
Sagittarius89
@Sagittarius89
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Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Hmmm, soooo what are you saying? He's not a user scumbag jerk?
I would like my questions answered, I just don't know how he'd answer.
At this point, I wouldn't mind so much if he wasn't serious. Haha, at the moment HE'S actually begun to ignore ME. 😛 I'm guessing because I ignored him. For an hour.
It'd hurt, yes. But that's normal, I suppose.
I thought about it also. If he's gonna use me, I shall do the same. Being friends with him is very beneficial, I think. He's out of high school, does what he wants pretty much, goes to those parties and stuff. I like older guys.
Although his closest friends despise my very existence, I'd make due with his less close friends.
Even if your in the most un-serious thing with him he will still try and find a way to hurt you.
Good way of creating a self fulfilling prophecy.
Pot kettle black too surely ? 🙂click to expand

Posted by LostMonster
Oh, he started texting me again, probably because he's seen my posts on Facebook.
"Soooo"
"Oooooo do you have a date?!"
I never said I have a date. I've said people were flattering me. And then that I'm awesome and no one should mess with me.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Good way of creating a self fulfilling prophecy.
Pot kettle black too surely ? 🙂

Posted by DazedScorp
It's okay, not everyone understands Mr bling.
Blingy, you no likey my avi?


Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by LostMonsterPosted by everevolvingepithet
Good way of creating a self fulfilling prophecy.
Pot kettle black too surely ? 🙂
Haha, another metaphor that I don't quite understand..
Sag89 was being hypocritical because she admitted to cheating/hurting her scorpi ex.click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Oh, he started texting me again, probably because he's seen my posts on Facebook.
"Soooo"
"Oooooo do you have a date?!"
I never said I have a date. I've said people were flattering me. And then that I'm awesome and no one should mess with me.
LMAOclick to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorp
It's okay, not everyone understands Mr bling.
Blingy, you no likey my avi?
Is it from something? Or is it just a random picture?
I stole it from your kinky dreams via inception.click to expand

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Oh, he started texting me again, probably because he's seen my posts on Facebook.
"Soooo"
"Oooooo do you have a date?!"
I never said I have a date. I've said people were flattering me. And then that I'm awesome and no one should mess with me.
LMAO
Mmm, I agree. Seems to spark a reaction in him whenever I speak highly of myself.
Because right now, or a moment ago, he got sad. When I told him I didn't have a date, he jokingly called me lame, I told him I'm the coolest girl he knows, and then he got sad for a short period of time.
But he avoided my questioning as to why he was sad. And then went in to friendly joking.click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
So what do you think this will do?




Posted by DMV
@Lost,
girl, you are killin me....how is this thread up to 100+ posts—
its pretty clear and cut dry. your hanging to someone whose using you to fill time.

Posted by DazedScorp
Fuck that. After a night of sleeping on concrete and steel, I'mma sleep like a fucking rock. No thinking needed.

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by DMV
@Lost,
girl, you are killin me....how is this thread up to 100+ posts—
its pretty clear and cut dry. your hanging to someone whose using you to fill time.
Haha, yeah... Well, now I think I'm kinda just messing with him. I think there's something there. And I'm gonna pick at it until he's had enough and wants to end it all himself. He can come back with a vengeance if he wants. Pretty sure I'll be okay.
Also, this thread kinda went askew somewhere along the lines, I think. Haha.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by LostMonsterPosted by everevolvingepithet
Good way of creating a self fulfilling prophecy.
Pot kettle black too surely ? 🙂
Haha, another metaphor that I don't quite understand..
Sag89 was being hypocritical because she admitted to cheating/hurting her scorpi ex.
He hurt me first
Lmfao..oooooohhhhhhhhh so that's just dandy ?
How ? Did he cheat ?
(It's okay to do tit-for-tat if you're young, if not you're a cun....ning person 🙂)click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
Once again, he's never gonna leave if he keeps getting you like this.
You are going to have to leave.

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89
Once again, he's never gonna leave if he keeps getting you like this.
You are going to have to leave.
I'm considering leaving once I become more stable with my life. He was a big part of it.
Still kinda hoping he'll forgive me though. :/click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
I understand what your saying. You don't wanna make that jump till your totally sure and feel secure enough to be with out him. And not go back on your choice.
Totally get that. Just the shitty part is he knows that too.
Plus no one wants to look like the bad guy.
My life is alot easier if people just dump me and never talk to me again. Even though I feel like it's heartless there is no back and forth so at some point I'm like well all I can do is move on right?
Than they usually come back but I hate them so it's like whatever.
Everyone wants forgiveness. Plus your a fixed sign too so you wanna dig at this till you get it. I hear ya, it's just it might not come.

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89
I understand what your saying. You don't wanna make that jump till your totally sure and feel secure enough to be with out him. And not go back on your choice.
Totally get that. Just the shitty part is he knows that too.
Plus no one wants to look like the bad guy.
My life is alot easier if people just dump me and never talk to me again. Even though I feel like it's heartless there is no back and forth so at some point I'm like well all I can do is move on right?
Than they usually come back but I hate them so it's like whatever.
Everyone wants forgiveness. Plus your a fixed sign too so you wanna dig at this till you get it. I hear ya, it's just it might not come.
Exactly.. But isn't some of this just speculation? Does he really know?
There are a few points. I want him to leave me alone, but when he doesn't text me, I still get worried. And an aching.
He also says I've gotten annoying, yet he still talks to me. And asks if I've got a date.
I don't think this one will come back, even though I wouldn't mind if he did.
Is all this astrology stuff real? Haha.. I was curious a few days ago and looked it up. Broke my heart in itself when I found out he was a Scorpio and it just made total sense. :/
Although, only some of Aquarius traits actually pertain to me.click to expand


Posted by Sagittarius89
Lol @ broke your heart when you found out he was a scorp there is the oooh lalala than damn feeling to it right? HA
We need some light libra men girl! lol
I know the aching trying to let go but can't. Scorpio's are controlling and after a while you get use to that and when you get out of it your forget how to not have it around.
Like swimming without a floaty. But eventually you start to kick your legs and you will swim again.
Yes it's hard to wrap your mind around it because they put up with alot of the shit they complain about with you.
Like your clingy, it's annoying and I can't deal with it. But doesn't go anywhere.
Your sweet talking me I said I'm not into you like that, But doesn't go anywhere.
I don't want to be with you but I still talk to you everyday, But doesn't go anywhere.
It doesn't add up in a logically order. I get it. It's confusing. Exsp when your so mental of a person.
Haha I can't give you an answer


Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89
I know 😢 There is nothing worse than when someone falls out of love with you.
Or can't forgive you. Than it's just human nature for you to want to get those things back.
He'll want you again but I'm not sure it'll ever be like how it was before you did the "unforgiveable " thing. Whatever it was.
Mine never forgave me and I tried for two years.
I'm sure not all scorpios are like that. But my ex was he also had a scorpio moon too though. Do you know what your chart is?


Posted by LostMonster
Ha, I'm trying my way, one last time. Prodding. Asking him if he wants me or not. I want an answer. If he says no, I will disappear. 🙂 And I'll probably on this forum whining and ranting about the pain, haha..

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Ha, I'm trying my way, one last time. Prodding. Asking him if he wants me or not. I want an answer. If he says no, I will disappear. 🙂 And I'll probably on this forum whining and ranting about the pain, haha..
Lol thats brave! I wish good luck to you 🙂click to expand

Posted by enni
*closes my eyes*
*mediates*
...truth...set you free...
if truth hurts you, it will not kill you and it takes time to heal and you'll become stronger.
*mediates*
......feel free to stop by our sagittarius forum! funny, fun, positive place to hang out. 🙂

Posted by enniPosted by LostMonster
Haha, wow. He's not answering. He stalled, refused, and now he's just ignoring.
*sigh* -_-!click to expand

Posted by enniPosted by LostMonster
So what will I do now? Because I need my answer. He won't see me in person. And won't respond. Now what?
well, what time is it? isn't it getting late? perhaps, you ..should rest..i mean i think you need some break from this...just rest and clear your mind ...for tonight.. right?click to expand


Posted by LostMonster
Mkay. So that's done with. As much as it hurts, haha. Ignore all his messages?
Should I delete him from Facebook? Or just block his posts?

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Mkay. So that's done with. As much as it hurts, haha. Ignore all his messages?
Should I delete him from Facebook? Or just block his posts?
Just cut it all out. He'll probably respond to later though just to pull you back in and be an asshole.
But just turn your phone off for a few days and go hang with your friends. You'll be surprised how much better you feel.click to expand

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Mkay. So that's done with. As much as it hurts, haha. Ignore all his messages?
Should I delete him from Facebook? Or just block his posts?
Just cut it all out. He'll probably respond to later though just to pull you back in and be an asshole.
But just turn your phone off for a few days and go hang with your friends. You'll be surprised how much better you feel.
Yeah, a few hours later, he did respond..
Him: "Fine. I do love you and I want you back. 😢"
Him: "But it doesn't work that way.."
Me: "Then you're gonna have to figure things out."
Him: "Figure what out? We're friends. 🙂"
Me: "No. 🙂"
Him: "So we're not gonna talk anymore? 😢"
Me: "Nope. It doesn't work that way."
Him: "I wanna be friends."
Aaaaand then I stopped replying, and he hasn't texted me since then. Since 1AM. Haha, still hurts..click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
Oh ya totally caged in there.
There " idea " of friends with an ex that they still want but don't want to be with is " play toy"
Good for you for stringing him out like that 🙂

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89
Oh ya totally caged in there.
There " idea " of friends with an ex that they still want but don't want to be with is " play toy"
Good for you for stringing him out like that 🙂
I wish that wasn't the case. :/ I wish he'd just want me back.
He's still on my Facebook, though, and 'Liked' a status of mine after I started to ignore him the second time.
Haha, what are the chances he'd contact me again soon and just wanna be together? 😛click to expand


Posted by LostMonster
Mm.. I don't think I would mind that... I miss him still. :/
Makes me think.. Maybe I should just talk to him... Because I would like another chance..
I dunno know to get past that "I love you and wanna be with you, but it doesn't work that way. I wanna be friends." :/

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Mm.. I don't think I would mind that... I miss him still. :/
Makes me think.. Maybe I should just talk to him... Because I would like another chance..
I dunno know to get past that "I love you and wanna be with you, but it doesn't work that way. I wanna be friends." :/
Lol it really wasn't pretty.
But your heart wants what it wants I guess 🙂
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Posted by DazedScorp
END IT.
Scorps and breakups just don't end smoothly.
Very rarely can a scorp still be friends and not want anything. Me and my Leo roommate? Just friends. Her Scorp boyfriend even lives with us. But for the most part, it never ends well.
Even I know this. If I have a break up now, it's over. It's for the best for both parties. Let it go.

Posted by DazedScorp
Whatever. I feel like you're either too young to understand or completely delusion.
You do what you want and when you get hurt again, don't say we didn't warn you.
I'm done with this discussion.

Posted by DazedScorp
Whatever. I feel like you're either too young to understand or completely delusion.
You do what you want and when you get hurt again, don't say we didn't warn you.
I'm done with this discussion.

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by DazedScorp
Whatever. I feel like you're either too young to understand or completely delusion.
You do what you want and when you get hurt again, don't say we didn't warn you.
I'm done with this discussion.
I don't know, could be either.
But I'm not gonna stop until he's entirely finished and just straight up tells me he does not love me and does not want to be with me anymore. I need to be rid of all hope to actually drop something entirely.
If I do get hurt, I'm not gonna say I wasn't warned. I've gotten a lot of warnings, and I appreciate it.
Plus yeah, we're young. I'm expecting a lot of hurt in my lifetime. Might as well try.
Getting him back is the battle right now, though. I'll deal with the hurt when it comes.
And I've actually got somewhat of a date today. I need my closure that this is all dead and buried before I think I can actually move on entirely.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorp
Whatever. I feel like you're either too young to understand or completely delusion.
You do what you want and when you get hurt again, don't say we didn't warn you.
I'm done with this discussion.
Lol frustration!
Bulls, fucking stubborn. And I thought I was bad.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorp
Whatever. I feel like you're either too young to understand or completely delusion.
You do what you want and when you get hurt again, don't say we didn't warn you.
I'm done with this discussion.
Lol frustration!
Bulls, fucking stubborn. And I thought I was bad.
She an aquarius?
Aww shit, I forgot. Eh, same difference really.
She should know better, being an Aqua.click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
If that is what you wanna do lost, do it. It's going to be a really long road and I highly doubt you'll get what you want.
But if you can't let it go than go ahead.
There are really no tricks into getting a scorpio back that I know of. Even when mine came back, he really didn't. Like I explained in my story.
So yea lol
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