help?

ive been flirting with a scorpio for about 2- 3 months... and up until now ive been giving him attention and flirting and all. and he's doing the same thing...

starting last week, i started to act cool towards him. not being so sweet towards him.. to ignoring him. yes i ignored a scorp. while i was bit scared to do cos i know its wrong.. cos it could possibly blow up in my face...

he gave me the the cold shoulder too, then he messaged me on myspace asking whats wrong with me (i didnt get to check it til now) but he ran into me while i was studying and he came up to me and this was our convo:

him: hey you!

me: hi

him: are you okay? you havent been yourself lately.

me: what are you talking about? i dont think so. ive been myself.

him: i can read you; i can see iti n your eyes and the way you act and sit.. you're angry at something or someone.

me: really? are you sure? i'm wearing contacts you know... ive been fine. i'm not angry.

him: *laughing* yea.. ok. i can tell. i can read you. youre angry.

me: no i'm not. i swear to god i'm not angry.

him: *walking backwards* yea.. you are. you're angry and i know why, and i LOVE it. *blows me a kiss to me*

---- help me? im guessing he knows i like him. is this a challenge to me? a warning? helllp? LOLOL

It means he's got game, and you don't. LOL.

No challenge or warning. He's going to outlast you if you decide to put up your defenses.

Just surrender.

soo.. what should i do? i know scorpios are better at game playing than i can ever be... do you think he likes me?

"do you think he likes me?"

I really don't know.

i'm thinkign of acting cool towards him.. not cold but not the way it used to be... would that make things worse?

It doesn't matter. He'll outlast you.

ooooh buddy.

You can make yourself repulsive to him and not worth to pursue. Now how to do that specifically, only you will know. There's a few key ideas though. One would be lower the comfort level around you. Make it harder to talk to you by being around a group of people he doesn't know (possibly other guys and flirting with them is a plus). Another idea would be to lie to him about anything, maybe details about yourself or lie in general. Embarrassment is another fine choice. If you could find out a secret of his and then reveal it to everyone. Then doing so will prove yourself untrustworthy as a bonus. His jealous/possessive side will come out. Eventually that side of him will make you mad enough to resist him. Once he sees you're not worth the cause, he'll give up. So hold out your defenses there.

Also, doesn't he still have a girlfriend and why haven't you told her about his actions?

ScorpioBehindYou; you're giving me choices of how to get rid of him? LOL...

i believe they are done... or very close. i havent truly spoken to him in 2 weeks.. and i dont know the g/f

You weren't clear on what your intentions were, jackass.

okay. no need for the cursing. deng.

I don't understand people ..

If you know that he is trying to hook up with you, while having a girlfriend, then shouldn't there be all kinds of red flags waving, lights flashing and horns honking?

If he'll do it her .. he'll do it you the next time a pretty girl gets his fancy.

He's a tosser, from day one, by those actions of disrespect alone .. and yet, you're blind to it.

I don't get it .. am I the only person awake?

"okay. no need for the cursing. deng."

Scorpios can be pretty blunt. There's more than a few of them here.

Don't worry, I got your meaning. 😉

PA. As I mentioned in the other topic, they're kids just having fun. I doubt they're approaching it from the same lens you are. I could be wrong.

Yes he likes you!! He wants to f*ck...u. Hopefully he breaks up with his girl first 🙂

thank scorpio_rising for understanding me... 🙂

P.A. i know. i know... i know exactly what you are talking about; but .. i just cant help it with this one. i honestly dont know why.

cap_angel... YAY! thank goodness.. i think?

oOoh you scorps. i just cant get away!

Lots of talk @ scorps "playing around" on the other hand, I read alot about their loyalty & trustworthiness in relationships. Is it really that they're like all humans -- some cheat more and some cheat less?

Ok, Ok-- so I'm not a romantic.

Right now Calypso_Baby, you are playing on his terms. The important thing is to turn it around so it is on your terms or no terms at all.

You can do one of two things:

1. Next time he makes an ambigious statement such as the "i know and i love it" comment, you should have asked him to clarify what he means. Flush him out, try to get him to say it explicitly. If he doesn't, tell him to "keep dreaming".

2. You can go up to him and tell him, yes, you liked him, but you are now over it. But, make sure you are OVER IT when you do, or else he will know. You need to be convincing.

Right now, you are letting him dictate the terms. It is his game and he is winning.

***Lots of talk @ scorps "playing around" on the other hand, I read alot about their loyalty & trustworthiness in relationships. Is it really that they're like all humans -- some cheat more and some cheat less?***

I can speak on loyalty only with Scorp woman. When we are "In a Relationship" We are fiercely loyal. When in love, you are our main focus. We don't even see the hot guy who walks pass as that hot guy, just a guy.

The men. I have known a few cheating scorp guys. In fact all the ones I know have cheated once or twice on a mate. I dunno.

I do know that scorp guys and girls are loyal to family. This is something I have seen consistantly with Scorp guys, be it, parents and siblings or families of their own.