Say what you mean!!

To the point..

Havent heard from bad scorp for 1 month after saying to him that it was time to decide and tell me what he wanted from me (ie, knowing and sleeping together on/off for 9 months) because i was ready to get serious if he felt the same. The lead up was promising..he was cute and sweet but maybe i just was looking thorugh rose-tinted specs??! Anyway, when i said that he literally disappeared, lol!!!!!

Why did he bother leading me on (apart from the sex thing)?? Really, im sure none of it was necessary and now im stuck here feeling like shite. I deleted his number though..always a good idea, hehehe, drunken texts are a massive no-no 🙂

So i just wanted to say to the scorps: if you?re doing this to somebody, you should stop because it really hurts 😢

Sola

Don't accuse other scrops for your mishaps....

Don't you know the consequences of your actions with a scrop?

Why did you give him an altimatum?

"Why did he bother leading me on (apart from the sex thing)??"

other than that how did he lead you on?

I didnt!! My exact words were: Ive come to like you more than a friend and i think its time to decide what we want from each other..i would like you to tell me because i would like more".

Not like i said i want it all or nothing..i was just asking where i stood.

So i just wanted to say to the scorps: if you?re doing this to somebody, you should stop because it really hurts .....

Don't single out just Scorps...every sign is capable of this kind of behavior.

By calling me, asking after my personal life..saying he loves me (once a while ago) and by saying that he?s lucky to have found someone like me?? Ok, maybe im naive..i admit it, but why bothering with the crap if you?re going to run from it?? I sure as hell dont have that kind of habit.

True, but unfortunately in my experience, scorps are the most cruel.

We?re both 25! I didnt call him, but the last message i sent was just to say that we hadn?t spoken for a while and was he alright, but he didnt answer me so i just deleted the number! Im not angry, just sorely disappointed. Its was never ideal because he went to work in Madrid for 4 months and was only back at weekends, and then i went home to Scotland for a couple of months in the summer..it couldnt be defined during that time, long-distances relations didnt suit us.

So, i tried to define it there, but although i got his answer..an explanation other than silence would have been better. Im really surprised at him..maybe i never knew him as well as i thought.

Well, dont i know it!! Well he sure as hell dragged it on..stupid fuck that he is. No i wont admit to having the piss taken..i feel bad enough already!!

oh boy...

I thought you were dating an aqua now??

not dating yet..seeing how it goes. I like him but his life style isnt exactly "desirable"!! He?s unemployed by choice and wants to smoke weed 24/7..BUT, he?s really intelligent..a qualified biochemist with an aversion to employment (anti-establishment) and he?s well read and well travelled..im in a dilema over this one!!

LOL

well, I say stay away from them all then!

I think the fuck buddy role is best suited for the aqua.

no..he?s 35 and doesnt iron his clothes, grrrrr!!! He?s cool though, i enjoy his company!!

The scorp thing..im just annoyed..its not cruel to be truthful 🙂

Im off to eat..my anger consumes my energy!!

later sola.

Im eating TUNA and crackers...blings fave 😛

Hey Bling...its been awhile.

yummy yummy yummy Ive got tuna in my tummy!

say *aaah* and I'll feed you. 🙂
you'll like it, I promise.

😉 you know me so well....

Ive been vegetating this entire week...for the first time in YEARS. Been catching up on my shows. The Office, Weeds, etc.

PICTURE PICTURE PICTURE 🙂!!!!!

stud or hoop??

masochist😉

perfect.

Yes the US one. I havent really been watching anything, no time this semester. The strike is pretty annoying; loads of reality crap to choose from now; im sure.

btw, Rashida's not in the new season much. Since she got a promotion and Jim broke up with her.

You can watch the shows online. Saves me alot of time.

I'll be waiting for the pics bling.🙂🙂

oooh, your bling for true now.

there was no body in the message.

A gems a little too much, dont ya think?? Well see how it looks first. Just keep with the black jewelry.

lol, I know its silver, silly.🙂

Dont you have black jewelry in your ears though?

oooh ok the green looks cute.

I think im finally getting my Macbook since leopards finally come out...though now im saving for my trip to china this summer.

DO you by any chance dangle miscellaneous items from your lobes??

🙂🙂

Yup china, 6 weeks study and catch the Olympics.
I REALLY want the Mac though...I just might have to get a *gasp*... J-O-B!

I feel like poking things in your ear 😉😛 lmao

mistletoe eh...let me know when you do.

I'm not surprised one bit that a Scorpio ran off. It's the reason I can't get along with another Scorpio because I'm too intense and too upfront. What you had Sola was a weak, low confidence, and a evasive Scorpio (average). Most Scorpio's can't handle confrontation or can't handle anything at all. They'll retreat into their "shell" if they feel threated in anyway.

I know it makes no sense!!

tongue, if you play your cards right.

I don't want to hear about your stupid ego.

huh?

Another angry scorp man to add to the dxp collection eh...

i'm glad you noticed

Why thank you...I dont know if you've heard, but I have a merc in pisces.

you young ones are always angry for some reason or another.
*cough*Scorpius/Godess/Negative*cough*

LOL! possibly...

How tall are you new one??

show them the path to enlightenment bling!

Sola,

I hate to hear about your heartbreak, but please don't see it as a SCORPIO thing. My younger brother can be a jerk on occasion, but all of his divorces were initiated by the women! No, he's not an abuser, just a BIG KID -- once all that initial charm wears off, the gals find they don't have the time or energy to raise him from a pup... a 40+ year old pup, that is!

Virgs aren't perfect, either, but when we make a break, it's a clean one -- no doubt in anyone's mind that it's over. If I'd been dating you for 9 months, I would have already told you where I saw US going; and if it wasn't going to work, I would have told you, and moved on (we hate to waste precious time -- so inefficient!)...

You were involved with a Turd, who happened to be a Scorpio. I hope you can flush the memories of him and the pain he caused, and give some Nice Guy a chance to restore your faith in men -- there are plenty of decent ones still left in the world (though we do tend to get hitched pretty quick!)...

~DyarStra?e

I lost faith in men when i got dumped royally 3 years ago..i never really picked up after the first one!! Yeah, i agree, i gave him more than i got..it was a bad deal but that?s experience for you??! Learning the hard way..whatever!! Im not blaming only scorps..i just said that in my experience, they have been the "type" to do the worst by me, bastards come in all signs 🙂

Thanks Irish..understood!! 🙂

Im just sick of the learning process..i?m bored shitless!! I guess i have learned some things of use..so now its time for the lurrrve to begin 🙂

lol. I second that Sola 😛