Scorpian sister double life

2 years ago me and my family found out my sister was smuggling drugs, she got caught at the airport. She had always been the academically smarter one, seemed quieter, the one my mum would show off.

I was always more outspoken which came across troublesome, but very family oriented one, I put my life on hold to help my mum with my little brother so much, while my sister just sort of lived her life, my mum relied on me more but tended to show off my sister more.

We have never been that close, we tried but she always had a side to her that I was never fond of, she always seemed sneaky. She didn’t like no one besides her 2 best friends to know anything about her, not even my mum and she is so open (Libra).

She got me to try and do a scam when we was younger, I had no idea what I was getting myself into, which backfired I took all the blame, my mum looked at me differently for years and not once did she ever tell her the truth about what had happened.

She done something to my mum years ago that I can’t forget but my mum never treated her any different for it.

She used to pass judgement me for the decisions I used to make, so to come and find out that this was what she was doing, more than once, confused me.

I think my mums legit scared of her now, but is happy to just have her home soon.

I’ve never been fond of Scorpios both men and women mainly because of this sneaky trait, why do you guys behave like this?

Posted by Impulsv

Dang the sisterly hate

Id be all concerned about my sisters path n try to help her as much even if it was told give her a hard talk

Instead let me focus on her being Scorpio

Dang

Sister or no sister, she’s always been concerned with doing everything on her own so I’m not concerning myself with her path. Me being the younger sister, I have tried with her so much over the years, everyone has their breaking point. I’m not interested in anything other than helping her financially.

Posted by Impulsv

What’s your sign

Why don’t you take it on your mother seems your resentful she put her on the pedestal

But if it were my sister regardless of bad blood I’d do anything to steal her away from trouble

Aries, nothing in this life is free, it’s more to take the burden off of my mother, nothing more. Like I have said I have tried numerous amount of times.

With all due respect I only wanted to figure out the thought process behind being so closed off as a Scorpio. I’m not here to analyse my relationship with her.

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge

If you help her financially, it sounds like she’s the type of shady who will take advantage of you. Be careful

Thank you, that has been in the back of my mind so I will proceed with caution.

I have a scorp bestie,

And I love what ur describing about them.

Not what ur sister has done ( that's extreme) but more the "sneaky" thing ur describing. I love people who keep parts of themselves/their lives private. That's how I see it..."private" not "sneaky"

Everyone isnt entitled to know EVERYTHING about you....this includes family as well.

And have u ever asked her if she ran drugs? Doubt it! So why wouldn't u call it not freely giving info

Why do u immediately go to sneaky...lol

Seems it says more about u and paranoia,distrust,and insecurities that u may have.

Yes she's ur sister but u dont get to just know everything about her....and like u said...you guys aren't that close.

Also: even if shes a bitch ( she could be: scorps ya know🤷‍♀️) dont use her downfall as a reason to have a " shes not all that" moment

Do better Aries🙄

Posted by Earthy

I have a scorp bestie,

And I love what ur describing about them.

Not what ur sister has done ( that's extreme) but more the "sneaky" thing ur describing. I love people who keep parts of themselves/their lives private. That's how I see it..."private" not "sneaky"

Everyone isnt entitled to know EVERYTHING about you....this includes family as well.

And have u ever asked her if she ran drugs? Doubt it! So why wouldn't u call it not freely giving info

Why do u immediately go to sneaky...lol

Seems it says more about u and paranoia,distrust,and insecurities that u may have.

Yes she's ur sister but u dont get to just know everything about her....and like u said...you guys aren't that close.

Also: even if shes a bitch ( she could be: scorps ya know🤷‍♀️) dont use her downfall as a reason to have a " shes not all that" moment

Do better Aries🙄

I don’t care that I did not know everything, people are entitled to not share every detail about themselves. But when you’re living under a roof with other people and a minor, you would expect a little more consideration on the decisions everyone makes, especially big ones like that. This ordeal has affected us badly, social services got involved.

She had a boyfriend who she used to lay down with who never knew what she was upto, maybe deal with a situation like this first before deflecting and claiming it is paranoia and insecurities.

But like I said my mother is a very understanding woman, any issues that she was having that lead to her making those decisions could have been stopped.

Apparently I should be the one who should do better when she has never owned up to what she had done, didn’t care how that affected me, my future. She’s a grown woman, my older sibling it never occured to her explain what had happened because she did not care to. I saw how my mum treated me for it, so in the end kept it to myself to not allow the same to be done to her, yet I am the one who needs to do better. Ridiculous.

And why would I even sit there and think to ask her about if she’s ever run drugs, when someone holds themselves to a high standard and judges others for doing so called “stupid things” It would be the last thing to cross my mind. Like how does that even make any sense?!

I was only only trying to give background information on our family history in general, to explain dynamics and if there would of been a route to her to hide something like this. I’ve never made her feel like shit about this, I was just more hurt about this made my mother feel about her parenting skills, like she failed her.

At this point I was only trying to figure out how I can assist my mum in maintaining a relationship with her, my mothers always done her best by us I just want her to have a peace of mind.

anyways thanks for your opinion.

Damn your sister is bold af. Drug trafficking is no joke.

She sounds like she has skills when it comes to deflecting.

Too bad she wasnt steered toward more positive things. She sounds resourceful.

Aries and scorpio can be a hard mix

Posted by Impulsv

Listen seems your mother put a lot of strife between you n your sister by being compared to her

It’s not about she’s not all that

But rather she is your sister n blood

You can take that up on your mother for treating you guys different

N it’s aad you grew up this way but it’s not all your sisters fault from what you wrote

Yes she’s getting into trouble obviously she needs help

It’s not all but she could of helped in such a big way if she was honest about the situation that she got me involved in, I tried to protect her and kept it to myself. As time went on I genuinely thought that maybe she cared enough to come clean but never chose to because she didn’t care enough to. I believe in fairness and chances but I have no more left in me, blood or not I’m not going to be around someone who I have to second guess what they might be up to. I’m at a age where I want a peace of mind. My mum wants a relationship with her, I just wanted insight in what she can do to help her be more open.

Posted by DMV

Damn your sister is bold af. Drug trafficking is no joke.

She sounds like she has skills when it comes to deflecting.

Too bad she wasnt steered toward more positive things. She sounds resourceful.

Aries and scorpio can be a hard mix

Yeah it is, I hope she is able to and I am sure she will turn this situation around to the best of her abilities.

I’m know not all are like this but I am staying well clear, I’ve never understood why people say Scorpios and Aries are a good mix. I have pisces in my chart too which I thought would of have helped but nope lol, I’m not fond of them.

Posted by peachy06

"I’ve never been fond of Scorpios both men and women mainly because of this sneaky trait, why do you guys behave like this?"

Why do you talk as if we were all drug dealers or whatever ?

To be sneaky ≠ to be shady as fuck

I am not responsible for how you chose to imply what I wrote, but that’s not what I even remotely suggesting.

If you read what I wrote properly you will see that I stated that I know not all Scorpios are the same.

I was just going off of my own experiences, and others around me.

So I came on here to help get some in sight on what I do not understand because my sister never talks much.

Someone previously stated about keeping some things private or to whom you trust more with, which I 100% agree with.

It is only when it implicates other people is where I am at a lost.

It may or may not be her Scorpio sun, it may be an evolved or unevolved trait but I have just seen a correlation with Scorpio suns around me. That is all.

Posted by peachy06

Posted by Aniesha23

Posted by peachy06

"I’ve never been fond of Scorpios both men and women mainly because of this sneaky trait, why do you guys behave like this?"

Why do you talk as if we were all drug dealers or whatever ?

To be sneaky ≠ to be shady as fuck

I am not responsible for how you chose to imply what I wrote, but that’s not what I even remotely suggesting.

If you read what I wrote properly you will see that I stated that I know not all Scorpios are the same.

I was just going off of my own experiences, and others around me.

So I came on here to help get some in sight on what I do not understand because my sister never talks much.

Someone previously stated about keeping some things private or to whom you trust more with, which I 100% agree with.

It is only when it implicates other people is where I am at a lost.

It may or may not be her Scorpio sun, it may be an evolved or unevolved trait but I have just seen a correlation with Scorpio suns around me. That is all.

I perfectly understood what you were trying to convey, but what do you want us to do about it ? It's not like we actually know your sister.

She's your family so deal with it alone.

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Like you know everyone on heres family, friends, partners or colleagues posts that you chose to comment on. As she is a Scorpio, I wanted some insight from fellow Scorpions.

The point of my post completely went over your head, so if you don’t have anything nice or constructive to say, don’t say anything at all.

Posted by Aniesha23

2 years ago me and my family found out my sister was smuggling drugs, she got caught at the airport. She had always been the academically smarter one, seemed quieter, the one my mum would show off.

I was always more outspoken which came across troublesome, but very family oriented one, I put my life on hold to help my mum with my little brother so much, while my sister just sort of lived her life, my mum relied on me more but tended to show off my sister more.

We have never been that close, we tried but she always had a side to her that I was never fond of, she always seemed sneaky. She didn’t like no one besides her 2 best friends to know anything about her, not even my mum and she is so open (Libra).

She got me to try and do a scam when we was younger, I had no idea what I was getting myself into, which backfired I took all the blame, my mum looked at me differently for years and not once did she ever tell her the truth about what had happened.

She done something to my mum years ago that I can’t forget but my mum never treated her any different for it.

She used to pass judgement me for the decisions I used to make, so to come and find out that this was what she was doing, more than once, confused me.

I think my mums legit scared of her now, but is happy to just have her home soon.

I’ve never been fond of Scorpios both men and women mainly because of this sneaky trait, why do you guys behave like this?

LOL. I mean one doesn't expect to read she was smuggling drugs. But hey, no one is perfect. Sometimes a little smuggling ...wait no. Let me be quiet before I tell on my younger self.

Are you a middle child?

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Posted by Earthy

I have a scorp bestie,

And I love what ur describing about them.

Not what ur sister has done ( that's extreme) but more the "sneaky" thing ur describing. I love people who keep parts of themselves/their lives private. That's how I see it..."private" not "sneaky"

Everyone isnt entitled to know EVERYTHING about you....this includes family as well.

And have u ever asked her if she ran drugs? Doubt it! So why wouldn't u call it not freely giving info

Why do u immediately go to sneaky...lol

Seems it says more about u and paranoia,distrust,and insecurities that u may have.

Yes she's ur sister but u dont get to just know everything about her....and like u said...you guys aren't that close.

Also: even if shes a bitch ( she could be: scorps ya know🤷‍♀️) dont use her downfall as a reason to have a " shes not all that" moment

Do better Aries🙄

I don’t care that I did not know everything, people are entitled to not share every detail about themselves. But when you’re living under a roof with other people and a minor, you would expect a little more consideration on the decisions everyone makes, especially big ones like that. This ordeal has affected us badly, social services got involved.

She had a boyfriend who she used to lay down with who never knew what she was upto, maybe deal with a situation like this first before deflecting and claiming it is paranoia and insecurities.

But like I said my mother is a very understanding woman, any issues that she was having that lead to her making those decisions could have been stopped.

Apparently I should be the one who should do better when she has never owned up to what she had done, didn’t care how that affected me, my future. She’s a grown woman, my older sibling it never occured to her explain what had happened because she did not care to. I saw how my mum treated me for it, so in the end kept it to myself to not allow the same to be done to her, yet I am the one who needs to do better. Ridiculous.

And why would I even sit there and think to ask her about if she’s ever run drugs, when someone holds themselves to a high standard and judges others for doing so called “stupid things” It would be the last thing to cross my mind. Like how does that even make any sense?!

I was only only trying to give background information on our family history in general, to explain dynamics and if there would of been a route to her to hide something like this. I’ve never made her feel like shit about this, I was just more hurt about this made my mother feel about her parenting skills, like she failed her.

At this point I was only trying to figure out how I can assist my mum in maintaining a relationship with her, my mothers always done her best by us I just want her to have a peace of mind.

anyways thanks for your opinion.

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Hi again

I fully understand what ur saying about being inconsiderate. But just think how human nature is usually to please oneself, consideration is usually a after thought most times..sorry...how old are u? This should be a reality for you by now.

How can u help ur mom?....just remind her of all the accomplishments that ur sister has made and then tell her that this mistake she made isnt her fault. Honestly if shes ur moms " favorite" I dont really understand why u would need to. She will be singing ur sisters praises in no time.

Ur response sounds argumentative, if I wasnt so used to Aries ppl I would have assumed that u were upset by my message. I know better. Good luck with ur family

And hopefully u will one day stop resenting ur sister so much.

Drug traffickers are at the bottom of the totem pole. She was answering to someone bigger badder and much more dangerous. Of fucking course she wouldn’t tell y’all about it! If only to keep you safe.

It’s easy to judge someone’s fuck ups when they aren’t our own. But show some empathy. You literally have zero clue what she went through to end up where she did.

Thank you all for your inputs, I have taken on board everything that everyone has said. Thanks again