Scorpio man blocking (Page 2)

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Posted by Pesto101

No. You're overthinking it. Stop letting it get to you.

You're being used by a person with no self respect nor respect for others, including you.

These types of ppl cannot be fixed.

If you are unblocked and messaged, dump the text here b4 u reply.

I will do, thank you 😊

Posted by Pesto101

No. You're overthinking it. Stop letting it get to you.

You're being used by a person with no self respect nor respect for others, including you.

These types of ppl cannot be fixed.

If you are unblocked and messaged, dump the text here b4 u reply.

You know what I’m thinking I should do.

As I will never see him or communicate.

I’m thinking to send him 1 last message to call him out on this. I really want to do this but not sure.

I would say something like:

Thru out our 5 years of friendship, everytime I refused to do something for u or if something annoyed you - you would always block!

There was never any room for communication, but a strate block from you.

Im seeing this now as - nothing but disrespect and behaviour that is embracing, childlike and something you should grow out of.

Nobody will tell you this - but work on this as a mature adult. I wish I had said this to you a long time ago, firmly, but I was to stupid to let you keep doing this over and over again. Not anymore.

I was not even given a chance to know details on what kind of papers you needed to sign - it could be a lease, anything.

I wish you all the best but u really you should reflect and don’t do this.

Shall I send him this? I never ever called him out on this I think I should ..

No, you’re still pleading with him to change and be there for you. That’s what that message reads to me.

Block him back and ignore him, he’s done this one too many times and when and if he does try and reach out again. He’ll get the message loud and clear!

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

Posted by Ess

Hi all,

I really need some honest advice on what to do on the below please.

I have known a Scorpio for about 6 years now.

We have always been in touch and text now and then. Throughout our friendship, I always reassured him that I will always be there for him. He had feelings for me but we didn’t go any further.

Anyway, recently he asked me to sign some residential papers for him.

I said I will have to check if I can do this as currently the job I’m in, isn’t permanent. I checked and got back to him saying I can’t do this , my work isn’t permanent. Within less than a minute he BLOCKED me. Bearing in mind, this guy is mature - over 43 years of age. Throughout our friendship, anytime I refused on things, he’s always blocked. Which I have always found so childish, hurtful.

I’m a bit disappointed at myself as im feeling hurt and want him to unblock me.

I have invested so much energy and genuine care for this guy over the years and can’t come to terms why he’s like this and why he did this

I attempted to message him on a different app he uses, and I said life is so short and that I’m sorry I had to say said no. I made it clear that if my job was permanent it would have been different.

I’m still blocked and he’s made it out like he’s not even read my message.

What shall I do guys? You would think out of maturity he would have given me a chance to ask more about the form but within a second he blocked me.

Not sure what to do.

I have lost my peace since he’s done this. I can’t seem to move on from this and enjoy my days.



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Ignore him. Leave him to his sulk. Don't waste your time on him. Carry on with your life. By doing this, it will really piss him off but also let him know you're not prepared to put up with his bullshit - exactly what a scorpio needs. He will come around at some point. That will be when you decide whether you can arsed with him anymore or not. Don't be a sap or a doormat. Scorpio will have no respect for you.

Posted by Ess

Posted by Pesto101

No. You're overthinking it. Stop letting it get to you.

You're being used by a person with no self respect nor respect for others, including you.

These types of ppl cannot be fixed.

If you are unblocked and messaged, dump the text here b4 u reply.

You know what I’m thinking I should do.

As I will never see him or communicate.

I’m thinking to send him 1 last message to call him out on this. I really want to do this but not sure.

I would say something like:

Thru out our 5 years of friendship, everytime I refused to do something for u or if something annoyed you - you would always block!

There was never any room for communication, but a strate block from you.

Im seeing this now as - nothing but disrespect and behaviour that is embracing, childlike and something you should grow out of.

Nobody will tell you this - but work on this as a mature adult. I wish I had said this to you a long time ago, firmly, but I was to stupid to let you keep doing this over and over again. Not anymore.

I was not even given a chance to know details on what kind of papers you needed to sign - it could be a lease, anything.

I wish you all the best but u really you should reflect and don’t do this.

Shall I send him this? I never ever called him out on this I think I should ..

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No. Do not send him anything at all.

You do not tell a scorpio with words.

You tell them with actions.

By you not communicating a "one last message" which, by the way, won't be your last message - you're doing it as some attempt to gain his attention. Somehow you think you've been wronged, and you have been, but not in the way you think, and you want him to know about it but the worst thing is you actually think he is unaware of his behaviour when in all seriousness he knows EXCACTLY what he does and, ultimately, that message will just give him more of an upper hand.

Ignore him. Don't give him your time or attention.

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

He doesn't need to hear it.

You just want to say it.

There is a difference.

Last thing I want him to think about me is being disloyal as a friend and letting him down.

I don’t want him to see this as some sort of betrayal.

I wanted to tell him otherwise he will never learn .

I won’t be impulsive about this decision of messaging him with all that .

Did you read what Agent said— Read and comprehend.

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

He doesn't need to hear it.

You just want to say it.

There is a difference.

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Hi Agent

I won’t say anything. I’m not sure if you’ve seen on the thread the message I sent him a week later when he blocked me?

I will not be sending another one. No way. You’ve stopped me!!

Thank you for this x

Posted by Ess

Last thing I want him to think about me is being disloyal as a friend and letting him down.

I don’t want him to see this as some sort of betrayal.

I wanted to tell him otherwise he will never learn .

I won’t be impulsive about this decision of messaging him with all that .

Yeah cause you’re the catalyst for change.

Ok girl

Posted by Ess

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

He doesn't need to hear it.

You just want to say it.

There is a difference.

Hi Agent

I won’t say anything. I’m not sure if you’ve seen on the thread the message I sent him a week later when he blocked me?

I will not be sending another one. No way. You’ve stopped me!!

Thank you for this x

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I only needed to read your first post. It was only after I'd posted my first response that I read an update message on the last page (page 6 I think). I did read that one which only reconfirmed my initial post and which prompted my next two posts.

Glad I could help. I don't know you but nobody deserves poor treatment from a sulky scorpio. I'm a scorpio by the way.

Posted by Ess

I wanted to tell him otherwise he will never learn .

If he cared about your perception of him he wouldn't repeatedly block communication from you.

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

He doesn't need to hear it.

You just want to say it.

There is a difference.

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This. It’s in your hands ultimately but I think we’ve made it clear where the solution lies.

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

You have control issues. You don't think he knows his behaviour is immature and disrespectful? You can't make anyone "reflect" on their own behaviour aka give a sh*t about your feelings. At this point in his life, his needs trumps anything you feel.

With that stated, let's not make this about what "he needs to hear so he can learn from his mistake". Your feelings are hurt and rightly so. However this last message is all about what you need and want and from your non stop posting, I am guessing you're hoping to get one last reaction from him. I don't believe you will get what you're looking for. Really depends on the Scorp of course, but I doubt he'll even read it. I mean you're blocked how is it going to get through?... Eh, but knock yourself out.....

Posted by Maxian

Posted by Ess

Last thing I want him to think about me is being disloyal as a friend and letting him down.

I don’t want him to see this as some sort of betrayal.

I wanted to tell him otherwise he will never learn .

I won’t be impulsive about this decision of messaging him with all that .

He doesn't care or give zero shites about you, why on earth do you care what he thinks of you?

If you want to teach him something, you don't let him come back into your life like that ever again!

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He made himself the sole decider for her self esteem.

He decides if she’s happy or not

How cruel is he.

I can’t get over how he’s treated me. In seconds he’s cut me like I don’t exist.

What a twat!

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

You have control issues. You don't think he knows his behaviour is immature and disrespectful? You can't make anyone "reflect" on their own behaviour aka give a sh*t about your feelings. At this point in his life, his needs trumps anything you feel.

With that stated, let's not make this about what "he needs to hear so he can learn from his mistake". Your feelings are hurt and rightly so. However this last message is all about what you need and want and from your non stop posting, I am guessing you're hoping to get one last reaction from him. I don't believe you will get what you're looking for. Really depends on the Scorp of course, but I doubt he'll even read it. I mean you're blocked how is it going to get through?... Eh, but knock yourself out.....

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I just wished I called him out on this.

Even if he doesn’t reply - it’s fine. I’m not expecting this but I just keep feeling he needs to know where he’s gone wrong. Ive never had the change to tell him this. I’m not blocked on another app he uses.

Posted by Ess

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Ess

I know but I feel nobody will tell him this and he will never learn. I meant reflect on his own behaviour.

Whether he unblocks me or not - I don’t care now but this man needs to learn his mistake .

He needs to hear this .

Anything else I can say or just leave it as it is?

You have control issues. You don't think he knows his behaviour is immature and disrespectful? You can't make anyone "reflect" on their own behaviour aka give a sh*t about your feelings. At this point in his life, his needs trumps anything you feel.

With that stated, let's not make this about what "he needs to hear so he can learn from his mistake". Your feelings are hurt and rightly so. However this last message is all about what you need and want and from your non stop posting, I am guessing you're hoping to get one last reaction from him. I don't believe you will get what you're looking for. Really depends on the Scorp of course, but I doubt he'll even read it. I mean you're blocked how is it going to get through?... Eh, but knock yourself out.....

I just wished I called him out on this.

Even if he doesn’t reply - it’s fine. I’m not expecting this but I just keep feeling he needs to know where he’s gone wrong. Ive never had the change to tell him this. I’m not blocked on another app he uses.

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Honestly - best way to wind up or fuck off a scorp is to ignore especially when they least expect it. Take back the upper hand.

I agree here

To be honest I think I’m over it ……but just that strong urge to put him in his place is still there! Lol

Posted by Maxian

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Posted by Ess

Last thing I want him to think about me is being disloyal as a friend and letting him down.

I don’t want him to see this as some sort of betrayal.

I wanted to tell him otherwise he will never learn .

I won’t be impulsive about this decision of messaging him with all that .

He doesn't care or give zero shites about you, why on earth do you care what he thinks of you?

If you want to teach him something, you don't let him come back into your life like that ever again!

He made himself the sole decider for her self esteem.

He decides if she’s happy or not

She decides that herself, no?

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Idk, does she?

I want to know more about papers. Please explain the situation in details. But from the sound of it, he just tried to use you.

When I was a student I was friends with someone who got me a very responsible job in govt. I was kind of "in debt". That I had to make it up to him in some way, for helping me out greatly. So when the time came and he needed a large amount of credit from the bank - he came to me and asked for help. My credit history was impeccable. So I got the money for him and never questioned if he'd pay it back. We had an agreement that he'd pay, but he needed my name on official papers. So the time went on and one day I received a call from bank that I owe x amount of money for the time being. Gave him a call and he hung up on me. I can't tell you what I went thru, it was an absolute terror, the amount I had taken out was larger than I could have possibly covered. I looked for him everywhere and he tried to disappear on me.

What I did next was my last choice I never thought I'd use. I had some compromising information about him with the proof, so I told him that if he didn't pay the full amount owed by the certain date - I'd expose him. It worked.

As for your situation you didn't lose nothing. You lost a fake friend who's constantly on a look out how to take advantage of you. That's my impression, not having any more details.

Posted by Ess

How cruel is he.

I can’t get over how he’s treated me. In seconds he’s cut me like I don’t exist.

What a twat!

You and I have very different definitions of the word "cruel". The man is exercising his right to distance himself from you. You have the same freedom and right to do the same, however you choose not to.

I' not sure, did you want a memo sent out before he cut you off? Would that have made this whole process more manageable for you? I ask because I'm failing to understand why you're so stuck on this issue. If you want to send a message to this guy, do so. If you would like to move on and perhaps do some self-reflection as to why you allowed this man to not only do this to you repeatedly, but also allow him to use up what looks like at least 5+ days of your life without so much as lifting a finger, all he had to do what hit a "block" button then do that. Personally, I think the latter would be a better uses of your time, because it would ensure that you do not allow others to treat you in such a manner again, but do you.

I don't believe in convincing people to get out of their own way. Personal freedom and all that jazz. I posted what you should do on page 1, plain and simple--just like the Scorp cut you off: plain and simple. At this point, you are torturing yourself. I am not suggesting this isn't hurtful and hard to deal with emotionally. What I am saying is you going on and on about it will not change what has occurred and it most certainly will not make this Scorp a better person. Moving on without showing him he has impacted you at all would have been the best response you could ever give him. Again, so simple. Isn't it?

Posted by pisceanloves

I want to know more about papers. Please explain the situation in details. But from the sound of it, he just tried to use you.

When I was a student I was friends with someone who got me a very responsible job in govt. I was kind of "in debt". That I had to make it up to him in some way, for helping me out greatly. So when the time came and he needed a large amount of credit from the bank - he came to me and asked for help. My credit history was impeccable. So I got the money for him and never questioned if he'd pay it back. We had an agreement that he'd pay, but he needed my name on official papers. So the time went on and one day I received a call from bank that I owe x amount of money for the time being. Gave him a call and he hung up on me. I can't tell you what I went thru, it was an absolute terror, the amount I had taken out was larger than I could have possibly covered. I looked for him everywhere and he tried to disappear on me.

What I did next was my last choice I never thought I'd use. I had some compromising information about him with the proof, so I told him that if he didn't pay the full amount owed by the certain date - I'd expose him. It worked.

I have no idea what the forms that he needed me to sign were exactly about.

All I know he is, he is currently wanting to move city’s and looking for a job . He said residential papers.

Still don’t know what kind of residential papers exactly…… maybe something to do with renting?

Posted by Ess

Posted by pisceanloves

I want to know more about papers. Please explain the situation in details. But from the sound of it, he just tried to use you.

When I was a student I was friends with someone who got me a very responsible job in govt. I was kind of "in debt". That I had to make it up to him in some way, for helping me out greatly. So when the time came and he needed a large amount of credit from the bank - he came to me and asked for help. My credit history was impeccable. So I got the money for him and never questioned if he'd pay it back. We had an agreement that he'd pay, but he needed my name on official papers. So the time went on and one day I received a call from bank that I owe x amount of money for the time being. Gave him a call and he hung up on me. I can't tell you what I went thru, it was an absolute terror, the amount I had taken out was larger than I could have possibly covered. I looked for him everywhere and he tried to disappear on me.

What I did next was my last choice I never thought I'd use. I had some compromising information about him with the proof, so I told him that if he didn't pay the full amount owed by the certain date - I'd expose him. It worked.

I have no idea what the forms that he needed me to sign were exactly about.

All I know he is, he is currently wanting to move city’s and looking for a job . He said residential papers.

Still don’t know what kind of residential papers exactly…… maybe something to do with renting?

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I still don't understand why are you even bothered. You are not losing out on anything. This man was bad for your financial security and given the chance he'd have probably drag you down and cause some troubles for you. It isn't your responsibility to take care of grown up man. You don't owe him anything. I say good riddance and I hope next time you are smarter than that. Do not surround yourself with sketchy people.