
AngieTheAquarius
@AngieTheAquarius
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Posted by IrresistableScorpWell I didn't expect to fall in love don't be an complete ass. But thank you very much all I wanted to know is what do to and your answer was move on. Got it.
Also, jfc you get pregnant while in an FWB and you are complaining the guy doesn't want to commit? Srsly. He wasn't committed when you got knocked up and he ain't going to be now. Move on. Next time try not to get pregnant by some fuck buddy and expect to end up married to him.


Posted by Octoberbaby91I just thought maybe he did really love me at some point that's all thank you.
fyi this thread has nothing to do with zodiac signs at this point this is another story of how men with issues treat with women with low self esteem they prey on you and end up bonded to them for the rest of your life. Your lesson is to stop attracting shitty men an choose wisely.

Posted by FrostAndBiteThank you yes he fathers all his children shows up to every event he keeps my son and his third son Monday threw Friday he keeps my son because my work schedule is hectic and I'm a full time student and he keeps his third son because he doesn't like the mother's living situation. I never worry about him putting my child in danger if I ask for something he never hesitates he also works he's great just not when it comes to relationships.
I mean this sincerely, not sarcastically, but is he really a good father? Four children by three different mothers, resists informing one of the other mothers when his fourth child is on the way and withdraws, refuses to carry a meaningful relationship with any of the mothers and chases attention from wherever he can get it. Sound more self absorbed than fatherly.
Not that it's relevant to what you're asking because it's not, I'm just curious. But the evidence is still applicable to his character. And it's clear that it's not the type of character worth building a life with if you're hoping for an optimistic future full of potential.

Posted by annoyedfishYou could've saved that post and kept it to yourself thankyou
im secretly just making new accounts and posting these stories


Posted by AngieTheAquariusYou have a title baby mamma #.......
I am 21 year old Aquarius and the Father of my child is a 28 yr old Scorpion. I've been debating about making this post and I have taken refuge in previous ones posted about this topic but I need specific help on my situation.
We started as FWB in March of 2013 & I became pregnant in the latter part of June 2013. He had 3 other children when I met him 2 mothers. We hit some turmoil when I broke the new to his second child's mother because he was dragging it out. Shit hit the fan he told me F you and sided with her but after he thanked me later that I helped him get away from her craziness. (She really is y'all and a full time criminal).
After we reconciled and lived together in November 2013 til I had the baby in March 2014. Things were changing a while before that. Now fast forward to 2015'
He refuses to put I title on things or even verify that he wants me in his future... he is very withdrawn and doesn't communicate well but that's truly just him so I tells him check on me sometimes so I don't fill like I'm smothering you he told me don't check on him and let him miss me he's so wishy washy. & I looked threw his fb and he's looking like the thirsty one hell I'd feel better if he was being chased. He claims its for fun he doesn't know why he does it.
So I decided yesterday to finally move on and let him be free like I have other times. But every time he acts like he's so hurt his last message read and I quote "I'm losing my lady and my only friend it's like a car crash in slow motion".
So my general question is does he do this because he knows I'm a hopeless romantic and in love with him and he wants to keep me from moving on and still doesn't commit to me on does he really plan to have me in his life. If I stick to my words (i have trouble doing this only when it comes to him) and ice him will it help or will he just really move on. HELP ALL ADVICE Is welcome!!
It's hard because I know I have to deal with him for our son and he is always there if I call him and he's a great dad and person but as soon as it comes to relationships he brings his armor.

Posted by AngieTheAquariusI just thought maybe he did really love me at some point that's all thank you.From experience, men of this character doesn't know what love is and lost in life. Just a wandering soul until they find themselves if ever. Count your blessings that u see him for how he really is. Cut ur lose and move forward.click to expand


Posted by Octoberbaby91I agree till the last part. Stop accepting shitty men. You cant always control who u attract.
fyi this thread has nothing to do with zodiac signs at this point this is another story of how men with issues treat with women with low self esteem they prey on you and end up bonded to them for the rest of your life. Your lesson is to stop attracting shitty men an choose wisely.



Posted by AngieTheAquariusPardon me, but 21 year old, IrresistableScorp was giving you sound advice.Posted by IrresistableScorpWell I didn't expect to fall in love don't be an complete ass. But thank you very much all I wanted to know is what do to and your answer was move on. Got it.
Also, jfc you get pregnant while in an FWB and you are complaining the guy doesn't want to commit? Srsly. He wasn't committed when you got knocked up and he ain't going to be now. Move on. Next time try not to get pregnant by some fuck buddy and expect to end up married to him.click to expand


Posted by HoneybunniiePosted by AngieTheAquariusThank youI just thought maybe he did really love me at some point that's all thank you.From experience, men of this character doesn't know what love is and lost in life. Just a wandering soul until they find themselves if ever. Count your blessings that u see him for how he really is. Cut ur lose and move forward.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974Thank you very much for your niceness due to the fact this world is cruel with cruel ppl I didn't expect any nice responses but thank you very much
Jesus Christ...she's 21. Beautiful young Lady, you have shown more class to these perfect strangers in light of their rude remarks towards you. I think you'll look back on all of this and realize that it was a youthful mistake and you'll be a better person for it.
You're already on your way to being a wonderful woman. I wish you and your baby nothing but the best and I truly admire how you are determined to allow your son's father to stay in his life. You're on the right path. Bless you.

Posted by MrFirebirdThis was the post ^you could've kept to yourself self now this is the part where you excuse yourself until you talk to ppl to respect. Now you say thank you. Psssst.
That's the part where you say "Thank You" with a đ .


Posted by livictoriAll the children know each other he keeps his youngest two all weeks. Like I said in previous replies and he sees his oldest two everyday he attends their football practice he is no dead beat by no means ppl.
This is an all the way around sad situation. This guy almost 30 created a few broken homes. Will these kids know their siblings? will more children come into the situation? Does he have the resources and attention span to parent these kids fully?
This 21 year old is a mother? She's shaping the mind and self esteem of a child and look who her partner is. That kid was born with a job; to keep this dude and it didn't work when the first 2 women did it. This idiot and his aggressive sperm have the ability to continue fertilizing for the next 30 years. OMG!!!

Posted by AngieTheAquariusBut your still it's mother and you both did this.Posted by livictoriAll the children know each other he keeps his youngest two all weeks. Like I said in previous replies and he sees his oldest two everyday he attends their football practice he is no dead beat by no means ppl.
This is an all the way around sad situation. This guy almost 30 created a few broken homes. Will these kids know their siblings? will more children come into the situation? Does he have the resources and attention span to parent these kids fully?
This 21 year old is a mother? She's shaping the mind and self esteem of a child and look who her partner is. That kid was born with a job; to keep this dude and it didn't work when the first 2 women did it. This idiot and his aggressive sperm have the ability to continue fertilizing for the next 30 years. OMG!!!click to expand


Posted by AngieTheAquariusWould you like to spank me?Posted by MrFirebirdThis was the post ^you could've kept to yourself self now this is the part where you excuse yourself until you talk to ppl to respect. Now you say thank you. Psssst.
That's the part where you say "Thank You" with a đ .click to expand

Posted by Arielle83Thank you
Stay in school and take care of your baby.
Fuck this pathetic as pimp wannabe.
You're better than him.
Posted by Arielle83Alot of men do. People like to ignore it and pretend only women do that.Posted by AngieTheAquariusSo he uses his dick as a weapon to entrap women?
I ended it he says he'll never let me goclick to expand
Posted by IrresistableScorpthis is what alot of women do, they probably feel, "well if i can't have him, i might as well get what i can. and maybe he will fall in love with me."
Basically what happened is that, like so many women, you went in for the title "FWB" but secretly harbored feelings for the guy and probably hoped something would come of it. And something did==3 months into an FWB situation you got pregnant. So you loved the baby inside you and started projecting those feelings of attachment onto the guy who was only fucking you (let's be real) and being that you wanted to protect your baby you hoped this guy would commit and help you take care of the child. It didn't work out that way. BTW, it was never going to work out that way. Ever. You cannot flip the script mid-story and expect one of the characters to change his character just because it would be convenient for you. So now you are with a child and floundering on your own.
First of all, instead of accepting that this guy is just an asshole, look inward. You are 100% responsible for the situation you find yourself in. You could have prevented conception. You could have not accepted being this guy's sperm receptacle. You could have set boundaries to what type of behavior you would have accepted. You didn't and now you, and you alone, are here in this position. Owning that will set you on the path of maturity. Blaming and projecting will only delude yourself into thinking you are a victim. You are not a victim. You are the main character in your own story. Stop giving other people the power over your OWN decisions.
Posted by IrresistableScorpthis fixed intellect, is more fixed moon. lol
So you need to open your eyes and change your mind. Change that FIXED mindset. I know Aqua. I know. Fixed intellect is one hard motherfucker to change. But you can do it. He is FIXED emotions. And that's one hard motherfucker to change as well: that's why he is saying he won't let go. He won't let go EMOTIONALLY--not in a practical sense at all. He's already let go on a practical level.
Open your mind Aqua and try to flow yourself into a new, different and brighter mental reality. The reality that includes you and your baby only. Good luck.



Posted by IrresistableScorp
Also, jfc you get pregnant while in an FWB and you are complaining the guy doesn't want to commit? Srsly. He wasn't committed when you got knocked up and he ain't going to be now. Move on. Next time try not to get pregnant by some fuck buddy and expect to end up married to him.

Posted by ellleyou too lol please, talk to her for me đ
how is it mean?
it's honesty.
you are living in a fantasy.
fwb does not equal a relationship. ever.
and doubly so for scorpio.

Posted by AngieTheAquariusoh dear, this poor fellow sounds like me...I know ima great dad, but relationships?? I dont even know what that means...God I love this thread lol im not alone...Posted by FrostAndBiteThank you yes he fathers all his children shows up to every event he keeps my son and his third son Monday threw Friday he keeps my son because my work schedule is hectic and I'm a full time student and he keeps his third son because he doesn't like the mother's living situation. I never worry about him putting my child in danger if I ask for something he never hesitates he also works he's great just not when it comes to relationships.
I mean this sincerely, not sarcastically, but is he really a good father? Four children by three different mothers, resists informing one of the other mothers when his fourth child is on the way and withdraws, refuses to carry a meaningful relationship with any of the mothers and chases attention from wherever he can get it. Sound more self absorbed than fatherly.
Not that it's relevant to what you're asking because it's not, I'm just curious. But the evidence is still applicable to his character. And it's clear that it's not the type of character worth building a life with if you're hoping for an optimistic future full of potential.click to expand

Posted by flowingwaterIm being honest.....relationships aint for everyone....Shame on the females who swears they can change scorp men like me...Only we can change, if and when we're ready
wow...
Posted by nov13thscorpmy husband: "i'm the boss of you!" đPosted by flowingwaterIm being honest.....relationships aint for everyone....Shame on the females who swears they can change scorp men like me...Only we can change, if and when we're ready
wow...click to expand

Posted by LyseThank you
from the outside looking in, I donât think it will happen any time soon.
P.S i love your profile picture lol.




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We started as FWB in March of 2013 & I became pregnant in the latter part of June 2013. He had 3 other children when I met him 2 mothers. We hit some turmoil when I broke the new to his second child's mother because he was dragging it out. Shit hit the fan he told me F you and sided with her but after he thanked me later that I helped him get away from her craziness. (She really is y'all and a full time criminal).
After we reconciled and lived together in November 2013 til I had the baby in March 2014. Things were changing a while before that. Now fast forward to 2015'
He refuses to put I title on things or even verify that he wants me in his future... he is very withdrawn and doesn't communicate well but that's truly just him so I tells him check on me sometimes so I don't fill like I'm smothering you he told me don't check on him and let him miss me he's so wishy washy. & I looked threw his fb and he's looking like the thirsty one hell I'd feel better if he was being chased. He claims its for fun he doesn't know why he does it.
So I decided yesterday to finally move on and let him be free like I have other times. But every time he acts like he's so hurt his last message read and I quote "I'm losing my lady and my only friend it's like a car crash in slow motion".
So my general question is does he do this because he knows I'm a hopeless romantic and in love with him and he wants to keep me from moving on and still doesn't commit to me on does he really plan to have me in his life. If I stick to my words (i have trouble doing this only when it comes to him) and ice him will it help or will he just really move on. HELP ALL ADVICE Is welcome!!
It's hard because I know I have to deal with him for our son and he is always there if I call him and he's a great dad and person but as soon as it comes to relationships he brings his armor.