scorpio & cancer?

anyone in this type of relationship?

I met a guy at a bar last weekend. (I just want to add that I haven't been to a bar/club in about 5 years & never really 'met' anyone there)
anyway, so we hit it off. & at the end of the night I gave him my number (which I rarely ever do)
We've talked a few times since then. Monday we were texting for like 3 hours. I know a lot about him from when we were at the bar, because he decided to tell me his life story....
Anyway, I feel like he may be too sensitive for me. Like sometimes when we talk/text, I feel like I'm too bitchy for him.

I've read that the 2 signs together are supposedly good, but I feel like they're really not. :/

i'm the scorpio, he's the cancer
do they lie a lot?

Posted by caribbeangold

Posted by scorpio_chic
which are you? Scorpio or cancer??

I've dated cancer men in the past, we are supposedly 'sooooo compatible'.


:::crickets:::

second the crickets.

cancer and scorpio are supposed to be compatible, pisces and scorpio are supposed to be compatible, well, let me tell you. no thanks, i say.
what i don't like about them is their emotions. argh!
the men can be so manipulative, passive-aggressive. i just did not have the patience for that.
it has worked for some but not for me.

for now, don't worry much about compatibility.

and by the way, if it doesn't work, find yourself a virgo or a capricorn, although i prefer a virgo (i have a virgo bf). just be warned, must have the patience of a saint with the earth boys. seriously.

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I've come across 1 pisces before, mate wise, and I also say no thank you. He was very allergic to planning. Everything was spontaneous, and when we had plans he always canceled.
this cancer does seem passive-aggressive :/
I would like a vigro, but the only men I've come across are relatives (dad aunts & uncles), and my boss. And my boss is a man whore. big time. His birthday was the reason we were at the bar & I met the cancer.
I live in NY, the bar was in NJ, and oddly the cancer lives like 5 minutes away from my job (in NY).

his birthday is June 27th 1978. I don't know where he was born or what time, so I don't know what his other placements are.

omg. my boss is a man w h o r e

Oh my gosh. Cancers a re much too weak for us Scorpios. I'm sure that there are some strong Cancers out there, but in generalizations, Scorpios will become extremely annoyed with the moody, whiny, ultra emotional Cancer. Cancers are way too sensitive. Now maybe it works the other way around( Cancer man and Scorpio woman) but as far as Cancer man and Scorpio woman, I hardly EVER see these two together. Everytime I read something say that this is the best couple I have to laugh. I like Cancer men as friends but nothing else. It takes a strong man to handle a Scorpio woman, and that's exactly why I see Scorpio women with Capricorn, Virgo, Leo and Aquarius men. A Cancer will not be able to handle the harsh words that tends to come out of a Scorpios' mouth. My aunt is a Cancer and I became sick of her stupid childish infintile behavior and cut her off. Guess who keeps asking about me? She does. Cancers donot know when to let go. They will cling on for dear life- a big fat no no for the Scorpio. Cancers actually love people who hate them.

Oops! Made a mistake. I mean it probably works for a Scorpio man and Cancer woman, although I hardly see these two together either.

Posted by Pretty in Pink
i'm the scorpio, he's the cancer
do they lie a lot?

If YOU were the Cancer - I'd say GO FOR IT
But you are not, so I'd say GO INTO IT KNOWING HE'LL BE WEAK & NEEDY ALL THE TIME

- you may dig it ...until you realize you NEED TO wear the pants.

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Posted by Pretty in Pink
i'm the scorpio, he's the cancer
do they lie a lot?

If YOU were the Cancer - I'd say GO FOR IT
But you are not, so I'd say GO INTO IT KNOWING HE'LL BE WEAK & NEEDY ALL THE TIME

- you may dig it ...until you realize you NEED TO wear the pants.

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ehhh.
My main reason for liking older men is because I like the men to be in control.
if I'll be the one wearing the pants.... I don' even know...
My last serious relationship was like that. He was a leo, but younger than me.
we'll see

I don't know any male aquarians...

An update...

I went to go hang out with the cancer last night @ his place. We chilled, watched movies got to know each other etc. (no sex or kissing though).
I did notice that he was kind of lazy though. Like at one point, I told him I was hungry, and he told me that I could go look in the fridge/cabinets to get something to eat. No, he didn't offer me anything, although @ around 1:30 he was telling me we could go to wendys.
so around 1:35 his phone goes off, he was sitting next to me & he got up to check it. He didn't answer it, but I don't know if it was an actual call or a text.
Literally about 2 minutes later I hear someone at the door w/ their key. A girl walks in & says hi to me. I said hi back. He'd told me that his roommate was female, but that there was nothing going on between them, they were old friends & she needed help with the bills.
Anyway, so she says to him, can you help me with something. They go to the basement for a few minutes & he comes back carrying a big box. He gave me a look like, 'sorry she interrupted us.' She comes up & is like, "Hi my name is Joni" & before I could say my name, she says, "Did he tell you he had a girlfriend". I was shocked for a minute & then said no.
As I was leaving I said to her, "I'm sorry I didn't know" (If I had known I wouldn't have went over there). Then she asks if we had sex. I said no & left.
I was so in shock that I kept tossing & turning and didn't even sleep good.
He prided himself as being honest. He told me a lot of stuff that he could have kept to himself.
I knew something was up though, because when we talking (right before she came) I'd asked him what his roommates name was, and for whatever reason he wouldn't tell me. I may text him to see what he has to say. :/

why would I invite him to my place?

Now I am just disappointed.. I am trying to find out who is the best match for cancers, and I came to a conclusion that it is scorpio..But now that I have read this topic, I am starting to wonder again who is our best match....

yes. very done.

he did call me last night to try to down play our 'relationship' to his girlfriend.
oh well. I now see what kind if person he is. And that's not the type of person I would want to be friends with, especially not in a relationship with.

Posted by Pretty in Pink

Like at one point, I told him I was hungry, and he told me that I could go look in the fridge/cabinets to get something to eat. No, he didn't offer me anything, although @ around 1:30 he was telling me we could go to wendys.

And...buh-bye.

Posted by Pretty in Pink
An update...

I went to go hang out with the cancer last night @ his place. We chilled, watched movies got to know each other etc. (no sex or kissing though).
I did notice that he was kind of lazy though. Like at one point, I told him I was hungry, and he told me that I could go look in the fridge/cabinets to get something to eat. No, he didn't offer me anything, although @ around 1:30 he was telling me we could go to wendys.
so around 1:35 his phone goes off, he was sitting next to me & he got up to check it. He didn't answer it, but I don't know if it was an actual call or a text.
Literally about 2 minutes later I hear someone at the door w/ their key. A girl walks in & says hi to me. I said hi back. He'd told me that his roommate was female, but that there was nothing going on between them, they were old friends & she needed help with the bills.
Anyway, so she says to him, can you help me with something. They go to the basement for a few minutes & he comes back carrying a big box. He gave me a look like, 'sorry she interrupted us.' She comes up & is like, "Hi my name is Joni" & before I could say my name, she says, "Did he tell you he had a girlfriend". I was shocked for a minute & then said no.
As I was leaving I said to her, "I'm sorry I didn't know" (If I had known I wouldn't have went over there). Then she asks if we had sex. I said no & left.
I was so in shock that I kept tossing & turning and didn't even sleep good.
He prided himself as being honest. He told me a lot of stuff that he could have kept to himself.
I knew something was up though, because when we talking (right before she came) I'd asked him what his roommates name was, and for whatever reason he wouldn't tell me. I may text him to see what he has to say. :/

whoa... that's crazy...

i feel like guys who tell you "all" about themselves from the jump only do so to make you think they have nothing to hide.

Posted by DyTryin

CVG: I am starting to wonder again who is our best match....

Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo - in that order.

Really, Capricorn? Really? No.

Posted by prettyladii

Posted by DyTryin

CVG: I am starting to wonder again who is our best match....

Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo - in that order.

Really, Capricorn? Really? No.

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Earth signs, really? No. Will rather go for my water fellows. Or a libra, even just for a day 🙂

Posted by CancVenusGem
Now I am just disappointed.. I am trying to find out who is the best match for cancers, and I came to a conclusion that it is scorpio..But now that I have read this topic, I am starting to wonder again who is our best match....

I believe that any water sign can find a soul-mate from fellow waters signs...BUT you need to find the right person that matches you from that pool (pisces , taurus, scorp)
For cancers , think best bet would be Pisces, Taurus and perhaps Scorpio..

@caribbeangold

I agree with your statement about piscecs being spontaneous my dad is one of them but there are different of hem. My girlfriend is a pisces: all feminine,sweet, easy-going all that. Plus, she is diff type of stereotyped Pisces people (not lazy, kinda career oriented and what shocks me is that she likes to save money, lol )


Scorpios....Generally i get along with majority of them BUT not in a romance way. When it comes to romance i prefer those
saint type scorps (i do not know which category they are: phonex eagle... ). Why?! Because those are the scorps who i get mutual recognition, respect and understanding. They accept and adore me the way i am. However, you are not supposed to make a mistake when you are with those saint-type-scorps. As both scorps and cancers have hard time forgetting and forgiving. Here pisces comes handy they forgive you in an instant..(i often do/say things without thinking twice that may hurt my pisces but she is forgiving and compassionate creature)

Oops i am late...need to go

i think its some scorned scorps up in here,lol..

but us pisces men & cancer men know how to get in a scorp woman draws pretty easy..and since its so easy, we may tend to think of you as some little slut bags and decide its best to leave you alone..or keep you just as a fuck buddy

I have never been attracted to pisces men, but yes to a certain extent to cancers.

But electrically or explosively only to a scorp.

Scorp chicks whining about childish crabs are lol-worthy. Too immature to be your sugar-daddy, princess? ahah

Posted by mr.crabby
Scorp chicks whining about childish crabs are lol-worthy. Too immature to be your sugar-daddy, princess? ahah

who was this in reference to?
I don't recall saying that I want a sugar daddy.

Posted by Pretty in Pink

Posted by mr.crabby
Scorp chicks whining about childish crabs are lol-worthy. Too immature to be your sugar-daddy, princess? ahah

who was this in reference to?
I don't recall saying that I want a sugar daddy.

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Not you, someone else. And in general, too. Stick around a bit and this will apply often.

I wish I would have read all of this earlier. Cancer men ARE very needy and weak. They need to be with someone who is sturdy and doesn't have their own issues going on. Its all about them. What I realize now is yes, they are the sweetest guys you will meet and treat you like a princess, BUT at the end of the day they only look out for their emotional needs. I wanted to end my relationship with the cancer I was seeing because I sensed it would end sooner or later. He didn't really want to let go (I know they hate rejection), and so I continued with it. Then he tells me he met someone else (and they say scorpio's are sneaky 😉)and pretty much kicked me to the curb and moved on as if there was never anything between us. It made me wonder if he ever REALLY cared. Then, he comes back a few weeks later asking me how my life is going because "he wants to know". Eff u!!!

Yeah, I'm bitter, and have found a new strong dislike towards cancer men!! 🙂

Now, are a virgo or capricorn really our best match??! I have found no attraction for taurus....maybe I haven't met the right one, but one who was interested in me was BORING..*yawn*
My strongest attraction was towards a Cap, but that went nowhere fast. I really wish I could find a perfect balance of water with some grounded earth.

idk... Cancer and Scorpio are higly compatible but in every relationships both partner's have to communicate and not be manipulative. If both are willing to compromise that will do wonders for the relationship yessir.

Posted by TyDyed

IME...

Scorpio Men seem happier with Pisces or Cancer Women.

Scorpio Women seem happier with Capricorn or Virgo Men.

My In-Laws are Scorpio Woman + Cancer Man. I don't know how she tolerates his crabby-ass shit, but they've been happily married for about 50 years...

I just said the same thing in another thread. I agree.