Scorpios how would you react if you found out you have a secret admirer?

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Posted by angie2080
I've been having secret feelings for a Scorpio guy for a long time. I feel like I have to confess my love for him because I can't take it anymore. I was thinking of telling him my feelings through a letter but not saying who I am. Just say that I'm his secret admirer. I don't want to tell him my feelings in person because I don't even know if he likes me back and l'm starting to think he's impossible for me because I suspect that he likes someone else (but it's not sure). I just can't take it anymore. I want him to know that someone loves him, even if he never knows who that person is. I'm planning on saying something like: "There's a lot of cute guys but you're really the only one I like. I feel hypnotized by you. I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but that doesn't mean others can't have feelings for you".

Scorpio men, what would you do if you received a letter like this? Would you be turned off because the woman who wrote it didn't had the guts to tell you things in person? Or would you still like it and be curious to know who it is. Please tell me if this is a good or bad idea. I feel like I'm losing my head for him. Lol
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Unsolicited writing advice, but: " "There's a lot of cute guys but" dilutes the power of this sentiment "you're really the only one I like." Not only does it dilute it, it also reads and feels more as a self-protective measure. Were I you, I'd go with "You're the only one I like."

"I feel hypnotized by you." This needs no improvement.

"I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but that doesn't mean others can't have feelings for you". What do you think about this edit? "I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but know that there's a person who has feelings for you" or maybe "can't help having feelings for you"?

Good luck to you.
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VCastrillon
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Posted by angie2080
I've been having secret feelings for a Scorpio guy for a long time. I feel like I have to confess my love for him because I can't take it anymore. I was thinking of telling him my feelings through a letter but not saying who I am. Just say that I'm his secret admirer. I don't want to tell him my feelings in person because I don't even know if he likes me back and l'm starting to think he's impossible for me because I suspect that he likes someone else (but it's not sure). I just can't take it anymore. I want him to know that someone loves him, even if he never knows who that person is. I'm planning on saying something like: "There's a lot of cute guys but you're really the only one I like. I feel hypnotized by you. I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but that doesn't mean others can't have feelings for you".

Scorpio men, what would you do if you received a letter like this? Would you be turned off because the woman who wrote it didn't had the guts to tell you things in person? Or would you still like it and be curious to know who it is. Please tell me if this is a good or bad idea. I feel like I'm losing my head for him. Lol
do u know each other
Unsolicited writing advice, but: " "There's a lot of cute guys but" dilutes the power of this sentiment "you're really the only one I like." Not only does it dilute it, it also reads and feels more as a self-protective measure. Were I you, I'd go with "You're the only one I like."

"I feel hypnotized by you." This needs no improvement.

"I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but that doesn't mean others can't have feelings for you".

What do you think about this edit? "I don't know how you're doing with your love life, but know that there's a person who has feelings for you" or maybe "can't help having feelings for you"?

Good luck to you.


U quoted me not her?

Its a good text?but she should go and confess directly
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Shit, I'm sorry about that. I'll see if I can edit my comment.

I think she should, too, but not only is it a lot to say face to face when you don't know that they reciprocate your feelings, it's also a lot to take in. At least this way, she gets the chance to be completely honest with her feelings and he has a chance to process it.

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No frigginh way!

If he is a young Scorpio - you setting yourself for a failure!

You whether come to him - look at his face and tell him or you just sit there and suffer!

What's the point frikking out man by anonymous message? He will be like...whatever!

He will still have no idea who you are and he will not drop all his stuff to find out!

Scorps usually get a lot going on to be bother with anonymous crap!

Hon! I hate to dissapoint you - if he doesn't see you - he probably won't see you even after an effort writing letter.

You have nothing to lose anyway - grab his balls and confess in person!

Again - if he felt spec of feelings - he would at least flirt with you.

Chances are so slim but you can try.

Otherwise you will wonder what if...

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Posted by angie2080
I'm a crab (Cancer). So as you can imagine, I'm very romantic. hahaha I can become a little crazy sometimes and right now I feel like I'm losing my mind. I've done many crazy things for love and this might be one of them. I'm not that shy when it comes to confessing my love because I'm not scared of showing my emotions but I know for sure that guys like a challenge and that's why confessing in person is risky and I would have to be prepared for the worst. I'm the girl and he's the guy and I've heard guys like to work hard to get the girl they want.

As far as knowing each other, I've known him but we're not very close. We talk once in a blue moon as friends but we don't know each other that well. He's the one that always talks to me so at least his doing his part by being the initiator. I just felt in love with his personality and he's super caring when he talks to me but I don't know if he has secret feelings like me. For some reason, I can't keep everything inside and I want him to know how special he is, even if he'll never know who I am. Do you think he'll freak out?


Cancer chicks are soooooooooooooo mushy lol