My Scorpio guy is ignoring me.. (Page 2)

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Posted by antonarnia
Geez. I'm drunk. New Orleans can be a real cunt sometimes. Anyways, all I saw ways "My Scorpio guy is ignoring me" and some other shit. Well, my response is, get fucking use to it mah. If you don't care about a bf, lying, cheating, manipulation, destroying, then the Scorpionz are the way to go. But if you actually respect yourself in some shape or form, then get the fuck rid of your Scorpio brat. Unless you want to be a delusional mess for the rest of your what is called life on this terrestrial orb. Don't be a weak sauce. Begging to see a Scorpio only makes you look desperate, which will make him retrat from you even more than he already is in the first place. He knows you're every little thought. Don't think for a minute by begging to see him will win him over.

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Yeah, baby 🙂 .... who are you? Antonarinia you're a Virgo?

Yeah ... a cool Virgo on board .. welcome to the madness of everyone's form of crazy ... you'll pull up a chair, we all do and never leave.

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Hi. I'm Antonina Maria Scariano.
Madness makes me sane.
Thanks for the welcoming.

Posted by OceanDeep
I know one thing, you can guess until the cows come home.

Here's the deal, no matter what anyone tells you about him or your relationship, you're going to believe what you want. And that's okay. The only thing that isn't okay is to allow that to blur the real truth. So what that means is, don't make any excuses for his behavior.

He isn't going to talk to you, at least any time soon. Do you deserve the truth, sure, everyone does. It doesn't mean though that just because he loved you that he will. In the initial stages of breakups, or when a person understands that it is over, your thought process is normal. What you need to try to do now is to not look for answers but to accept things as they are now, and heal your heart. Move forward, even if it's baby steps. If you don't, you are slowly going to torture yourself more.

Love is blind. Some day all or none of this will make sense. The truth always has a way of coming out. And until that day comes, you should be your only focus at this point. A person's mind can be a wicked thing, and a wicked place to be. Don't let it consume you. Believe me, he knows it is, he knows you love him and how much this is hurting you, and at this point, he doesn't care enough to make things right with you, let alone face you. Ignore him. THAT will eventually move him. When he stops hearing from you.

Do you really think so? I have tried not contacting him but still its useless and that got me crazy again and tried to get him to meet. I am the type of person who just wont stop thinking about things that I havent get to do. I know its making me crazy but I just cant stop it.

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I attempted to read it, and made it as far as finishing the second full 2500 character long babble .... then started skipping/skimming until I got here .....

Posted by leoscorp

..... I sent a long and crazy message accusing him things like what is he trying to do, is he trying to make me give up on the relationship, etc.. That made him mad and when he read it, he replied with a msg saying that he has already told me the problems he was facing and asked can't i understand? what is it? That time, i got so hurt and I told myself I can't wait for him to call to tell him anymore so I replied to him telling him that my period is late and might be pregnant.

At first, I was thinking that perhaps you seriously had emotional issues, maybe from daddy ..... until this.

You told him you were pregnant as a form of punishment to him for hurting your feelings .... feelings that should have been put a complete and total halt the moment you were told he has a betrothed sitting in the arrangements of his cultures practices .... and instead of stepping immediately away, you chose to fuck with his head.


You're lucky I don't refer to you as a cunt ... I'm in a good mood today, so will only regard you as pathetic.

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I AM NOT trying to punish him for hurting my feelings because I love him. And you didn't even read properly what I said. I have been saying that I only know about all his marriage thing on 13th Feb midnight! Just last week. And all that happened in December last year. Before then I have no clue about it at all.
And me telling him that I might be pregnant was because I really never had my period that late before. How would I not get worried about it at all?? He's there and I am here. I cant tell anyone else or share with anyone else cos of the problems I had in the past! Is it wrong to get scared and want to share with him—

Yesterday I spoke with his only friend who knew about us and his friend told me that he doesnt know what my Scorpio guy's thinking about too. In my letter I have been trying to tell him that I am ok and I just want to talk and be friends. I know he has been feeling bad, but at least let us talk and so both sides can feel better.

He was free yesterday and his friend told me that he could have the chance to come out to meet if he really wants to. But, he just doesnt. Last night I sent a message on Fb asking if he was there.. Til now he doesnt read and I sent a message again asking if he really dislike me now..? He hasnt read it yet.. I am not sure if he went somewhere last minute.. But.. I do know that he would never stop checking his FB for a long time.. He could have saw the notifications from his laptop but he just doesnt want to "read" it.

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Posted by OceanDeep

Do you really think so? I have tried not contacting him but still its useless and that got me crazy again and tried to get him to meet. I am the type of person who just wont stop thinking about things that I havent get to do. I know its making me crazy but I just cant stop it.

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I know it's difficult and hard not to think about. I do the same dang thing, but I've learned through time and lesson that all it does is kill and consume me. You have three things you're dealing w/: the breakup, not having answers, and the fact he's not willing to talk you right now.

This is something I want you to try. Think back to the very first time you met him, or spoke to him, the time where you knew you wanted to date him. Remember how happy you felt, and he did too? That's where you leave him, is at that time and moment. Tell him you love him, you wanted it to work, things are beyond your control, if and when he's ready to talk to you you'll be there to listen. And mentally walk away. And that's where you bring yourself any time you start thinking about him, wondering the what ifs, the hows, whys, etc. Build your backbone back up, and know that you're going to be okay.

For whatever reason(s), he either feels like he doesn't owe you an explanation or he doesn't know what to say so he's avoiding you. But the more you try, the more you text or call, the more you're going to push him away because like Dazed said, you're smothering him and his Scorpio mind won't deal w/ that pressure. Even if you don't mean to pressure him.

So when I say ignore him, that means not just a day or a few days, I mean weeks. Forget about him and move on w/ your life, get back into things you enjoy!! You're showing him all your cards 😉 And in my experience, there's nothing more that gets under the skin of a Scorp is when it's as though they don't exist anymore in your world, and you truly HAVE moved on w/ your life and they no longer are the center of your thoughts. Because he knows right now he is, even if he doesn't want to talk to you RATM ... adding that "sixth sense" he has, he's watched and observed you and mentally made notes. Even when you didn't realize he was watching you. So shake it a bit, and YOU disappear 😉

OceanDeep:
Thank you for your respond..
But there are some facts that I hope you would understand..
1. He's already engaged and will be getting married end of this year. He doesn't dare to hurt his family to go against them.
2. I know I have lost him??_ and I cant have him back. but.. I just need to talk to him and at least make him understand some things and also apologise for some accusations.. Then be friends or something..
3. He wil be leaving my country in July??_ Its nearly March now and he will also have about half a month??s Easter holiday where I wont see him. Time is running out for me.. There's no way that I can disappear too cos we work at the same place and our work is sort of link. I will still see him.. At work, when he comes to my office, I try to talk and joke with him and he responded. But, after that, I would never have any chance to talk to him..

He replied to me just now.. Telling me he was at friend??s house for dinner with the guys.. and he told me that he doesn't dislike me. Asked me —Don't ever think that??.

My final message to him... after everything...
" This also you chose not to respond... you know I always think a lot but still you never care enough to explain... I'm really disappointed... That you can still go thru the ceremony and still tell me you miss me when you were there... You really chose not to let us talk properly n leaving me with all these confusions is it? Ok... Fine..... Congratulations to you and Good luck to your married Life.. "

" —— Yes, I know you might still love me, but not the same way that I love you. I wish you weren't my whole world. I wish I wouldn't have to look in your eyes and only want you. Because now that reality woke me up, I realized I have to deal with the fact that you're gone and will never return ——"

He read them both and doesn't reply... And... I finally deleted him from my FB... It hurts so much.to know he doesn't care to explain to me... It could really make things easier.. But he just didn't... 😢

Worse thing is that I'll still see him at work when he comes to my office... And the last time that he came, I didn't entertain him and he doesn't look at me... Then when he was suppose to collect the work stuff, he asked one of the senior to collect for him.... 😭

I read recently that Leo will be hurt by Scorpio.. And its really true....

Now I won't if he'll ever care to think of explaining to me before he leaves my country in July...