Would u like to get a girl pregnant if u really like her? (Asap)
scorpios and pregnancy
Sorry I just really need a straight answer. Since I really like him, I want to see him. But he's been ditching me because he said I need to think if I want to get pregnant or tattoo our name
How old are you?! What has happens to this world I swear
I'm 21 and he's 24
Posted by exoskeleton
r u Scorpio guy??
Just get the tattoos seriously..
Posted by jjyu2514
Would u like to get a girl pregnant if u really like her? (Asap)
Posted by jjyu2514Do you both have approximately $ 12,000.00 saved up just for the baby's first year expenses?
I'm 21 and he's 24click to expand
That number doesn't include yours and his living expenses, rent/mortgage, food, and regular bills.
I doubt it. Go on birth control, get an education and then MAYBE think about getting knocked up. Buy a doll.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428or that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Just get the tattoos seriously..
is this what the world is coming to?
'i like you, so let's have babies'. idiocy. 21 and 24 means you're still babies yourselves. go out and LIVE. dont focus on babies right now. last time i checked, babies need a stronger foundation than their parents 'liking' each other. what happened to love? are you really going to have babies based off some guy's 'like' for you? reality check, that 'like' is nothing but lust. i wouldn't feel comfortable having babies out of wedlock. love hasn't been established yet either, and you dont know if you're going to stay together or not. all you know is you really 'like' each other...... wow.
is that seriously grounds for having babies? are you really ready to be a mother? ask yourself this.
'i like you, so let's have babies'. idiocy. 21 and 24 means you're still babies yourselves. go out and LIVE. dont focus on babies right now. last time i checked, babies need a stronger foundation than their parents 'liking' each other. what happened to love? are you really going to have babies based off some guy's 'like' for you? reality check, that 'like' is nothing but lust. i wouldn't feel comfortable having babies out of wedlock. love hasn't been established yet either, and you dont know if you're going to stay together or not. all you know is you really 'like' each other...... wow.
is that seriously grounds for having babies? are you really ready to be a mother? ask yourself this.
leave the bastard. he sounds as smart as a bag of fucking rocks. he doesnt care about you. he wants to control you. you're going to let this idiot give you an ultimatum of 2 very bad choices? let his ass walk. i would never tattoo anyone's name in my flesh. and i would never get pregnant just to keep someone. where the fuck is your mind? you're just as dumb as he is if you're even entertaining this stupid shit.
Isn't it love when u can't unlove him ? U can't get rid him on ur mind. The moment u wake up til u fall asleep is still him. When ur happiness was all his attention. When u don't need anyone else existence. Just HIM? When u kept on reading ur texts makes u smile makes ur day. He is everything all I need all I want. Yes I may be fool, but its because of love .
Then what is love—
love is when you put the well being of your loved one above your own
he does not even put your well being above his insecurity and desire to lock you down!!
so many unfit parents in this world it's disgusting
he does not even put your well being above his insecurity and desire to lock you down!!
so many unfit parents in this world it's disgusting
Posted by jjyu2514This sounds like reproductive abuse; there are men out there that do this. Don't go anywhere near this man. Seriously, I urge you.
Sorry I just really need a straight answer. Since I really like him, I want to see him. But he's been ditching me because he said I need to think if I want to get pregnant or tattoo our name
He simply wants to have a means to control you; reproductive abusers either coerce, guilt-trip, sabotage birth control or physically abuse to get their way. And it's all so they can have someone else's life in the palm of their hands; all they seek is control. And before you can begrudgingly list him as the baby's father on the birth certificate, he'll have moved onto another victim.
The tattoo is just another type of control; he has issues. Don't waver under this person's demands.
The tattoo is just another type of control; he has issues. Don't waver under this person's demands.
DO NOT DO IT!!!!
I dated a scorpio for a while and he wanted to get me pregnant, this was a short lived relationship might I add, so in my mind it was very odd that he was even thinking about having children. But you see, this was all part of his means to control me. I had plans to travel and he didn't want me to so he kept asking "wouldn't you prefer a cute little baby with me over travelling?", as you can imagine, his a** was dumped!
I would like to hope that you are smart enough to realise manipulation when it appears before you. He is only trying to control you. In his mind, once you have a child to him then you are his. This is not the kind of man you want, as it shows his extreme selfishness. He is not even taking into consideration what is best for you or your wants and needs, and is simply willing to ruin your life to get what he wants.
BEWARE!
I dated a scorpio for a while and he wanted to get me pregnant, this was a short lived relationship might I add, so in my mind it was very odd that he was even thinking about having children. But you see, this was all part of his means to control me. I had plans to travel and he didn't want me to so he kept asking "wouldn't you prefer a cute little baby with me over travelling?", as you can imagine, his a** was dumped!
I would like to hope that you are smart enough to realise manipulation when it appears before you. He is only trying to control you. In his mind, once you have a child to him then you are his. This is not the kind of man you want, as it shows his extreme selfishness. He is not even taking into consideration what is best for you or your wants and needs, and is simply willing to ruin your life to get what he wants.
BEWARE!
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i dont understand why would he seeks of controlling me and what does he gets from it—??
He have said that to me that he wants to get me.
I don't know what he gets from controlling you, All I know is that it becomes easier for them to have control over you once you share a child. The ex scorp that I mentioned even jokingly (though I don't think it was as much of a joke as he tried to play it off as) said that if I had a child he hoped that I would get fat so other men wouldn't look at me. It is a part of their jealousy/controlling nature. I myself am a scorpio but I have my Venus in Sag, Mars in Libra and my rising is Aqua so I tend to think I must be a more carefree scorpio because his behaviour was so foreign to me.
A woman with a child becomes less desirable to men because she is classified as having baggage (I am not saying this is my point of view, but it is how most single, childless men seem to think). In his mind if you two have a child, it will eliminate a lot of his competition. This is a sign of his insecurities, he holds fear that you might leave him for someone else. On top of that, If you have a child then you are tied down. He doesn't have to worry about you packing up and deciding to move or going on an overseas trip with some girlfriends. It's all a game of manipulation and control.
If you are questioning the fact that he wants to have a child then it is clear that you two are nowhere near developed enough in your relationship to be even considering having children. You have to ask yourself what man in their right mind would want to have a child with someone that they barely know (you don't truly know someone until you have been with them for a couple of years, sometimes even longer)?
A woman with a child becomes less desirable to men because she is classified as having baggage (I am not saying this is my point of view, but it is how most single, childless men seem to think). In his mind if you two have a child, it will eliminate a lot of his competition. This is a sign of his insecurities, he holds fear that you might leave him for someone else. On top of that, If you have a child then you are tied down. He doesn't have to worry about you packing up and deciding to move or going on an overseas trip with some girlfriends. It's all a game of manipulation and control.
If you are questioning the fact that he wants to have a child then it is clear that you two are nowhere near developed enough in your relationship to be even considering having children. You have to ask yourself what man in their right mind would want to have a child with someone that they barely know (you don't truly know someone until you have been with them for a couple of years, sometimes even longer)?
Posted by scorpvixenSo by this means, he wants me to stay in his life?? I seriously want to ask to get married first before pregnancy.
I don't know what he gets from controlling you, All I know is that it becomes easier for them to have control over you once you share a child. The ex scorp that I mentioned even jokingly (though I don't think it was as much of a joke as he tried to play it off as) said that if I had a child he hoped that I would get fat so other men wouldn't look at me. It is a part of their jealousy/controlling nature. I myself am a scorpio but I have my Venus in Sag, Mars in Libra and my rising is Aqua so I tend to think I must be a more carefree scorpio because his behaviour was so foreign to me.
A woman with a child becomes less desirable to men because she is classified as having baggage (I am not saying this is my point of view, but it is how most single, childless men seem to think). In his mind if you two have a child, it will eliminate a lot of his competition. This is a sign of his insecurities, he holds fear that you might leave him for someone else. On top of that, If you have a child then you are tied down. He doesn't have to worry about you packing up and deciding to move or going on an overseas trip with some girlfriends. It's all a game of manipulation and control.
If you are questioning the fact that he wants to have a child then it is clear that you two are nowhere near developed enough in your relationship to be even considering having children. You have to ask yourself what man in their right mind would want to have a child with someone that they barely know (you don't truly know someone until you have been with them for a couple of years, sometimes even longer)?
you dont get it. take the rose colored glasses off and think rationally. he doesn't care about you. he only wants what he wants. he wants to control you like you're a piece of personal property. open your eyes. after he gets what he wants, he's going to kick you to the curb and move on to his next victim. you're so wrapped up in him you're willing to subject yourself to being mistreated and used.
more than likely he's using the let's have a baby tactic as a poor excuse to not wear protection so he can bust a fat one inside of you. he doesn't care about your feelings. the big red flag is he's ordering you to do things and treating you poorly when you don't choose to do them. that's not love. you think about him and want t please him, but does he feel/ treat you the same way? don't be blind and stupid. do yourself a HUGE favor and leave this guy alone. go aim for personal growth and learn what real love is. this is not it.
more than likely he's using the let's have a baby tactic as a poor excuse to not wear protection so he can bust a fat one inside of you. he doesn't care about your feelings. the big red flag is he's ordering you to do things and treating you poorly when you don't choose to do them. that's not love. you think about him and want t please him, but does he feel/ treat you the same way? don't be blind and stupid. do yourself a HUGE favor and leave this guy alone. go aim for personal growth and learn what real love is. this is not it.
Go with the tattoos because you can always get it lasered off if it doesn't work out. Once you get pregnant that's is it, your life is over and it is now two of you to take care of by yourself. Because I highly doubt he would man up or think you cheated on him and deny the baby. Haha crazy irl.. young people can be in love and think they are in but are not. You have to pick the right guy for stuff like this. I hope your parents would watch your baby
While you go to work and school..
I remember thinking that way that age and I am glad the fuck I stayed in birth control for years. Lol
While you go to work and school..
I remember thinking that way that age and I am glad the fuck I stayed in birth control for years. Lol
smdh. This is crazy.
When my scorpio mentioned pregancy it was a no brainer on how to deal with him.
Much like you, i like him but not enough to bring an innocent life into a situation that we BOTH are still trying figure out.
YOU will be responsible for this child. I PROMISE you no law, or person can MAKE a man be a father to a child. He can leave at any moment.
He's young and my guess is the moment shit gets ruff he will leave you and be off to greener pastures. He will pop in on you and the baby from time to time, but he wont stay.
Your only 21, and already you are WAYYyyyyy to dependent on him for happiness. He already has you right where he wants you and it's sad. You might as well grab some pullstrings and glue them to your back to make it easier for him.
I get that your young and in love and want to make the man you love happy. BUT rule number one coming from a Grown woman, men love and cherish women that are INDEPENDENT in her own happiness. The Scorp wont admit this to you, but thats exactly why he's after you. He wants to control, the moment you give him COMPLETE control or the moment he feels he has complete control, he will be gone.
When my scorpio mentioned pregancy it was a no brainer on how to deal with him.
Much like you, i like him but not enough to bring an innocent life into a situation that we BOTH are still trying figure out.
YOU will be responsible for this child. I PROMISE you no law, or person can MAKE a man be a father to a child. He can leave at any moment.
He's young and my guess is the moment shit gets ruff he will leave you and be off to greener pastures. He will pop in on you and the baby from time to time, but he wont stay.
Your only 21, and already you are WAYYyyyyy to dependent on him for happiness. He already has you right where he wants you and it's sad. You might as well grab some pullstrings and glue them to your back to make it easier for him.
I get that your young and in love and want to make the man you love happy. BUT rule number one coming from a Grown woman, men love and cherish women that are INDEPENDENT in her own happiness. The Scorp wont admit this to you, but thats exactly why he's after you. He wants to control, the moment you give him COMPLETE control or the moment he feels he has complete control, he will be gone.
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