Scorpios words are so confusing....

So I’ve been casual with this guy for almost a year now. When we first started off he was a sweetheart, but now he’s just so mean to me. He’s cold towards his family and I, but seemingly kind with everyone else. I find myself extremely jealous of his female friends bc of how nice he is with them.

A good example is him hugging and conversing with his friends when he sees them at the bar or something. But if he sees me out he’s clearly annoyed and doesn’t want me around. My friends have even noticed it because he is nicer to them too! When I confronted him during an argument he told me that it was bc “he actually likes them and hates me.” I asked him about the comment later and he acted like he didn’t say it.

Recently I was hanging out with a mutual friend that admitted to me that when Scorpio sees me with other men, including him, he gets pretty mad. To prove it he posted me on his Snapchat and not even 5 mins later Scorpio called repeatedly FREAKING OUT.

I try not to dwell on it because it’s tiring, but Im really so confused by the conflicting stories. I just want to understand what goes through a Scorpios mind? Most post I find say that if Scorpio says it he means it.

Him: Scorpio sun, Pisces moon

...forgot his whole chart but I know he is almost entirely cap and Scorpio

Pisces Moon?

Overly sensitive and reactionary on a man

Rather you then me ......

Smh. He’s had a year to step up and close the deal. Instead he’s kept things casual therefore he has no right to act jealous. He doesn’t have a claim on you.

If you wish he did you should tell him the casual thing isn’t working for you. Ask him whether he wants something more with you and if not you’ll cut him lose so you can find someone who does.

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When a Scorpio acts like this it means he lost all interest in you. Maybe he got bored of your relationship, but he's certainly showing signs of boredom.

Wow! I thought he loves her and that's why he's behaving like that.

Not at all. He's pushing her away because he's done.

I'm kinda shocked.

My scorp friend treats his ex Fwb in a mean manner when she tries to be cute with him.

She's sure he likes her because he's extra mean to her. But he told me he doesn't like her at all and I have seen him be polite to her till she pushes her luck, then his mean side comes out. Personally I don't see any chemistry between them but the girl is sure he loves her.

This is an eye opener. She pretty much blocks him from dating anyone else in our group.

If a Scorpio trully likes you he'd soften a bit. Truet me. No way a rude/mean Scorpio would be in love with you. We only act like this when we use people, hate them, or get bored of them.

Now regarding this thread, he's obviously trying to break up with her, BUT wants her to do the break up, so he'd blames her for this. That's how twisted a Scorpio can be.

And your friend is obviously blinded by love. Do something, snap her out of it, before she gets hurt.

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Break up what though? They are casual. Nothing to break up here. No chains or promises binding him to her.

Well, we Scorps don't act like this without reason. To the topic starter: You're not telling us something.

Based solely on what you've said...

Please understand, I'm not trying to condone his behavior. But I'd like you to consider a different perspective. He was sweet at first, continues to be sweet to others, but is evil to you. In his eyes, you wronged him somehow.

He doesn't want to be around you because you fight. It's easy to tell us how HE acts when you argue... but you don't tell us all the deplorable things that YOU do. Don't act innocent. It takes 2 to tango, and both Scorpio and Taurus can be stubborn as all hell. When these 2 signs fight, it gets ugly on both ends. Trust me, I know first hand from a lifetime of experience. I'm a Scorpio related to a Taurus.

Sounds like you guys are caught in a jealousy cycle. So why are you casual again? You guys clearly don't like seeing each other with other people. But you two don't want to commit because... you don't trust each other. At first, being casual was cool, and fun... but then territorial. You can touch other people's things, but you don't like other people touching your things. Both of you. Just thinking out loud.

Regardless... it doesn't sound healthy for either of you. You can't make this guy change, but you can change yourself. Take responsibility for your part in this madness and work toward common ground. Or save yourself the headache and move on.

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Posted by peachy06
When a Scorpio acts like this it means he lost all interest in you. Maybe he got bored of your relationship, but he's certainly showing signs of boredom.

Wow! I thought he loves her and that's why he's behaving like that.

Not at all. He's pushing her away because he's done.

I'm kinda shocked.

My scorp friend treats his ex Fwb in a mean manner when she tries to be cute with him.

She's sure he likes her because he's extra mean to her. But he told me he doesn't like her at all and I have seen him be polite to her till she pushes her luck, then his mean side comes out. Personally I don't see any chemistry between them but the girl is sure he loves her.

This is an eye opener. She pretty much blocks him from dating anyone else in our group.

If a Scorpio trully likes you he'd soften a bit. Truet me. No way a rude/mean Scorpio would be in love with you. We only act like this when we use people, hate them, or get bored of them.

Now regarding this thread, he's obviously trying to break up with her, BUT wants her to do the break up, so he'd blames her for this. That's how twisted a Scorpio can be.

And your friend is obviously blinded by love. Do something, snap her out of it, before she gets hurt.

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agree.



they stop giving you emotional stability...

they dont like wasting their time with someone they are not happy with.

Posted by Venomouse
Well, we Scorps don't act like this without reason. To the topic starter: You're not telling us something.

Based solely on what you've said...

Please understand, I'm not trying to condone his behavior. But I'd like you to consider a different perspective. He was sweet at first, continues to be sweet to others, but is evil to you. In his eyes, you wronged him somehow.

He doesn't want to be around you because you fight. It's easy to tell us how HE acts when you argue... but you don't tell us all the deplorable things that YOU do. Don't act innocent. It takes 2 to tango, and both Scorpio and Taurus can be stubborn as all hell. When these 2 signs fight, it gets ugly on both ends. Trust me, I know first hand from a lifetime of experience. I'm a Scorpio related to a Taurus.

Sounds like you guys are caught in a jealousy cycle. So why are you casual again? You guys clearly don't like seeing each other with other people. But you two don't want to commit because... you don't trust each other. At first, being casual was cool, and fun... but then territorial. You can touch other people's things, but you don't like other people touching your things. Both of you. Just thinking out loud.

Regardless... it doesn't sound healthy for either of you. You can't make this guy change, but you can change yourself. Take responsibility for your part in this madness and work toward common ground. Or save yourself the headache and move on.

This was my thought as well. There is only one side to this story. Everyone is always up in arms when Scorpio becomes scornful but they never dare mention what they've done to get us to that point lest the pity party ends.

I think the scorp is pushing you away, scorps actions speak loudly. But the moon is what contols emotions, wants, desires and more. Go read about moon signs. Pisces can be an emotional rollercoaster. In a way, You are dealing with the emotions of a woman inside of a man.

So.....if you don’t mind my asking..What did you do that caused this? Because, you did something to make him not respect you. Whatever it is.....or maybe it’s multiple small things stacked on top of each other....he tried to forgive you but is unable to forget. Scorpios like to end things. Sounds like he is trying to betray you so you will walk. It would probably be for the best if you cut your losses.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

You are a Taurus. He loves you. He's jealous. If you like him, let him know you like him. Obviously you like him otherwise you won't be making this thread 😊

This.