Scorpio woman still has sex with me after break up

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I'm a cancer man and my ex is a scorpio woman. The reason that we broke up is because I didn't cared enough of her when I went back to my home-town for around 3 months, and now I am back. Tried everything to convince her to come back to me but she told me it is not going to be the same any more.
We still have dinner once a week but we didn't talk or text much via mobile phones. Last week after and I sent her back home, she starts tickling me and then we start hugging and kissing, after that she was turned on and then we ended up having sex. She told me to become friends for benefits instead if I can promise her to not put any hope on relationship at all. I'm so confused now because I still loves her a lot. Is there any chance that I might still get back to her in the future ?

p.s she told me that she is going to focus on her career and she spend most of her time hanging out with her colleagues, they are like family to her because they were there for her when she really needed me and i was at my hometown
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Posted by M143

true. it will never be the same again. sex is just sex for us as we ruled by it.



Not true about any Scorp I've met so far. They all required the extra mile in order for sex to happen. Just because you're ruled by "the pubic area and genital organs" (that's right, not SEX) does not make you into natural born sluts. But of course it depends on the other placements in your chart.
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Alright. It was then she felt possessed and we hate that. She is independent woman so she knows

herself. We like that cool some space relationship. We hate suffocated and deny ourselves.

Give time for yourself and do your thing and She also give time for herself and do her thing.

We like it. a bit space is all we need. Love is a sweet thing to remember, so be kind.

If you give what she wants.. she will love you more.. that is how you win a Scorpio woman love.
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Maxy89-

What is it you want from her?

The chance to hurt her? As in get her hooked again (full on into you like she cant live without you) so that then you can dump her like you did in the beginning? and not only that then laugh at her and deride her and make her feel like some worthless piece of shit?

It seems like this is what you want from her a type of acceptance that what you did was ok and acceptable.

I mean you never liked her to begin with and used her to stroke you ego and made her feel like she could not live without you and then you showed her how to behave in the way you wanted her to and then not only that disregarded her feeling without a thought as to how that would affect her then disrespect her when she was a kind and loving person and wanted you as you are. Slowly but surely she removed herself from your picture and you cant handle the fact she did this without you even knowing and that is why you so angry at her.

Huh, you had a good thing once and because of your own crap you fucked it up for only yourself but for others who came previous and after. You think that by playing the Mr nice guy syndrome it will warn you points and get her? No. You think by controlling her to fit into you own perception of what beauty is would work? No. You think by playing the joking guy and making jokes that double as hurtful remarks would work? No. You think that by taking the things she loves away from her to hurt her and make her suffer and to make her behave the way you want her to would work? (especially when she came from a worse background than yours and used this also as a lever to wield her to your way of thinking) No. Theres alot that you have done to this girl to try to make her do what you want and none of this has worked, she loved once totally and you pissed on this and funnily enough it makes me laugh to even think you could ever think to have her back at all after what you have done to her.

I wont complain here coz I know you dont like people who complain at all but what gets me is that you were and still are so cruel to her and knowingly so too, why? After all she came from a worse background than you and managed to pull herself up by the boots straps time after time despite what other have done to her and even though despite all this crap she went through she still had love for others still managed to put others before herself even though she wondered why at times?

And not only that she looked to you for safety, comfor
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Maxy89-

What is it you want from her?

The chance to hurt her? As in get her hooked again (full on into you like she cant live without you) so that then you can dump her like you did in the beginning? and not only that then laugh at her and deride her and make her feel like some worthless piece of shit?

It seems like this is what you want from her a type of acceptance that what you did was ok and acceptable.

I mean you never liked her to begin with and used her to stroke you ego and made her feel like she could not live without you and then you showed her how to behave in the way you wanted her to and then not only that disregarded her feeling without a thought as to how that would affect her then disrespect her when she was a kind and loving person and wanted you as you are. Slowly but surely she removed herself from your picture and you cant handle the fact she did this without you even knowing and that is why you so angry at her.

Huh, you had a good thing once and because of your own crap you fucked it up for only yourself but for others who came previous and after. You think that by playing the Mr nice guy syndrome it will warn you points and get her? No. You think by controlling her to fit into you own perception of what beauty is would work? No. You think by playing the joking guy and making jokes that double as hurtful remarks would work? No. You think that by taking the things she loves away from her to hurt her and make her suffer and to make her behave the way you want her to would work? (especially when she came from a worse background than yours and used this also as a lever to wield her to your way of thinking) No. Theres alot that you have done to this girl to try to make her do what you want and none of this has worked, she loved once totally and you pissed on this and funnily enough it makes me laugh to even think you could ever think to have her back at all after what you have done to her.

I wont complain here coz I know you dont like people who complain at all but what gets me is that you were and still are so cruel to her and knowingly so too, why? After all she came from a worse background than you and managed to pull herself up by the boots straps time after time despite what other have done to her and even though despite all this crap she went through she still had love for others still managed to put others before herself even though she wondered why at times?

And not only that she looked to you for safety, comfor
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And not only that she looked to you for safety, comfort and above all 'love' and what she got in return was alot of emotional crap and alot of manipulation on your behalf and why this is she still doesnt know especially as she been through much worse you, is it a male something? Or is it just a poor excuse for you to be angry?

She was there for you as much as she could be, never hurt you or lied to you, always made time to be with you, never once said a bad word against you, helped you alot but not always, very attentive, actually loved you, wanted to be around you and you took all this as an offence to yourself and hurt her because she is like that when in love or when she actually loves someone.

Again the saying once bitten twice shy applies here, make out buddy
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Despite all this crap you have given her, she finds it in her heart to forgive you coz thats part of love as well but has not forgotten either.

So I am really very sorry to break this to you but you fucked up BIGTIME!

And hurt someone that neednt be hurted

And have no more chance

to many came your way and you blew every single one of them to ''smitherines'' or is that ''tangerines''? no it could be ''co-sines''...!

You screwed yourself hun? Er, so sorry for that? Lovey, please call again, if I dont say now then I say then. Meaning of which there are no more chances!

HAHAHAHA, NOW HOW DOES THAT "FEEL", MR?
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Its the same old story over and over again

Tell a guy you love them and they run for the hills

Its as simple as that really.

And this story is no diferent from the rest of them

When you been through the crap I have been through it will only be then til you could ever hope to understand where it is I come from, it makes you look at things so much more differently than others, you never miss a chance when you know you have been presented with it, always be grateful for what it is you have coz you never know when it will be taken from you, never ever be angry without cause for it, always put others before you coz you dont know where they have been or where they are at and many other things I have learnt through my travels that I really cant be bothered as people such as yourself couldnt care less about crap like this and just want to hurt others like everybody else stories
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mfwb55,
I might not be the best boyfriend and i hurt her before, but now im doing my best to change, distance relationship is pretty hard for me and my ex and i should had spent more time to communicate with her. Im not trying to hurt her at all, i'm now giving my 100 % if there's still hope for going back , as M143 mentioned, i cannot be too aggressive now because im no longer in a relationship with her, all i can do is to give her space, maybe hangout once a week and support her when she need's someone, Im trying to learn from all of my mistakes and try to become a better person for her in the future
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Posted by maxy89
mfwb55,
I might not be the best boyfriend and i hurt her before, but now im doing my best to change, distance relationship is pretty hard for me and my ex and i should had spent more time to communicate with her. Im not trying to hurt her at all, i'm now giving my 100 % if there's still hope for going back , as M143 mentioned, i cannot be too aggressive now because im no longer in a relationship with her, all i can do is to give her space, maybe hangout once a week and support her when she need's someone, Im trying to learn from all of my mistakes and try to become a better person for her in the future




You're so lame.
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Posted by cancersunpiscesmoon
Where the fuck is all this hate coming from?



No. Im not sexually frustrated.

=D

That's no hate. I'm just saying what's going on - direct.

I don't anyone. I hate things people say or do, but not the Person itself.

There are many stupid Actions we make day by day, and everyone is glad to hear the Truth, me too.

I want the People in my Life to be honest, too.

There is no need to sugarcoat anything.

And, honey.. I got a Aries Moon. Direct - in your face - tzzzzzinnnnng BOOOOOOM 😄
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Posted by maxy89

p.s she told me that she is going to focus on her career and she spend most of her time hanging out with her colleagues, they are like family to her because they were there for her when she really needed me and i was at my hometown




I absolutely adore and respect intelligent Scorpio women.
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Me too =)

One of my best friends is a scorpio with a scorpio moon too.
We inspire each other so much - to make in this world you need to be a tough and strong Woman and we should encourage one another.
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Posted by maxy89
I'm a cancer man and my ex is a scorpio woman. The reason that we broke up is because I didn't cared enough of her when I went back to my home-town for around 3 months, and now I am back. Tried everything to convince her to come back to me but she told me it is not going to be the same any more.
We still have dinner once a week but we didn't talk or text much via mobile phones. Last week after and I sent her back home, she starts tickling me and then we start hugging and kissing, after that she was turned on and then we ended up having sex. She told me to become friends for benefits instead if I can promise her to not put any hope on relationship at all. I'm so confused now because I still loves her a lot. Is there any chance that I might still get back to her in the future ?

p.s she told me that she is going to focus on her career and she spend most of her time hanging out with her colleagues, they are like family to her because they were there for her when she really needed me and i was at my hometown



I'm just trying to clarify something, first you state you didn't care enough when you left, but now you love her? Can you just explain that, because it reads like you didn't really give a f*ck and now that you're back and she's available you want to pick up where things left off like nothing happened. Not trying to be a smart ass, just I find Crabs to be vauge in their presentation and need a clear picture of how this played out.
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Posted by M143

true. it will never be the same again. sex is just sex for us as we ruled by it.



Not true about any Scorp I've met so far. They all required the extra mile in order for sex to happen. Just because you're ruled by "the pubic area and genital organs" (that's right, not SEX) does not make you into natural born sluts. But of course it depends on the other placements in your chart.
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This.
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you must be more than what you are !
if you ever get a chance now, you will only be filling another's shoes. and thats the beginning and the ens of you.
you need to reinvent yourself with talent of your own.

you went home to show that you are a good boy......[very deep] thinking she would find that admirable, lol
she can get what you got at the corner store

find your extraordinary talent that sets you apart and all the mermaids will come to propose to you.
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Classic fucking DXP, throw a shit-ton of shade at someone.... his first post..... English CLEARLY not his first language.

Anyone even stop to think that when he says, "The reason that we broke up is because I didn't cared enough of her"..... MAYBE, just fucking MAYBE what he means is they had a long conversation and decided to break up and HER reasoning was that she felt like he wasn't giving her enough attention when she needed him?

Is it AT ALL fucking possible that you thick-skulled people might be able to decipher something OTHER than that the poster is anything other than some jerkfaced asshole looking to fuck over some woman? Nah, he's probably just a dummy account, right? God, so fucking predictable.

He says nothing shitty or shady about her AT ALL in this entire thread. In fact, he sounds like he is trying to be respectful and wants to truly win back her affections. HIS WORDS —So it means it's nearly impossible to get back together even if I improve a lot—??_.. I don't know about you guys, but that doesn't sound like a conniving and scheming SOB.

Even when MFWB puts him on some major ass blast, which honestly, I couldn't even read all of it, the volume alone was enough to tell me this bitch has a personal agenda and read WAY TOO MUCH into the few words we have to go off of??_. Anyway, here is what he respectfully says back, —I might not be the best boyfriend and i hurt her before, but now im doing my best to change, distance relationship is pretty hard for me and my ex and i should had spent more time to communicate with her.??
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Which to me, again, sounds like it's a long distance relationship that simply fell apart for probably a lot of complicated reasons??_ You people had what??_. A total of like 3 paragraphs of verbiage from this person before you went on the attack? Jesus??_. No wonder the OP hasn't been back.

But of course, here's what will happen??_ I will post this perfectly sensible argument and then here's the shit I??ll hear back??_.
1. It's a dummy account.
2. I'm a dummy account.
3. You all know exactly what's going on because you??re the geniuses who fire first and ask questions later.
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