Old News: Scorp man breaks Gemini girl's heart

couldn't...typed very fast. venting....for the Love of God. pity please. I am a bit pathetic right now.

I feel pretty foolish and hurt seeing that he did not care whatsoever that I was leaving...although i didn't expect anything more from him. I knew how he would respond. Feelings get hurt all the time, people get rejected all the time. I am no exception I guess...just foolish.

yes....you are right. funny thing is that your honesty (not brutal, just plain honesty) is what I have craved for so long. I just wanted to hear it from the horse's mouth. I just have never worked that way....lead anyone on for no reason. I just couldn't comprehend that way of behaving. For me everything must be clear and cut and simple.....guess I need to broaden my horizons and wise up. But thank you. And I did take my own advice....I actually quit my job...drastic..but a must.

I have a Taurus friend. Absolutely stunning woman. She and I are like two peas in a pod! I admire her personality so much. Taurus people are pretty amazing people. She also is in a similar situation. We are strong-willed, independent, and fiercely passionate but will totally submit to that one person who can prove to us he is even stronger than we. We could never trust giving someone 100% of ourselves who isn't stronger. We definitely do not want a door mat. That is not right and it is downright boring! Problem is, the men who are stronger we fall for end up hurting us. So I just do not know. I say whatever happens, happens.

Sigh...no boyfriend for all these years?

"Distant" crushes happen, and are quite obvious to the subject of the desire. However, if they don't evolve early on into something, what is to expect? That all those women he might be interested in pursuing will die out? That he will have a change of heart?

Haven't you ever been at the receiving end of such hopeless attention / quiet adoration....? I've been at least three times in my life and it slightly creeped me out each time. I found it mildly stressful, mildly flattering. I didn't have a change of heart....I wasn't going to give in to something my mind rejected from the beginning......and I'm triple mutable!

So much energy for a lost cause! I hope that gym kept you fit, though. Time to find the real deal.

LMAO.....I am very fit indeed thanks to the gym. Silver lining I suppose. Yes I have been at the other end of the deal...and I did NOT like it one bit. It did creep me out and I was not nice about it. Believe me I tried to remember that. I tried all thoughts. I never once stalked or tried to show up anywhere he was. EVER. I do have a little dignity. I never pressured him or anything. I just let it ride. And I never touched him or tried to make a move on him. I only ever sent him texts. He was the one who was very touchy-feely and bold when it came to my personal space. I left it all in his court all the while probably looking like a sad puppy dog. It was a high also and I guess a lot of it is my fault b/c I enjoyed the excitement and let it go on for so long. And yes I did go on many dates. MANY. None of them I cared for. So I took those situations into consideration and compared them to how I felt for this guy and how he did not feel the same. So I really did understand that you can never force anyone to feel something they don't, although it sucks. I even recall once about 10 years ago, liking a guy who was in military. He had the choice to stay or leave. He chose to leave. I was hurt but got over it. Still to this day, he messages me and tells me he made a mistake. But it is too late. I don't care. There is no certainty in anything I suppose. And, I did have a life outside all of this craziness. I had many party nights full of fun, I traveled, and I had many other activities I participated in. It was like everything was perfect in my life except this one situation.

Good so! Same here. There was a guy I was "infatuated" with for almost 10 years. A Cancer. He lived far away from me and I only met him once every year for a few days ......at an international conference. He was someone very important in my professional field. This is probably what triggered my adoration, in addition to the intense chemistry I felt when talking to him.

Our meetings were strict professional and probably my crush very obvious, lol. To keep his interest, I was working my butt off each year to gain the most interesting data to present at the conference. I've got his ear and his admiration and I knew that those were the only things I could ever expect from him. However, my effort and enthusiasm also helped me progress quickly on the carrier ladder.......more than a silver lining, I guess 🙂. Oh...and I entertained several happy relationships during that decade as well. Now I'm very happy in a relationship with a Gem