Scorpios please help me to understand!

Need help plaese!

I’m 33 girl, and I like a 59 man scorpio. No, I’m not crazy (maybe a little bit), he is very well looking, he looks many years younger than he is like 52-53, he is sporty.

I met him in a ski area where I work, on March.

I liked him immediately, he seemed so intelligent and nice. We talked a bit.

I told him if he will return to ski, to come to say hello to me where I work (sorry I hope I write quite well, English is not my native language).

2 days after the meeting he retrun to ski and we take the chairlift together (by chance) and talk.

He is divorced but he doesn't tell me his age. He tells me he has to go far away for work 1 week but he will come back to see me and he leave without asking me my number (I hoped so)(and no, I don’t want to ask his number first!).

I didn't know if and when I will see him again.

After this week he return and come to see me, where I work. We talk but, again, it seems that he is having a hard time asking me for the number, but in the end he does it. The week after he goes away for work, he sends me some pictures of where he work.

I’m not a girl who like write first to men, even if I like them, at most I made comments of some of his "status" on whatsapp. He writes me like 3-4 times. I really want to see him but I will never ask him that (as a girl, and 26 years old younger then him, com’on!).

After like a month and half he told me without notice he is in my “city town” (“by chance”, he tells me) and if I want to see him. We met and talk like 1-2 hour.

After that I'm really unsure of what he ever does to me, I think he likes me but pass way too much time after we meet again (3 month). For me it's really weird because I'm a beautiful girl, I have a lot of "suitors" (I don't know if that's the right word, sorry for english), and men who show me appreciation, interest, and I don't want to be vain but a lot of guys ask me out but I don't like anyone.

Almost 3 months pass before it comes to meet again (in August), I prefer let him to take the initiative.

During these three months we chat a little by text like every week (he for major). I noticed he put on WA several “states” to strut and be seen, show his physique, and I did this too with some photos.

But he never asked me to go out with him in the evening for like a dinner or something else. He live like 40min away from me. I live in mountains.

I don’t know what to think about him, I like him and I think he likes me. I sometimes think it depends by the age, maybe he is afraid of being rejected for his age or of seeming inappropriate He tells me has children, of which two daughters around my age.

After that meeting I think he realized that I like him a lot and after that he started to contact me for frequently, like everyday or every 2-3 days by text. Then we see others 2 times, he always come to my city e we meet to talk a bit for like 1-2 hours, only during day time.

He finlally tells me his age (after 5moths) (he never told me, but I found out on internet, hehehe). I tell him I didn't think he was that old because he doesn't look those years, and he tells me he didn't want to take advantage of me, because I'm too young.

So far we have seen each other 7 times in 7 months and in no time he never even touched me with a finger, and obviously not even tried to kiss me.

I think he is a bit shy but com’on he is a lived 59 years old "man of the world". He is a handsome man and I think he knows how he deals with a woman. I don’t know, for me it is really strange that he does not try it with me, like all others man do.

Just one evening he try to asks me last moment to see each other after dinner but I tell him no that I already had commitments with by bestie.

Please help me, give me some point of view or advices because I can't understand him.

Thank you!

He didn’t tell you his age because he knew he was too old for you....

I think you have a very good understanding of the situation. Be true to yourself, stay the course if you really like him. There’s no harm in two adults courting. As long as you express your comfort with him, I think he will open up to you. He’s come to see you so much bc he likes you. It just takes time for them to trust anyone. At these differing stages in life, you both may want very different things out of it and life.

He is weighing fantasy versus reality. Reality is his daughters will hate you he doesn’t want to impregnate you and raise another kid while you are in your age that want kids etc. etc.