am not ready for 3 hour sessions with him and that I would tap out too quickly because according to him I can't last with him but 45 minutes.

I felt this whole thing was calculated were going at it forever and he never sweats during sex and wanted to make damn sure I did the same. He sweated out my hair and everything. I was saved by his phone going off it was his boss letting him know he has another assignment. He was upset and told me he would be back before I leave to go out so he can finish what he started but I mentioned to him I have to have some energy left. He says it again, "I will be back."

Clearly he takes no for an answer and likes to run things. For example; he demands that I don't shave down there yet he wont take my advice and not dye his goatee because I find it to be very sexy with a few grey hairs in it. He says he is not ready for the gray stage so I say I am not ready to have a hairy bush. I know so stupid but we argued over body hair.

One other thing I notice is that I think about him all the time...constantly but it feels different as if I feel him thinking about me. I did not know how to ask him this without sounding crazy but I asked if he thinks about me a lot and he gives me the duh look and said of course I do. I told him I think about him a lot and that I never have someone on my mind that much. He says, "Good, I want to be the only person you think about. I want to be the best you had." Then I told him that he is. I know the last thing I wanted was to boost his ego but it is true. I have never had this type of a sexual connection with anyone before and he started smiling and kissed me my lips and said, "Well then stop trying to push me away."

I have abandonment issues so I try not to let people get to close but that is an issue for another day.
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Omg the Scorpio showed up to my house unannounced after a week of not hearing from him! He said he broke his phone and couldn't remember the last 4 digits of my number and decided to pop up. I was completely caught off guard...my sister answered the door asking if I was expecting company.

My mouth dropped when I walked into the living room. My soon ended up meeting him which is something I did not plan on happening considering this is a casual relationship for me. I am speechless. He apologized but said he really needed to see me.

I will fill you guys in later with the rest. 😮
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Omg the Scorpio showed up to my house unannounced after a week of not hearing from him! He said he broke his phone and couldn't remember the last 4 digits of my number and decided to pop up. I was completely caught off guard...my sister answered the door asking if I was expecting company.

My mouth dropped when I walked into the living room. My soon ended up meeting him which is something I did not plan on happening considering this is a casual relationship for me. I am speechless. He apologized but said he really needed to see me.

I will fill you guys in later with the rest. 😮
Oh shit!!

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When he showed up at my house I was completely shocked especially my sister whom I talked to about us. She loves Scorpios and is currently entangled with one herself. She could not believe how handsome he was in person.

He had a nervous smile when I approached and he apologized for popping up saying his phone was broke and he had no other way of getting in touch with me and remembered my work schedule and assumed I might be home. I awkwardly introduced him to everyone and I quickly took my son out of the room.

When everyone was out of the room he gave me a piercing stare and grabbed me between the legs twice and I pushed his hand away. In which he told me not to do that again. Then he mouthed the words, "I'm going to f-*# the s*#" out of you." I tried to have normal conversation but I lost all train of thought.

I never mentioned to him but I know his whole phone being broke is bs. Why would you have an entirely different cellphone number because your phone broke? I knew from the moment he asked me about my dress and where I was going last week that he assumed I was going to see another guy so instead of confronting me he got jealous, changed his phone number and thought he could erase me from his memory but he couldn't so he had to come back with his tail between his legs.

Long story short my sister took the kids out and we went at it like crazy. He stroked the heck out of me then suddenly he starts starring at me with really intense eyes gripped my neck tightly and said you better not ever shave down there again.

That was the main reason I pushed him away earlier because I knew he would be upset that I was waxed. He said that's okay because I dyed my beard so we're even now.

He had some errands to run and wanted to come back and finish where we left off but I was tired and wanted to spend some time at home relaxing. He did not respond well to my rain check.
I am sorry but his stamina is crazy and I need rest.
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When he showed up at my house I was completely shocked especially my sister whom I talked to about us. She loves Scorpios and is currently entangled with one herself. She could not believe how handsome he was in person.

He had a nervous smile when I approached and he apologized for popping up saying his phone was broke and he had no other way of getting in touch with me and remembered my work schedule and assumed I might be home. I awkwardly introduced him to everyone and I quickly took my son out of the room.

When everyone was out of the room he gave me a piercing stare and grabbed me between the legs twice and I pushed his hand away. In which he told me not to do that again. Then he mouthed the words, "I'm going to f-*# the s*#" out of you." I tried to have normal conversation but I lost all train of thought.

I never mentioned to him but I know his whole phone being broke is bs. Why would you have an entirely different cellphone number because your phone broke? I knew from the moment he asked me about my dress and where I was going last week that he assumed I was going to see another guy so instead of confronting me he got jealous, changed his phone number and thought he could erase me from his memory but he couldn't so he had to come back with his tail between his legs.

Long story short my sister took the kids out and we went at it like crazy. He stroked the heck out of me then suddenly he starts starring at me with really intense eyes gripped my neck tightly and said you better not ever shave down there again.

That was the main reason I pushed him away earlier because I knew he would be upset that I was waxed. He said that's okay because I dyed my beard so we're even now.

He had some errands to run and wanted to come back and finish where we left off but I was tired and wanted to spend some time at home relaxing. He did not respond well to my rain check.
I am sorry but his stamina is crazy and I need rest.
I love reading your stories. But you can tell that you've evolved because an Aqua at 25 years old would have given him the blues for coming by unannounced.
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When he showed up at my house I was completely shocked especially my sister whom I talked to about us. She loves Scorpios and is currently entangled with one herself. She could not believe how handsome he was in person.

He had a nervous smile when I approached and he apologized for popping up saying his phone was broke and he had no other way of getting in touch with me and remembered my work schedule and assumed I might be home. I awkwardly introduced him to everyone and I quickly took my son out of the room.

When everyone was out of the room he gave me a piercing stare and grabbed me between the legs twice and I pushed his hand away. In which he told me not to do that again. Then he mouthed the words, "I'm going to f-*# the s*#" out of you." I tried to have normal conversation but I lost all train of thought.

I never mentioned to him but I know his whole phone being broke is bs. Why would you have an entirely different cellphone number because your phone broke? I knew from the moment he asked me about my dress and where I was going last week that he assumed I was going to see another guy so instead of confronting me he got jealous, changed his phone number and thought he could erase me from his memory but he couldn't so he had to come back with his tail between his legs.

Long story short my sister took the kids out and we went at it like crazy. He stroked the heck out of me then suddenly he starts starring at me with really intense eyes gripped my neck tightly and said you better not ever shave down there again.

That was the main reason I pushed him away earlier because I knew he would be upset that I was waxed. He said that's okay because I dyed my beard so we're even now.

He had some errands to run and wanted to come back and finish where we left off but I was tired and wanted to spend some time at home relaxing. He did not respond well to my rain check.
I am sorry but his stamina is crazy and I need rest.
I love reading your stories. But you can tell that you've evolved because an Aqua at 25 yes old would have given him the blues for coming by unannounced.


Omg yes at 25 I was hell on guys. He would have left with blue balls and a brusied ego. I once cursed a guy out for calling me too early in the morning just to say, "Hello." I cherished my sleep. Still do. 😂
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😂😂😂

That's how it goes! The older we get the more lenient we become and men still think we're impossible.

Anyway, I'm on board with everyone else. You two are hot and I anticipate the next time you two get together.

I even got mad with you, for taking a rain check. The nerve of you to be tired! 😂😂😂😂

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When he showed up at my house I was completely shocked especially my sister whom I talked to about us. She loves Scorpios and is currently entangled with one herself. She could not believe how handsome he was in person.

He had a nervous smile when I approached and he apologized for popping up saying his phone was broke and he had no other way of getting in touch with me and remembered my work schedule and assumed I might be home. I awkwardly introduced him to everyone and I quickly took my son out of the room.

When everyone was out of the room he gave me a piercing stare and grabbed me between the legs twice and I pushed his hand away. In which he told me not to do that again. Then he mouthed the words, "I'm going to f-*# the s*#" out of you." I tried to have normal conversation but I lost all train of thought.

I never mentioned to him but I know his whole phone being broke is bs. Why would you have an entirely different cellphone number because your phone broke? I knew from the moment he asked me about my dress and where I was going last week that he assumed I was going to see another guy so instead of confronting me he got jealous, changed his phone number and thought he could erase me from his memory but he couldn't so he had to come back with his tail between his legs.

Long story short my sister took the kids out and we went at it like crazy. He stroked the heck out of me then suddenly he starts starring at me with really intense eyes gripped my neck tightly and said you better not ever shave down there again.

That was the main reason I pushed him away earlier because I knew he would be upset that I was waxed. He said that's okay because I dyed my beard so we're even now.

He had some errands to run and wanted to come back and finish where we left off but I was tired and wanted to spend some time at home relaxing. He did not respond well to my rain check.
I am sorry but his stamina is crazy and I need rest.
I love reading your stories. But you can tell that you've evolved because an Aqua at 25 yes old would have given him the blues for coming by unannounced.


Omg yes at 25 I was hell on guys. He would have left with blue balls and a brusied ego. I once cursed a guy out for calling me too early in the morning just to say, "Hello." I cherished my sleep. Still do. 😂
😂😂😂

That's how it goes! The older we get the more lenient we become and men still think we're impossible.

Anyway, I'm on board with everyone else. You two are hot and I anticipate the next time you two get together.

I even got mad with you, for taking a rain check. The nerve of you to be tired! 😂😂😂😂

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Honestly this situation made me realize one thing and that is the fact that I met my match. I use to pride myself on being the chick that put the guy to sleep and wore him out but he wins handsdown. He does not stop. Even if he has a quickie he wants it again..then after work or whenever he has free time...he will leave work to get it.. even tells me he wants to have an all day session. No in what universe is that sane—? I love sex I think it is the best thing in the world but I am also a lazy comfort loving taurus rising. Feed me and let me rest. 🐂🍝



Maybe this is why I am so perfectly matched with my Sagittarius ex whom we can't emotionally let each other go. I recently found out he too has a Scorpio venus but lots of earth in his chart. He gave me just enough sex and food to balance things out. 😂🤣
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Can someone explain to me how you are an "unevolved aqua" if you send unannounced visitors home?

Personally, i think you're pretty stupid tho, i only read this last wall of text, appearing after trying the dissapearing act due to jealousy outburst, hand in between your legs, veiled threats......and him thinking such behaviour is okay because you gave pussy in the living room.

I look forward to the next episode of this slow-mo train wreck.
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It has been almost month since we have last seen each other. We had a falling out all because I cancelled on him one day and instead of him telling me he was upset he stopped talking to me. Thinking I would beg for his attention he soon learned I am as stubborn as him and I did not budge. Long story short he sent a message saying that he missed and he got upset because I did not say it back. I told him that where ever he was all of this time he can stay over there ✌🏾. And I meant it and had no intentions of answering his calls. He ended up calling me from another number and cussed me out. He told me how pissed he was at me yet he wanted to see me. Smh weirdo.

We aired things out and agreed to meet up. He could not stop himself from smiling I wont lie I could not either no matter how upset I get at him once I see him the drama goes out the window.

We talked about his mothers failing health and other things that he was dealing with and he asked me what my sign was which was so weird because he was never into that sort of stuff so I asked him why he is curious about my sign all of a sudden and he said he is just trying to figure me out.

He said that he does not get me and that I am different and that he has never taken so much from a person as he does with me. He told me I am controlling and like things my way or the highway. He said I need to trust him and let go more I told him I dont trust easily. He said he can not understand why he keeps coming back and called me crazy. I said well you are crazy too and he knodded his head in agreeance. Lol

Everytime we have sex it feels like the first time. We could not keep our hands off of eachother. He kept asking me if I had been with anyone else and that my p belongs to him. Then he asked if I ever had it as good with anyone else. I stopped him, looked him in his eyes and told him that I do not want anyone else but him and that he is the only person that satisfies me. This drove him crazy. He just started pounding harder. Neither of us had plans so we had all of this time together to explore eachother. We laughed about how we would not get any work done if we lived together because most of our time would be spent in bed.

In the past I always felt as if he just got up and left right after sex and I told him I do not like that sometimes I just want to breathe him in. He laid back down on top of me and buried his head in my chest for awhile and after I put his fingers inside of me we went at it again.
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It has been almost month since we have last seen each other. We had a falling out all because I cancelled on him one day and instead of him telling me he was upset he stopped talking to me. Thinking I would beg for his attention he soon learned I am as stubborn as him and I did not budge. Long story short he sent a message saying that he missed and he got upset because I did not say it back. I told him that where ever he was all of this time he can stay over there ✌🏾. And I meant it and had no intentions of answering his calls. He ended up calling me from another number and cussed me out. He told me how pissed he was at me yet he wanted to see me. Smh weirdo.

We aired things out and agreed to meet up. He could not stop himself from smiling I wont lie I could not either no matter how upset I get at him once I see him the drama goes out the window.

We talked about his mothers failing health and other things that he was dealing with and he asked me what my sign was which was so weird because he was never into that sort of stuff so I asked him why he is curious about my sign all of a sudden and he said he is just trying to figure me out.

He said that he does not get me and that I am different and that he has never taken so much from a person as he does with me. He told me I am controlling and like things my way or the highway. He said I need to trust him and let go more I told him I dont trust easily. He said he can not understand why he keeps coming back and called me crazy. I said well you are crazy too and he knodded his head in agreeance. Lol

Everytime we have sex it feels like the first time. We could not keep our hands off of eachother. He kept asking me if I had been with anyone else and that my p belongs to him. Then he asked if I ever had it as good with anyone else. I stopped him, looked him in his eyes and told him that I do not want anyone else but him and that he is the only person that satisfies me. This drove him crazy. He just started pounding harder. Neither of us had plans so we had all of this time together to explore eachother. We laughed about how we would not get any work done if we lived together because most of our time would be spent in bed.

In the past I always felt as if he just got up and left right after sex and I told him I do not like that sometimes I just want to breathe him in. He laid back down on top of me and buried his head in my chest for awhile and after I put his fingers inside of me we went at it again.
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We have seen eachother almost everyday since we made up. He has been very insistant on seeing me and wanting to make sure that I do not cancel. This is how I know I like him because being an Aquarius with a Sag moon I need space but I do not mind when it comes to him.

Seriously, is there something in the air with Scorpios right now because he messages me "I need you", "I want you." "I need to feek you."? Sometimes it is a bit overwhelming because I am not use to that type of intensity from someone and seems to have gotten a lot more intense. Especially after I suggested us making a video.

So a few days ago I brought over a tripod and even though he was excited he started questioning why I have one, if I made videos with other people and if I have been with anyone else. He tried to brush it off like he was joking but he knows I hate those sort of questions.

The second time he recorded me in my bathroom at work. I had no clue he was going to pull his phone out and record and the look on his face while doing it neatly sent me over the edge. He stares at me a lot more now. He stares so intensely when he pins my arms down and grins later telling me it turns him on to inflict pain on me by stroking really hard.

He has found my g spot and gets a kick out of my reaction when he makes me O. Outside of the bedroom he is a lot more open. He is telling me things about him that helps me to understand him more because he is so quiet and he knows it frustrates me.
 
He lets me know that he sucks at time management and balancing more than one task at a time and I told him now that I know that I will be more understanding because he hates me being upset with him.
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"Please continue, this thread is the best thread ever on DXP." click to expand



I was just sitting here wondering if I should continue this thread. We have this chemistry and people in our personal life keep wanting us to define what we are but honestly right now I just want things to stay the way they are. So writing to you all helps in a weird way. Lol Thanks for reading.
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Christ it reminds me of myself in my last rship lol 😳





Where is his Mars ?





Lol really? His Mars in Sag. What caused things to end? click to expand



I was him lol

It was an LDR, age gap.....much too much sex but not much common ground elsewhere....i had to move on for my sanity

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Lol that is the same issue I am battling. We seem to do it at the drop of a dime but I am not sure that kind of passion can be sustained for so long but instead of over thinking it like I channel that energy elsewhere to keep from ruining what ever this is right now.
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"Please continue, this thread is the best thread ever on DXP." click to expand



I was just sitting here wondering if I should continue this thread. We have this chemistry and people in our personal life keep wanting us to define what we are but honestly right now I just want things to stay the way they are. So writing to you all helps in a weird way. Lol Thanks for reading.



"people in our personal life keep wanting us to define what we are"

what people? why these people want you to "define" what you are? what is their agenda? isnt it too early to define things after 2 months?

PS. the story sounds more like an attempt to write a book - true or not, I think it would be a bestseller 🙂 I bet you used to write a diary (lot of Aquas, myself included) used to write a diary and this story here is like excempt from a diary, spiced up 🙂
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We have seen eachother almost everyday since we made up. He has been very insistant on seeing me and wanting to make sure that I do not cancel. This is how I know I like him because being an Aquarius with a Sag moon I need space but I do not mind when it comes to him.





Seriously, is there something in the air with Scorpios right now because he messages me "I need you", "I want you." "I need to feek you."? Sometimes it is a bit overwhelming because I am not use to that type of intensity from someone and seems to have gotten a lot more intense. Especially after I suggested us making a video.





So a few days ago I brought over a tripod and even though he was excited he started questioning why I have one, if I made videos with other people and if I have been with anyone else. He tried to brush it off like he was joking but he knows I hate those sort of questions.





The second time he recorded me in my bathroom at work. I had no clue he was going to pull his phone out and record and the look on his face while doing it neatly sent me over the edge. He stares at me a lot more now. He stares so intensely when he pins my arms down and grins later telling me it turns him on to inflict pain on me by stroking really hard.





He has found my g spot and gets a kick out of my reaction when he makes me O. Outside of the bedroom he is a lot more open. He is telling me things about him that helps me to understand him more because he is so quiet and he knows it frustrates me.


 


He lets me know that he sucks at time management and balancing more than one task at a time and I told him now that I know that I will be more understanding because he hates me being upset with him.



Please continue, this thread is the best thread ever on DXP. click to expand
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Totally agree!

Yes, please continue with this!
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Christ it reminds me of myself in my last rship lol 😳







Where is his Mars ?







Lol really? His Mars in Sag. What caused things to end? click to expand





I was him lol



It was an LDR, age gap.....much too much sex but not much common ground elsewhere....i had to move on for my sanity



Lol click to expand



Lol that is the same issue I am battling. We seem to do it at the drop of a dime but I am not sure that kind of passion can be sustained for so long but instead of over thinking it like I channel that energy elsewhere to keep from ruining what ever this is right now. click to expand
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For me, it wasn't sustainable ... it became predictable and our levels of spirituality and emotional input were at different places. The sex was beginning to define the relationship and I was as much to blame for that. He was emotionally stunted....

I've heard people say that often when things start out very sexual, it burns out

I guess anyone can have sex, but connecting on deeper levels is for me far more satisfying. If you meet a man that can meet you there, you're lucky 🙂
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Christ it reminds me of myself in my last rship lol 😳









Where is his Mars ?









Lol really? His Mars in Sag. What caused things to end? click to expand







I was him lol





It was an LDR, age gap.....much too much sex but not much common ground elsewhere....i had to move on for my sanity





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Lol that is the same issue I am battling. We seem to do it at the drop of a dime but I am not sure that kind of passion can be sustained for so long but instead of over thinking it like I channel that energy elsewhere to keep from ruining what ever this is right now. click to expand



For me, it wasn't sustainable ... it became predictable and our levels of spirituality and emotional input were at different places. The sex was beginning to define the relationship and I was as much to blame for that. He was emotionally stunted....

I've heard people say that often when things start out very sexual, it burns out

I guess anyone can have sex, but connecting on deeper levels is for me far more satisfying. If you meet a man that can meet you there, you're lucky click to expand
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I understand that. I could not sustain anything with an emotionally stunted person. I'm sure that drove you insane.

I need to feel something beyond the bedroom. I like the fact that he is starting to compromise with me. We both know that we are complete opposites and instead of pulling our hair out we explain the differences and how to work around it.
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So things got a bit awkward the other night...he was asking me about my fantasies and of course he mentions threesomes and I told him I have thought about both before (girl/girl/guy and guy/guy/girl) but I let him know it wont happen because I am just not interested in sharing a guy because I am too possessive for that. He did mention that he would do both forms of threesomes with me and that he is not the possessive type. I was turned off by that.



First off you would share me with another man? He told me I was overthinking things and that he would do it if it was something I truly wanted because he wants to satisfy me and that he was not requesting it. I do not care how you explain it I do not want a man to be okay with another guy having sex with me period.

He could tell I felt some type of way and decided to let the topic go. He has been bringing up these fantasies ever since I had lunch with a friend and did not call him back. He asked if it took a whole day to have lunch with someone and that he feels like something else must have happened since I did not call him immediately afterwards. This coming from a man who claims to not be possesive. 😒

You are not my father nor am I obligated to tell you every detail of my life.



The next weird scenario was him calling me a b*tch during sex. Granted the sex was mind altering but he got so turned on he screamed out B*tch you the truth! I was so taken back I literally just laid there for a second and he did not even notice he just continued shaking his head and stroking. Um...how do I even confront him about that? It is weird even thinking about it .



I also accidentally got carried away and scratched his back up. It was bad I could feel the welts and apologized for it but he chose to get his revenge. He knows that I do not like for him to get to rough so when I tap him or say stop he knows to stop immediately.



Instead of stopping he went harder and pinned me down so I could not move. I said stop again and he started laughing and grabbed my neck and came. He then stood up and started laughing I told him it was not funny and that it hurt...he says, Well now you know how I feel. He responds to everything like a challenge.
Ewww

He is all about the sex.....I'd find that a huge turn off

Threesome? Is he joking......another man? Can you imagine?

He sounds unhinged and insecure and overly controlling

Careful ma'am

😐
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Instead of stopping he went harder and pinned me down so I could not move. I said stop again and he started laughing and grabbed my neck and came. He then stood up and started laughing I told him it was not funny and that it hurt...he says, Well now you know how I feel. He responds to everything like a challenge.



He is abusive and could go further next time

I'd run

Very fast

👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
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Christ it reminds me of myself in my last rship lol 😳



Where is his Mars ?



Lol really? His Mars in Sag. What caused things to end? click to expand
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Aqua women always attract Sag Mars men. (My husband's. and my Favourite. I attracted Pisces mars and Aquarius mars and i did not like it, those were my ex's long term. was unhappy with those mars)

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I also accidentally got carried away and scratched his back up. It was bad I could feel the welts and apologized for it but he chose to get his revenge. He knows that I do not like for him to get to rough so when I tap him or say stop he knows to stop immediately.





Instead of stopping he went harder and pinned me down so I could not move. I said stop again and he started laughing and grabbed my neck and came. He then stood up and started laughing I told him it was not funny and that it hurt...he says, Well now you know how I feel. He responds to everything like a challenge.



Time to end it.
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Damn and I was intrigued about sex with a scorpio, that's a pretty big red flag

such a troll thread

riddled full of stereotypes ( sex with a well endowed black male , who is also a scorpio)


and
it reads like a fan fiction piece / 50 shades of grey

seriously
come on now
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lol but u enjoyed it. 😛
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Damn and I was intrigued about sex with a scorpio, that's a pretty big red flag



such a troll thread

riddled full of stereotypes ( sex with a well endowed black male , who is also a scorpio)


and
it reads like a fan fiction piece / 50 shades of grey

seriously
come on now
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lol but u enjoyed it. click to expand
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guilty pleasure of the day i must admit
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he got so turned on he screamed out B*tch you the truth! .



I died of laughter literally.

so funny

how is this not a troll thread?

I've thought that it was one since the first page. click to expand

It's not a troll thread. I haven't spoken with him since the day after the rough sex happened. Not only was I turned off at the idea of him being okay with a threesome I was turned off at him dinding humor in my pain. The sad part is he did not apologize when I confronted him he just said, "I got carried away."

He's text here and there but I never responded even sending me well wishes on Mother's Day but I did not respond to that either. That night just left me feeling awkward. click to expand
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can't pull a fast one on me man



i don't believe you lol