Pretty sure my gem dude is ending things.

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He's been off lately and I know works been hard, this whole ldr has been hard. He hasn't been calling at all like normal or hardly texting so I finally asked what's up.

Pretty much stated things at work suck it's affecting his mood.. something happened while he was home that's making him rethink life. He was gonna call tonight but now he needs more time to think.

So yeah that pretty much tells me all I need to know right there. There's 4 months down the drain 🙄
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Posted by nanobot

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.. something happened while he was home that's making him rethink life.


What do you think that is all about?
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I honestly haven't a clue he never made one mention of ANYTHING happening. The only thing that happened with us while he was home was I left one night cause he kept falling asleep on the couch lol. We laughed about it after and made a joke of it but other then that he never said a word about anything else. He usually tells me everything so that kind of hit me by surprise.
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Posted by nanobot

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Posted by nanobot

Posted by scorpio1108

.. something happened while he was home that's making him rethink life.


What do you think that is all about?


I honestly haven't a clue he never made one mention of ANYTHING happening. The only thing that happened with us while he was home was I left one night cause he kept falling asleep on the couch lol. We laughed about it after and made a joke of it but other then that he never said a word about anything else. He usually tells me everything so that kind of hit me by surprise.


I would call him and be like wtf?
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I told him I'd leave him be to think I guess... And left it at that. He's working on an offshore rig its hard to just call him up especially with our time differences.
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Posted by scorpio1108

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Gem men are weird as fuck!

Scorpios are impossible but at least if they love you - they are there...

Gems men...horror in disguise!

4 months? Let me laugh without being offensive...

❤️


Ouch 😞 I thought we were pretty solid overall.. Until tonight lol
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Honey baby love...4 months?

Wait or fuck it! This time isn’t enough.

Or enough for you to fuck it!

Your call.

Keep on living and looking for other people. If Gem comes back and you are taken - please post! Most of us will enjoy his suffering!!! ❤️
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by scorpio1108

Posted by Gemitati

Gem men are weird as fuck!

Scorpios are impossible but at least if they love you - they are there...

Gems men...horror in disguise!

4 months? Let me laugh without being offensive...

❤️


Ouch 😞 I thought we were pretty solid overall.. Until tonight lol


Honey baby love...4 months?

Wait or fuck it! This time isn’t enough.

Or enough for you to fuck it!

Your call.

Keep on living and looking for other people. If Gem comes back and you are taken - please post! Most of us will enjoy his suffering!!! ❤️
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I'll give him a day or two to get his thoughts together. If he can't make the effort to call and tell me what's going on then I'm out. Life's to short to waste it on waiting for someone. I'm a damn good catch if he can't see that I'm sure someone else will.
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Posted by Gobby

You come across as self-centred, controlling and full of yourself.

Not once have you shown any genuine concern about his potential problems, not once have you shown any indication of wanting to work things through... and this is after four months.

So, he's been quiet or distant for a few days or a week. That doesn't necessarily mean anything but you're making a drama out of it, instead of being patient and trying to understand what's actually going on.

Any romantic relationship is a risk, yet you act like he's wasted your time on what should have been a sure deal. Whatever happened to all the qualities that initially attracted you to him in the first place? Or is it that easy for you to emotionally detach (and devalue the relationship) when things don't go your way?

If you're seriously all that, you wouldn't be on here airing your LDR problems with a sun sign most of us know you're not even compatible with.

A bit of humility, humanity and empathy goes a long way...




you're good LOL 😛

She has Libra venus and Libra mars, airy placements. and thats where the LACK of empathy might come from..

which is good for his Gemini Sun. (also air, and lack empathy)

But he sounds like he needs some support and love, and empathy which is his Scorpio moon =D



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I find it interesting that people are assuming that I'm lacking empathy or compassion for his situation. But I guess for actually saying something for once I deserve everyone's opinion. All I've done is be understanding to his needs and his work issues and such. But without proper communication from his side I can't understand where he's at anymore.

I wasn't trying to be selfish or dramatic and I hardly aired much at all in the sense of our actual relationship. I am weary of wasting my time yes, as that seems to happen to me quite frequently I get used then left in the dirt. In the end I can only go with what I know and how I'm feeling because I'm getting stone walled. I'm not an emotionless, soulless person LOL. I want to help but if he wont allow me all I can do is stand back and wait, overthink and assume (cause I'm excellent at that).

As for incompatible signs my mom and dad were scorp and gem and were great together. It was the death of my mother that ended things so I believe it's quite possible for opposite signs to work out.

He's an Aries moon.
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Posted by scorpio1108

I find it interesting that people are assuming that I'm lacking empathy or compassion for his situation. But I guess for actually saying something for once I deserve everyone's opinion. All I've done is be understanding to his needs and his work issues and such. But without proper communication from his side I can't understand where he's at anymore.

I wasn't trying to be selfish or dramatic and I hardly aired much at all in the sense of our actual relationship. I am weary of wasting my time yes, as that seems to happen to me quite frequently I get used then left in the dirt. In the end I can only go with what I know and how I'm feeling because I'm getting stone walled. I'm not an emotionless, soulless person LOL. I want to help but if he wont allow me all I can do is stand back and wait, overthink and assume (cause I'm excellent at that).

As for incompatible signs my mom and dad were scorp and gem and were great together. It was the death of my mother that ended things so I believe it's quite possible for opposite signs to work out.

He's an Aries moon.


If it means anything to me looks like you got it correctly and personaly I would feel the same about such situation. Person who wants to be with will let you be around and share with you, only those who don't want you around will push you away. But too many people waste their time figuring out people that are completely wrong for them and finding explanations for their ahitty behavior.

Just one correction tho- Gem and Scorp aren't opposite signs
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Thank you, kinda nice to have a bit of validation.He's not a bad person, I do care for him deeply but I can't handle being shut out. Partnerships and relationships are about teamwork and communication.

Yeah it's scorp-taurus --- I was meaning more personality wise (air-water).
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Posted by lisabethur8

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Gem men are weird as fuck!

Scorpios are impossible but at least if they love you - they are there...

Gems men...horror in disguise!

4 months? Let me laugh without being offensive...

❤️


he has scorpio moon though...he'll always stick around

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Sorry hon. ‘Always’ and 4 months...don’t go together.
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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Gemitati

Gem men are weird as fuck!

Scorpios are impossible but at least if they love you - they are there...

Gems men...horror in disguise!

4 months? Let me laugh without being offensive...

❤️


he has scorpio moon though...he'll always stick around




Sorry hon. ‘Always’ and 4 months...don’t go together.
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Good she didn't marry a monster that can't gaslight her for a wk. She dodged trouble.
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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Gemitati

Gem men are weird as fuck!

Scorpios are impossible but at least if they love you - they are there...

Gems men...horror in disguise!

4 months? Let me laugh without being offensive...

❤️


he has scorpio moon though...he'll always stick around




Sorry hon. ‘Always’ and 4 months...don’t go together.

Good she didn't marry a monster that can't gaslight her for a wk. She dodged trouble.
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I don’t remember anyone was proposing...after while 4 months!!! Lmao