Scorps & Food, Glorious Food

I am cooking dinner for my Scorp this weekend. He's a meat and potatoes kind of guy (likes steak) but he also likes Italian food a lot.

SO...if you had to choose between steak with veggies OR a pasta dish...which would you prefer? Suggestions and recipes are appreciated. 🙂

MsSeaAngel ... this is coming from cooking for my father, brother and son over the years (all Scorps) ....

It seemed to be more about the quantity, then the actual menu items. They all had huge food-eyes, will little belly room.

So, therefore, I would go with the pasta ..... steak and potatoes aren't really left-over kind of food, and there will certainly be left-overs feeding a Scorpio from my experience.

What I think you should do is forget about dinner ..... cozily sit on the couch and hand feed him ..


Oysters in a half-shell .. but, don't disconnect the oyster skin from the shell first, and don't let him use his hands, so he has to use his tongue ..... then after an oyster has slid down his throat, smother his lips with strawberries until the juice is running down his chin.

Oh, and champaigne, or red wine (not white) ....

And don't offer napkins for this juicy snack ...

Handpick from the fridge?


I was thinking something erotic, rather than provisions .. of course, men like women who think about their appetites, too.


If food is readily available to get out of bed to go eat ... then he will. How about coming up with snack later that he can eat off of you rather than getting out of bed? 😛

I don't know ..... wearing something sexy, burning candles .. all seems to usual, common.

"speaking from experience about sexy clothes and candles!...oh and greet him at the door with a drink for him in hand!"


That's too risque for a Pisces girl, too overtly seductive ... it gives an immediate impression that "sex" is the goal. Pisces operate on a more demure level .. sex isn't obvious, and entrace has to be gained through sensual stimulation on a "fantasy" level, rather than a physical one.

Great suggestions! I'm thinking about lasagna because it's italian but it also has meat. Plus, I can finish my research paper while it's baking. Think that will do the trick? He's bringing wine and dessert, but yes, we both like sweet reds.

Strawberries and whipped cream.......YUM! I guess I should wear heels, shouldn't I? I always have when we've gone out somewhere, but around the house I always go barefoot. That's not exactly sexy is it? lol

Bare feel is perfect ..... natural.

Definitely a moist, juicy steak with veg... and a nice bottle of smooth, rich red wine.

''That's not exactly sexy is it? lol''

Of course it is. Wear some nice (subtle) nail polish on your toenails. Feet can be sexy IF they dont look plain/dry..etc

Seems to me that if you get dressed up, and wear heels when this is suppose to be a more casual setting in which the two of you are going to get cozy .. then he would be more comfortable if you were natural within your home environment.

You've already attracted him to you .... if you present yourself as though you are still trying to sway him with impressions at this point, then he might think that you don't know his interest.

You've already reeled .... hook.

"Seems to me that if you get dressed up, and wear heels when this is suppose to be a more casual setting in which the two of you are going to get cozy"

That's what I was thinking. We've already been on quite a few more formal dates.

"Feet can be sexy IF they dont look plain/dry..etc"

Good! I take excellent care of my feet. 🙂 Actually, I'm a terrible klutz, and I can just see me coming down the stairs, catching my heel on the carpet and falling on my face like a scene straight out of Bridget Jones. OhhHHH..SEXAH!

"i have never had steak though - well, once i had it but it was steak tartare which is RAW!!! ewwww."

OMG! Yeah...I could NEVER eat or even look at that on a plate. I can't do any kind of raw meat or seafood. Especially anything with eyes staring up at me from a plate. = o

IL, I will definitely be burning the candles, though. Candles and incense are ALWAYS burning at my place. 😉

What's a gooseberry?

"What's a gooseberry?"

I was wondering the same thing....— lol

"The only advantage of the lasagna is it frees you up from the kitchen once you put it together."

Yeah, and I need that time to get this stupid paper done. I'll do the steak for him this summer when I can grill them outside. Actually, I told him at some point, I'm going to make some Greek moussaka for him. I know he would love it, and I love to make it.

".....the experience being the scorp man that i was with preferred these things and was the one who requested them, but of course all are different"

They def. like this approach. This is the third one I've dated, and I've found cleavage or any rear accentuating go a long way. He's already seen me in some of my sexy ensembles. Sat., I'm going more casual...with a surprise underneath, if you catch my meaning. I'll make sure it's peaking out a bit all night, too, to pique the curiosity. 😉

"I'll take it without the meat"

WHaaaaa— Are you a vegetarian? Nope, not Greek, just love the food. I'm an English/German mutt.

"there's nothing more off putting than having someone playing gooseberry in these circumstances."

Unless, of course, the gooseberry is writing my research paper....*HINT* 🙂

Our term for gooseberry is "third wheel," but the British expression is much more interesting....as usual.

"a 'gooseberry' is a british term (didn't realise sorry). it is a third person that goes along with a couple on their date for whatever reason."


lol, oh .. I was thinking it was a pie. How thinking that made any sense at all, I've no clue.

A fly on the wall .....

lol it does sound like a pie...