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Maybe if we just stay really really quiet they will all go away.......

Posted by PhoenixRising
Maybe if we just stay really really quiet they will all go away.......

yup honey! just read the *Child Thread* and its mostly a bunch of opinions in gloriously egocentric theory that are just bitching about the fact that they might've been had. The fact that Neuro came in with some very valid points about the effects to the kid involved and is told he's getting emotional?!
Some people just have 0% empathy

Posted by LilliLou

Posted by PhoenixRising
Maybe if we just stay really really quiet they will all go away.......

...just read the *Child Thread* and its mostly a bunch of opinions in gloriously egocentric theory that are just bitching about the fact that they might've been had. The fact that Neuro came in with some very valid points about the effects to the kid involved and is told he's getting emotional?!
Some people just have 0% empathy

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^^^Just read it.....

mmmhmmmmm.... sticking close to the asylum- its a jungle out there!

^^^Just because there is too much doom and gloom on the board. I'm gonna channel my Air Moon and ignore all of your emotions!



I tease.....I wish I could. I'm a sap.

like the way you move PR!!!

How ya like me nooooooooow? How ya like me nooooooooooooow?

Digging it! 😄






Great boogie time PR!

*yawn*.....It's no longer considered "brunch" if it's 2:10 in the afternoon right?

OYASUMINASAI! *bows deeply*

This is not thread worthy, but I need answers! I'm really just trying to get this off my mind so I can enjoy some food (when I'm focused on a problem I can't eat).....

I don't UNDERSTAND HOW MERC in Leo thinks or processes information!!!!!!
I don't know how to communicate in cub language, but communication is important to me.
I'm trying to understand.
I'm finding it frustrating as hell when it comes to communicating my feelings in a way that it can be received.
Websites suck because they look at placements in isolation and it's impossible to do this. Isn't it? Maybe I'm wrong....?
I also find interacting with people more informative than a generalized website (although they are good starting points)

...okay, so that's out. I'll have some peace for about an hour.

Actually a good question PR... From observing the one I know it is that he will communicate when he is ready and at the level he wants to- no discussion entered into.
I think he is a good communicator about good things, and bad about bad.
He doesn't seem to dwell on things, but can be a bit useless at keeping in touch (^unless he wants to)

From astrodienst- Merc in Leo:
You are very sure that your ideas are right, and you like to make others think the way you do. You can think about new ideas and make them part of your own thinking, as long as no one is pressuring you to do so.
You are quite stubborn, and your pride is involved in everything you think or believe. If someone challenges your beliefs, you feel they are challenging you. But at the same time, your pride in your opinions makes you want to get at the truth.
Whenever you have to solve a problem, you put a great deal of energy into it, and the more important the problem, the more energy you invest. However, you may ignore problems that don't seem important enough, when actually they are quite important.

Posted by LilliLou
Actually a good question PR... From observing the one I know it is that he will communicate when he is ready and at the level he wants to- no discussion entered into.
I think he is a good communicator about good things, and bad about bad.
He doesn't seem to dwell on things, but can be a bit useless at keeping in touch (^unless he wants to)

From astrodienst- Merc in Leo:
You are very sure that your ideas are right, and you like to make others think the way you do. You can think about new ideas and make them part of your own thinking, as long as no one is pressuring you to do so.
You are quite stubborn, and your pride is involved in everything you think or believe. If someone challenges your beliefs, you feel they are challenging you. But at the same time, your pride in your opinions makes you want to get at the truth.
Whenever you have to solve a problem, you put a great deal of energy into it, and the more important the problem, the more energy you invest. However, you may ignore problems that don't seem important enough, when actually they are quite important.

OMG Yes! I want to knock someone's head into a wall (in a loving way ).

Two fixed signs....I just can't sometimes.

Thank you for this. I think I will need to explore the statement on "pride". I've read this before and I am not sure why it's not clicking for me. Maybe I'm too stubborn.

Yes! Fixed squared! Lots of fun right?!
I love the lions, but it is all about me with them- bless 😄

Good luck!

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Start every debate with Leo merc with "Of course you are right and, I might add, super intelligent and adorable, but have you considered..." ? 😛

So going to try this with my one next time!!!

^^ I have 4 planets in Libra ^^
It seems so perfect! 🙂

Moonman; would be awesome to get your take on things! Seeing as how you are so super intelligent and adorable and surely have the best experience of this aspect...? 😛

Right Nem! I gotta go do some work!

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Posted by LilliLou
^^ I have 4 planets in Libra ^^
It seems so perfect! 🙂

Moonman; would be awesome to get your take on things! Seeing as how you are so super intelligent and adorable and surely have the best experience of this aspect...? 😛

You charmer, you.
However, I'm at work and posting from my phone.
But if you shake it real good I might give you some sugar, ....later.

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Posted by xMoonMan

bloke

I like this word.

Leo in merc
Leo merc trine Aries Mars

Your input is welcome Moon Man. I often enjoy your posts. You wrote something on the Cancer board a while a go (maybe a day or so--my brain blocks out bits that are irrelevant), but it was a long the lines of suggesting that a female Ram change her expectations as it relates to another person and their approach. Similarly, I am quite direct and prefer and respond better to people who are direct as well. As well, like her, I think my perception of this person's "stubbornness" may be nothing more than my lack of patience. I'm just confused because for all of his fire, there is so much insecurity and hesitation.

Anyway, I believe I have set up certain expectations that may not be fair. This is not to say we do not encounter of some challenges, but I need to own some of this.

I guess my only issue is the idea that I am the only one that needs to adjust my approach/expectations.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Start every debate with Leo merc with "Of course you are right and, I might add, super intelligent and adorable, but have you considered..." ? 😛

it's effective & i??ve tried this sort of approach a few times - i think it's called positive/constructive criticism. but it is not natural to me; it's really bending beyond what i would like. when something goes wrong at work - a blunt tool is the best.

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Exactly. Can't I just smack him up the side his head and kiss it better?

Posted by ellessque
there is just nothing worthwhile to post on 😢

yep... pretty boring out there... 😢

Haha... my comment is not helping at all!

Okay Miss Ellesque- tell me about your Aries moon and if it plays nicely with your scorp sun...? And does the Aries moon hold sway with men? I almost feel that a mans moon can be subsumed by his sun/ mars/ merc...

Posted by LilliLou

Posted by ellessque
there is just nothing worthwhile to post on 😢

yep... pretty boring out there... 😢

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Posted by LilliLou
Haha... my comment is not helping at all!

Okay Miss Ellesque- tell me about your Aries moon and if it plays nicely with your scorp sun...? And does the Aries moon hold sway with men? I almost feel that a mans moon can be subsumed by his sun/ mars/ merc...

it plays very nicely with my scorp sun because if not, it gets its ass handed to it by the scorpio mars 😄

however, it DOES NOT play nicely with my libra venus 😛 libra venus is often appalled.

"does the Aries moon hold sway with men?".....I'm not sure what that means. 😕

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Oops! Brain on the fritz already! 😛

I guess my thinking was really in two parts??_
Fire moon: seems like a pretty good moon to match with Scorp, as there is a catharsis to all that intense emotion- it goes up in flames! I'm a Taurus moon and I'm most of the times it works as it takes the edge off the intensity of the emotions. But sometimes I feel that the Tau moon actually cements that emotion and sends it under ground where it stews and festers??_

Secondly I have been thinking about the relationship men have to their moons (emotions) and even though I am a definite beginner in the astro sense it seems that most of the men I know use their sun or merc to communicate -emotion- or is it just their intent? Funnily enough the moon seems to influence the way they look- Aries moon; dark and haughty, Cancer moon; moon face and pale and the Aqua moon; covered in tats and piercings.
Coincidentally the Aries moon man is a Leo with a Libran venus! Wonder if his venus is ever appalled?!

It might be a question for the Moonman if he is still lingering??_ Do men disconnect from their moons? Or does it come into their characters later in life??

Posted by exoskeleton


the season and transits have me on a creative high and i'm feeling everything intensely.

it's exhilarating and electric, but makes me too heavy-hearted and introspective and i wanna punch shit and ....** 😛

>_>

+1

...I'm actually happy my last appointment didn't show up.

Posted by LilliLou
Do men disconnect from their moons? Or does it come into their characters later in life??

That's an interesting question....Why would you ask that?

No need for specifics (I can be a bit nosey and my questions come out "wrong" sometimes), just your overall reason/rationale behind a question like that.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by LilliLou
Do men disconnect from their moons? Or does it come into their characters later in life??

That's an interesting question....Why would you ask that?

No need for specifics (I can be a bit nosey and my questions come out "wrong" sometimes), just your overall reason/rationale behind a question like that.

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Its just something I've been mulling over... In the past year the men I've observed (😉) haven't really shown any of their moon traits. They have been/ seemed fully their sun signs, tell you what they want with their merc and go about it with their mars but I can't see the moon sign in their behaviours.
But I am wondering if the need to be a 'man', and ergo the type of man you are is your sun, then as they get older and don't need to 'prove themselves' so much, perhaps are more reflective and less reactive is that when their moon signs then have a chance to influence...?

I guess I am also thinking about my dad and granddad and how substantially different (and more emotional) the are now that they are older...

*scroll, click, scroll*.....
*too deep for 4:30 in the afternoon*...
*sigh, annoying*....
*too emotional*....
*eye roll, sooo transparent*....
*read first 3 lines.....next*....
*blink, blink, huh?.....next*....
*scroll, click, scroll*.....

Geeze.

Posted by LilliLou

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by LilliLou
Do men disconnect from their moons? Or does it come into their characters later in life??

That's an interesting question....Why would you ask that?

No need for specifics (I can be a bit nosey and my questions come out "wrong" sometimes), just your overall reason/rationale behind a question like that.

Its just something I've been mulling over... In the past year the men I've observed (😉) haven't really shown any of their moon traits. They have been/ seemed fully their sun signs, tell you what they want with their merc and go about it with their mars but I can't see the moon sign in their behaviours.
But I am wondering if the need to be a 'man', and ergo the type of man you are is your sun, then as they get older and don't need to 'prove themselves' so much, perhaps are more reflective and less reactive is that when their moon signs then have a chance to influence...?

I guess I am also thinking about my dad and granddad and how substantially different (and more emotional) the are now that they are older...

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Hmm, interesting that you say that. I think you can "see" the Moon, but it depends on what you are looking for. I'm always —looking?? for the unseen and —listening?? to what isn't being said to get to the heart of a person. I too like to observe and I have come to realize (with one in particular), his Moon very much "shapes" or influences his Sun sign if that makes any sense. Meaning that he is less sensitive than most with a similar Sun sign because his Moon allows him to be a bit more playful and he tends to be a bit more objective and not personalize things sooo much. He still personalized things, but you're not walking on eggshells.

Through the Merc sign, I have noticed that his responsiveness and level of focus seems to be influenced by his Moon and then his Merc takes over in terms of how the message is delivered. I could totally be pulling this outta my butt, but that's how I see it.

As for the the need to be a man, I won't attempt to give an explanation.

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

Hey lady, why did you hide it? My previous post was about DXP overall, not this board/thread.


Oh well, I already quoted you....😛

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Posted by LilliLou

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by LilliLou
Do men disconnect from their moons? Or does it come into their characters later in life??

That's an interesting question....Why would you ask that?

No need for specifics (I can be a bit nosey and my questions come out "wrong" sometimes), just your overall reason/rationale behind a question like that.

Its just something I've been mulling over... In the past year the men I've observed (😉) haven't really shown any of their moon traits. They have been/ seemed fully their sun signs, tell you what they want with their merc and go about it with their mars but I can't see the moon sign in their behaviours.
But I am wondering if the need to be a 'man', and ergo the type of man you are is your sun, then as they get older and don't need to 'prove themselves' so much, perhaps are more reflective and less reactive is that when their moon signs then have a chance to influence...?

I guess I am also thinking about my dad and granddad and how substantially different (and more emotional) the are now that they are older...

As for the the need to be a man, I won't attempt to give an explanation.

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^^^Actually, what I will add is, I understand from some men that they are no longer influenced by social norms that suggest that it is "unmanly" to act/react in a particular way when they reach a certain stage in their life. At some point they begin to feel more secure in themselves and they can express their feelings without fear.

I hid me being boring??_ nothing interesting! 😉

—I too like to observe and I have come to realize (with one in particular), his Moon very much "shapes" or influences his Sun sign if that makes any sense.??
^^It totally makes sense PR, just with the guys I??ve seen mostly my age + a couple of years they??re not there yet. Or I can't see it?! Or they are battling it??

Actually I think that answered my own question- I get glimpses but they are battling it. Kiwi men are a bit retarded when it comes to emotions though!!! Such a culture of macho, beer swilling blokes maybe this has something to do with it?? MMan- would you??ve seen/ felt this in Oz too?
It's just my pondering the ways of the universe 😛

Posted by LilliLou
I hid me being boring??_ nothing interesting! 😉

—I too like to observe and I have come to realize (with one in particular), his Moon very much "shapes" or influences his Sun sign if that makes any sense.??
^^It totally makes sense PR, just with the guys I??ve seen mostly my age + a couple of years they??re not there yet. Or I can't see it?! Or they are battling it??

Actually I think that answered my own question- I get glimpses but they are battling it. Kiwi men are a bit retarded when it comes to emotions though!!! Such a culture of macho, beer swilling blokes maybe this has something to do with it?? MMan- would you??ve seen/ felt this in Oz too?
It's just my pondering the ways of the universe 😛

Haha, I keep forgetting you're an Aussie. Yeah, the person I was referring to tries to hide it with a lot of bravado and overcompensating (which I find quite cute), but my sixth sense (see/hearing what people try so hard to hide/mask the most) is always on high alert. The more they try to hide it, the brighter it shines for me to see.

You have it too lady (Merc in Scorp, no?). Just ignore the "noise". I have yet to meet a man that will offer it to you on a silver platter.

Posted by xMoonMan
*Phoenix

It seems to be a common mistake.

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Posted by LilliLou
I hid me being boring??_ nothing interesting! 😉

—I too like to observe and I have come to realize (with one in particular), his Moon very much "shapes" or influences his Sun sign if that makes any sense.??
^^It totally makes sense PR, just with the guys I??ve seen mostly my age + a couple of years they??re not there yet. Or I can't see it?! Or they are battling it??

Actually I think that answered my own question- I get glimpses but they are battling it. Kiwi men are a bit retarded when it comes to emotions though!!! Such a culture of macho, beer swilling blokes maybe this has something to do with it?? MMan- would you??ve seen/ felt this in Oz too?
It's just my pondering the ways of the universe 😛

Haha, I keep forgetting you're an Aussie. Yeah, the person I was referring to tries to hide it with a lot of bravado and overcompensating (which I find quite cute), but my sixth sense (see/hearing what people try so hard to hide/mask the most) is always on high alert. The more they try to hide it, the brighter it shines for me to see.

You have it too lady (Merc in Scorp, no?). Just ignore the "noise". I have yet to meet a man that will offer it to you on a silver platter.

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Oooo! Why, you little!! I'm a KIWI, not and AUSSIE!!! Jeepers creepers 😛

True, the men in my life all do a bit of a double take when I nail them with a little truth a la LilliLou style s.
Had the funniest conversation with my ex when discussing his failed marriage and I used the word 'torpor' as how he portrayed it. He googled and was absolutely floored by one word encompassing so much.
Will continue to watch my little specimens and report back!

Interested to hear more about your Merc in — Leo — too...

Posted by LilliLou

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by LilliLou
I hid me being boring??_ nothing interesting! 😉

—I too like to observe and I have come to realize (with one in particular), his Moon very much "shapes" or influences his Sun sign if that makes any sense.??
^^It totally makes sense PR, just with the guys I??ve seen mostly my age + a couple of years they??re not there yet. Or I can't see it?! Or they are battling it??

Actually I think that answered my own question- I get glimpses but they are battling it. Kiwi men are a bit retarded when it comes to emotions though!!! Such a culture of macho, beer swilling blokes maybe this has something to do with it?? MMan- would you??ve seen/ felt this in Oz too?
It's just my pondering the ways of the universe 😛

Haha, I keep forgetting you're an Aussie. Yeah, the person I was referring to tries to hide it with a lot of bravado and overcompensating (which I find quite cute), but my sixth sense (see/hearing what people try so hard to hide/mask the most) is always on high alert. The more they try to hide it, the brighter it shines for me to see.

You have it too lady (Merc in Scorp, no?). Just ignore the "noise". I have yet to meet a man that will offer it to you on a silver platter.

Oooo! Why, you little!! I'm a KIWI, not and AUSSIE!!! Jeepers creepers 😛

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Oh, sorry. New Zealand. Forgive me.

Posted by LilliLou

True, the men in my life all do a bit of a double take when I nail them with a little truth a la LilliLou style s.
Had the funniest conversation with my ex when discussing his failed marriage and I used the word 'torpor' as how he portrayed it. He googled and was absolutely floored by one word encompassing so much.
Will continue to watch my little specimens and report back!

Interested to hear more about your Merc in — Leo — too...

So would I. That's part of the problem .

Ahh, c'est la vie or is that c'est la guerre (Leo — Scorp)?

Totes forgotten and forgiven!

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Posted by LilliLou
I'm a KIWI, not and AUSSIE!!! Jeepers creepers.

Well most of you's Kiwi's swim across the Tasman to come and live over here, so you may as well be Aussie!
Beached as bro...
😛

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Hahaha... you can keep those ones 🙂 on the house mate!

I'm a little jaded and sleep deprived and this ^^ nearly sent me into a trance!

OMG!!! RABBIT RETURNS Thank the sweet baby jebus! This place was getting totes boring

I never understood why someone would ask a bunch of freakin' strangers online whether or not they should stay in a relationship. This is the equivalent of walking on the street, stopping a random person and asking "do you think I should give my partner another chance? I really do love him/her, but...."

I believe you would get the same response I have when I read it.

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Posted by PhoenixRising
I never understood why someone would ask a bunch of freakin' strangers online whether or not they should stay in a relationship. This is the equivalent of walking on the street, stopping a random person and asking "do you think I should give my partner another chance? I really do love him/her, but...."

I believe you would get the same response I have when I read it.

You'd like to think people would only use the Internet like this to supplement. Sadly, I think some use it as a primary source.

Like going to WebMD to look up "how to treat a stab wound" instead of calling 911 -_-

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Lol!