Please need help with a scorpio woman

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kungen
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i recently met a Scorpio woman, after two months of talking an hanging out the inevitable happen which i really like her, so i told her about it, but she said she not ready for it. It was until this month we started to see each other more frequently, and she the one who always initiate them, it was until last week when i was hanging out at a bar with her and my friends, but I was really close with one of my female friends but we are just friends nothing more. but afterwards the Scorpio girl just left without a word, and i tried to ask her the following day if she is mad at me but she avoided the question and just said that "my female friend wanted to leave with me so that why i left without a word". and she started to become really cold towards me.

Here the thing i bump into her at the bar three days later and we talked for a bit and then all of a sudden she asked me where is my "female" friend. i know there was something wrong, and exactly like three days before she left without a word again and i was kinda drunk by that time so i text her explaining that we are just good friends and nothing more, and i not the type of guy who flirts around and stuff, and ask her to forgive me, her response after reading those text was that she " you really scared me out now" i asked if i could called to apologize but she deny it, the next two days i bump into her again but she would just ignore me or smiled at me when we have eye contact.

so here my question is there anything i could to do savage this mess i caused?
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You didn't cause a mess. I personally don't know why you even apologized, unless you're leaving out an important detail.

You may have been more friendly with the female friend for the Scorp's liking, so the Scorp is assuming (correctly or not) you're interest in her is either not genuine or you're just looking to get laid. Just be patient and consistent and the coldness will melt unless you give her reason to question your sincerity.
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kungen
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Posted by PhoenixRising
You didn't cause a mess. I personally don't know why you even apologized, unless you're leaving out an important detail.

You may have been more friendly with the female friend for the Scorp's liking, so the Scorp is assuming (correctly or not) you're interest in her is either not genuine or you're just looking to get laid. Just be patient and consistent and the coldness will melt unless you give her reason to question your sincerity.
nah i apologized because i felt that she lost trust in me and i the type of person who want to get the misunderstanding out of the way asap. so yea i guess i just have to waited out for now. thanks for the advice