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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

Aww I like him too much not to give another go.

😞😞😞

After reading your very first post in the thread, I came to the conclusion that you need to get rid of his ass ASAP because he has crippling insecurities.

It might be cute at first, but it's going to drive you fucking insane once he really gets comfortable with you.
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Wouldn’t his insecurity be cured with lots of attention and being honest? 😭
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.
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Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.
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You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.

Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?
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Yes by getting angry and saying mean things I mean more like grumpy and says I don’t care about him, he won’t be free to come see me next day etc. paranoid I am not sure if he is..he did ask me if I was talking to another man so I guess you can call it that?!
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.

Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?

Yes by getting angry and saying mean things I mean more like grumpy and says I don’t care about him, he won’t be free to come see me next day etc. paranoid I am not sure if he is..he did ask me if I was talking to another man so I guess you can call it that?!
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....and that is after two weeks

He sounds unhinged ....
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.

Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?

Yes by getting angry and saying mean things I mean more like grumpy and says I don’t care about him, he won’t be free to come see me next day etc. paranoid I am not sure if he is..he did ask me if I was talking to another man so I guess you can call it that?!

....and that is after two weeks

He sounds unhinged ....
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Lol I know. Though I am not paying much attention to timeline but more to the amount of time we spend together. I am not seeing him this weekend so I plan on watching his behaviour closely then.
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

Lol - okay.
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂
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He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆
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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.


Be careful my guy. Escalades only seat 8. I sense some CPS visits in your future. They tend to frown at having children rolling around in the trunk during transit.
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆
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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.

Be careful my guy. Escalades only seat 8. I sense some CPS visits in your future. They tend to frown at having children rolling around in the trunk during transit.
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There's a reason the roof has racks! 😆
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.

Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?

Yes by getting angry and saying mean things I mean more like grumpy and says I don’t care about him, he won’t be free to come see me next day etc. paranoid I am not sure if he is..he did ask me if I was talking to another man so I guess you can call it that?!

When did this happen? Is he still acting up?!?!
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Nah. He has been calm and sweet. I was just explaining to the other comment about his previous behaviour.

We get to have one more night together tonight then won’t be able to see each other for a couple days so we will see what happens then!
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

Aww I like him too much not to give another go.

😞😞😞

After reading your very first post in the thread, I came to the conclusion that you need to get rid of his ass ASAP because he has crippling insecurities.

It might be cute at first, but it's going to drive you fucking insane once he really gets comfortable with you.

Wouldn’t his insecurity be cured with lots of attention and being honest? 😭

No. You're not going to be able to hug and kiss his internal bullshit away.
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Waa waa 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.

This will not get better with time, at all.

This ^^^

And coming from a Scorpio man!

Really? So sad 😞

I like him more now though!

He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.

I wouldn’t quite call it a temper at this stage. More like sooking.

Nothing like my leo ex who really tried hard to control me. Actually my Pisces ex husband had more of anger issue!!

This scorpio is very calm and I can’t imagine him yelling or anything yet.

Didn’t you say he gets angry and says mean things and that he’s paranoid?

Yes by getting angry and saying mean things I mean more like grumpy and says I don’t care about him, he won’t be free to come see me next day etc. paranoid I am not sure if he is..he did ask me if I was talking to another man so I guess you can call it that?!

When did this happen? Is he still acting up?!?!

Nah. He has been calm and sweet. I was just explaining to the other comment about his previous behaviour.

We get to have one more night together tonight then won’t be able to see each other for a couple days so we will see what happens then!

Oh good!

Aww… I hope it all goes well🤞🏼
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Thanks hun.

This weekend will be the critical time for us! 😆
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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.

Be careful my guy. Escalades only seat 8. I sense some CPS visits in your future. They tend to frown at having children rolling around in the trunk during transit.

There's a reason the roof has racks! 😆
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Lmao

No officer your mistaken, that’s not an infant. It’s a lifelike hood ornament that must’ve blown up there. Crazy gusty today 💨
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.

You can't even deal with the idea of having 1 out of control woman in your life how do you think 10 out of control kids are going to be to deal with lmao.
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Watch he’s gonna end up with 10 “non traditional” Tomboy daughters. Karma is such a sneaky biatch 🤣
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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.

Be careful my guy. Escalades only seat 8. I sense some CPS visits in your future. They tend to frown at having children rolling around in the trunk during transit.

I'm going to have the Escalade with all the bells and whistles. Latest model.

Driving around like a VIP. Tinted windows.
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👍 I hope you get your daddy wagon
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My goodness one problem?? Sounds like plethora of problems.. First thing first, you guys covered 2 years of relationship mileage in just 2 weeks, (huge, huge red flag). 2nd: This man is toxic and practically owns you, from the sounds of it you kind of like it and clearly enabling the situation. 3rd: This individual left his child's mother on the grounds of her not revealing the pregnancy with him first (—).. I have a question with you, what kind of oxymoron is that?? Who is this man? Your intelligence is seriously challenged here, this kind of behavior from both of you considering your age is absolutely unacceptable, if you guys were teens I'd understand but people in their 40s?? Good lord .
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!


Scorpios can be quite hard work now and then but great most of the time.

Unfortunately you have to roll with it if you want to make it work but my advice would be to very calmly and tactfully always say when you aren't happy with them so they adjust their behaviour.
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

Those with 5 children and work...who takes care of the children?

So all Rein has to do is to wait and invest in a time machine so he can get his 1940s wife and possibly 8 kids. Sounds simple enough. 😛
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As 1 of 5 I can tell you it’s the older children who take care of em. You grow up fast, resent your lack of childhood and lack of attention from parents stretched thin and end up not wanting kids in your adult years 🙃 cause been there done that
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

Scorpios can be quite hard work now and then but great most of the time.

Unfortunately you have to roll with it if you want to make it work but my advice would be to very calmly and tactfully always say when you aren't happy with them so they adjust their behaviour.
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Thank you. At last some positive thoughts!

I feel that we can work on it together. He seems to be open for communication and acknowledge my struggle quite well. Well we will just have to see how it rolls now!
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.
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My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.
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Posted by CancerCancer

Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!


Hi I was with a scoripo for three years and he wasent like that ... That is bang out of order how he is treating you .. You should say to him if you really think that little of me and don't trust me why do you want to be with me ... This is his own insecurities and protecting them in to you why should you have to be walking in egg shells worring what he's going to think of say next tell him if he carrys on you will walk away it will slowly but surely chip away at you and bring you down ... Is he doing something wrong because a lot of the time the acuser is always the dooer ... A guilt concience .. Xxx hope you ok x
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I need a nice, feminine, traditional, young woman - who wants to have 10 kids. I need to fill up the Escalade with kids.

DMs are open. Accepting applications. Taurus or Cancer preferred. Interested in monogamy only.

You can't even deal with the idea of having 1 out of control woman in your life how do you think 10 out of control kids are going to be to deal with lmao.

My bet is that he's looking for a wife that can keep those kids in line..and listens to only him or his money...and we're already up to 11 now. 😂 He's looking for someone who wants to have 11 kids.🤦‍♀️
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I don't think a Cancer or a Taurus would even have that many kids. Helicopter parents can't handle that many!
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

This is beyond retarded.

Literally every woman I talk to says "Wow - I wish more men thought like you."

Never had a woman tell me on a date "I don't want many kids; fuck off."

Plenty women out there want to be mothers. 9 to 5 sucks. Your $ 40K per year "career" won't bring you happiness. Most of you will be replaced by a computer or someone in India anyway.
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I would've had 8 kids if I had a rich husband and all of them would've been able to go to college.

I love kids but there has to be enough money for them to have a chance, and not just be on welfare cause I want a large family.

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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

Those with 5 children and work...who takes care of the children?

So all Rein has to do is to wait and invest in a time machine so he can get his 1940s wife and possibly 8 kids. Sounds simple enough. 😛

As 1 of 5 I can tell you it’s the older children who take care of em. You grow up fast, resent your lack of childhood and lack of attention from parents stretched thin and end up not wanting kids in your adult years 🙃 cause been there done that
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I'm sure he has enough to hire a nanny! 😉
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

This is beyond retarded.

Literally every woman I talk to says "Wow - I wish more men thought like you."

Never had a woman tell me on a date "I don't want many kids; fuck off."

Plenty women out there want to be mothers. 9 to 5 sucks. Your $ 40K per year "career" won't bring you happiness. Most of you will be replaced by a computer or someone in India anyway.
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Ha assuming 40 k is her earning. What about 100k oh you don’t date those?
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

Those with 5 children and work...who takes care of the children?

So all Rein has to do is to wait and invest in a time machine so he can get his 1940s wife and possibly 8 kids. Sounds simple enough. 😛

As 1 of 5 I can tell you it’s the older children who take care of em. You grow up fast, resent your lack of childhood and lack of attention from parents stretched thin and end up not wanting kids in your adult years 🙃 cause been there done that

I'm sure he has enough to hire a nanny! 😉
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

Hi I was with a scoripo for three years and he wasent like that ... That is bang out of order how he is treating you .. You should say to him if you really think that little of me and don't trust me why do you want to be with me ... This is his own insecurities and protecting them in to you why should you have to be walking in egg shells worring what he's going to think of say next tell him if he carrys on you will walk away it will slowly but surely chip away at you and bring you down ... Is he doing something wrong because a lot of the time the acuser is always the dooer ... A guilt concience .. Xxx hope you ok x
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Aw thank you. When I trust I just do so didn’t think about what he is doing wrong. Maybe something I need to keep an eye on but I don’t want to not trust him and be paranoid.

I told him if he couldn’t trust me it was his problem not mine as I was not doing anything wrong!

We had incredible three nights together and now will be apart for a couple days from today. I hope he is sweet and calm during that period like he was last few days. Thanks a lot ☺️
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

This is beyond retarded.

Literally every woman I talk to says "Wow - I wish more men thought like you."

Never had a woman tell me on a date "I don't want many kids; fuck off."

Plenty women out there want to be mothers. 9 to 5 sucks. Your $ 40K per year "career" won't bring you happiness. Most of you will be replaced by a computer or someone in India anyway.
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Are you from India? Different cultures I guess.

I personally know a woman who has 8kids and she is originally from afghanistan. She said it was normal. In my culture there is noway to have that many kids. 😆
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

Monogamy and no condoms.

It's the only way.
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What if your shooting blanks?

Have you gone to the fertility doctor to test your swimmers
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

Those with 5 children and work...who takes care of the children?

So all Rein has to do is to wait and invest in a time machine so he can get his 1940s wife and possibly 8 kids. Sounds simple enough. 😛

As 1 of 5 I can tell you it’s the older children who take care of em. You grow up fast, resent your lack of childhood and lack of attention from parents stretched thin and end up not wanting kids in your adult years 🙃 cause been there done that

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I will tell you one thing, the more kids you have = the higher your alimony payment is gonna be.

Keep stacking those dolla dolla bills.
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My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

This is beyond retarded.

Literally every woman I talk to says "Wow - I wish more men thought like you."

Never had a woman tell me on a date "I don't want many kids; fuck off."

Plenty women out there want to be mothers. 9 to 5 sucks. Your $ 40K per year "career" won't bring you happiness. Most of you will be replaced by a computer or someone in India anyway.
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Please point out where I stated plenty of women do not want to be mother? Wanting and even being able to have 8-12 children like my grandparents and friend's parents in an era where women expect and look for more from their partner/spouse than simply paying the bills is rare and your money will not change that.

Seriously, ease the f*ck up and get your arrogant delusional dismissive head out of your f*cking a**.
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

Rein wants to have a family like the Duggar family. 😂 he will be hard pressed, but it is possible if he moves to the South and goes to a Christian church to meet her.
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19 kids and counting from Arkansas?
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

Rein wants to have a family like the Duggar family. 😂 he will be hard pressed, but it is possible if he moves to the South and goes to a Christian church to meet her.

19 kids and counting from Arkansas?

Yes, Rein has them for his role models. 😂
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I thought they’d be catholics with all those kids, but they’re baptists
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

Hi I was with a scoripo for three years and he wasent like that ... That is bang out of order how he is treating you .. You should say to him if you really think that little of me and don't trust me why do you want to be with me ... This is his own insecurities and protecting them in to you why should you have to be walking in egg shells worring what he's going to think of say next tell him if he carrys on you will walk away it will slowly but surely chip away at you and bring you down ... Is he doing something wrong because a lot of the time the acuser is always the dooer ... A guilt concience .. Xxx hope you ok x

Aw thank you. When I trust I just do so didn’t think about what he is doing wrong. Maybe something I need to keep an eye on but I don’t want to not trust him and be paranoid.

I told him if he couldn’t trust me it was his problem not mine as I was not doing anything wrong!

We had incredible three nights together and now will be apart for a couple days from today. I hope he is sweet and calm during that period like he was last few days. Thanks a lot ☺️
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Well I hope everything works out for you then .. And yes I know what you mean I'm the same I will trust someone whole heartedly unless they give me a reason not to.. Just don't let him talk down to you .. So I really hope his attitude changes towards you as its hard to find that pure connection but amazing when you do xxx
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

Rein wants to have a family like the Duggar family. 😂 he will be hard pressed, but it is possible if he moves to the South and goes to a Christian church to meet her.

19 kids and counting from Arkansas?

Yes, Rein has them for his role models. 😂
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Isn’t that the family where one of the older sons molested a bunch of young girls, including his own sisters?
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Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.

Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.

My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol

Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.

Pregnant and in the house.

What if she wants to work?

You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.

"And leave a man if necessary."

You have kids?

People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.

Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.

Thank you for reminding me never to have kids with a Sag.

You're in some serious denial if you think a women is gonna put up with bull shit or abuse from a husband and stick around for it.

AGAIN- This isn't the 60's buddy.

If you want to slum and get a low self esteem, broken girl to tickle your fancy, go ahead. But abused women rarely make good mothers, they end up making scary messed up children. Figure out which you prefer to be in your family 🙂

He acts like he has sag women lining up around the block to have his kids. Dude is chronically single! And bitter af about it.

But a perfect candidate for 90day fiancé. The best thing he can bring to the table is a green card 😆

Reminds me of Eddie Murphy and the Bush woman😂🤣😂🤣

He has 10 kids.

From 5 different women… not ONE😉.

Is it even possible for one woman to be have 11 pregnancies? Doesn't like even one takes a toll on the body?

My grandmother from my dad’s side had 8 and I know of same generation in France that had same amount. Old school Catholic, no condoms, marry young.

You have to start in your late teens and keep it going - only certain bodies could handle that. It could be dangerous.

Most I’ve seen now in France is 5 children (also conservative Catholics)…. But the women WORK and have independence…lol, despite being “traditional”/conservative.

My paternal grandmother had twelve children. My Fish bestie is the youngest of 8 children, same mother. Her Bull husband is also the youngest of 8, same mother. In all cases though couples were married early, began having children early after marriage and had a balanced relationship.

Different generation though. Rein will be hard pressed to find a woman that wants that now, regardless of how much money he's stacking.

This is beyond retarded.

Literally every woman I talk to says "Wow - I wish more men thought like you."

Never had a woman tell me on a date "I don't want many kids; fuck off."

Plenty women out there want to be mothers. 9 to 5 sucks. Your $ 40K per year "career" won't bring you happiness. Most of you will be replaced by a computer or someone in India anyway.

Are you from India? Different cultures I guess.

I personally know a woman who has 8kids and she is originally from afghanistan. She said it was normal. In my culture there is noway to have that many kids. 😆
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!


How are you all doing now?

I'm a scorpio and I think you've done everything right communicating and setting boundaries.

My personal opinion? If you love him try to help him..

That's what I would do... I would say what you told us... You have trust issues. Any self respecting person wont endure this kind of relationship. Tell him things like not trusting only keeps you in misery and you will help him. He can talk about things that hurt him in his past and how it affected him because that's what we do for the ones we love...

But, girl, your situation is dicey... If you love him and he is responsive, love him like a nurturing cancer and hopefully he'll snap out of it.

But if he is not responsive... Save yourself, run girl... Youre in danger! You would be getting abused, at that point...
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still together which might surprise many here lol. Been 10weeks since we met!

He still shows obsession with no reason and we do argue about it quite often. Though it has slowed down a bit.

Luckily he is open to communicate and always tries to reflect on his behaviour when he makes me upset. I have been doing what you said in comment. I explain how he doesn’t trust me is going to ruin our relationship eventually and I need him to work on it. He says he almost trusts me now lol and knows that I am loyal. However he seeks so much attention and I can’t give it to him as much as he requires… that’s when trouble starts. I am not clingy or naggy enough for him I think. I am very independent and appreciate my own time as well. He wants to be in touch 24/7 and I just can’t do that to be honest.

Other than this part. We get along very well. We really do appreciate our time together always full of laughs and fun plus lots of conversations.

I am starting to fall in love with him.

I do hope he overcomes his issues so we can be ever lasting together.

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it. 🤗

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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

How are you all doing now?

I'm a scorpio and I think you've done everything right communicating and setting boundaries.

My personal opinion? If you love him try to help him..

That's what I would do... I would say what you told us... You have trust issues. Any self respecting person wont endure this kind of relationship. Tell him things like not trusting only keeps you in misery and you will help him. He can talk about things that hurt him in his past and how it affected him because that's what we do for the ones we love...

But, girl, your situation is dicey... If you love him and he is responsive, love him like a nurturing cancer and hopefully he'll snap out of it.

But if he is not responsive... Save yourself, run girl... Youre in danger! You would be getting abused, at that point...
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Hey. We are still together which might surprise many here lol. Been 10weeks since we met!

He still shows obsession with no reason and we do argue about it quite often. Though it has slowed down a bit.

Luckily he is open to communicate and always tries to reflect on his behaviour when he makes me upset. I have been doing what you said in comment. I explain how he doesn’t trust me is going to ruin our relationship eventually and I need him to work on it. He says he almost trusts me now lol and knows that I am loyal. However he seeks so much attention and I can’t give it to him as much as he requires… that’s when trouble starts. I am not clingy or naggy enough for him I think. I am very independent and appreciate my own time as well. He wants to be in touch 24/7 and I just can’t do that to be honest.

Other than this part. We get along very well. We really do appreciate our time together always full of laughs and fun plus lots of conversations.

I am starting to fall in love with him.

I do hope he overcomes his issues so we can be ever lasting together.

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it. 🤗
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Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

How are you all doing now?

I'm a scorpio and I think you've done everything right communicating and setting boundaries.

My personal opinion? If you love him try to help him..

That's what I would do... I would say what you told us... You have trust issues. Any self respecting person wont endure this kind of relationship. Tell him things like not trusting only keeps you in misery and you will help him. He can talk about things that hurt him in his past and how it affected him because that's what we do for the ones we love...

But, girl, your situation is dicey... If you love him and he is responsive, love him like a nurturing cancer and hopefully he'll snap out of it.

But if he is not responsive... Save yourself, run girl... Youre in danger! You would be getting abused, at that point...

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So you didnt have a question, but I still reviewed his overbearing ways and I am going to try to help. You can take it or discard it. I'm just trying to help with what I think I know.

So. With thay said...Tell him! Say, this is how I am... I am super falling in love with you but I need you to let me. What I mean by that is I need you to love me for who I am. You are doing too much. You need to chill. I need my space. Can you do that for me?

Honestly, imo, he actually does trust you... Hear me out but he is still in a toddler stage. You know when a toddler sees his mom and goes nuts its because now he can be his REAL self. He needs to mature quickly before you ditch him.

Talk girl! Tell him everything! Everything you told us and remember to stand up for yourself and if he cant receive it and get on your train... Start looking for an exit
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Posted by CancerCancer

Hey. We are still together which might surprise many here lol. Been 10weeks since we met!

He still shows obsession with no reason and we do argue about it quite often. Though it has slowed down a bit.

Luckily he is open to communicate and always tries to reflect on his behaviour when he makes me upset. I have been doing what you said in comment. I explain how he doesn’t trust me is going to ruin our relationship eventually and I need him to work on it. He says he almost trusts me now lol and knows that I am loyal. However he seeks so much attention and I can’t give it to him as much as he requires… that’s when trouble starts. I am not clingy or naggy enough for him I think. I am very independent and appreciate my own time as well. He wants to be in touch 24/7 and I just can’t do that to be honest.

Other than this part. We get along very well. We really do appreciate our time together always full of laughs and fun plus lots of conversations.

I am starting to fall in love with him.

I do hope he overcomes his issues so we can be ever lasting together.

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it. 🤗
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Posted by CancerCancer

Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

How are you all doing now?

I'm a scorpio and I think you've done everything right communicating and setting boundaries.

My personal opinion? If you love him try to help him..

That's what I would do... I would say what you told us... You have trust issues. Any self respecting person wont endure this kind of relationship. Tell him things like not trusting only keeps you in misery and you will help him. He can talk about things that hurt him in his past and how it affected him because that's what we do for the ones we love...

But, girl, your situation is dicey... If you love him and he is responsive, love him like a nurturing cancer and hopefully he'll snap out of it.

But if he is not responsive... Save yourself, run girl... Youre in danger! You would be getting abused, at that point...

So you didnt have a question, but I still reviewed his overbearing ways and I am going to try to help. You can take it or discard it. I'm just trying to help with what I think I know.

So. With thay said...Tell him! Say, this is how I am... I am super falling in love with you but I need you to let me. What I mean by that is I need you to love me for who I am. You are doing too much. You need to chill. I need my space. Can you do that for me?

Honestly, imo, he actually does trust you... Hear me out but he is still in a toddler stage. You know when a toddler sees his mom and goes nuts its because now he can be his REAL self. He needs to mature quickly before you ditch him.

Talk girl! Tell him everything! Everything you told us and remember to stand up for yourself and if he cant receive it and get on your train... Start looking for an exit
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Yes! That’s exactly what I am doing.

I tell him he pushes me away when he is like that. To me any relationship should be based on trust and respect and I ask him how he is with me if he doesn’t trust me or thinks that I don’t care about him.

Honestly he knows I care about him but chooses to throw tantrums when he doesn’t receive as much attention as he wants. He loves and appreciate so much when I give him some attention. For example I stopped at his work on my way to work the other day and it made his day. He kept talking about how much he loved it.

Also he wants to resolve any issue straight away. Like when he is upset he is upset for two minutes then fine. When I am upset I need to shut down for a while to gather myself again. He doesn’t understand why I go silent with him. I can’t understand how he can act all normally after two minutes of the argument. Lol

We do share good morals and similar goals in our lives and generally are a very good match.

I hope we can pursue it together.

But hey who knows when the curve balls will be thrown in our way….

Your advice convinced me that I am doing it right.

Much appreciated x
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Hey. We are still together which might surprise many here lol. Been 10weeks since we met!

He still shows obsession with no reason and we do argue about it quite often. Though it has slowed down a bit.

Luckily he is open to communicate and always tries to reflect on his behaviour when he makes me upset. I have been doing what you said in comment. I explain how he doesn’t trust me is going to ruin our relationship eventually and I need him to work on it. He says he almost trusts me now lol and knows that I am loyal. However he seeks so much attention and I can’t give it to him as much as he requires… that’s when trouble starts. I am not clingy or naggy enough for him I think. I am very independent and appreciate my own time as well. He wants to be in touch 24/7 and I just can’t do that to be honest.

Other than this part. We get along very well. We really do appreciate our time together always full of laughs and fun plus lots of conversations.

I am starting to fall in love with him.

I do hope he overcomes his issues so we can be ever lasting together.

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it. 🤗
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Posted by CancerCancer

Hi All 🙂

I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.

We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.

He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.

Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.

Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.

He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…

He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!

I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.

One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.

I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.

I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.

Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.

Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!

How are you all doing now?

I'm a scorpio and I think you've done everything right communicating and setting boundaries.

My personal opinion? If you love him try to help him..

That's what I would do... I would say what you told us... You have trust issues. Any self respecting person wont endure this kind of relationship. Tell him things like not trusting only keeps you in misery and you will help him. He can talk about things that hurt him in his past and how it affected him because that's what we do for the ones we love...

But, girl, your situation is dicey... If you love him and he is responsive, love him like a nurturing cancer and hopefully he'll snap out of it.

But if he is not responsive... Save yourself, run girl... Youre in danger! You would be getting abused, at that point...

So you didnt have a question, but I still reviewed his overbearing ways and I am going to try to help. You can take it or discard it. I'm just trying to help with what I think I know.

So. With thay said...Tell him! Say, this is how I am... I am super falling in love with you but I need you to let me. What I mean by that is I need you to love me for who I am. You are doing too much. You need to chill. I need my space. Can you do that for me?

Honestly, imo, he actually does trust you... Hear me out but he is still in a toddler stage. You know when a toddler sees his mom and goes nuts its because now he can be his REAL self. He needs to mature quickly before you ditch him.

Talk girl! Tell him everything! Everything you told us and remember to stand up for yourself and if he cant receive it and get on your train... Start looking for an exit

Yes! That’s exactly what I am doing.

I tell him he pushes me away when he is like that. To me any relationship should be based on trust and respect and I ask him how he is with me if he doesn’t trust me or thinks that I don’t care about him.

Honestly he knows I care about him but chooses to throw tantrums when he doesn’t receive as much attention as he wants. He loves and appreciate so much when I give him some attention. For example I stopped at his work on my way to work the other day and it made his day. He kept talking about how much he loved it.

Also he wants to resolve any issue straight away. Like when he is upset he is upset for two minutes then fine. When I am upset I need to shut down for a while to gather myself again. He doesn’t understand why I go silent with him. I can’t understand how he can act all normally after two minutes of the argument. Lol

We do share good morals and similar goals in our lives and generally are a very good match.

I hope we can pursue it together.

But hey who knows when the curve balls will be thrown in our way….

Your advice convinced me that I am doing it right.

Much appreciated x
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Believe in yourself and express yourself

... Get him to open up and open your mouth... Fight it out in a constructive manner but if it ever gets unhealthy, break eye contact... Dont stay...

Safety first

Good job, nurturing cancer he wants that bossom, be a mom, like a cancer and discipline him... He is crying for it...
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ScorpArie
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Hi ladynepture

We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.

He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)

We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.

We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!

Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.

I do like him a lot.

I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.

This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.


Sooo amazing

He is so lucky to have you

Has he calmed down?

Put that sweet cancer love on him

You're the boss

Have you told him that you looove him?

Admit it and see if he receives it.

Us scorpio"s are very skittish at certain levels in our life. You are a Cancer, set the mood- take lead... And do something soooo sweet that he will behave

His baby mama? Tell him to concentrate on you, whatever was done was done but the future is bright with you