... some valid questions in your deleted Sex On The Brain thread, and the responses can help both genders reach greater understanding of each other, and since I like to talk about sex, here's my take on things...
Roxi: "would you look down on a woman who had several sexual partners in her past?"
No, but I would want to understand the context -- is she promiscuous? Can she be faithful? I'm not a hypocrite - I've had my share of hook-ups, and I would not hold that against her. But if she's MINE, she's MINE -- if she can't hang with that, I'll kick her ass to the curb to join the other street-walkers...
I've been with women who were more experienced than me, and with women who were total novices, and it really didn't make that much difference - I can play Teacher or Student (especially Naughty Schoolboy!). Odds are, if the "chemistry" is good, the sex will be good...
"do you still harbour the fantasy of meeting a virgin?"
Hell no! I've deflowered two virgins, and I say, let the suicide bombers have all of them! (With my condolences.)
"do you subscribe to the old fashioned view that there are women you screw and women you marry?"
Yes & no. I accept that there are some women who prefer sex within a committed relationship, and others who just want a string-less orgasm, and others whose attitude changes based on the guy they meet. I'm cool with it. As long as both parties are being honest with each other, where's the contradiction??
I had sex with my Scorp on our second real date. It freaked me out, but it didn't keep me from wanting to claim her as MINE. And I did. And she is! (And the rest of you horn-dogs had best stay away from her.)
I like the way things used to be when it comes to sex. People used to be more reserved and if they weren't, they wouldn't blab their mouthes off about it. It's really sickening and not very classy at all. I'm a man of elegance and taste, not a "horn dog"... I expect that in my partner as well.
As we are adults there is nothing wrong with hook ups, it all depends on what stage of your life you and the other person is. However, one should change their habits when they are looking for a serious relationship.
... some valid questions in your deleted Sex On The Brain thread, and the responses can help both genders reach greater understanding of each other, and since I like to talk about sex, here's my take on things...
Roxi: "would you look down on a woman who had several sexual partners in her past?"
No, but I would want to understand the context -- is she promiscuous? Can she be faithful? I'm not a hypocrite - I've had my share of hook-ups, and I would not hold that against her. But if she's MINE, she's MINE -- if she can't hang with that, I'll kick her ass to the curb to join the other street-walkers...
I've been with women who were more experienced than me, and with women who were total novices, and it really didn't make that much difference - I can play Teacher or Student (especially Naughty Schoolboy!). Odds are, if the "chemistry" is good, the sex will be good...
"do you still harbour the fantasy of meeting a virgin?"
Hell no! I've deflowered two virgins, and I say, let the suicide bombers have all of them! (With my condolences.)
"do you subscribe to the old fashioned view that there are women you screw and women you marry?"
Yes & no. I accept that there are some women who prefer sex within a committed relationship, and others who just want a string-less orgasm, and others whose attitude changes based on the guy they meet. I'm cool with it. As long as both parties are being honest with each other, where's the contradiction??
I had sex with my Scorp on our second real date. It freaked me out, but it didn't keep me from wanting to claim her as MINE. And I did. And she is! (And the rest of you horn-dogs had best stay away from her.)
~DyarStra?e