Scorpio girl lost interest? Went cold?

im a bit desperate for some opinions on what happened and if i have a chance

im a virgo male, and have been talking to this scorpio woman online for a while, a few months

as of lately she hasn't replied to my messages, and hasn't initiated any. I actually do have an interest in her, but for a few reasons im not able to meet right away.

we talk on social media, shes never asked for my number, doesn't pressure me. She has asked to meet a few times and i honestly did want to meet but have a lot going on. tbh she did spoil me with this patience but im thinking bc shes gone cold on me shes annoyed or bored and im wondering what i can do to get her back in my corner?

how do i know if shes tired of me? what can i do to get her to engage again?

Posted by blvckphvse

Do you know any of her other placements? She asked you to meet a few times and it never happened.. she probably thinks you are stringing her along or she got bored with waiting. She never asked for your number because things are going slow.. you haven't even set up a time to meet her yet.. So did you ever ask for her number? She may want you to initiate more so that she knows you are interested. But if you want her back in your corner, be honest. Tell her that you like her and have interest in her, and be honest about why you can't meet right away. She'll either bite or she won't, then you'll have your answer.

I dont remember them... Honestly im not so into astrology, im here bc i googled scorpio women and thought a forum would be a good start lol but she is really into it, and i think she has a gemini moon but im not sure what else.

I haven't asked for her number because i did feel like we were content how we were and read alot that scorpio women can be scared off when pressured. but that they would initiate and she never asked or implied it was an issue.

I did communicate there are some things going on that i need time to sort and she seemed understanding. I was trying to be discrete bc i didn't want her pity. some health and minor finance problems. should i tel her that? i wanted my ducks in a row before seeing her. and honestly she is such a beautiful girl inside and out i wasnt expecting her responses at all.

The last time i checked in on her she only read my msg, didn't respond.

should i invite her out now? I dont want to seem desperate or out of the blue

Posted by emeraldgem

Yeah...Scorpios chix don't play. I think you delayed too long and your words are meaningless at this point. Ask her out.

yeah i think i will ask her out

would that seem creepy?

It's been a little over a week since she's been unresponsive, i didn't text her a million times or anything though.

Posted by alexscaries

You should have made time to meet her. Now you either look like you aren't interested or are flakey.

Or a catfish

Oh this is my combo!

She probably took it as you being uninterested, i agree with everyone here.

Anyone can talk, it's what you DO that is a direct reflection of your desires.

Sure you can reassure her and tell her whatever you feel necessary. I don't think she will see it as creepy, only un-moving. Like she'll probably listen but won't really care because you've reached an impasse. So now there needs to be action if you'd like to move forward.

We're really patient people, that's why she gave you lots of wiggle room. But i can bet money she wasn't asking for your number at any point in time, and waiting for you to ask as a gauge of your interest in her. But again, you didn't deliver.

How long have you been talking?

Ask her out. See what happens.