Scorpios Get Bored?

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We could, and when we get bored, everything turns off instantly, like a switch. We no longer care.
Nothing does this faster for me then a dude doing two things to me

1) Being way too emotionally driven

2) Trying to get sexual with me in anyway. I hate sexual innuendos too

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nikki, I do not mind a man who is emotionally driven, as long as he has his head properly screwed upon his hopefully solid set of shoulders. If he manages to wrangle his emotions under his control. Whilst demonstrating a clear rational mind, then so be it.

What would I do without sexual innuendos ? 😆

It truly, depends on the man in question and the chemistry between us. If there was no trust, and it was never established as a foundation. Then I would not want sexual innuendos or any form of physical contact with him at all. Under no circumstances, would I want him near me.

However, these are my personal preferences / experiences. This proves that even amongst Stingers, we come in a variety of slightly difference shades.
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We could, and when we get bored, everything turns off instantly, like a switch. We no longer care.
Nothing does this faster for me then a dude doing two things to me

1) Being way too emotionally driven

2) Trying to get sexual with me in anyway. I hate sexual innuendos too


nikki, I do not mind a man who is emotionally driven, as long as he has his head properly screwed upon his hopefully solid set of shoulders. If he manages to wrangle his emotions under his control. Whilst demonstrating a clear rational mind, then so be it.

What would I do without sexual innuendos ? 😆

It truly, depends on the man in question and the chemistry between us. If there was no trust, and it was never established as a foundation. Then I would not want sexual innuendos or any form of physical contact with him at all. Under no circumstances, would I want him near me.

However, these are my personal preferences / experiences. This proves that even amongst Stingers, we come in a variety of slightly difference shades.
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LOL, see I think I need to elaborate cause I agree with what you say.

When I say emotionally driven. I am talking about those guys that throw their interest in your face within the first week of meeting. That's not saying flirting isn't okay. It's the guys that appear needy to me. Texting me all the time, trying to overly cutesy with me.

As for sexual innuendos, I love them too. But again, if I am talking to you and in the first day you are saying stuff to me like "You could send me a naughty picture 😉" or asking me for that stuff within the first week. It turns me off FAST.
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How does getting bored in relationships fit in with the controlling thing and devastated by breakups thing? Y'all inscrutable! LOL
Easy.

It takes a lot for most Scorpios to become attached to anyone. Because we aren't use to "caring", we try and control those emotions and the person those emotions are attached to. When that relationship doesn't work out, we tend to fall apart because we don't allow people close enough usually to hurt us.
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How does getting bored in relationships fit in with the controlling thing and devastated by breakups thing? Y'all inscrutable! LOL
Easy.

It takes a lot for most Scorpios to become attached to anyone. Because we aren't use to "caring", we try and control those emotions and the person those emotions are attached to. When that relationship doesn't work out, we tend to fall apart because we don't allow people close enough usually to hurt us.
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This is the most accurate thing I've read all week. Get out of my brain!
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How does getting bored in relationships fit in with the controlling thing and devastated by breakups thing? Y'all inscrutable! LOL
Easy.

It takes a lot for most Scorpios to become attached to anyone. Because we aren't use to "caring", we try and control those emotions and the person those emotions are attached to. When that relationship doesn't work out, and we tend to fall to part because we don't allow people close enough usually to hurt us.
Wow, Scorpio whisperer. Thank you!

I just don't get involved at all with people I can tell are gonna bore me. I think a lot of Geminis do, though, hence our reputation.
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Scorpios are notorious for doing the same thing. They get our attention for 1.5 seconds, and then, bored.

lol
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How does getting bored in relationships fit in with the controlling thing and devastated by breakups thing? Y'all inscrutable! LOL
Easy.

It takes a lot for most Scorpios to become attached to anyone. Because we aren't use to "caring", we try and control those emotions and the person those emotions are attached to. When that relationship doesn't work out, we tend to fall apart because we don't allow people close enough usually to hurt us.
This is the most accurate thing I've read all week. Get out of my brain!
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That's what I'm saying!! Took the words out my mouth!!?!! Lol!