SCORPIO WOMAN AND CAPRICORN MAN...HELP!!! (Page 2)

Well Rocking as long as you know he wants you that's all that matters but I can honestly say his ACTIONS doesn't say that, maybe your wanting him to want you sustains you and maybe that's enough for you but testing is one thing and being rude, distant, indifferent, uncaring, lazy is another...if it works for you then that's all that matters but this guy isn't testing you...not at all

He's rude rocking, he plays games and that is NOT testing, he's an asshole on his worst day and a jerk on his best but if you can tolerate him, if you enjoy him that's all that matters but you can't cover shit with roses and hope it smells good, he stinks and you most likely can do better...

He doesn't fear rejection, that's obvious by his actions towards you...he's a jerk and you love him being a jerk or you wouldn't entertain his games....new topic

I know your story with him rocking, you need to educate yourself on emotionally abusive men, educate yourself on what rude is and what being a jerk is...I feel your not emotionally educated enough to see the truth

Well Evan you have just as much time on your hands thus your comment so don't throw stones and rocking know despite the past I don't mean her any harm and if she didn't know then she know now

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I think you guys need to lay off rocking & stop sidetracking from the OP's topic.

But before we get back on track, I'd just like to say this to rocking:

It is Sooooo refreshing to see a Pisces woman standing up for her Cap man. They adore women who are soft but will stand up for their men. Just ignore the others who are trying to tear you apart. As long as the fish & the goat-fish are happy, who cares? And I cannot understand this hang-up some people have about Christmas gifts. So what if one does or doesn't give anything?

And rocking? You mentioned about 2 pages back that maybe he was testing you? Perhaps it was his way of drawing out your own inner strength that he knows is inside of you. After all, as a Pisces, didn't you feel somehow stronger, in-control & more liberated when YOU did the calling instead of waiting for his call?

And I suppose a man does appreciate a girl who makes the effort to reach him instead of him doing the work all the time. Isn't that a good thing? 🙂

Now the rest of you, let's lay off rocking & her man shall we? The Goat-fish & the fish don't like crowds and are best left alone. How about we get back on track of this thread & help out the scorp woman with the cap problem?

hmmmm//guys//it seems that every person has a right to their own final decision as to whether they will endure and/or tolerate their current cirsumstances..as far as relationship sometimes it just simply takes the desire to "remain"in them or not..my issue with my cap was "behavior" presented by him and how I was so unsure as to whether I was not thinking logically or just having a crazy moment with "what it was I was seeing" from him...this last disappearing thing with mine stemmed from his illness and he did contact me (eventually) with the two weeks I had not heard from him....he told me (in his send contact via email) that he missses me...still we have not had a conversation and I think he is probably adjusting to his health issues and trying to get back on track ..the underlying issues here is that they will disappear and for extended periods of time...my cappy is emotional, he cries at sensitive movies and will admit that he wears his feelings on his shoulders..he is sensitive more sensitive than I...I guess for me I cannot balance or am having trouble balancing the fact that he says he loves me so (and I do love him as well) and that I am in his heart and spirit ( he repeated that in his email) and that he misses me so with his willingness to be absent..

me and my cappy have just spent the entire week together..he lives about 2 hours from me..much conversation and hopefully have reached a mature understanding about our relationship that is suitable for both of us..he stated that his concern is not being a bother to me or felling as if he would impose upon me relative to his personal situation (i.e. illness and finacial) as to the reason for his absence..he reiterated again that he loves me and desires to spent our lives together..so thanks guys for your time and great input it has helped me to know and explore all possibilities

Posted by inthegb
I have scanned the message boards on this site trying to get some insight on thei allegedly "perfect match". I am at my wits end with my cappy. He's on and off. We have been together for about 3 months and I swear this is the third time that he has withdrawn without a rational reason. But then I dont know his reason, because he does not answer his phone or emails or return calls. Maybe I should be glad that we spent a wonderful 4 days thanksgiving, and 4 days xmas and New years-bam gone again without words. CAN SOMEBODY OUT THER TELL ME THAT i AM NOT THE IRRATIONAL ONE OR THAT I AM NOT JUST STONE CRAZY!!! He tells me that he loves me deeply, wants to be with me forever, (and boy do I feel it when we are together)
he calls before going to work each morning and we talk for hours after work. And then BAM gone!! This is the 3 time this has happened since we got together and now its been over a week, first time this long.

Hi I am a capricorn male and maybe I can give you some insight into what may be going on in his mind. Capricorn's are the most complicated sign in the zodiac, although we are never given our due because of a perseved aloofness.

It sounds like to me he does love you or otherwise he wouldn't stick around, but it's not normal for a Cappy to be hot and cold if he is comfortable in the relationship. He maybe struggling to figure out how to be the best partner for you. Some Caps have a communication problem that makes them hard to figure out, (believe me I know). He maybe carrying some past baggage about getting to close to some one, and in his mind he thinks he is being systematic about it. He might think, he is doing it because he thinks you may need some space from him. Everything a Cappy does is intentional nothing is accidental.

If what he is doing is hurting you, then say something about it to him (he will appreciate your honesty). Unfortunately we are capricious and really annoying when it comes to relationships. However a mature Capricorn can be a very loyal and affectionate lover. We are late bloomers and some of us will mask our insecureties behind a facade of womanizing or by being aloof one day and affectionate the other.

I guess it's one thing I hate about my sign, we are born idiots when it comes to relationships. Luckly there is a light at the end of the tunnel so don't give up on him.