The Lady Scorpio
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Stingers and Rams, your experiences ?
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Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNoooo!! Lol
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
Just gimme some time🤭🤭
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
Posted by Teenalol Taurus moon
Just gimme some time🤭🤭
Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe're not often every Stingers' cup of tea.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!click to expand
Posted by Ram416😁😁🙈Posted by Teenalol Taurus moon
Just gimme some time🤭🤭click to expand
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingGo get a Stinger then. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!click to expand
Posted by Ram416Hmm @Ram416, and have you had personal experiences with Stingers ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe're not often every Stingers' cup of tea.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!click to expand
So far, he is my cup of tea because he makes me think far less and feel much more. Ironic, considering I am the water sign and he the fire but other factors in our birth charts most likely highlight this.
Early days though, cannot quite tell if you Rams are in for the long hull with your intensely passionate initial onslaught. Whether or not that will burn out.
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingIs that so ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioI'm not their cup of tea 😆Posted by WolfInRamsClothingGo get a Stinger then. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!click to expand
... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆
@Ram416, and by cup of tea ... what do you mean by it ?
That we cannot comprehend your forward ways, or what incompatibility are you speaking of ?
That we cannot comprehend your forward ways, or what incompatibility are you speaking of ?
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNever tell a Stinger do not ask, because they will. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioDon't ask 😭😭Posted by WolfInRamsClothingIs that so ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioI'm not their cup of tea 😆Posted by WolfInRamsClothingGo get a Stinger then. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆
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So what happened to that 'wrong cup of tea' ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPlenty. I think it's cos of my moon and an empty 8th house.Posted by Ram416Hmm @Ram416, and have you had personal experiences with Stingers ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe're not often every Stingers' cup of tea.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
So far, he is my cup of tea because he makes me think far less and feel much more. Ironic, considering I am the water sign and he the fire but other factors in our birth charts most likely highlight this.
Early days though, cannot quite tell if you Rams are in for the long hull with your intensely passionate initial onslaught. Whether or not that will burn out.
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What aspects of Stinger-Ram connection do you want to know?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioI think the level of passion and intensity between Stinger and Ram are on par.
@Ram416, and by cup of tea ... what do you mean by it ?
That we cannot comprehend your forward ways, or what incompatibility are you speaking of ?
I have close Stinger friends who are more forward and 10x more bossy than a Ram.
The incompatibility I guess would have to come from the different style of communication.
Sometimes Stingers can be a bit overly cautious and will take a different route to get to the truth. Rams tend to just take the most obvious route first. Intuition vs Experience.
Note: I think I just unwittingly made a comparison between my sun and moon lmao
Posted by Ram416Hmm, the dynamics of it. How they communicate. How they act or react around one another. Whether or not the connection is explosive and short term or a deep slow burn and long term. Does the forward ways of a Stinger frighten off a Ram, in that we pursue something we want, and we do it intensely. What effect does a Stinger often have on a Ram.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPlenty. I think it's cos of my moon and an empty 8th house.Posted by Ram416Hmm @Ram416, and have you had personal experiences with Stingers ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe're not often every Stingers' cup of tea.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
So far, he is my cup of tea because he makes me think far less and feel much more. Ironic, considering I am the water sign and he the fire but other factors in our birth charts most likely highlight this.
Early days though, cannot quite tell if you Rams are in for the long hull with your intensely passionate initial onslaught. Whether or not that will burn out.
What aspects of Stinger-Ram connection do you want to know?click to expand
Initially, on first meeting. I felt more of the masculine energy in me, rather than him and he held back. However, on second meeting, I really felt the quiet confidence of his coming through. The masculinity is not arrogant or forced. He always did everything to ensure, I was comfortable, safe, protected, full, and entertained. Something new to me, as a Stinger because we are self reliant creatures. I did not have to ask, he simply does it, and given that everything is so new. I am not his SO yet, so why the intense care. He is always constantly checking in on me when we are together in person, to see if I am alright. That confidant initiative is oddly attractive to someone who is used to making her own decisions, to be taken care of / doted on. We do not need it, but it is nice to bask in it for once. Oddly enough, when away from one another, he is often M.I.A until I initiate, in which he would read or respond rather swiftly.
He seems to relish in providing, and protecting anything or anyone he cares about. He does not care in the way of Virgins, where they do it out of servitude but he does it out of wishing to fend for those people who he considers his. I can not quite put it into words. "You are in my care now, so I will do what is best to ensure that you are ok.", a perspective similar to that.
I could hardly think straight around him, there is a quiet intensity. He talks a lot about himself, he has shared about his past, family, siblings, heartbreak, exes, career, personal highs and lows etc. The good and the bad. He spoke of his desires to expand in his career, what his options were, and his wants in regards to having a family, once that settles down. Often, asking for my opinion and perspectives on matters. What changed was he began to ask more about me. Given, I am not one who talks about myself a lot, I struggled. He was very patient with me, even during moments of absolutely silence. He would do all these small gestures, to let me know he was still present, and I will be ok, safe.
Though we have only known each other rather briefly, he has already mentioned that my presence, caused him to want to change for the better, even more so. To make healthier choices etc. and his actions have shown it. I did nothing, I never mentioned anything. He is not mine, therefore out of respect I would never inflict what I think on them, much less try to change him.
It is quite something, for a Stinger to be reduced to shyness and feeling very feminine for once. His presence creates that feeling in me, and it leaves me confused. It is all too new to me. God forbid, I have no idea what I rambled on about. Again, as said, he leaves me a bit too heady.
Is this how it normally plays out ?
Posted by Ram416True, I am learning to be less cautious around him. Every time I gather the strength to be equally as forward, and blunt as he is. I am always rewarded with a direct response from him. If you dare say it, or ask it, normally, he will give you the answer. That is a learning curve for me, after having dealt with earth / air dominant individuals. Where the opposite occurs, and frankly which was exhausting me. This has been a refreshing but challenging change too.Posted by TheLadyScorpioI think the level of passion and intensity between Stinger and Ram are on par.
@Ram416, and by cup of tea ... what do you mean by it ?
That we cannot comprehend your forward ways, or what incompatibility are you speaking of ?
I have close Stinger friends who are more forward and 10x more bossy than a Ram.
The incompatibility I guess would have to come from the different style of communication.
Sometimes Stingers can be a bit overly cautious and will take a different route to get to the truth. Rams tend to just take the most obvious route first. Intuition vs Experience.
Note: I think I just unwittingly made a comparison between my sun and moon lmaoclick to expand
However, when I finally got the nerve to very directly express my desire to see him again soon because I would like to. He has gone missing in action. Given I already know when he will have his days off this week and the next, next week will be his birthday. Which he mentioned multiple times already since the first time we met. Which he has no plans for yet, but others may be organising something for him.
For a Ram, he is very quiet around me. We sometimes, only bask in each others presence, without much of a word, only a glance, a wink from him, or a smile. He seems quite content with it, must be his Merman moon. He enjoys the physical contact, during those quiet moments.
In fact, communication wise, he was hardly flirtatious the first time we met, and the many hours we spent till morning the next day. It was only on the second time we met, and the morning after, that he really began to exude his subtle cheekiness and flirtatious ways. Which baffles me, often it work in reverse and not in this manner. As men usually, work their way to bed a woman, he did the opposite. He continued building and really opened up and put in the effort into the connection, after the fact.
Initially, I had walked into this thinking perhaps it was all casual. However, every action he has done has changed my mind and now I have no idea what is going on. He consistently mentions he is single, else he would not have spoken to me, that he has enough fun already since his last relationship which was many years ago. We spoke of all his past relationships, in depth, what went wrong, what he desires now in terms of companionship and love etc. He is ready to be with someone, to have something meaningful after having worked on himself and grown confidant enough in his own skin etc.
However, Ram gents be Rams, is this all talk or ... ?
@Ram416
Excuse the length, Stingers are creatures of extremes. Either short and overtly efficient responses or long drawn out ones. 😆
Excuse the length, Stingers are creatures of extremes. Either short and overtly efficient responses or long drawn out ones. 😆
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingCome now, where did those balls of steel go ? 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioGeeez, I have to go 😆Posted by WolfInRamsClothingNever tell a Stinger do not ask, because they will. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioDon't ask 😭😭Posted by WolfInRamsClothingIs that so ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioI'm not their cup of tea 😆Posted by WolfInRamsClothingGo get a Stinger then. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.Posted by WolfInRamsClothingWhy ? 😆
Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆
So what happened to that 'wrong cup of tea' ?
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Posted by Ram416You did. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI think the level of passion and intensity between Stinger and Ram are on par.
@Ram416, and by cup of tea ... what do you mean by it ?
That we cannot comprehend your forward ways, or what incompatibility are you speaking of ?
I have close Stinger friends who are more forward and 10x more bossy than a Ram.
The incompatibility I guess would have to come from the different style of communication.
Sometimes Stingers can be a bit overly cautious and will take a different route to get to the truth. Rams tend to just take the most obvious route first. Intuition vs Experience.
Note: I think I just unwittingly made a comparison between my sun and moon lmaoclick to expand
Do you find yourself struggling between the two, at any time ?
Posted by TotiWhy is that ?
One word- no. But, I have a great diving buddy who is a ram. Underwater we function amazingly well.
What made the experience unpleasant ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioAll good, I have Merc Taurus so I am patient enough to sift through the details.
@Ram416
Excuse the length, Stingers are creatures of extremes. Either short and overtly efficient responses or long drawn out ones. 😆
However I am still at work and can't focus right now, so will answer you later.
Posted by Ram416Ah, he has a Bull placement as well but it is in Mars therefore it shows itself rather differently.Posted by TheLadyScorpioAll good, I have Merc Taurus so I am patient enough to sift through the details.
@Ram416
Excuse the length, Stingers are creatures of extremes. Either short and overtly efficient responses or long drawn out ones. 😆
However I am still at work and can't focus right now, so will answer you later.click to expand
Thank bloody hell for your Merc in Bull, I will be grateful for it. 😆
Another thing to mention, as much as he cares, and is very attentive etc. He would never allow me to give or do anything in return. Now, Stingers are also action orientated people, I need to do for those I like or care about. He would not let me pay, get anything for him, help him around his place, etc. Absolutely nothing. There is no saying no either, he is very commanding as a gent. He will take care of it, and that is all there is to it. All I am allowed to do, is accept his care, with a smile, and somehow that makes him content, leaving him all satisfied. Kind of leaves an action orientated person, feeling a bit useless, and helpless because I too express myself in the same way. I do appreciate it a lot, because it gives me a break from myself but -
what else could I do besides being thankful ?
Take your time, and thank you in advance. 🍹
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Posted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
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I am not jealous type myself
Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
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Posted by TheLadyScorpioBecause the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
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Scorpio naturally try to micromanage every aspect of life, ram doesn't tolerate such control. It takes the ram focus on its own task to deal with the scorpio bullshit non stop. Exhausting. On the other hand, they love deep and very committed to each other. The romantic and sexual part is extremely nice and strong which ensures the strength of the bond. With that, they capable to overcome those issues by both compromise to each other. If that not happen they will break up.
We have some crazy psychic connection as well, sense each other thoughts, emotions etc. Sometimes it leads to the urge if expectations as we both know the other knows what we need right now but not satisfied sometimes. To overcome that, those expectations need to be lower and let each other give when one want. Much appreciation comes from the understanding of the unique pairing and the quality of the relationship fundamentally very high. That also lead to better compromising urge and patience. Sometimes very intense but other times very chilled and compassionate
Posted by SheeverRams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioBecause the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
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Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.
I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.
Posted by SheeverWe do, we like having plans, and to organise plans within plans.
Scorpio naturally try to micromanage every aspect of life, ram doesn't tolerate such control. It takes the ram focus on its own task to deal with the scorpio bullshit non stop. Exhausting. On the other hand, they love deep and very committed to each other. The romantic and sexual part is extremely nice and strong which ensures the strength of the bond. With that, they capable to overcome those issues by both compromise to each other. If that not happen they will break up.
We do so to ensure everything runs as smoothly as possible for the future, and also because of our drive / ambition.
However, once stable and matured. We really have little to no desire to micromanage others, much less our SO. In fact, we expect our SO to be able to handle their own lives. We already have enough to deal with, to add theirs unto ours and we might fall into the darker sides of who we are.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioDon't be sorry, I learned a lot from her, about issues possibly comes up also most importantly about myself and my responses to unwanted issues of others. Even I don't need to fix anyone, when you love someone you try to achieve equalibrium so you must deal with it one way or the other. It's easier to quit, anybody can do that. Rams are not quitters.Posted by SheeverRams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioBecause the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.
I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.
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Clam chowder and slim Jim's dont mix or do they? That be interesting to smell 🧐
Loads of sexy fun time, indoors, outdoors, everywhere haha
Playful ..... dancing naked in my bedroom lool, dressing up in sexy costumes
Adventures...travelling a lot together...lots of foreign cities
He was a gorgeous sexy masculine firey ram...we didn't stop staring at each other every time we met for almost 5yrs. He told me he was always nervous of me
I had to move on and let him free for loads of reasons .... but wouldn't have missed the experience for the world
And his Scorpio moon.....wooooow 😛
Playful ..... dancing naked in my bedroom lool, dressing up in sexy costumes
Adventures...travelling a lot together...lots of foreign cities
He was a gorgeous sexy masculine firey ram...we didn't stop staring at each other every time we met for almost 5yrs. He told me he was always nervous of me
I had to move on and let him free for loads of reasons .... but wouldn't have missed the experience for the world
And his Scorpio moon.....wooooow 😛
....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....
After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me
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After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me
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Posted by MyStarsShineYou guys will hold on forever some place in each other heart to be fair here. You know it, he knows it too.
....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....
After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me
😛
This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
Posted by SheeverYes indeed...it was life altering for us bothPosted by MyStarsShineYou guys will hold on forever some place in each other heart to be fair here. You know it, he knows it too.
....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....
After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me
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Like something you would see in a movie....
Thanks for your words 🙂
This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
She says I am crazy,but I am different and amazing, and the best intimacy and sex ever, I say exactly the same about her.she is amazing. She is cap sun but scorpio moon double 8th house so I know all possible scorpio issues came to surface. Dealt with all, and I got really better, altough suffered a lot at times earlier on.
She says I am crazy,but I am different and amazing, and the best intimacy and sex ever, I say exactly the same about her.she is amazing. She is cap sun but scorpio moon double 8th house so I know all possible scorpio issues came to surface. Dealt with all, and I got really better, altough suffered a lot at times earlier on.
We have pluto opposition venus, moon trine venus, moon biquantile moon, pluto ascendant, pluto North node and other contacts challenge a lot but glue a lot too. Its the type of situations you slip in and no way out, it's too good, but also tough as fuck
Posted by UnwordingHmm
Does an Aries stellium count? 😛
I have sun, moon (hades) mercury and venus aries
Posted by TheLadyScorpioYou can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.Posted by SheeverRams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioBecause the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.
I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.
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Posted by SheeverYou are quite right, they are not quitters. That is really nice to hear.Posted by TheLadyScorpioDon't be sorry, I learned a lot from her, about issues possibly comes up also most importantly about myself and my responses to unwanted issues of others. Even I don't need to fix anyone, when you love someone you try to achieve equalibrium so you must deal with it one way or the other. It's easier to quit, anybody can do that. Rams are not quitters.Posted by SheeverRams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioBecause the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.Posted by SheeverWhat kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problemsPosted by SheeverAre you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?
Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?
I am not jealous type myself
Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.
I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.
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Posted by MyStarsShineThat sound divine and magical. It reflects on some of the unbelievable moments (though only met twice), in which I have had with this Ram as well.
Loads of sexy fun time, indoors, outdoors, everywhere haha
Playful ..... dancing naked in my bedroom lool, dressing up in sexy costumes
Adventures...travelling a lot together...lots of foreign cities
He was a gorgeous sexy masculine firey ram...we didn't stop staring at each other every time we met for almost 5yrs. He told me he was always nervous of me
I had to move on and let him free for loads of reasons .... but wouldn't have missed the experience for the world
And his Scorpio moon.....wooooow 😛
Happy to hear you had such memories.
Posted by MyStarsShineKarma is most definitely real. It protects us as much as give us what we may or may not deserve.
....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....
After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me
😛
I too came from a string of men who were the exact opposite, especially one who stood me up that very night when the Ram barged into my life. A ball of flames, igniting my world in a way I never knew it could be.
My ex Scorp was married to a Ram. I think she is probably the only person I've ever heard him say an unkind word about. She cheated on him.
According to him, at least. I wasn't there obviously so idk how it really all went down.
According to him, at least. I wasn't there obviously so idk how it really all went down.
I think it probably works better when the Scorp is female and the Ram is male.
Posted by SheeverTrue. We both challenge and question each other, diving into both our life stories. How we ended up where we are today, in order to meet each other in the same city. He makes me feel more, making my emotions more immediate and I know I make him stop, to think much more rationally. In which he never quite contemplated things in such light before.
This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
It almost shook me to my core, the experience thus far because it became very intimate so early on. That never happened to me before with any other man, as they usually remain stoic or closed off. At once it feels comforting, but I would have to admit it strikes a sense of unease or even fear as well.
What if all this was only for a moment and not for more ?
Posted by SheeverHe also has a Ram stellium, in Sun / Mercury / Venus with a Merman Moon.Posted by UnwordingHmm
Does an Aries stellium count? 😛
I have sun, moon (hades) mercury and venus ariesclick to expand
With all that fire, what keeps you loyal and / or grounded ?
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