So, I screwed up with Scorpio girl...

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Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is goint to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...

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Posted by ozzzy


I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...


Erm. That's cold. Not sure I'd say that to any of the signs, especially a scorpio that's very cleary attached to you.

From what I've read you don't really seem emotionally attached to her though. You just enjoying the ride?

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Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many thing immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. So she texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is goint to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some words from mew that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


Wait for what?

You are here with purpose..as all of us are..maybe..most of us dont know yet why..but we all contribute something to this world. Work on yourself..discover yourself..try what you sometimes dream to try..experience travelling and kniwladge that society doesnt teach you. Your heart will be more at peace when you stimulate the mind. If someone new cones along between go ahead and give a chance..if she comes back...give her a chance..everyone is sometimes lost and confused..but dont let it consume this sadness to enjoy your life.embrace, experience the living!

All the best

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Posted by ozzzy


I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...




If this were said to you , how would you react or even more how would you feel? .... taken for granted, unappreciated, inferior—

This is not an issue with her sensitivity, this is your failure to realize that you spoke down to her like she was beneath you. you probably wont have to worry about her coming back, she may have found a man that makes her feel good already.
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I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...


Erm. That's cold. Not sure I'd say that to any of the signs, especially a scorpio that's very cleary attached to you.

From what I've read you don't really seem emotionally attached to her though. You just enjoying the ride?


Well, yeah, I know that I overreacted, but I apologized...Sags can be impulsive, and it's because I wanted to help, and she refused, and I corrected her often, so I choose the bad way without bad intention.

And when she told me that I should be more serious sometimes, I agreed...that's pissed me off, cause it looked like that she will do what is only important to her, and not me.

Well, about attachment...I did enjoyed her attention, passion, and all that, but it was still early for me to become attached so quickly, but on the other side I wasn't cold inside when she said to me in my house that it is over...

Posted by AneemA
Now that grammar issues must've been about tenses..

Btw I think the same way with Ophiucus.
It was some small mistakes that I wanted to correct...

Posted by -elle-
You got on her about her grammar and had the nerve to hit post and not even go back to edit yourself?

*amused*
Actually, I told her that in person, but normally, and she agreed...when I corrected day after, she was pissed...but I guess it's because I chose the wrong way to help...



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That would make me mad too! Its not about you correcting the grammar its how you reacted to everything! Telling her that if she didnt like it she should go? Um wtf! Scorpios are ride or die.
I mean that just shows how you will be in the future

My way or highway

Ofcourse she'd react as she did!
That's exactly what she said, that she had an impression that I would like to always be on my way, and that she would never tell me something like that, but because I did, that she opted to leave cause she doesn't like it...

Posted by scorpYo
despite the fact that your fight is stupid and childish, before you act like you're the grammar police you should learn some yourself. I mean in the paragraph you wrote there's more than 3 grammar mistakes.
Firstly, English is not my main language, and second, of course that there will be some mistakes when the text is that long, and someone was typing fast...

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I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...




If this were said to you , how would you react or even more how would you feel? .... taken for granted, unappreciated, inferior—

This is not an issue with her sensitivity, this is your failure to realize that you spoke down to her like she was beneath you. you probably wont have to worry about her coming back, she may have found a man that makes her feel good already.
Ok, it was a mistake, I shouldn't reacted like that, I explained above why I did, but ofc, there is no excuse.

And yes, you are right, she got an impression that when I spoke to her, she is beneath me, that I know everything, and stuff...but hey, Sags are like that, so it's not ok, but it's just our nature.



Posted by halalbabe
English isn't his first language. He's probably talking about her grammar in Turkish.

Unless she's a journalist/author or anything of that kind, I don't see why you'd mention her bad grammar though. She's also petty for waging an act of psychological warfare because your comment made her feel inferior.

Weird couple.
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Nothing weird about that. Ofc that it is important how you spell words, because it leaves a bad impression if it's not correct.



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So, here is the update.

After she apologized for being so harsh, I guessed that she wants to be with me again...she was again sending me kisses, and all that...and we agreed to talk in the evening. I thought she really missed me, she said that she was sleeping bad, and was sad, but no matter what, it was great with me...

And in the evening, all of sudden, she calls me, and attacks me constantly, she mentioned every word that I said, that she was OK with before, and now it was bothering her...I tried to make everything right, and to calm her down, but no matter how I tried, she transformed herself into a monster...

She even told me that I wasn't kissing her long enough, she would like very very long, before sex we would always chat, watch movies, and then go into the bed. So what...I didn't wanted just sex, and she even complained about that, even though we were having sex many times, and long, and she was very pleased, now she even mentioned that. I can't believe...so she asked can I change that...

I said yes, and that I didn't know that it bothers her, because she was like, everything is fine, and was happy, texting me non stop everyday. She even complained how I never first send message, and it's because of my shifts, when she get up, I am sleeping, and she was OK with that, like, she understood, but now she even complained about that...

So, because she was obviously trying to revenge, or to hurt me, so I said that now I understand why she can't stand the girl from the work, her brothers girlfriend, and why her ex molested her, which she mentioned me when she was so into me, so I used that to revenge, and she then blocked me everywhere, like, it is not like that at all, she really care, and was obsessed with me, I'm great, I'm this, I'm that, she wants to be my future wife, blah, blah...and then transformation.

What's wrong with all that behavior? Day before she said that she saw in my eyes that I'm into her, she has emotions towards me, but she was closed because of some blunt words, she would do everything for us...from all that, to this, at the end. Unbelievable...one moment she is sorry, and all over me, next moment everything is bad...like, from hero to zero, lol. She even complained that I laughed while we were watching horror movie...so fucking what, big deal. I was hugging her often, kissing her, showing some emotions, she was enjoying it, and later she complained that it was little, wtf.
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Linda Goodman wrote that *nothing is never enough for a Scorpio*.....maybe she is one of those?

Fortunately with maturity and awareness, this can change. I was a bit like her when i was in my 20s....i was demanding and unreasonable, not with friends so much, but the lover. I had to look at this

From your writing i sense you are very much the odd couple, totally incompatible...as i said before Scorpio and Sag.....no

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Yup, first and last Scorpio for me, definitely. Maybe for some fun, but relationship, never. So many changes over one day, it's hilarious...from the I'm soooo into you, you're the one, I never felt this immediately, nor went to bed so quickly, and that she would do everything, she cares, to this...fights, everything's bad, but she was still writing me first, lol. And yeah, she's young, 24 years, and didn't had much experience, only one longer relationship which lasted 4 years, and that's with guy that couldn't even get into her, and was already finished, lol.

She also said that she didn't really loved anyone, while many wanted her still after. But she was very insecure, constantly asking me do I really like her and her body, do I really want to be in a relationship with her, I am the first one that she felt like she wants kids with me, I am a great guy, and if it doesn't last, she wouldn't want to lose me, but later said that she could never be friends with me because of attraction. I don't know, she's a double Scorpio, but very strange...all started with some blunt words. And her work is tough, so she doesn't have the time actually...

After those fights, and break up, I wanted nicely, because she apologized, and contacted me first, and then later she was mean again, for no reason, even according to her, she really cares about me, no matter what I think, but we're not meant for each other...from the, you're the one, haha. She wanted to improve things, and asked if I can, and when I confirmed, she was like, nah, I don't want to change you, it's over. Very strange indeed, and immature.
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Yup, first and last Scorpio for me, definitely. Maybe for some fun, but relationship, never. So many changes over one day, it's hilarious...from the I'm soooo into you, you're the one, I never felt this immediately, nor went to bed so quickly, and that she would do everything, she cares, to this...fights, everything's bad, but she was still writing me first, lol. And yeah, she's young, 24 years, and didn't had much experience, only one longer relationship which lasted 4 years, and that's with guy that couldn't even get into her, and was already finished, lol.

She also said that she didn't really loved anyone, while many wanted her still after. But she was very insecure, constantly asking me do I really like her and her body, do I really want to be in a relationship with her, I am the first one that she felt like she wants kids with me, I am a great guy, and if it doesn't last, she wouldn't want to lose me, but later said that she could never be friends with me because of attraction. I don't know, she's a double Scorpio, but very strange...all started with some blunt words. And her work is tough, so she doesn't have the time actually...

After those fights, and break up, I wanted nicely, because she apologized, and contacted me first, and then later she was mean again, for no reason, even according to her, she really cares about me, no matter what I think, but we're not meant for each other...from the, you're the one, haha. She wanted to improve things, and asked if I can, and when I confirmed, she was like, nah, I don't want to change you, it's over. Very strange indeed, and immature.
..and no, not just for fun either...that wont work

i presume she is young, as in under 30?
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So, because she was obviously trying to revenge, or to hurt me, so I said that now I understand why she can't stand the girl from the work, her brothers girlfriend, and why her ex molested her, which she mentioned me when she was so into me, so I used that to revenge,


That's some cold motherfucking shit right there.
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She opened up and told her innermost secrets and he used them to stab her in the back. That is ruthless.

I hope Scorpio girl pulls that knife out of her back and throws it at his front.

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So, because she was obviously trying to revenge, or to hurt me, so I said that now I understand why she can't stand the girl from the work, her brothers girlfriend, and why her ex molested her, which she mentioned me when she was so into me, so I used that to revenge,


That's some cold motherfucking shit right there.
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and quite disgusting actually



what is wrong with you man? you are worse than her

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Posted by Koniuchaa
You come off very arrogant and rude OP.

You should work on that.
Maybe little at the beginning, but I was always fair and sweet in person...and that is not the reason to be rude as she was. I tried to be OK, but she exaggerated, so I didn't had the choice, because it was obvious that she was trying to revenge for some even normal words that were not for her liking...

Posted by Deedee86
This does not sound like a fun relationship.

I have anxiety just reading about it.
Well, it was, at the beginning, until she turned into a psycho for no reason.

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Yup, first and last Scorpio for me, definitely. Maybe for some fun, but relationship, never. So many changes over one day, it's hilarious...from the I'm soooo into you, you're the one, I never felt this immediately, nor went to bed so quickly, and that she would do everything, she cares, to this...fights, everything's bad, but she was still writing me first, lol. And yeah, she's young, 24 years, and didn't had much experience, only one longer relationship which lasted 4 years, and that's with guy that couldn't even get into her, and was already finished, lol.

She also said that she didn't really loved anyone, while many wanted her still after. But she was very insecure, constantly asking me do I really like her and her body, do I really want to be in a relationship with her, I am the first one that she felt like she wants kids with me, I am a great guy, and if it doesn't last, she wouldn't want to lose me, but later said that she could never be friends with me because of attraction. I don't know, she's a double Scorpio, but very strange...all started with some blunt words. And her work is tough, so she doesn't have the time actually...

After those fights, and break up, I wanted nicely, because she apologized, and contacted me first, and then later she was mean again, for no reason, even according to her, she really cares about me, no matter what I think, but we're not meant for each other...from the, you're the one, haha. She wanted to improve things, and asked if I can, and when I confirmed, she was like, nah, I don't want to change you, it's over. Very strange indeed, and immature.
..and no, not just for fun either...that wont work

i presume she is young, as in under 30?
She's 24. Well, there is sexual chemistry between Sag and Scorpio, that's why I said maybe just for fun, it's just that they are so different in many ways...Sags are optimistic, while Scorpios are not like that.

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So, because she was obviously trying to revenge, or to hurt me, so I said that now I understand why she can't stand the girl from the work, her brothers girlfriend, and why her ex molested her, which she mentioned me when she was so into me, so I used that to revenge,


That's some cold motherfucking shit right there.

She opened up and told her innermost secrets and he used them to stab her in the back. That is ruthless.

I hope Scorpio girl pulls that knife out of her back and throws it at his front.

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Yeah, I used that because she was constantly fighting and telling how it's almost all bad, and day or two before everything was superb. I don't like when someone behave like that, I tried many times to calm her down, and said that I don't want to be rude, or to fight, but no matter what I did, she was very mean and cold-hearted that it pissed me off. Especially since she texted me again after she said it's over, that it was great with me, no matter what, that she is sorry for being so ruthless. And in the evening after that, when she said that we will talk again, I thought that she was really sorry, and wants everything to be better, but no, she was bitch...why did she apologized and texted me then?

So, usually I won't hurt someone like that, but if she doesn't care saying many bad things to me, and recently everything was so extra according to her, then she deserved. So you can think that I am bad, but I am not made of stone, and it was not easy to listen bullshit from her, because I didn't deserved it...

On top of that, she has many blocked people on her list, obviously she's fucked up. It's no surprise that she can't stand girl from work, brothers gf, brother's friend, etc. So there is something wrong with her...
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Oh, but you don't know how she behaved, and what bad things she told me for no reason, obviously trying to hurt me on purpose? She apologized first only to be a bitch again for no reason...who would want to deal with that bullshit and immature behavior...she was very cold and mean, but was saying that she really cares, and would do everything for us...she lied. I hate liers and actors.

I only hurt the same if somebody hurts me for no reason, and I know that I didn't do anything bad to her prior to that. So you can think what you want, but I was more sincere and emotional than her, that fights with many people, and has many blocked people...what that tells about her. So don't say something that you don't know...
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I thought that it might work because of my ascendant Scorpio, but no. Otherwise, I wouldn't even try. Well, I agree about how Scorpio see Sag, and vice versa, so there is just no understanding between them. Scorpios don't like positive attitude of Sag, optimistic views, freedom that we need, if we laugh for no reason according to them? It just doesn't work...they even don't get our jokes, and takes them seriously...

And they over analyse every single word, and wants to fight about it. Not to mention that she already searched my name and surname everywhere on the net at the beginning to see where I have profiles, and what kind of photos, lol, detective.
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So, because she was obviously trying to revenge, or to hurt me, so I said that now I understand why she can't stand the girl from the work, her brothers girlfriend, and why her ex molested her, which she mentioned me when she was so into me, so I used that to revenge, and ....
Boy, that's gotta hurt.

Damn.

With my sag fling he also did that to me. He was pissed off and attacked my self worth where he had been supressing.

I was like, "okay..."

That sucks.

But geez that's deal breaker right there.

When your dark stories or situation you trusted to share with someone turned out to be used against you.

I was like, Bye, bitch.

Good thing everything ends quickly.


Well, it was already a deal breaker, and I warned her many times on a nice way that I don't want to be rude and mean, and that I can be more brutal than her, bu she didn't listen. So, I didn't know what should I use to hurt her inside like she did me, so I brought that. She said that she don't show emotions even when she have them, and she cancelled our first date because she was afraid to be hurt from past experiences...I opened her.

She has many bad experiences behind her, and she fights with many people. We talked openly about everything from the start, so that is why I hate when someone lies. Her desire is to have children soon, because she loves them. She has many insecurities, because she was constantly asking me do I really liker her, am I really attracted to her, do I really want her to be my gf, etc. She was even insecure about her birth mark on the back. So now she will probably close again. I didn't want to fight, but it was impossible to avoid it...

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I thought that it might work because of my ascendant Scorpio, but no. Otherwise, I wouldn't even try. Well, I agree about how Scorpio see Sag, and vice versa, so there is just no understanding between them. Scorpios don't like positive attitude of Sag, optimistic views, freedom that we need, if we laugh for no reason according to them? It just doesn't work...they even don't get our jokes, and takes them seriously...
There can be. I actually know a lot of Sag/Scorp couples that work fairly well. It takes work though. And both parties consistently had to put their ego aside. It didn't come naturally.

You don't sound like that's what you're looking for so keep on. But keep in mind the observations people have made. Ruthlessness against your partner has no place in romance, no matter what signs you're dealing with. There's no justification for it.
Yeah, I like Aries, Gemini and Libras the most. I prefer those signs. I didn't tried to be with Leo, but I am going soon to a date with one, so we will see.

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I think with Scorpios there is always a future. There is never a real ending.

On the other hand you stay in a relationship like between a person who cannot pay back his debt and the banker lends him each time more money with heavier interest.

And the lover can always get back with the method which brings the HIGHEST credit: suicide.
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Well, I really wanted to understand her, and to make her happy, to try to correct the things that bothered her secretly, she asked if I can, I agreed, and she said, no, it's over...wtf. Why then she asked, and told me that she would do anything for us, bombarded me with texts, and then she just went cold, and was pissed off all the time. I don't like to make someone sad, but hey, she didn't want to cooperate, even though she texted me tomorrow after we broke up...strange girl.

@Koniuchaa - Yeah, right emoticon. I'm not proud nor happy about the situation and how it turned out, I just wanted to make her happy, to understand her better, and she lied to me, even if she told me that she didn't. But, "you're the only one for me, I'm all yours, I would do everything for us, don't ever leave me, I want to have children with you", and from all that, to suddenly nothing, and attacking...something doesn't match here...

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Posted by ozzzy
Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is goint to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


the word is spelled "still" not "steel"
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Posted by DMV
Ctfu. I enjoyed this ozzy. Immensly.

Saggis can bring out the crazy in people, straight up.
Yeah, it seems so Saggi girl 😄

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Posted by ozzzy
Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is going to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


the word is spelled "still" not "steel"
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Then check your eyes dumbass, I spelled it right.

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I Scorpios don't like positive attitude of Sag, optimistic views, freedom that we need, if we laugh for no reason according to them? It just doesn't work...they even don't get our jokes, and takes them seriously...

And they over analyse every single word, and wants to fight about it.

I don't know if that's a Scorpio thing. I have a very optimistic attitude and I'm always joking and laughing. I have a Sag male coworker and a Gemini male coworker and the three of us together is chaos. We actually laugh so hard that we cry. Nobody else seems to get our goofy humor.

Your Scorpio description sounds like the exact opposite of me. Perhaps it is her other placements or her upbringing that make her so defensive. Don't boycott all Scorpio girls because of one.

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Ctfu. I enjoyed this ozzy. Immensly.

Saggis can bring out the crazy in people, straight up.
Yeah, it seems so Saggi girl 😄

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Posted by ozzzy
Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is going to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


the word is spelled "still" not "steel"
Then check your eyes dumbass, I spelled it right.

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lol you check yourself dumbass

"So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

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Posted by ozzzy
Posted by DMV
Ctfu. I enjoyed this ozzy. Immensly.

Saggis can bring out the crazy in people, straight up.
Yeah, it seems so Saggi girl 😄

Posted by tcta
Posted by ozzzy
Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is going to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


the word is spelled "still" not "steel"
Then check your eyes dumbass, I spelled it right.


lol you check yourself dumbass

"So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...




Lol, you're dumb...you didn't saw that I wrote at least 8-10x in the same text correctly "still" so that once "steel" is obviously mistake, donkey.

Posted by SagLuvScorp
Somebody help me wash my eyes I m out of water... And i can't read this topic clearly, all I can read is my story :/

So gonna share my XP...

Scorpios girls r very very sensitive and super duper dumb.. And their mood changes fast as u blink Ur eyes, that's cuz they r having lot of things going through their head... 10% of things r from her past XP, 30% from Ur past, 5% from uncleared things which u cleared like 100 times but they r still confused with them and rest of them r just her bullshit thoughts (I m bad at maths so subtract these numbers out of 100)...

Let me give u an example... If u r deeply in love with her and want her to believe in u, she won't... But if u teared Ur chest, pulled out Ur heart and gifted her, she is gonna keep it deep inside her chest with her eyes full with tears of believe and love.... But next minute she is gonna throw that shit away as her tears of love turns into tears of pain... What the hell have u given her? U think u can fool her? She is not a child mate! She knows that heart looks like the heart emoticon u use to send her in text... And the shit u gave to her is not looking similar to that! U cheater!!! Now u want to make her understand that this is how real heart looks like sweetheart, but u can't cuz u r dead :/ jk :v sometimes i think it's not just a female Scorpio thing, its normals female problem... But i never faced anything like this from my exes :/

It seems like she is into u.. But if u r not seriously into her, then just back off cuz u r going to give her another terrifying experience... If u r into her and want to continue something with her then think before u make a move cuz that's gonna be a very bumpy ride and u both could have terrifying XP... Unless u both r willing to sacrifice for each other... But guess what? U both gonna have terrifying XP anyway 😛 most probably u r going to be the one who won't be having any idea about what u did wrong... Cuz the things too minor for u to notice, r enough to turn her into fire extinguisher... But u guys can have lots of special feelings, strong bond and may be unconditional love... And most of the break ups u face r going to be temporary...

It seems that the thing u said to her about her ex, it's a normal result of conflict... Cuz i have done that too, she have done with me too... If u want to continue with her just try to handle her with extra care and think before u speak in anger, cuz what u say in anger stays in ur anger, but for her she is gonna Keep them seriously and find Keri then inside her even when u guess r loving each other... And don't make the mistakes I made, i believe u won't cuz when I picked mine... I made her my early last pick... Damn... I m giving advises which I never followed myself :v

And she didn't lied to u, she is just being a female or a Scorpio or a female Scorpio... She can't help it... Just like we can't help being Sagittarius...
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Tnx fellow Archer for the precious info that you shared. I totally understand you, plus you had much longer experience with Scorpio female, so you know them better.

Ok, even though she was maybe honest, she was giving me shit for no reason because you're right, if you hurt them anyhow, you will pay them for that one sentence when you least expect it.

This one was double Scorpio, so you can imagine how she was like. Moody as hell...big changes over night for no obvious reason. Maybe she was honest about wanting everything with me, but they notice so many small things about you that pisses them off, and they keep it inside until they explode when you least expect it...

And no, I made even worse mistake, because she blocked me everywhere, and I doubt that she will unblock me...but never mind, I wouldn't want to continue anything with that kind of person...we should get some Libra, Aries, Gemini, or Leo lady...I bet that we would understand each other much better. 😄

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Posted by tcta
Posted by ozzzy
Posted by DMV
Ctfu. I enjoyed this ozzy. Immensly.

Saggis can bring out the crazy in people, straight up.
Yeah, it seems so Saggi girl 😄

Posted by tcta
Posted by ozzzy
Ok, I know that Scorpio girls are very sensitive, but until now, I wasn't in a relationship with one...

We were texting for one month, constantly, everything was great...we finally met, even though that she was afraid to be hurt from last experiences...

On the first date she was very open with me, we were walking for three hours, she was so open, that she said many things immediately, because of that connection and feel that she had.

She was very attracted to me, and still is...she was also very insecure, and always asked me do I really like her, and her body...she was all over me on the second date, and asked me everything...

On our third date, we were having amazing long sex, 4x in a row, and she cannot believe that she was so quick to get in bed with me, but it's because of that special feeling that she had with me...she even said that after one year, I could propose her, she would say yes, and want to have children with me, etc. Because, we had feeling like we know each other much longer, it was mutual...

Every next date was at my house, and she stayed late after work, it was very passionate, every time...

But, I noticed that she is bad at grammar, and wanted to help...she found herself offended, like, who looks for that, it is unimportant for a relationship...most important is to be a good person.

And she also said that she would do everything for our relationship...

So, when I corrected her via text for grammar, she was pissed off, and said that it is not important for her, nor for a relationship...if I asked for something that would be better for a relationship, then OK, but I didn't...

I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...

That was the end for her...because, as she said, she could never tell me something like that, nor she would ever say something about grammar, in a reversed case...

So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...

Jesus, I never imagined that Scorpio's are so sensitive...fire and water doesn't match well, only in bedroom...definitely, cause Scorpio's are too soft for a blunt Sag...

I would understand if I repeated the mistake, but no, only once, and that's it, no matter what, lol.

Are all Scorpios like that? 😄

Later she texted that she saw in my eyes that I'm very into her, why didn't I told her, it would change everything, and she would open up again, lol. Btw, she's a double Scorpio...

I didn't replied, and she just inserted sad emoticons. I guess that she wants me back, it's just that she is now insecure, and was mad cause she was hurt by my words...should I wait her to text me, or what? Something tells me that she will text me now that she knows that there is something more...

Here brother is going to England, to work, and she stayed because of me...after our fight, she wanted to join him at March, forever...

So, long story short, she still have feelings for me, and wants me, but she closed herself after some blunt words that she didn't expected, so it's now hard to open up again...now is question, to wait, or not to wait? 🙂 I still have some other options, and she too, but she doesn't want to see those other guys...


the word is spelled "still" not "steel"
Then check your eyes dumbass, I spelled it right.


lol you check yourself dumbass

"So, she came to my house, after work, and was so cold, and said that it is over, no matter what I said, she's been hurt, and that's it. She texted me after that she barely could resist to not kiss me, and steel feels something for me, but no, it's over...




Lol, you're dumb...you didn't saw that I wrote at least 8-10x in the same text correctly "still" so that once "steel" is obviously mistake, donkey.

Posted by SagLuvScorp
Somebody help me wash my eyes I m out of water... And i can't read this topic clearly, all I can read is my story :/

So gonna share my XP...

Scorpios girls r very very sensitive and super duper dumb.. And their mood changes fast as u blink Ur eyes, that's cuz they r having lot of things going through their head... 10% of things r from her past XP, 30% from Ur past, 5% from uncleared things which u cleared like 100 times but they r still confused with them and rest of them r just her bullshit thoughts (I m bad at maths so subtract these numbers out of 100)...

Let me give u an example... If u r deeply in love with her and want her to believe in u, she won't... But if u teared Ur chest, pulled out Ur heart and gifted her, she is gonna keep it deep inside her chest with her eyes full with tears of believe and love.... But next minute she is gonna throw that shit away as her tears of love turns into tears of pain... What the hell have u given her? U think u can fool her? She is not a child mate! She knows that heart looks like the heart emoticon u use to send her in text... And the shit u gave to her is not looking similar to that! U cheater!!! Now u want to make her understand that this is how real heart looks like sweetheart, but u can't cuz u r dead :/ jk :v sometimes i think it's not just a female Scorpio thing, its normals female problem... But i never faced anything like this from my exes :/

It seems like she is into u.. But if u r not seriously into her, then just back off cuz u r going to give her another terrifying experience... If u r into her and want to continue something with her then think before u make a move cuz that's gonna be a very bumpy ride and u both could have terrifying XP... Unless u both r willing to sacrifice for each other... But guess what? U both gonna have terrifying XP anyway 😛 most probably u r going to be the one who won't be having any idea about what u did wrong... Cuz the things too minor for u to notice, r enough to turn her into fire extinguisher... But u guys can have lots of special feelings, strong bond and may be unconditional love... And most of the break ups u face r going to be temporary...

It seems that the thing u said to her about her ex, it's a normal result of conflict... Cuz i have done that too, she have done with me too... If u want to continue with her just try to handle her with extra care and think before u speak in anger, cuz what u say in anger stays in ur anger, but for her she is gonna Keep them seriously and find Keri then inside her even when u guess r loving each other... And don't make the mistakes I made, i believe u won't cuz when I picked mine... I made her my early last pick... Damn... I m giving advises which I never followed myself :v

And she didn't lied to u, she is just being a female or a Scorpio or a female Scorpio... She can't help it... Just like we can't help being Sagittarius...
Tnx fellow Archer for the precious info that you shared. I totally understand you, plus you had much longer experience with Scorpio female, so you know them better.

Ok, even though she was maybe honest, she was giving me shit for no reason because you're right, if you hurt them anyhow, they will pay you for that one sentence when you least expect it.

This one was double Scorpio, so you can imagine how she was like. Moody as hell...big changes over night for no obvious reason. Maybe she was honest about wanting everything with me, but they notice so many small things about you that pisses them off, and they keep it inside until they explode when you least expect it...

And no, I made even worse mistake, because she blocked me everywhere, and I doubt that she will unblock me...but never mind, I wouldn't want to continue anything with that kind of person...we should get some Libra, Aries, Gemini, or Leo lady...I bet that we would understand each other much better. 😄

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I also texted that she didn't do anything yet for our relationship, I didn't saw anything, and if she does not like how I behave, she can go...




If this were said to you , how would you react or even more how would you feel? .... taken for granted, unappreciated, inferior—

This is not an issue with her sensitivity, this is your failure to realize that you spoke down to her like she was beneath you. you probably wont have to worry about her coming back, she may have found a man that makes her feel good already.
I doubt, she doesn't have the time for anyone because of her shifts, plus she is very insecure from past experiences, and she blocked many people, and is in a fight with many people. So I don't know who would want to deal with her moody behavior. 🙂

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You got on her about her grammar and had the nerve to hit post and not even go back to edit yourself?

*amused*
My thoughts exactly. This has to be a joke lol

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Ofc that I don't bother to edit very long post, it's different when you send short messages to each other, plus I corrected her on our main language which isn't English...

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Ok, before we finished the fight, and she was blocking me everywhere, I managed to block her first on one place, only to be able to text her something later...

So I tried to explain things normally, and added that I will understand if she doesn't want to contact me, or if she block me there also, and that there are no excuses for some bad words...also that I'll be here, if she change her mind, and all that...

Because, even it sounds strange after all, she was mad entire time because of one sentence "that she can go if she wants"...

I read somewhere that when Scorpios are mad, and cold at times, it's their way of expressing sadness among other things, and that we should not take it badly, or like bad intention. But hey, after prolonged tantrum, I did took it badly...so, practically, all of this was mainly because of some words that she couldn't get rid of in her head, even though she was delighted with my thoughts, how I always say right words in right time, etc. That is why I'm the only one with who she wanted to have children, family, because of that strong feeling and connection. And that is why she opened to me so quickly, like never before to anyone. And ofc, now she will be more closed than ever, as a Scorpio.

So, after that my message, I saw that she unblocked me on main applications, because I could see her profile picture again. And today, I got her messages that she don't want to fight, but she wants her bobby pins that she once forgot at my place, because she got them as a present, and I said that it's OK, I will give her back...

Now, I know that she still feels something for me, even though she will not show it, and she said earlier that she doesn't show when she's been hurt, so, I wonder...

Does she really need those bobby pins, and I guess that she would just pick them, cold blooded and leave, or she use that more as an excuse to see me. Or, maybe she wants to be sweet again so she could revenge eventually...

She also added that she got them from her sister's little kid, that she adores, and that is why she asks for them, otherwise, she wouldn't.

I know that Scorpio can forgive, and not forget, but, I think that it can relate to any sign, and not just Scorpio.

Some of her ex's wanted her back, but she didn't wanted...and some of them left her, and hurt her because of that...

Does Scorpio girls change their minds when left alone? I read somewhere about that also...if they still care, after some silence they get back at you, and then they are sweet again...she already did that once, I remember, when she canceled the first date, because she was afraid, but contacted me tomorrow. And couple of other Scorpios that I know behaved the same on some occasions. I don't have any bad intentions behind those questions, so, don't attack me. 😄
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Sorry but something about her gives med red flags. I know girls similar to her. The validation issues, the 1st date openness, the 3rd date sex ("oh i've never done this before").. the rush to get into a relationship despite not even really knowing you. The impulsiveness. All of these things are fine on their own but combine them and it spells baggage. And you're too thirsty to see it. Anyway just my 1st impression.

And lol @ 'grammar is not important for a relationship'. I suppose when she's right she's right.



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Posted by ScorpioMe
I'm a Scorpio female, and my thought is she's being too emotional, and a bit childish about the grammar, how old is she ?

I would open up very quickly in the early stage of any relationship, (dating, new friends), but it's not usual for me, to ask questions like "Do you like me?" Because I always feel insecure, I wouldn't ask questions like this which would give the control to others, I'd rather be being confident inside without asking anything, while assuming that I'm attractive to others. This way, I don't get any chance to get hurt. So you could say that Scorpios are confident, but it's more about outside, deep inside, we need someone very special to spend tons of patience for Years, through fights, conflicts, even break ups, to make us feel secure by not leaving us.

Scorpios could be very irrational by texting a lot and showing up at your place, we at some point, could go out of mind and follow our guts instead of our mind. When I was in one relationship, I could drive 40 miles to the one I cared about's home, but I wouldn't talk to him, just hiding so he wouldn't see me, I would stay there in my car and looking at his house, doing nothing, then after maybe 20 mins, I would just drive back home. And I would tell myself "I've done what I could. I tried to be nice but I had my limit." (After a period of time when he kind of pulled away.) And then just like that, I would move on. So I consider myself irrational at some point, but I always keep it to myself, I wouldn't show my frustration to anybody. But I do suffer from it and would go crazy. But nobody knows. Which is the way I get over a break up.

Hope it helps.


Tnx for you explanation, it gives me better insight for sure. She told me that she did have a relationship which lasted 4 years, but she left him because she did not love him, and he wanted to marry her. She also said that she is not so emotional, even though she adores kids, animals, etc.

Well, she earlier mentioned that she would leave the country permanently if our relationship doesn't last, but she was sure that we will be together for a long time.

After that fight, because she was offended, she broke up with me, even though I apologized and told her that I do really care. She was really cold when she came to my place, to tell me that it is over, but she saw in my eyes that I really do care...yesterday she admitted that she was crying when while going back to her place, and that she didn't felt anything similar with anyone from the first day, and then apologized again for being mean to me.

Prior to that she texted me that she decided to leave in two months even though she loves me...I wished her all the best, and after one hour she texted like, are you sorry because of that? I confirmed, and said that I would like things to be different...then she asked do I really care and suffer like her, because it will decide will she stay or go.

So, now she doesn't want to go, probably she just tested me to see do I really care, so she would not regret the decision to not leave...

Do you think that she was really so honest? It is strange that she was so open, maybe because of her intuition...

She mentioned also that I am the only person with whom she imagined to have children with.

Although, she does expect that I marry her after two to three years max of a relationship (if it lasts), because she wants to have children while she's still young.

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Lol...you don't get it, do you. One thing is when you don't know how to spell, and make repeated mistakes again and again, via short messages, and something different is when you write a really long message via smartphone, which is difficult, so obviously there will be some mistakes here and there, but that is something different. Everybody makes that kind of mistakes. I'm challenging you to write fast really long message via smartphone, without mistake...lol, stupid people. xD
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