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This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
True. We both challenge and question each other, diving into both our life stories. How we ended up where we are today, in order to meet each other in the same city. He makes me feel more, making my emotions more immediate and I know I make him stop, to think much more rationally. In which he never quite contemplated things in such light before.

It almost shook me to my core, the experience thus far because it became very intimate so early on. That never happened to me before with any other man, as they usually remain stoic or closed off. At once it feels comforting, but I would have to admit it strikes a sense of unease or even fear as well.

What if all this was only for a moment and not for more ?

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Very good observation. You certainly have the same sort of experience. Hence the answer for your question you know already. Something like this is once in a lifetime chance to experience, so if momentary or not does not matter. You re lucky either way.treasure it. Its rather the question how it goes forward. And in that you have equal responsibility. To me, I want to explore further and because its the most beneficial relationship I ever had, especially in self growth. She makes me a better man.
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Does an Aries stellium count? 😛
Hmm

I have sun, moon (hades) mercury and venus aries
He also has a Ram stellium, in Sun / Mercury / Venus with a Merman Moon.

With all that fire, what keeps you loyal and / or grounded ?
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Answer your bottom question. Many things.

The recognition of your value, the recognition of that intimacy, the comfort with each other, the deep trust, the freedom of expression, the lack of judgement, the self growth, learn from each other, the history of yours, the pleasure, the passion
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
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Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?
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Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
Why ? 😆
I want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.
Go get a Stinger then. 😆
I'm not their cup of tea 😆
Is that so ?

... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆


Don't ask 😭😭
Never tell a Stinger do not ask, because they will. 😆

So what happened to that 'wrong cup of tea' ?


Worst mistake telling a Scorpio - I want your soul and I want it NOW
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It is both a mistake and also what we desire as well.

If the Stinger fears not, and is ready to dive into the ocean of unknown. Then, it will happen.

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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?

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Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
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This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
True. We both challenge and question each other, diving into both our life stories. How we ended up where we are today, in order to meet each other in the same city. He makes me feel more, making my emotions more immediate and I know I make him stop, to think much more rationally. In which he never quite contemplated things in such light before.

It almost shook me to my core, the experience thus far because it became very intimate so early on. That never happened to me before with any other man, as they usually remain stoic or closed off. At once it feels comforting, but I would have to admit it strikes a sense of unease or even fear as well.

What if all this was only for a moment and not for more ?


Very good observation. You certainly have the same sort of experience. Hence the answer for your question you know already. Something like this is once in a lifetime chance to experience, so if momentary or not does not matter. You re lucky either way.treasure it. Its rather the question how it goes forward. And in that you have equal responsibility. To me, I want to explore further and because its the most beneficial relationship I ever had, especially in self growth. She makes me a better man.
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Do I truly know ?

I question it, or perhaps because my intuition has been a become a bit groggy at the moment. Of course it would matter, be it a moment or a lifetime. I do not want the comfort of this brief connection to end, I wish to explore it to at least know the path was once walked upon, and not left with a "I wonder what if ... ".

That is true, despite only having met twice. Our conversations and interactions made me question a lot of things about myself, that I may have pushed to the side, and not faced prior. Now, it is right in front of me, and I must chose to change, to reap the rewards of that change, or to remain as I am, stagnant, and perhaps discontented.

That is one of the greatest thing to hear, that a woman makes you a better man. That she caused you to want to change for yourself, rather than her trying to changing you. That inspiration, is second to none.
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This pairing is the one shows mirror of each other bad side and both have to fix themselves because simply no choice. The bond is incredible strong and deep, and because if this none quit. So you have to face yourself on both side. All that being said, it makes the connection extremely intimate. They go through together war and the most passionate experience to let each other be. Beautiful stuff if you able to understand what you have run into.
True. We both challenge and question each other, diving into both our life stories. How we ended up where we are today, in order to meet each other in the same city. He makes me feel more, making my emotions more immediate and I know I make him stop, to think much more rationally. In which he never quite contemplated things in such light before.

It almost shook me to my core, the experience thus far because it became very intimate so early on. That never happened to me before with any other man, as they usually remain stoic or closed off. At once it feels comforting, but I would have to admit it strikes a sense of unease or even fear as well.

What if all this was only for a moment and not for more ?


Very good observation. You certainly have the same sort of experience. Hence the answer for your question you know already. Something like this is once in a lifetime chance to experience, so if momentary or not does not matter. You re lucky either way.treasure it. Its rather the question how it goes forward. And in that you have equal responsibility. To me, I want to explore further and because its the most beneficial relationship I ever had, especially in self growth. She makes me a better man.
Do I truly know ?

I question it, or perhaps because my intuition has been a become a bit groggy at the moment. Of course it would matter, be it a moment or a lifetime. I do not want the comfort of this brief connection to end, I wish to explore it to at least know the path was once walked upon, and not left with a "I wonder what if ... ".

That is true, despite only having met twice. Our conversations and interactions made me question a lot of things about myself, that I may have pushed to the side, and not faced prior. Now, it is right in front of me, and I must chose to change, to reap the rewards of that change, or to remain as I am, stagnant, and perhaps discontented.

That is one of the greatest thing to hear, that a woman makes you a better man. That she caused you to want to change for yourself, rather than her trying to changing you. That inspiration, is second to none.

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We tried to change each other, resulting into needless fights. I realised my expectations towards her and made rational analysis over my mistakes. So I tried to reduce the potential conflict from my own side at least. She isn't that self aware or less considerate. Which makes me sometimes show a mirror. She as well gradually improving. Many times now, we cut the conflict with a kiss and love you. Before could go on and on the nonsense and was absolutely pointless. When you experience when things OK, and when not, after some stage you tired of the crap and start appreciate the peace and compassion. No matter how strong you think you are. Just no need of power games.
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?


Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
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I have been with enough Virgent dominant men, surely his criticism of me could hardly trigger as much as they once did. It could hardly hurt more than what they had once done to me.

We do not tease more so, ask questions of each other, to make the other think, or to almost force the other to explore other perspectives. We may not agree, but that was never the point, to convince one another to take on the perspective of the other but more so, to see how we could expand our thought patterns. Yes, he does have a lot of character and maturity as do I. It comes from our past experiences, which shaped us this way.

That is true, many other men have tried to get me to submit to them in a feminine manner. However, I always sensed their masculinity was all shades of arrogance, bravado, and an act, lacking strength. Hence I never could, it almost made me think I would never be able to until he came along. He naturally, makes me feel safe enough to be my feminine self without feeling less of who I am, or diminished. He does not make me feel like I am below his thumb in power, rather he respects what I am capable of, but takes over the reigns so I could rest. A break from myself.

Are you telling me all that he is observing, is my flaws ? That would be a concern. 😐
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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
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Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
Why ? 😆
I want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.
Go get a Stinger then. 😆
I'm not their cup of tea 😆
Is that so ?

... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆


Don't ask 😭😭
Never tell a Stinger do not ask, because they will. 😆

So what happened to that 'wrong cup of tea' ?


Worst mistake telling a Scorpio - I want your soul and I want it NOW
It is both a mistake and also what we desire as well.

If the Stinger fears not, and is ready to dive into the ocean of unknown. Then, it will happen.


We are strange creatures though. We want it all and want it at once at least in relationships

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True, very true.

Until we realise, sometimes a slow burn is far better than an explosive display of fireworks, to fade into nothing.

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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?


Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
I have been with enough Virgent dominant men, surely his criticism of me could hardly trigger as much as they once did. It could hardly hurt more than what they had once done to me.

We do not tease more so, ask questions of each other, to make the other think, or to almost force the other to explore other perspectives. We may not agree, but that was never the point, to convince one another to take on the perspective of the other but more so, to see how we could expand our thought patterns. Yes, he does have a lot of character and maturity as do I. It comes from our past experiences, which shaped us this way.

That is true, many other men have tried to get me to submit to them in a feminine manner. However, I always sensed their masculinity was all shades of arrogance, bravado, and an act, lacking strength. Hence I never could, it almost made me think I would never be able to until he came along. He naturally, makes me feel safe enough to be my feminine self without feeling less of who I am, or diminished. He does not make me feel like I am below his thumb in power, rather he respects what I am capable of, but takes over the reigns so I could rest. A break from myself.

Are you telling me all that he is observing, is my flaws ? That would be a concern. 😐

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Well, you deep down seek both. Hence you want the feminine side if aries, caring protective, genuine, but you as well challenge his musculine side with conflict to see your man takes you down. It's a bit masochistic tendency of scorpio nature. I generally hate to express dominance because I am, but don't want to hurt my loved one, unless triggered long enough. In bed yes, no chance, I dominate you no matter what you try, but let you express yourself fully. We have bites, slaps, scratches hair pulling occasionally, but the dynamics is constantly changes as we are very responsive to each other.
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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.

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Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.


Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
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He makes me feel and think so much that I am left feeling both drained and replenished. Externally, I may still come across composed but he reduces me to putty inside. I am not quite sure I enjoy it or not. True, the depth is one that I have never come across before.
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?


Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
I have been with enough Virgent dominant men, surely his criticism of me could hardly trigger as much as they once did. It could hardly hurt more than what they had once done to me.

We do not tease more so, ask questions of each other, to make the other think, or to almost force the other to explore other perspectives. We may not agree, but that was never the point, to convince one another to take on the perspective of the other but more so, to see how we could expand our thought patterns. Yes, he does have a lot of character and maturity as do I. It comes from our past experiences, which shaped us this way.

That is true, many other men have tried to get me to submit to them in a feminine manner. However, I always sensed their masculinity was all shades of arrogance, bravado, and an act, lacking strength. Hence I never could, it almost made me think I would never be able to until he came along. He naturally, makes me feel safe enough to be my feminine self without feeling less of who I am, or diminished. He does not make me feel like I am below his thumb in power, rather he respects what I am capable of, but takes over the reigns so I could rest. A break from myself.

Are you telling me all that he is observing, is my flaws ? That would be a concern. 😐


Well, you deep down seek both. Hence you want the feminine side if aries, caring protective, genuine, but you as well challenge his musculine side with conflict to see your man takes you down. It's a bit masochistic tendency of scorpio nature. I generally hate to express dominance because I am, but don't want to hurt my loved one, unless triggered long enough. In bed yes, no chance, I dominate you no matter what you try, but let you express yourself fully. We have bites, slaps, scratches hair pulling occasionally, but the dynamics is constantly changes as we are very responsive to each other.
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Sure, I do challenge him but he does not take me down. He steps aside, and lets me have my piece. Respects it and then resumes his role. He does not express dominance more so than the fact that he embodies quiet confidence and strength, a masculinity that merely is.

Ah stop, all this mentioning of what you do to her in bed makes me want to go ravish him again. If I do manage to see him again, that is. 😆

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She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.


Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
He makes me feel and think so much that I am left feeling both drained and replenished. Externally, I may still come across composed but he reduces me to putty inside. I am not quite sure I enjoy it or not. True, the depth is one that I have never come across before.

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Yes I understand. But this is because its equivalent on your level, and you need to be challenged or at least see the strength in him. If you would dominating like with other signs, you would get bored. Your nature is intense and you have a tendency to influence the daily dynamics depending on what you need. So you can be very genuine and loving in one minute, then be very conflicting in another. That's from your intensity, and also your instability due your intense emotions. You re the extremes. Rams as well, so they can give you exact mirror unconsciously. That is why you stack in feel that strong pull towards him. It will always be so and not going away. Yes he can humiliate you even, if you pursue your own fall, but you can reconsider your own responsibility which he will reflect and explain why. The last thing he wants is to drain you or fight you. Be less impulsive.we rams consider that immature and loss of control of the self. Strangely, we do the same mistake, altough we learn extremely quickly from it and adjust.
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?


Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
I have been with enough Virgent dominant men, surely his criticism of me could hardly trigger as much as they once did. It could hardly hurt more than what they had once done to me.

We do not tease more so, ask questions of each other, to make the other think, or to almost force the other to explore other perspectives. We may not agree, but that was never the point, to convince one another to take on the perspective of the other but more so, to see how we could expand our thought patterns. Yes, he does have a lot of character and maturity as do I. It comes from our past experiences, which shaped us this way.

That is true, many other men have tried to get me to submit to them in a feminine manner. However, I always sensed their masculinity was all shades of arrogance, bravado, and an act, lacking strength. Hence I never could, it almost made me think I would never be able to until he came along. He naturally, makes me feel safe enough to be my feminine self without feeling less of who I am, or diminished. He does not make me feel like I am below his thumb in power, rather he respects what I am capable of, but takes over the reigns so I could rest. A break from myself.

Are you telling me all that he is observing, is my flaws ? That would be a concern. 😐


Well, you deep down seek both. Hence you want the feminine side if aries, caring protective, genuine, but you as well challenge his musculine side with conflict to see your man takes you down. It's a bit masochistic tendency of scorpio nature. I generally hate to express dominance because I am, but don't want to hurt my loved one, unless triggered long enough. In bed yes, no chance, I dominate you no matter what you try, but let you express yourself fully. We have bites, slaps, scratches hair pulling occasionally, but the dynamics is constantly changes as we are very responsive to each other.
Sure, I do challenge him but he does not take me down. He steps aside, and lets me have my piece. Respects it and then resumes his role. He does not express dominance more so than the fact that he embodies quiet confidence and strength, a masculinity that merely is.

Ah stop, all this mentioning of what you do to her in bed makes me want to go ravish him again. If I do manage to see him again, that is. 😆

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You need long enough time to experience the full dynamics without limits. It's hot and cold, until stabilise. From there you both have control when to increase intensity, but generally the base will be more peaceful on the large. If you need more intensity, he picks up instantly and go with you.
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We had extremely painful times, with humiliation and big fights not even funny. But in that, you still had that honesty and trust, and the freedom of expression of both. It may sound weird but trust me is very intimate as well. On the make up sex, you let all that out into strong passion which makes the bond strengthen constantly. From my perspective, it's very unique relationship, never had even similar to it. She is extremely intelligent and intuitive, challenging in all areas, so it's a perfect match for me. The core traits identical, but many things other case polar opposite. It has extremely large opportunities to learn one from another which I cherish a lot. She taught me more in a year time than everyone else all together before.
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....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....

After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me

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Karma is most definitely real. It protects us as much as give us what we may or may not deserve.

I too came from a string of men who were the exact opposite, especially one who stood me up that very night when the Ram barged into my life. A ball of flames, igniting my world in a way I never knew it could be.

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Weren't you with Aquas and Virgos too, Lady?
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.
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....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....

After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me

😛
Karma is most definitely real. It protects us as much as give us what we may or may not deserve.

I too came from a string of men who were the exact opposite, especially one who stood me up that very night when the Ram barged into my life. A ball of flames, igniting my world in a way I never knew it could be.


Weren't you with Aquas and Virgos too, Lady?
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Yes stars, in my past I was with Water Bearers and Virgents. As much as I have learned from being with those men, having grown from my experiences with them and care about them still in a distant manenr. Never again, I dare say.

Now I need the warmth, the expression, the open affection more than anything else.

The contrast between them and the Ram is quite large, a contrast I am thankful for.
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Lolololol, they will tell you quit it now!
Why ? 😆
I want to know why too. Gimme a scorp.
Go get a Stinger then. 😆
I'm not their cup of tea 😆
Is that so ?

... or rather, did you chase after the wrong cup of tea instead. 😆


Don't ask 😭😭
Never tell a Stinger do not ask, because they will. 😆

So what happened to that 'wrong cup of tea' ?


Worst mistake telling a Scorpio - I want your soul and I want it NOW
It is both a mistake and also what we desire as well.

If the Stinger fears not, and is ready to dive into the ocean of unknown. Then, it will happen.


We are strange creatures though. We want it all and want it at once at least in relationships


True, very true.

Until we realise, sometimes a slow burn is far better than an explosive display of fireworks, to fade into nothing.

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Oh sweet love! Experience of fireworks is necessary to appreciate a slow burn !
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....i think karma must be real because i went from a guy who was exactly the opposite lol....

After a break of a year.....Mr Firey Ram came to me

😛
Karma is most definitely real. It protects us as much as give us what we may or may not deserve.

I too came from a string of men who were the exact opposite, especially one who stood me up that very night when the Ram barged into my life. A ball of flames, igniting my world in a way I never knew it could be.


Weren't you with Aquas and Virgos too, Lady?
Yes stars, in my past I was with Water Bearers and Virgents. As much as I have learned from being with those men, having grown from my experiences with them and care about them still in a distant manenr. Never again, I dare say.

Now I need the warmth, the expression, the open affection more than anything else.

The contrast between them and the Ram is quite large, a contrast I am thankful for.

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Couldn't have said it better

Gotta have that fire ! 😛
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Can be strong pair, chemistry is solid. Problem comes from the control freak tendency of scorpio, jealousy, manipulation etc. Ram is direct and straight forward. Doesn't understand the scorpio behaviour, as find it needless. Scorpio creates most conflict, it takes both patient to coop and functioning fully. If that achieved, they can be very strong couple and loyal.the first year is crucial to get through. From there stabilise.
Are you a Stinger or Ram yourself ?

Would you say Rams also tend toward possessiveness as well in this pairing ?


Yes I am ram. No possessiveness here, however the scorpio possessiveness can trigger some insecurity as the ram not suspicious without reason and as you know who accuse sometimes is the guilty one can cause problems

I am not jealous type myself


What kind of insecurity are you referring to and why would the possessiveness trigger this ?


Because the ram is honest and straightforward. He doesn't understand the scorpio suspicious behaviour as ram gives no reason. That makes the ram suspicious over the scorpio behaviour. The scorpio is self sabotage, unless the ram more intelligent than the scorpio. Then it works. Otherwise they drives each other mental for no reason. The scorpio is full of expectations, and lack of tolerance of boundaries and personal space, as the scorpio paranoid about commitment usually. Not all of them but the ones with bad experience from past relationships.
Rams usually are, but there are times where you lot seem to go quiet, retreating into your heads and hold back. Why, are you processing, thinking ?

Unlike other signs, I cannot read it.

I am sorry to hear you went through those experiences. Like Rams, we also need time to grow into our own skin. When Stingers have not reached that level of maturity, we tend to wreck havoc on those we love.


You can't read, that makes it more exciting. However they can read you especially if pluto, neptune in natal, also can challenge you psychologically.
Is it ?

It is unnerving, when I could normally read most anyone, but with him I cannot grasp unto anything yet I find trusting him rather easy.

Yes, he has a Merman Moon and he does read me awfully well. Always, observing my expressions quietly, occasionally asking if I am alright. Very intuitive, which at once also saddens me a little. If I cannot read him, I feel I cannot offer him what he needs. In those silent moments, it makes me wonder what you lot think. What is going on in that mind of yours ? 😆

Our intense well of emotions, which we hide initially when we meet new people, but it is always barely under the surface layer in which we portray ourselves. Does that not scare you lot off, or it causes you to want to dive in ?


Again, because its mentally challenging you, that increases the quality of the connection. You do lots of teasing on each other and try to trigger reaction. Lots if laugh, but in case of you offended it can turn nasty pretty fast. He need lots of maturity to handle you. And vica versa. Ram more observant type and not point at you unless you sting or trigger him. He will give your own dose of medicine then. But strangely, you take it from him, because although he can be painfully honest he tells the truth as it is. That equally offend you but you respect that he takes you on your place. You being strong sign and character, you need submission sometimes and that brings the feminine out if you. Same with sex. You appear to be dominant or trigger power game in bed, but you like to be treated as dirty bitch deep down, which rams gives you no need to ask. In the same time, ram as well genuine and very loving which comes through. And the colourful of loving style of ram very attractive to you.

Your ram more protective than you ever imagine. He many times won't speak to protect you from getting criticism for your wrongdoing. He appreciate your company and the relationship all together to not standing in needless fights. However he knows exactly your weakness but does not highlight them because he cares.
I have been with enough Virgent dominant men, surely his criticism of me could hardly trigger as much as they once did. It could hardly hurt more than what they had once done to me.

We do not tease more so, ask questions of each other, to make the other think, or to almost force the other to explore other perspectives. We may not agree, but that was never the point, to convince one another to take on the perspective of the other but more so, to see how we could expand our thought patterns. Yes, he does have a lot of character and maturity as do I. It comes from our past experiences, which shaped us this way.

That is true, many other men have tried to get me to submit to them in a feminine manner. However, I always sensed their masculinity was all shades of arrogance, bravado, and an act, lacking strength. Hence I never could, it almost made me think I would never be able to until he came along. He naturally, makes me feel safe enough to be my feminine self without feeling less of who I am, or diminished. He does not make me feel like I am below his thumb in power, rather he respects what I am capable of, but takes over the reigns so I could rest. A break from myself.

Are you telling me all that he is observing, is my flaws ? That would be a concern. 😐


Well, you deep down seek both. Hence you want the feminine side if aries, caring protective, genuine, but you as well challenge his musculine side with conflict to see your man takes you down. It's a bit masochistic tendency of scorpio nature. I generally hate to express dominance because I am, but don't want to hurt my loved one, unless triggered long enough. In bed yes, no chance, I dominate you no matter what you try, but let you express yourself fully. We have bites, slaps, scratches hair pulling occasionally, but the dynamics is constantly changes as we are very responsive to each other.
Sure, I do challenge him but he does not take me down. He steps aside, and lets me have my piece. Respects it and then resumes his role. He does not express dominance more so than the fact that he embodies quiet confidence and strength, a masculinity that merely is.

Ah stop, all this mentioning of what you do to her in bed makes me want to go ravish him again. If I do manage to see him again, that is. 😆


You need long enough time to experience the full dynamics without limits. It's hot and cold, until stabilise. From there you both have control when to increase intensity, but generally the base will be more peaceful on the large. If you need more intensity, he picks up instantly and go with you.
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Time will tell, his birthday is coming soon. Will see if we will meet then, since he made sure to remind me of it multiple times already, in case I might have forgotten (I never do).

We are still in the stages of hot and cold, it is all very recent and new.
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She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.


Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
He makes me feel and think so much that I am left feeling both drained and replenished. Externally, I may still come across composed but he reduces me to putty inside. I am not quite sure I enjoy it or not. True, the depth is one that I have never come across before.


Yes I understand. But this is because its equivalent on your level, and you need to be challenged or at least see the strength in him. If you would dominating like with other signs, you would get bored. Your nature is intense and you have a tendency to influence the daily dynamics depending on what you need. So you can be very genuine and loving in one minute, then be very conflicting in another. That's from your intensity, and also your instability due your intense emotions. You re the extremes. Rams as well, so they can give you exact mirror unconsciously. That is why you stack in feel that strong pull towards him. It will always be so and not going away. Yes he can humiliate you even, if you pursue your own fall, but you can reconsider your own responsibility which he will reflect and explain why. The last thing he wants is to drain you or fight you. Be less impulsive.we rams consider that immature and loss of control of the self. Strangely, we do the same mistake, altough we learn extremely quickly from it and adjust.
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No truer words said.

I see the strength in him, as he does me. He recognises that trait in me, and admires it so. However, he likes that he cannot influence me or impose his opinions unto me. He likes that I stand by my opinions and my ground, not out of blindness because I do explore his perspectives. Though if I believe my own, fits myself far better, I stand by it. I will be swayed if I see the change, as beneficial, if not, I will not. Suppose Rams need that in a woman too, it would make them feel safe knowing the woman is not easily swayed, thereby translating to loyalty in their minds as well.

Impulsive ? The last thing I have been have been impulsive. In fact, I think far too much and take too long to act out my emotions. Which was why, I said he draws out the emotions in me, I feel much freer in expressing myself with and around him. When I struggle, he intuitively understands, and patiently waits until I resurface.

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We had extremely painful times, with humiliation and big fights not even funny. But in that, you still had that honesty and trust, and the freedom of expression of both. It may sound weird but trust me is very intimate as well. On the make up sex, you let all that out into strong passion which makes the bond strengthen constantly. From my perspective, it's very unique relationship, never had even similar to it. She is extremely intelligent and intuitive, challenging in all areas, so it's a perfect match for me. The core traits identical, but many things other case polar opposite. It has extremely large opportunities to learn one from another which I cherish a lot. She taught me more in a year time than everyone else all together before.
She really changed your life did she not, leaving an impact that is incomparable to any other.
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Awww enjoy TLS! Aries men are full on masculine and adventurous, all that mars energy dripping off them...
Thank you @Jules-II 😄

I should hope it will last and I would get to continue exploring this journey with said Ram. He is indeed very masculine, and adventurous. Unlike younger Rams, it is not all in my face, but simmering in the background. That self assured confidence is very sexy indeed.

[fans self] When a Stinger needs to fan herself, you know that man is indeed quite something. 😆

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We had extremely painful times, with humiliation and big fights not even funny. But in that, you still had that honesty and trust, and the freedom of expression of both. It may sound weird but trust me is very intimate as well. On the make up sex, you let all that out into strong passion which makes the bond strengthen constantly. From my perspective, it's very unique relationship, never had even similar to it. She is extremely intelligent and intuitive, challenging in all areas, so it's a perfect match for me. The core traits identical, but many things other case polar opposite. It has extremely large opportunities to learn one from another which I cherish a lot. She taught me more in a year time than everyone else all together before.
She really changed your life did she not, leaving an impact that is incomparable to any other.

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Definitely. Amazing woman, love her to pieces
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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.


Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
He makes me feel and think so much that I am left feeling both drained and replenished. Externally, I may still come across composed but he reduces me to putty inside. I am not quite sure I enjoy it or not. True, the depth is one that I have never come across before.


Yes I understand. But this is because its equivalent on your level, and you need to be challenged or at least see the strength in him. If you would dominating like with other signs, you would get bored. Your nature is intense and you have a tendency to influence the daily dynamics depending on what you need. So you can be very genuine and loving in one minute, then be very conflicting in another. That's from your intensity, and also your instability due your intense emotions. You re the extremes. Rams as well, so they can give you exact mirror unconsciously. That is why you stack in feel that strong pull towards him. It will always be so and not going away. Yes he can humiliate you even, if you pursue your own fall, but you can reconsider your own responsibility which he will reflect and explain why. The last thing he wants is to drain you or fight you. Be less impulsive.we rams consider that immature and loss of control of the self. Strangely, we do the same mistake, altough we learn extremely quickly from it and adjust.
No truer words said.

I see the strength in him, as he does me. He recognises that trait in me, and admires it so. However, he likes that he cannot influence me or impose his opinions unto me. He likes that I stand by my opinions and my ground, not out of blindness because I do explore his perspectives. Though if I believe my own, fits myself far better, I stand by it. I will be swayed if I see the change, as beneficial, if not, I will not. Suppose Rams need that in a woman too, it would make them feel safe knowing the woman is not easily swayed, thereby translating to loyalty in their minds as well.

Impulsive ? The last thing I have been have been impulsive. In fact, I think far too much and take too long to act out my emotions. Which was why, I said he draws out the emotions in me, I feel much freer in expressing myself with and around him. When I struggle, he intuitively understands, and patiently waits until I resurface.



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The first section of your comment is spot on. I respect that quality very much, no influence, she has her opinion even if I don't get what I think. Ram is the same, hence I said our core traits much identical. So you very familiar with each other nature. Is very magnetic in itself not even mention all the other areas where we match scorpio
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About scorpio expressions

She said to me one day after nice sex,

-You know if we split up you will miss me, you will not forget me and miss us...

In scorpio what it means, is she will miss me and all we have, but the question meant to reassuring her that I feel the same way. Which I do. So it's very intelligent and deep conversation with multiple contexts if you can read between lines.

Scorpio and ram can have this ongoing non stop. Very unique
Well, we are more blunt and straight forward in our words, than that. At least, I think we are. Though sometimes, the things he tells me, or the way he said something, makes me ponder if he meant something else as well.


Depends. If you have a partner challenging enough psychologically and mentally you enjoy the bonus tie. It's makes the relationship deeper
He makes me feel and think so much that I am left feeling both drained and replenished. Externally, I may still come across composed but he reduces me to putty inside. I am not quite sure I enjoy it or not. True, the depth is one that I have never come across before.


Yes I understand. But this is because its equivalent on your level, and you need to be challenged or at least see the strength in him. If you would dominating like with other signs, you would get bored. Your nature is intense and you have a tendency to influence the daily dynamics depending on what you need. So you can be very genuine and loving in one minute, then be very conflicting in another. That's from your intensity, and also your instability due your intense emotions. You re the extremes. Rams as well, so they can give you exact mirror unconsciously. That is why you stack in feel that strong pull towards him. It will always be so and not going away. Yes he can humiliate you even, if you pursue your own fall, but you can reconsider your own responsibility which he will reflect and explain why. The last thing he wants is to drain you or fight you. Be less impulsive.we rams consider that immature and loss of control of the self. Strangely, we do the same mistake, altough we learn extremely quickly from it and adjust.
No truer words said.

I see the strength in him, as he does me. He recognises that trait in me, and admires it so. However, he likes that he cannot influence me or impose his opinions unto me. He likes that I stand by my opinions and my ground, not out of blindness because I do explore his perspectives. Though if I believe my own, fits myself far better, I stand by it. I will be swayed if I see the change, as beneficial, if not, I will not. Suppose Rams need that in a woman too, it would make them feel safe knowing the woman is not easily swayed, thereby translating to loyalty in their minds as well.

Impulsive ? The last thing I have been have been impulsive. In fact, I think far too much and take too long to act out my emotions. Which was why, I said he draws out the emotions in me, I feel much freer in expressing myself with and around him. When I struggle, he intuitively understands, and patiently waits until I resurface.




The first section of your comment is spot on. I respect that quality very much, no influence, she has her opinion even if I don't get what I think. Ram is the same, hence I said our core traits much identical. So you very familiar with each other nature. Is very magnetic in itself not even mention all the other areas where we match scorpio

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Very similar, but also very different. We approach things differently.
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
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How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
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One very intense week.

Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.

I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.

It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.

Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
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@La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio, except I am an expert in fireworks, and have had enough of them. I need a slow burn now. 😆
Well what can I say !

I'm just a conflicted Scorpio with Sun opposite Taurus moon. Make out what you like love !
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I am an equally conflicted Stinger as well. You are hardly alone. 😆

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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
One very intense week.

Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.

I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.

It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.

Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
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Yes it's going to be nice and very open relationship. However come back after you were living together more than 6months lol.
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
One very intense week.

Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.

I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.

It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.

Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
Yes it's going to be nice and very open relationship. However come back after you were living together more than 6months lol.
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He already wants me as his neighbour, which will not be happening any time soon. I do not think.

If all goes well in six months. You will no longer see me here. 😆
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@La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio, except I am an expert in fireworks, and have had enough of them. I need a slow burn now. 😆
Well what can I say !

I'm just a conflicted Scorpio with Sun opposite Taurus moon. Make out what you like love !
I am an equally conflicted Stinger as well. You are hardly alone. 😆


I like your status here
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Which status ?

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Hello there dear fellow Stingers,

Has anyone one of you had experiences with the first of the zodiac, the Rams ?

What was it like and did you find it a favourable experience ?

Many thanks in advance and I would love to hear of your stories. 😄
Sex was good.. albeit violent.
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She / He was violent with you, or you, them ?
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Hello there dear fellow Stingers,

Has anyone one of you had experiences with the first of the zodiac, the Rams ?

What was it like and did you find it a favourable experience ?

Many thanks in advance and I would love to hear of your stories. 😄
Sex was good.. albeit violent.
She / He was violent with you, or you, them ?
She was violent. Lots of face slapping.

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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
One very intense week.

Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.

I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.

It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.

Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
Yes it's going to be nice and very open relationship. However come back after you were living together more than 6months lol.
He already wants me as his neighbour, which will not be happening any time soon. I do not think.

If all goes well in six months. You will no longer see me here. 😆

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If you guys up for it, It has a potential to change you both to the core. You will come back here, guarantee you 🙂)

Especially when puzzled.
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Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
@La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio, except I am an expert in fireworks, and have had enough of them. I need a slow burn now. 😆
Well what can I say !

I'm just a conflicted Scorpio with Sun opposite Taurus moon. Make out what you like love !
I am an equally conflicted Stinger as well. You are hardly alone. 😆


I like your status here
Which status ?


From the figment of your imagination ......
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Ah, that one.

Yes, it is true is it not. I am merely what others imagine of me here. I am anything they want me to be, in their heads.

They create me, they create who I represent.
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Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.


He is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.

However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
How long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?
One very intense week.

Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.

I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.

It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.

Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
Yes it's going to be nice and very open relationship. However come back after you were living together more than 6months lol.
He already wants me as his neighbour, which will not be happening any time soon. I do not think.

If all goes well in six months. You will no longer see me here. 😆


If you guys up for it, It has a potential to change you both to the core. You will come back here, guarantee you 🙂)

Especially when puzzled.
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We shall see. As I keep mentioning, early days.