Scorp male/Scorp female

Any experience on this combo? It seems intense but control clashing at times. Male wants to control. Female doesn't want to be controlled.

In anyone's experience, has a male scorp every been insecure around you? Like, thinking you might be too good for them? As they seem to be aggressive and sure of themselve, they can also be insecure about a particular caliber of woman.

Strange to me, becasue any man on any level is still human to me and doesn't bring any insecurities into play. Is it different for scorp men? A scorp man who does pretty well for himself?

You know I have nothing here to share. Look at my journey lmao. But I could run it past my Scorp gf if you like.

QS...

I am seeing a scrop guy..been about 6 weeks still in the getting to know phase...hahahahahahahahah

Scorpionlady... Me too.

MA, PLEASE DON'T ASK YOUR SCORP FRIEND, WE KNOW WHAT SHE WILL SAY.LOL!!!

"In anyone's experience, has a male scorp every been insecure around you? Like, thinking you might be too good for them? As they seem to be aggressive and sure of themselve, they can also be insecure about a particular caliber of woman. "

I am more of the agressive one...he follows my lead a lot of the time....he is 10 years my sr...he calls me his "Tender Roni" He has some control he likes to be the man about a lot he says it is his job to do this that and the other and I don't stop him. He is pretty open about his day...he works for himself....

Scorpionlady... Me too.

well we can compare notes...his bday is nov 2 mines is the 9th this should be really interesting...

Scorpion lady, we both are Oct. Scorps.

Mine was 10/24 and his is 10/31 (Holloween Scary!!!)

We are the same age...

Well he knows I have control issues...I told him that from day one. So far he has not tried to control me or sound controlling...

QS I won't ask her besides I am about to leave work. But her bday is Oct 31st too. We cancelled SC so I won't be going away next weekend. Man, this year has been filled with losses (friendships) and change of plans (travel) that were out of my hands. It's got to get better at some point. Everyone have a wonderful weekend. I will check in online throughout the weekend but planning to be pretty busy. 😉

Catch you back on later this weekend MA. Was joking about your girlfriend, sort of. We know her view is a little negative right now though.

SL, I constantly remind my friend that I won't tolerate any form of controling. People should do as they please not what others want them too only. Compromise is a must in any rleationship.

Yeah bling, I kinda get that.

crazy,really.blow hot, blow cold type.i know two couples.
one has been going on and off for about a decade now.they are saying they want to settle down,but i really cant say what might happen.all i want is to keep myself away from all this drama,and keep my girl away too.
too many control issues between the two.and none of them wants to give it up.

Dtn, true about the control issues... sigh...

My best friend was with another Scorp, they lived together for a few years. She tells me that she felt disgusted by him 'cause he was such a pushover. She said that it couldn't work with a submissive Scorp like he was. I'd love to see her with a guy who would dominate her. She just happens to end up with pushovers or cheaters. She would need a dominant Scorp man with passion. I wish I knew someone like that to introduce to her.. 🙂

really sometimes i feel so sick of their power games that i feel like pushing them over the table mountain or from a shark tourism boat😛

Ok. Gimme his phone number and I'll arrange their blind date.

🙂 🙂 🙂

What blingy, you are trying to save your azz? 🙂

This combo is such an intense one. It isn't so much like the books say because it's not they they either get along great or kill eachother, it's more that there are intensely passionate and amazing times or periods of horrible fighting. Other than that, I can't say much else so far. As long as the man is willing to deal with her wild emotions and as long as she can handle him being outstandinly posessive there will never be a problem, really. Both posess the other immensly, but, with age (apperantly) even the posessiveness dies down. As a whole, I wouldn't choose a Scorpio woman for anything because I crave a submissive woman. But there are those occasional ones that will do well for a Scorpio man.

Anything is possible. I just don't know how far this can go. It is okay for now. He is cool. Just continually checking him on the control thing... LOL!!!

One thing that pissed me off royally was hearing about her past. It was very hard to accept it because it involved other men. I'm learning, slowly but surely, to let it go. If you want to keep him, don't give him reason to doubt. If you've cheated in your past then keep that information away from him until you can tell he's ready.

I was with my scorp bf for 7 years. He was the kindest, most generous and overall the most wonderful man I've ever met. I consider myself the typical scorp woman, strong, confident, opinionated, refused to be controlled etc. But I never had a problem with him. I loved being with him but unfortunately I wasn't in love with him so I had to end it. But in my opinion I'd date another scorp in a second.

There's a respect between two scorps because we understand each other and let each other have our space and not take anything personally. There are signs that don't date each other well but scorp is not one. BTW, the sex was amazing. Even though we broke up 2 years ago and have both moved on to new relationships we are still really good friends and talk frequently. I don't think we'll ever be completely out of each others life.

Ok well my Scrop friend Birthday is Friday...(Same as Roxi) and I am talking to him on the phone not more than 10 min ago and he's telling me his plans for the week so I ask Are you going to be home on Friday? and he said yea so I said good I did not have to mention that I will see him on friday that was a silent yes...cuz he says to me dear you don't have to get me anything just knowing you is enough...so I said well that is very expensive and we start to laugh so I said ok...

I will get him a really special card and look amazingly sexy under my trenchcoat.

***There's a respect between two scorps because we understand each other and let each other have our space and not take anything personally.***

This is the one thing I find comforting. We might never be in a relationship, but I could definitely see him in my life as a friend for a very long time.

His b-day is Wednesday. I bought him a nice singing card. He went out of town this weekend for his b-day with friends. He texted me "wish you were here we are having a blast!" I texted: I am happy you got a chance to get away and enjoy yourself. I am having a blast too. I went to an awesome Holloween Party this weekend! I had a ball!!! Funny - he is calling me now. This boy must have esp.

it always seems to be that way QS....do yall have plans when he gets back?

I so agree about the mutual respect I am so big on respect and consideration. I do believe that when you are older and more aware of your emotions and feelings you can control them better.

We both have crazy work schedules this week. We might do something on the weekend. I dunno. I haven't really discussed it with him yet.

Just remember, we always SAY we don't want anything for our birthdays but we really do. I'm not saying go all out, but we do like to feel special don't we 🙂

It's the quickest way to my heart anyway.

"We both have crazy work schedules this week. We might do something on the weekend. I dunno. I haven't really discussed it with him yet."

Well QS I hope when he gets back that you and him have a really nice belated B-day for him....

As for me since my Scrop friend does not want anything he can't help but take what I have planned for him when he opens his door....I think I just want to see the shock speechless pleasing look on his face....:-)

I bought him a card. I might even make him dinner.... LOL!!!! He joined my friends and I for my bday and gave me a gift certificate to a spa. I so lurved that.

It all depends on how tomorrow goes. We haven't really talked at all today.

OH SHIT.... His birthday was actually yesterday!!! There is no wonder I didn't hear from him, nor did I call 😢. He told me his b-day was holloweeen. That is today!!! Grrrrrrr....