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My scorpio guy's final div hearing was this wednesday and he's divorced now, what should be my next
Posted by HarePosted by tizianiI know I'll be grabbing some pussy tonight.
Friday night. Big date night. At least 5-6 DXPers on a hot date tonight.
And taking it to the vet for shots and a check up.
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And I was told Scorpios don't divorce...
Hmmm
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OP...do what feels right. He is apparently a leader and he is taking you by the hand and walking with you the path he dreams of. So just be sincere and don't be afraid.
Best of luck!
P.S. To learn something from his marital past? You can listen but learn? I don't think so. So far he seem fair. He did it right by the book.
Best of luck!
P.S. To learn something from his marital past? You can listen but learn? I don't think so. So far he seem fair. He did it right by the book.
Posted by BuffaloBills28You will be surprised! Lol
how did you even hook up with a married man?
Posted by BuffaloBills28You don't suppose happily married people are looking for hook ups do you?Posted by Gemitati#KarmaaaaPosted by BuffaloBills28You will be surprised! Lol
how did you even hook up with a married man?
That's all I'm saying. 🙂 Can't be looking for happiness while making others miserable.click to expand
Think again and karma is also gets those who wishing it on others! But you didn't know did you?
Only God can judge - not people.
So...don't. Just move on. 🙂
Posted by BuffaloBills28You don't even know but you are judging!Posted by GemitatiI don't wish bad on anybody. That's not me. I don't have an evil soul.. I'm just saying, don't assume you can do whatever it is you like, and have no repercussions for it later.. I'm not judging, I'm stating the facts of life here. While if married people are looking for new relationships, they shouldn't have been married in the first place.. Making two wrongs don't make it right.Posted by BuffaloBills28You don't suppose happily married people are looking for hook ups do you?Posted by Gemitati#KarmaaaaPosted by BuffaloBills28You will be surprised! Lol
how did you even hook up with a married man?
That's all I'm saying. 🙂 Can't be looking for happiness while making others miserable.
Think again and karma is also gets those who wishing it on others! But you didn't know did you?
Only God can judge - not people.
So...don't. Just move on. 🙂
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Sticking 'karma!!!' In ones face is judging!
Mending into strangers business is judjing!
You don't really believe someone will actually
listen to you and do what you say? So let's stop right there.
OP
Just enjoy the 'dating' process for as long as possible. Don't worry about when you should or should not sleep with him. You've only known him for two dates or so. That's probably about 6 to 8 hours. It might be a little more but my point is you wouldn't sleep with someone after knowing them for only a few hours unless, of course, you were just looking for a sexual encounter. It seems you are both looking for something more but go slow, what's the rush?
Sex will happen naturally as and when. If you sleep with him too soon and outside of an exclusive relationship it could develop insecurities and uncertainties inside you which could ruin your nice dating situation. Also, it might sound a bit old school but you don't need to rush full sex. It is possible to work round the 'bases' as your dating progresses. You've had a few dates but not kissed yet so perhaps a kiss is enough for now.
As another person said, he seems comfortable to lead and it sounds like he's been open about the situation of his divorce. Take this time to get to know him before jumping in. Sure, guys are interested in sex and some sexual progress as you date will keep him from losing interest and he won't think you're a prude. Plus it gives you the chance to go at your own pace and evaluate how you feel after each date.
Just enjoy the 'dating' process for as long as possible. Don't worry about when you should or should not sleep with him. You've only known him for two dates or so. That's probably about 6 to 8 hours. It might be a little more but my point is you wouldn't sleep with someone after knowing them for only a few hours unless, of course, you were just looking for a sexual encounter. It seems you are both looking for something more but go slow, what's the rush?
Sex will happen naturally as and when. If you sleep with him too soon and outside of an exclusive relationship it could develop insecurities and uncertainties inside you which could ruin your nice dating situation. Also, it might sound a bit old school but you don't need to rush full sex. It is possible to work round the 'bases' as your dating progresses. You've had a few dates but not kissed yet so perhaps a kiss is enough for now.
As another person said, he seems comfortable to lead and it sounds like he's been open about the situation of his divorce. Take this time to get to know him before jumping in. Sure, guys are interested in sex and some sexual progress as you date will keep him from losing interest and he won't think you're a prude. Plus it gives you the chance to go at your own pace and evaluate how you feel after each date.
OP, maybe I missed it in a previous thread but has this relationship affected your work in any way? Do you have to keep things secret because of company policy? If that's the case, it's probably best to move to a different shift and/or department.
I ask because there is a employee/supervisor relationship at my work and it is awful to be around them. They are trying to keep it secret but failing miserably.
I ask because there is a employee/supervisor relationship at my work and it is awful to be around them. They are trying to keep it secret but failing miserably.
Posted by ImpulsvLol I must have forgotten!Posted by GemitatiNope we have told u every time if they really want u
And I was told Scorpios don't divorce...
Hmmm
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But I do remember also being said there is no chance to make them move.
Wondering if you not ready drop everything for them how much damage
will be done for them? But that's another post question. Thanks
Posted by Gemitati
OP...do what feels right. He is apparently a leader and he is taking you by the hand and walking with you the path he dreams of. So just be sincere and don't be afraid.
Best of luck!
P.S. To learn something from his marital past? You can listen but learn? I don't think so. So far he seem fair. He did it right by the book.
thank you. this made my day. 🙂
Posted by Gemitatiand no I have nothing to do with his divorce, he was in process of divorce this whole year even before I joined here. we had a talk when he asked me out, I told him I wouldn't date until his divorce is finalized and so it goes.Posted by ImpulsvLol I must have forgotten!Posted by GemitatiNope we have told u every time if they really want u
And I was told Scorpios don't divorce...
Hmmm
They'll drop everything for u
But I do remember also being said there is no chance to make them move.
Wondering if you not ready drop everything for them how much damage
will be done for them? But that's another post question. Thanksclick to expand
and from what I see, scorpios are probably the most loyal, honest and passionate people around.
Posted by ariessungoddessBe happy!Posted by Gemitati
OP...do what feels right. He is apparently a leader and he is taking you by the hand and walking with you the path he dreams of. So just be sincere and don't be afraid.
Best of luck!
P.S. To learn something from his marital past? You can listen but learn? I don't think so. So far he seem fair. He did it right by the book.
thank you. this made my day. 🙂click to expand
We don't know what led up to this man's divorce or how long he has been in the process. When my divorce was finalized my marriage had already been dead for years. There was no rebound or grieving process. I was ready to move on.
Posted by ariessungoddessPosted by Gemitatiand no I have nothing to do with his divorce, he was in process of divorce this whole year even before I joined here. we had a talk when he asked me out, I told him I wouldn't date until his divorce is finalized and so it goes.Posted by ImpulsvLol I must have forgotten!Posted by GemitatiNope we have told u every time if they really want u
And I was told Scorpios don't divorce...
Hmmm
They'll drop everything for u
But I do remember also being said there is no chance to make them move.
Wondering if you not ready drop everything for them how much damage
will be done for them? But that's another post question. Thanks
and from what I see, scorpios are probably the most loyal, honest and passionate people around.
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Hon that was shot at me. Nevermind.
And yes they are everything you said
Unless someone is not so lucky! Lol
Be well.
Posted by Deedee86
OP, maybe I missed it in a previous thread but has this relationship affected your work in any way? Do you have to keep things secret because of company policy? If that's the case, it's probably best to move to a different shift and/or department.
I ask because there is a employee/supervisor relationship at my work and it is awful to be around them. They are trying to keep it secret but failing miserably.
my guy is the head of operations (boss) at my location. it used to be a secret but most of them know by now. this hasn't been an issue and there are three other couples in my office. I think it only works because it's also a remote location and just 18 of us in my department, almost all of us have rented out in the same or adjacent streets except our chiefs, naturally we are all good friends.
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