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@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
Posted by SheeverThank you @Sheever, I will keep that in mind. That has been a consistent piece of advice all Rams have been giving.Posted by TheLadyScorpioJust take an advice, don't push his buttons to extreme. You won't like it. And be consistentPosted by SheeverWe shall see. As I keep mentioning, early days.Posted by TheLadyScorpioIf you guys up for it, It has a potential to change you both to the core. You will come back here, guarantee you 🙂)Posted by SheeverHe already wants me as his neighbour, which will not be happening any time soon. I do not think.Posted by TheLadyScorpioYes it's going to be nice and very open relationship. However come back after you were living together more than 6months lol.Posted by SheeverOne very intense week.Posted by TheLadyScorpioHow long you been together? And in consistent length or duration? No on/off. But effectively period of time together?Posted by SheeverHe is surprisingly intelligent and clever, despite the fact that he comes of rather childlike naive and innocent. Not purposely so, more of the natural Ram first born of the zodiac energy coming through. We discussed that trait of his, less between us but more so in how it manifests in other parts of his life. He is someone that is quick to forgive, as long as you prove to him that you mean it, and will actively do something about changing it.
Scorpio energy is dangerous, sweet poison. In the same time one can appreciate that same thing as she /he is that damn good. That is a mixture of feelings always there. You two can cut each other off in any minute and you still have this mental power games sometimes to take each other on their knees. Ram is more intelligent and clever to resist what is unnecessary. That can appear as submissive tendency. However ram will surprise you hard when you push over the limit and experience your own medicine by trigger your bs..reversing back in your neck in a bucket.
However, chip away at him enough, and he will explode on you like no other. That will take a long time coming, and he will keep enduring but once that end comes. Do not expect him to ever return. I do not feel the need to play mental power games with him, mostly because he challenges me to be as honest as I could be, even when the brutality of honesty might not be what I might be most comfortable with. Better to display the truth in thoughts and emotions, than to have it surface later. It is a challenge to curb any form of vagueness, that mystery which us Stingers live in, to brood in dark corners. 😆
Met twice. Both times it went from the previous day till the next. Stayed at his place and all, sharing breakfast, lunch, dinner, and brunch together.
I would not venture to say we are together exactly, we never spoke of it yet. Though we have done more than most, in such a short period of time. The things we do feels more like what it is in long established relationships, the intimacy, the openness, the subject matters that we discuss, rather than two people who just met not too long ago.
It might sound ridiculous all that I have shared about him, but all of it has happened in such a short span of time. He shared a lot of himself, though of course, he told me it was still the concise version of things, there is more but that takes more time to tell, and he rarely shares his story with anyone.
Which explains why I am feeling very heady and all sorts of fogginess. I could hardly see straight, and am recuperating. The emotions are overwhelming, I wonder if it is overwhelming him as well, to process.
If all goes well in six months. You will no longer see me here. 😆
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Do not push him, do not force him into anything, and most of all do not corner him.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioI do believe you. All I am saying is when you live together is an entire different story than just met and sense the potential of it.
@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
For example we both had a period of obsession, I am telling you it was absolute crazy. Its all settled and harmonised but it was not easy to handle.
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio😉Posted by TheLadyScorpioAbsolutely. It attracted me a lot 😉Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioAh, that one.Posted by TheLadyScorpioFrom the figment of your imagination ......Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioWhich status ?Posted by TheLadyScorpioI like your status herePosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioI am an equally conflicted Stinger as well. You are hardly alone. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioWell what can I say !
@La_Dolce_Vita_Scorpio, except I am an expert in fireworks, and have had enough of them. I need a slow burn now. 😆
I'm just a conflicted Scorpio with Sun opposite Taurus moon. Make out what you like love !
Yes, it is true is it not. I am merely what others imagine of me here. I am anything they want me to be, in their heads.
They create me, they create who I represent.
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Posted by SheeverI trust your words and your experiences, but baby steps.Posted by TheLadyScorpioI do believe you. All I am saying is when you live together is an entire different story then just met and sense the potential of it.
@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
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Posted by SheeverI do not enjoy or like the obsession, it is silly and irrational but it happens. The best I could do is, let it happen, so it could be done with. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI do believe you. All I am saying is when you live together is an entire different story than just met and sense the potential of it.
@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
For example we both had a period of obsession, I am telling you it was absolute crazy. Its all settled and harmonised but it was not easy to handle.
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You obsessed equally as much about her ? Did she know at the time, or even now ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe both had time gone under obsession it was crazy. Now it's controlled only in the bed, other than that very much balanced. It took time. The experience were too intense. But amazing. Wouldn't ever wanted to miss out. Especially when someone comes in your life and just as intense as you are. Then you realise you actually love that intensity and that the other can match you up. You push each other limits in all sense. Love, fight, all yo extreme. But it gives deep intimacy and trust. As you literally seen everything of that person, nothing surprise you. You know what to expect from therePosted by SheeverI do not enjoy or like the obsession, it is silly and irrational but it happens. The best I could do is, let it happen, so it could be done with. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI do believe you. All I am saying is when you live together is an entire different story than just met and sense the potential of it.
@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
For example we both had a period of obsession, I am telling you it was absolute crazy. Its all settled and harmonised but it was not easy to handle.
You obsessed equally as much about her ? Did she know at the time, or even now ?click to expand
Posted by SheeverThat sounds almost too beautiful. I hope I will get the chance to explore that. 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioWe both had time gone under obsession it was crazy. Now it's controlled only in the bed, other than that very much balanced. It took time. The experience were too intense. But amazing. Wouldn't ever wanted to miss out. Especially when someone comes in your life and just as intense as you are. Then you realise you actually love that intensity and that the other can match you up. You push each other limits in all sense. Love, fight, all yo extreme. But it gives deep intimacy and trust. As you literally seen everything of that person, nothing surprise you. You know what to expect from therePosted by SheeverI do not enjoy or like the obsession, it is silly and irrational but it happens. The best I could do is, let it happen, so it could be done with. 😆Posted by TheLadyScorpioI do believe you. All I am saying is when you live together is an entire different story than just met and sense the potential of it.
@Sheever
Trust me, I would never unleash the madness I have spewed here on him.
I hold that all back with sheer utter will, less I scare him away with my irrationally intense emotions / thoughts. We Stingers are aware of how ridiculous we could be, bloody hell I even embarrass myself but we do our best to keep a calm and cool exterior, less nobody remains around us. 😆
For example we both had a period of obsession, I am telling you it was absolute crazy. Its all settled and harmonised but it was not easy to handle.
You obsessed equally as much about her ? Did she know at the time, or even now ?click to expand
@Sheever are you a male ram ?
Posted by MyStarsShineHe is, with a Ram Stellium.
@Sheever are you a male ram ?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioThanks Miss....Posted by MyStarsShineHe is, with a Ram Stellium.
@Sheever are you a male ram ?click to expand
And moon ?
Posted by MyStarsShineStinger Moon, I should think.Posted by TheLadyScorpioThanks Miss....Posted by MyStarsShineHe is, with a Ram Stellium.
@Sheever are you a male ram ?
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Yes, my sun, moon, mercury and venus is aries
Posted by SheeverWow...where is is your mars ?
Yes, my sun, moon, mercury and venus is aries
Your lady is Scorp with Moon in Scorp ?
I haven't found I respond well to Ram energy, for the most part. I find Merc in Ram quite entertaining though---from afar. There is a Ram coworker I spend most of my down time (at work) with that I find quite lovely. She's actually much more calmer than I am, so I think it's fair to point out it depends on the other elements in the person's chart. I actually recall thinking she was a little "cold" when I first introduced myself, (overly) observant, reserved, slow to engage and very selective about who she engages in personal discussions, so I am guessing there is some earth and water in there. I am not aware of her specs and don't tend to ask the people at work about that stuff, just pick up birthday info here and there. The only reason I even know she's a Ram is because she and my mother share the same birthday and her mother and I share the same birthday, which opened up the conversation.
Posted by PhoenixRisingTaurus and Pisces sounds like it.
I haven't found I respond well to Ram energy, for the most part. I find Merc in Ram quite entertaining though---from afar. There is a Ram coworker I spend most of my down time (at work) with that I find quite lovely. She's actually much more calmer than I am, so I think it's fair to point out it depends on the other elements in the person's chart. I actually recall thinking she was a little "cold" when I first introduced myself, (overly) observant, reserved, slow to engage and very selective about who she engages in personal discussions, so I am guessing there is some earth and water in there. I am not aware of her specs and don't tend to ask the people at work about that stuff, just pick up birthday info here and there. The only reason I even know she's a Ram is because she and my mother share the same birthday and her mother and I share the same birthday, which opened up the conversation.
And yes yes @TheLadyScorpio I know I was supposed to reply to your queries, I'll do it soon.
Posted by MyStarsShineMy mars is pisces, she is cap sun, scorpio moon with pluto 8th house. Double.Posted by SheeverWow...where is is your mars ?
Yes, my sun, moon, mercury and venus is aries
Your lady is Scorp with Moon in Scorp ?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingHA!! 😆Posted by Andalusia
I think it probably works better when the Scorp is female and the Ram is male.
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And yes yes @TheLadyScorpio I know I was supposed to reply to your queries, I'll do it soon.
@Ram416, I figured you were preoccupied or busy. 🙂
Posted by SheeverOh I thought you were with a Scorp ?Posted by MyStarsShineMy mars is pisces, she is cap sun, scorpio moon with pluto 8th house. Double.Posted by SheeverWow...where is is your mars ?
Yes, my sun, moon, mercury and venus is aries
Your lady is Scorp with Moon in Scorp ?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineBelieve me, it is even worse than sun sign. BTW scorpio sun a bit more lightweight version. As the emotional nature can be influenced by other sign, so it's just the identity. The fact that the Op found it so familiar just proven the point herePosted by SheeverOh I thought you were with a Scorp ?Posted by MyStarsShineMy mars is pisces, she is cap sun, scorpio moon with pluto 8th house. Double.Posted by SheeverWow...where is is your mars ?
Yes, my sun, moon, mercury and venus is aries
Your lady is Scorp with Moon in Scorp ?click to expand
Posted by bmoon8Hello there @bmoon8 🙂
Aries and Scorpio are a power couple. They are able to achieve what they want together. Lots of adventure and travel together. Highly passionate and sexual together.
I wouldn't mind hooking up with a new Scorpio and creating lasting memories together. I would do it again.
How did your experiences begin, and what was the initial dynamic like ?
Ok this is still up. I'll only say this much🙈
It's the only sign which made me wanna be worthy of them which, to me, is hewwwge.
It's the only sign which made me wanna be worthy of them which, to me, is hewwwge.
Posted by Teena@Teena, go get yourself a Ram then. 😆
Ok this is still up. I'll only say this much🙈
It's the only sign which made me wanna be worthy of them which, to me, is hewwwge.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat do you think made me say that?? Reading some random Aries traits on the internet?? 😉😘Posted by Teena@Teena, go get yourself a Ram then. 😆
Ok this is still up. I'll only say this much🙈
It's the only sign which made me wanna be worthy of them which, to me, is hewwwge.click to expand
Posted by TeenaAh, so we are in the same boat. Hop on in then. 😈Posted by TheLadyScorpioWhat do you think made me say that?? Reading some random Aries traits on the internet?? 😉😘Posted by Teena@Teena, go get yourself a Ram then. 😆
Ok this is still up. I'll only say this much🙈
It's the only sign which made me wanna be worthy of them which, to me, is hewwwge.click to expand
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